How do you deal with your 5th house matters?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Shul on Monday, December 2, 2013 and has 21 replies.
In my case, Sagittarius occupies them with totally casual and carefree attitude, that's for sure. It's like: "I threw this massive partypocalypse near the beach and I never thought that sh*t will be so big. Later, I was about to have a wild bed adventure with 2 ladies, but I forgot to buy myself some condoms and when I decided to head to the drug store, I ended up in the gambling part of the whole event. Guess what? I lost most of my money, but I don't care about that, because I'll be back on the top! What did you say? What?! No! I'm not responsible for all of this! Let's get the f*ck out of here!"


Idealistically, to say the least.
Ruler of the 7th house in the 5th house:
"The activities of the 7th house serve the agenda of the 5th house. Cooperation, conflict, significant partnerships and negotiations serve creativity, personal self-expression, risk-taking, hobbies, romance and interactions with children. We choose a partner who romantic and playful. We want to be with someone who brings us pleasure and fun. Partners support our creative self-expression. Partners help us with artistic projects. We want to get married so we can have children. Business relationships revolve around art, music, dance, sports and theater. Business partners become lovers. Business partnerships are creative and expressive. We sign contracts and negotiations involving art, music, dance, theater and sports. The partner needs to fit into our need to pursue hobbies and pleasure. The partner needs to fit into our attitude toward romance and children. The way we cooperate or cause conflict has an effect on our relationship with our children. We choose a childish partner. Our capacity for negotiation and diplomacy helps or hinders our creative process. Open enemies affect our self-expression. We find open enemies while engaging in creative pursuits. Partners have to adjust to our need for risk taking. Partners encourage us to gamble and take risks. We negotiate art and music contracts. We marry for love. We??re married to our children."
Ruler of the 5th house in the 5th house:
The activities of the 5th house serve the agenda of the 5th house. Creativity, personal self-expression, risk-taking, hobbies, romance and interactions with children are an end unto themselves. You like being creative for the sake of being creative. You are creatively self-expressive. You like to be entertaining to attract attention. Children make you feel creative. Being creative makes you feel like a child.Your creativity is fun and playful. You are in love with love. Being romantic gets your creative juices flowing. You date for fun and pleasure. You see children as a creative extension of yourself. Sports are a means of creative self-expression. You like drama for the sake of drama. You like taking creative risks. Children make you relax. Romance and sex make you relax. Creative projects are fun. You love idle days. You pursue hobbies for self-satisfaction. You love creative, dramatic, artistic and theatrical children and romantic partners. You take risks with creative projects. You take risks in romance. You engage in risky love affairs. Love affairs are fun. Gambling is fun. You engage in risky gambling. Self-expression comes through music, art, dance and theater. You are flamboyant. Romance and fun go hand in hand. You??re willing to take risks on behalf of children. You always have time to stop and smell the roses.
Cancer 5th house/Cancer Moon
scorpio in my 5th house....i also have 6 other planets in the 5th house

Ruler of the 8th house in the 5th house
The activities of the 8th house serve the agenda of the 5th house. Transformation, attitudes to life and death, other people??s resources, sex and the desire to dig deep serve creativity, personal self-expression, risk-taking, hobbies, romance and interactions with children. You bring your need for depth interactions with others to your need for lighthearted romance. Romantic relationships and dating take on a life or death feeling. You try to elicit peak emotional experiences in what should be ???fun?? exchanges. Emotional entanglements compel you to take risks. Sexual activities serve the need to engage in risky behavior. Working with other people??s resources serves the need to engage in risky behavior. Stock brokers. You have sex to have children. Sex is for pleasure and relaxation. Sex is your favorite hobby and sport. You use your capacity for research and investigation in your hobbies. Amateur detectives or private investigators. You need to adjust your sexual inclinations with the needs of your children. Inheritances affect your ability to take on creative projects. The occult is your hobby. Death is a hobby. You use your work with the dead and dying in your creative projects. You write funeral music. You bring intensity to your artistic endeavors. You bring your interest in the occult to the theater. Your attitude to life and death influences the way you take risks. Bungee jumpers, sky divers. Deep emotional interactions are a way to lighten up and have fun. You probe other people for your own amusement. The desire for peak emotional experiences compels you to engage in risky behavior.
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Posted by Jynja
TMV, the ruler of the fifth house is the sun, so you might have ruler of the fifth in the seventh house if your seventh house is Virgo, or ruler of the fourth house in the fifth house because the moon rules the fourth house and your moon is in the fifth.


Aren't you supposed to look at the sign of your own cusp and find it's ruler (instead of looking at the natural ruler of the house) ?
http://astrofix.net/2013/05/27/find-your-house-rulers-in-astrology/
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That's what I thought. For example, I have Leo on the cusp of my 3rd house and Leo's home house is the 5th, so ruler of 5th in 3rd.
Posted by Jynja
TMV, the ruler of the fifth house is the sun, so you might have ruler of the fifth in the seventh house if your seventh house is Virgo, or ruler of the fourth house in the fifth house because the moon rules the fourth house and your moon is in the fifth.


Actually I have the tail end of Leo on the 7th but the Sun is parked in there. And I looked at the description for ruler of the 4th in the 5th and it was... well, not fitting to say the least.
I missed the rest of the explanation.
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Posted by Theatrum
Posted by Lhasa
Posted by Jynja
TMV, the ruler of the fifth house is the sun, so you might have ruler of the fifth in the seventh house if your seventh house is Virgo, or ruler of the fourth house in the fifth house because the moon rules the fourth house and your moon is in the fifth.


Aren't you supposed to look at the sign of your own cusp and find it's ruler (instead of looking at the natural ruler of the house) ?
http://astrofix.net/2013/05/27/find-your-house-rulers-in-astrology/


That's what I thought. For example, I have Leo on the cusp of my 3rd house and Leo's home house is the 5th, so ruler of 5th in 3rd.


Not to be even more confusing but I thought the ruler was a planet (for example leo's ruler is the sun, cancer's ruler is the moon etc) so you'd have to look at the sign at the start of the house, then the related planet and it's placement?
I took a peak at your profile and with your chart this would make this: the start of your 5th house is in libra -> venus is the planet that rules libra -> your venus is in the 11th house -> so the ruler of your 5th house is in the 11th house...
At least that's how I usually read this kind of topic lol, but I think I'll just wait for Jynja's take on this.


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Yeah, I get it. If the start of my 2nd house is Cancer, Moon rules Cancer, Moon is in the 8th house... so ruler of my 2nd is in the 8th. Jeez. Gotta re-read all this now, correctly. What if you have no planets in a certain house tho? And we all do since there are 10 astrological planets and 12 houses. :/
Nevermind, figured everything out Tongue
I forgot to mention that I love to play with @sses. lol
Ive got leo in my 5th house and also my chiron is leo. Someone tell me what it means??? I know its got something to do with the father, entertainment, play, pleasure..etcrtc but i cant quite put a finger round it
Ive noticed i like to go out and hunt for guys sometimes, flirt crazily wild with them etc
Oh and tease them
Leo on 5th house cusp
"If there are no other planets that indicate more offspring, you will have only one child. He/she will tend to be possessive, proud and authoritative, demanding much attention from his/her parents and especially from you. In the future you will feel proud of your child because of his/her great progress and professional triumph.
Romantically you search for the best. You associate love with power and you want to find an outstanding, intelligent and triumphant woman. You are not easy to please and, in spite of innumerable opportunities for love, you will only accept those which you consider worthy or important. Deep inside you love a conquest and you like difficult or impossible situations.
Your romances will be fiery and passionate. It is possible that you will choose a very possessive and dominant woman who wants to control you, which will lead to tense situations. Even though you do not allow anyone to manage your life, you prefer to have by your side a strong woman rather than a weak one.
"
An empty fifth house.
These actually sound pretty good to me. Already working on the dealing with people who try to control me through my family.
For some reason, one day, I hope the child will be a girl Tongue
Oh wait;
Ruler of the 5th house in the 5th house
"The activities of the 5th house serve the agenda of the 5th house. Creativity, personal self-expression, risk-taking, hobbies, romance and interactions with children are an end unto themselves. You like being creative for the sake of being creative. You are creatively self-expressive. You like to be entertaining to attract attention. Children make you feel creative. Being creative makes you feel like a child.Your creativity is fun and playful. You are in love with love. Being romantic gets your creative juices flowing. You date for fun and pleasure. You see children as a creative extension of yourself. Sports are a means of creative self-expression. You like drama for the sake of drama. You like taking creative risks. Children make you relax. Romance and sex make you relax. Creative projects are fun. You love idle days. You pursue hobbies for self-satisfaction. You love creative, dramatic, artistic and theatrical children and romantic partners. You take risks with creative projects. You take risks in romance. You engage in risky love affairs. Love affairs are fun. Gambling is fun. You engage in risky gambling. Self-expression comes through music, art, dance and theater. You are flamboyant. Romance and fun go hand in hand. You??re willing to take risks on behalf of children. You always have time to stop and smell the roses."
I think I have had most of these flung at my head by friends:
- Likes drama
- Love affairs are fun (and the biggest thing I miss when it's over is the fun)
- Likes the attention
- Creative to feel like a child
So what do I have to deal with here?
Ruler of the 1st house in the 5th house
The activities of the 1st house serve the agenda of the 5th house. You create a persona by being creative and giving yourself over to pleasurable activities. Your approach is oriented to having fun. Attitude to life forms from lighthearted self-expression. Your personality finds an outlet in being playful and entertaining. Your approach is to behave as if you are on stage. Self-awareness helps your self-expression. Your self-expression is focused on the arts. You use your appearance to entertain people. Creating a persona helps you navigate creative projects. You express your personality best when you are relaxing or taking risks. Your view of life orients itself toward the dramatic and romantic. Personal self-expression is paramount.
Ruler of the 5th house in the 1st house
The activities of the 5th house serve the agenda of the 1st house. Creative projects, personal self-expression, risk-taking, hobbies, romance and interactions with children serve the formation of a self-image and persona. Your attitude is fun and lighthearted. Your urge to be creative and self-expressive is one of the first things people notice about you. You are playful and entertain. Relationships with children have an impact on your outlook in life. An interest in the arts, theater, music and dance is at the forefront of your personality. Your desire for sex and romance is apparent to other people. You approach life as a romantic. Your approach is flirtatious. Your approach is dramatic. Your theatrical side expresses itself through your physical appearance. The way you express yourself is child-like and playful. You like to get attention for the way you look. You are sporty. Your hobbies and personal interests are apparent to other people. You approach life in a way that allows personal self-expression. An interest in sports or dance can shape your physical appearance.
Sagittarius 5th house
Going overboard with hobbies and interests. Going overboard with sports. Long distance traveling for fun and pleasure. Long distance traveling for romance. Romances with people of foreign cultures. Enthusiastic about foreign sports teams. Romances with religious zealots. Journalism is fun. Scholarly pursuits are fun. Academia is fun. Art that makes a big impact. Big romances. Larger than life sports. Larger than life interests and hobbies. Philosophy is fun. Opinionated about children. Opinionated about sports. Opinionated about art. Opinion about gambling and risk-taking. Opinionated about partying. Opinionated about hobbies and interests. A condescending attitude toward children. An overzealous gambler. Romances with explorers and adventurers. Romances in foreign countries. Romances with blunt, outspoken, insensitive people. Goofy fun. Over the top fun. A philosophical attitude to children. A philosophical attitude to art. A party animal. Wanting to explore everything that romance and fun have to offer. Wanting to explore everything that a party has to offer. An exuberantly creative person. An exuberantly self-expressive person. Showing benevolence to children. A generous gambler. A risky gambler. Taking risks at parties. Taking risks with children. Irresponsible with children. Seeking wisdom through involvement with sports. Seeking wisdom through self-expression and theatrics. Seeking wisdom through excessive partying. Partying as a path to wisdom and exploration. Dionysus and Bacchus. Treating romance like a joke. Treating sports like a joke. Making fun of sports figures, romantic partners and children. Romantic getaways.
Posted by Denver34
Acidbros, same as me!


I have Leo Rising though. Big Grin
Posted by baloo
I have Pisces on 5th house cusp, empty. So.. ruler of Pisces is 12th house = 12th house ruler in 5th house?


Pisces is ruled by Neptune.
If Neptune is in, say, your 9th House--
Then you would say that the ruler of your 5th House is the 9th, since Pisces is on the 5th House cusp.

... the ruler of your 5th House is in the 9th
Posted by Montgomery
... the ruler of your 5th House is in the 9th


Exactly. Just like how my 8th house in Aquarius is empty, but I look at Uranus. And I have to admit: I enjoy to shock people. lol

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