How do you feel about your ex?

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P-Angel
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Most people don't measure quality, they measure the level of ownership they had over the other person ..... so, this question is difficult to answer.


good/bad and everything, really ... is a matter of perspective and a definition of the other person. So, to ask the other person's sign would be irrelevant, considering you are the one changing your view based on your feelings, so it's not an accurate description of the other person or their intentions.

You could hate one your exes while another person adores him. So, you should be asking for the responders planet placements, not the exes, since it's irrelevant to the question.

Anyway, all of my exes left me very happy. I love all of them.
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Scenic
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My exes will always be people who mean something to me. Even if we never speak again, I'll be there if they need any moral support.
They had their good and bad points, but in the end, they're human and I learned a lot from my time with them. The scorpio taught me how to love and open up to others, but also made me realize how fickle love and loyalty is. The aqua taught me what a good physical relationship is like and also brought to light some limits and issues surrounding anger.
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Posted by twodrinkmaximum
Scorpio ex:

I ended it because he wouldn't put in the minimal effort I needed to sustain a relationship. He claimed he'd been wanting to break up all along anyway.
Fast forwards a year-he gets in touch with me and I ignore him
Fast forwards a couple month after that-he spills his guts and says he's always loved me and was afraid to come on too strong in fear that it would scare me away. He told me I deserved to find someone who would love me unconditionally.

I'd already moved on.

Impression he left on me was that he tried WAY TOO hard to pretend like he wasn't feeling me as much as I knew he was. I understand self preservation to an extent but if you like me, you better show it. Playing it cool might work for teenagers but I don't have time to stay in a relationship with someone who pretends I'm not worthy of affection or attention. Maybe some sadists like to beg for it...that's not my come of tea.
This is sad, I'm sorry. I can totally see how that happened.

When Scorpios love, they do come on VERY STRONG. Like…enough to make someone who doesn't perceive love they way
they do very uncomfortable, especially if you misinterpret their affections.

Jealousy, while for us, demonstrates how much we care, can be misunderstood as insecurity.

Passion/Intensity gets misunderstood as flippin crazy.

Determined gets misunderstood as controlling.

And so on, and so forth. I've had to cool my passions in a couple relationships, so not to scare my partner. And those
relationships didn't work, even tho I loved them, because I was always teetering on 'subdued' and 'zealous'