I am a virgo woman and have been on a friendly cordual long distant relationship with an Aquarius man for about six years. I still can‘t tell if he is truly into me or not, but we text each other almost everyday or every three days. He is usually the one who makes the initiative to text me first. We both travel a lot, me for work, while for him, it's more for fun. He has retired from his business. We would meet once in a while if we happen to be traveling to the same countries. I am really fond of him and I guess he is too, but we have never gone beyond a hug with each other or kiss on the cheeks. With out texts, I would send him love emojis but he rarely sends them. Yet, he does not object to receiving them and he sends whimsical ones though. Last week, we texted each other as usual and arranged our meeting point for this week. While doing so, I sent a "jealous" text about him being more devoted to an ex-mutal friend than to me. This mutal friend is still his friend but has been my enemy since 2 years ago. He has been most comforting to me knowing what this bitch has done to me for these 2 years. However, as soon as he read the jealousy text , he said that we are not to meet anymore this week. He has also not read any of my apologetic texts nor took any of my calls since. What shall I do? Are we through? He is willing to let go of our 6 years friendship? I am very heart-broken.
As an Aqua chic.
We kind of hate confrontation esp between friends.
We are chilled people and love our freedom, and hate when people tell us who we can and can't hang out with.
I know from some experience when I was with my ex she didn't like a lot of my friends and felt some what jealous of me hanging out with them!
Because of this I would always crack them with her, but because she was my partner at the time I did end up forgiving her.
The msg you wrote depends on how it was written as well...
Sometime's when I get messages off people as well and I don't like what was written, I tend to crack the shits with them and than hold a gruge for a while and wish to have nothing to do with until things cool down.
Give him time and space don't try and sound desperate it does tends to scare Aqua away, with what ever you have going on with him.
Good Luck Though....
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
I don't see the point of long distance relationships.
-aquarius mars
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
I should also add, playing the jealousy card with an aquarius will always backfire on you.
Thanks for the advises.....however, just one text and an Aquarius can have such a BIG reaction? Six years of friendship going down the drain? Is he more like double-dipping then especially he knows perfectly well what I went thru being back-stabbed by this evil mutual friend?