help with sex?

more specifically for BJs, but here's the problem.
I, male, have Venus in Aries and Mars in Pisces. Taking lead for intercourse is no biggy but when it comes to laying back and enjoying a BJ, it's hard to take control. My girlfriend has her Venus in Gemini and Mars in Taurus, and she'll go down on me but for a short period of time and then lay next to me and ask if she's doing good. "Yeah baby you're doing good," I say. But then she'll just lay there and cuddle next to me (WTF?!?! I want you KEEP GOING). I've brought it up to her before and she says she'll work on it but still no progress really. What are some tips to help keep her going?
I feel like a little kid asking for sex advice but lol

okay scorpio limpdickshit.
i'm keeping this up i don't give a fuck.

Another tip:


wait till she's sitting down.

put super glue on dick.

Call her name.

When she turns, jam dick in mouth.

Hold till glue dries.


Head forever!

Turn it into a game, coat yourself in something viscous and thick like honey or chocolate syrup. Have her clean you off.

Posted by venusianbull
Turn it into a game, coat yourself in something viscous and thick like honey or chocolate syrup. Have her clean you off.

😄

See there cloudy? VM thinks it's a winner. 😄

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Well it's not her Taurus mars,I assure you of that 😉 if her venus is Gemini,she might enjoy it more if you were more verbal she's doing it.have you tried that? tell her how good she's doing and throw in some sighs and mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm's. some chicks don't like doing it,but I'd try what I suggested if you haven't already. and I agree with VB also about the syrups 😄

thats a good idea try using words like oh baby ur so fucking good ohhhh please don't stop ur the best.. some times u have to lie to them.. or you can use this tactic, i had girl just like urs.. One day we were talking about sex and what i like and what she likes, i said bjs.. I told her how this one ex love giving bjs and how she was really good and would make me cum real fast.. than i look at her and smile and said but thats all in the past baby i love u and than i kiss her.. and than you should look up to the sky like ur trying to remember that bj.. I kid u not the next time she gave me a bj it was the best ever.. she will be mad that there is someone better than her..

First of all my aries had that problem, we discovred its because he is so dominant and he felt when he was laying down that i was in control. He always has to be in control. Try standing up and having her suck you while she is on her knees,occasionaly looking up at you. OR Sit in a chair or on the couch and have her suck you that way. While she is doing it, throw in some moans when it feels good, you can also tel her how you like it mixed in with some ooohs ahhhs and mmmms, tell her something like "Oh yeah baby right there" "Omg that feels so good" "You are sooooo F'Ckin good!" mmmm thats how i like it, Right there baby,.... when your about to come throw in a "Dont stop, just like that i am about to cum" mmmmmmmm yessssss yessssssssss f'ckkkkk yes....

😉

she's afraid it's going to spit on her.

have you ever made her climax?

Posted by tubbyscubby
she's afraid it's going to spit on her.

have you ever made her climax?

yes i've made her climax plenty of times... just 'cause when i'm in the zone, i am in the fucking zone and i know every little crevice of her vagina and its character.

and thanks to everybody else, it would make sense to be more verbal lol i should have that stuck in my head by now.
reading some of these girls' posts on here is making me horny. good job girls!

LOL Cloudyminded, no problem 😉

Posted by ScorpioTiger
Get the fuck off this board, you pretentious cunt.

Contrary to what you may believe, no one gives a shit about your fucking sex life.

wow where do you get off you own the boards dude your get over your self
he asked a question maybe he dont know where to post it so i guess sit down in the corner cause buddy you just found youe slef an aries-taurus and you want a ram-bull by the horns here i am other wise back the boy

Posted by cloudyminded
more specifically for BJs, but here's the problem.
I, male, have Venus in Aries and Mars in Pisces. Taking lead for intercourse is no biggy but when it comes to laying back and enjoying a BJ, it's hard to take control. My girlfriend has her Venus in Gemini and Mars in Taurus, and she'll go down on me but for a short period of time and then lay next to me and ask if she's doing good. "Yeah baby you're doing good," I say. But then she'll just lay there and cuddle next to me (WTF?!?! I want you KEEP GOING). I've brought it up to her before and she says she'll work on it but still no progress really. What are some tips to help keep her going?
I feel like a little kid asking for sex advice but lol

bro i have to say make it fun or a challenge to her if that dont work then lightly hold the back of her head and tell herdont stop baby that feels great and if she gets worried then ask if shes afraid of cum in her mouth . . . the breal down is talk your goin to have to


aries-taurus advise

~MrCeribdis

well canceringoddess giving away our sex pointers lol oh that me sexy pretty much what she says will work

Well, I'll say this much, if a girl was suckin my thang, and then just stopped and laid next to me, I'd quickly say, what? You don't want me to finish— Or I would give her oral till she came, then that'd give her incentive to do the same for me, and I"m sorry but if she can't stand a little cum in her mouth, well........She ain't for me. What? It's cool for her juices to be all up in my mouth, but not for mine to be in hers—? Hmmmmm.........We gotta talk. That's all I gotta say bout it. Last gf I had, that's where she wanted me to finish EVERY time. No complaints from me. There was even times when she wasn't horny, but loved me enough to take my pants off, and give me head until she swallowed, just cuz she wanted me to be satisfied. There were a few times when I did likewise for her. VERY FEW lol.

How was it?

I'll let you know when your done. 😉



Dude, you just need to communicate it better, it sounds to me like she is insecure about her performance in that area. Give her some input, make her feel like th queen of head and you'll be back posting about how to get her to stop going down on you so much.

I disagree with people here on this topic .. mainly the Taurus women who apparantly have such big egos that they would prefer a lie.


Honesty would be your best policy. She's not good at it, so why lie to her and tell her she is? As of yet, she will stop to lay next to you for you to tell her what she asks for ... and she's asking for feedback on her performance. Tell her the truth .. that it isn't satisfying for you.


Doesn't mean you have to play a head-game and manipulate her like the Virgo in here said to do ... it means open, simple, feedback.


"Honey, if it's not all the way to orgasm, then it hurts." .... which is the truth. "I'd rather you not do it at all, then leave me half way like that. You're doing it right and it feels good up to that point, when you stop like that, it aches so bad and leaves me feeling disappointed."



Isn't that the truth of the matter? So, tell her that instead of a lie like .. "oh baby it feels so good" ... because it doesn't feel good, it feels bad.

If she doesn't want to finish (which seems pretty obvious to me and 'NOT' dependent on whether she is good or not; she is actually 'hoping' that is good enough for you - hence her question. Some of the most experienced people don't want to finish either), then that should be respected. There are always other 'creative' ways you can finish with her..