How do you know if a Scorpio man has affection 4 u

I'm a virgo woman. I feel that a scorpion colleague has some feelings for me. But how can I tell if it is friendship or romantic affection? Any advice?

Capgirlinlustwleo - will that be different if I am married and he's too - to an aquarian wife?
Guess he'll be exxxxtra careful.

I feel frustrated. I am a Virgo and really want to detach from all this blurred relationship and feelings. But find it really hard to do so (from a Scorpio). Whenever I start detaching, he appears in front of me and surprises with a caring act.

Affairs...it's dangerous and the least I wanna do is to hurt anyone...my husband (a scorpio) and his wife.

Occasionally if I am unhappy with something he has said or done, he is very anxious to apologize, explain and gain my forgiveness.

Perhaps I m just curious to know...and to reconfirm my intuition is right (usually is).

I m a very independent woman - totally opposite to his wife, which he described as very dependent and needs all his care and attention - will call him to come back home early (from his dinner w/friends) to pick up a corpse of a cockroach.

...sorry...it's cockroach not chickenroach

Probably. I met his wife once over a dinner (just three of us). When we exchange cell phone numbers, the first thing his wife told me in front of him is "Please remember to let me know if you see any woman trying to get attach to my husband) Mind you this is the first time I met her.

He was silent at that time. Just staring at his food.

Hmm, come to think of it I personally can come across as flirtatious. I often do boyfriend-like things for my single girl friends, no idea why. Don't get me wrong, I'm completely faithful to my girlfriend and wouldn't entertain anything beyond random thoughtfullness and compliments. I'd never go out with a girl by myself or even just as two friends. It'd have to be a group of people of mixed gender or my girlfriend would have to be there. Maybe these people are right about it being a control/power thing. I do like the idea of people being attracted to me and having feelings for me. Or maybe it's just about being something special to everyone in your life. If one of my girl friends mention a book or something they like, I sometimes surprise them by getting it for them, or leave random gifts. His wife sounds about right for him, and I guess with you being different, he probably just has some subconscious desire to be liked by people of all types.