How would you feel if you find out the person you been dating is dating multi people?
This topic was created in the Dating forum by simsim88 on Sunday, June 11, 2017 and has 29 replies.
How would you feel if you find out the person you been dating is dating multi people? and what would you do about it?
To clarify;
-Someone you been dating for a month only and been on 5-6 dates together, text daily, had sex with, sleepovers, cuddles and deep conversations
-Find out from a relay able 3rd person so you know his having sex with others.
-He didnt tell you his dating others & didnt need to ask at the time because when you spend time together it "feels" right, so it never crossed your mind
-we are only dating, nothing serouius yet (only knew each other for a month)
Now to ask the question again..
How would you feel if you find out the person you been dating is dating multi people? and what would you do about it?
To clarify;
-Someone you been dating for a month only and been on 5-6 dates together, text daily, had sex with, sleepovers, cuddles and deep conversations
-Find out from a relay able 3rd person so you know his having sex with others.
-He didnt tell you his dating others & didnt need to ask at the time because when you spend time together it "feels" right, so it never crossed your mind
-we are only dating, nothing serouius yet (only knew each other for a month)
Now to ask the question again..
How would you feel if you find out the person you been dating is dating multi people? and what would you do about it?
Posted by notsosurethanks for the reply, i made it clear what i was looking for before on the first date.
I would feel like I should have asked him questions about this stuff. And then I would ask him, talk to him about it, and depending on his answer, I would make a decision on where I wanted to go and what I wanted to do.
If you are someone who is looking for a relationship, learn now that these are questions you need to ask before getting this involved and just assume that he wants the same.
i'm just going to bring this topic up again about what I/He wants and ask him about this in person when we see eachother again
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I'd probably get a fidget spinner to distract me.
I would have asked if I was investing all that. I want to know straight up from jump what we're doing.
Yeah you should've asked him this from the beginning then if he said he wasn't and then you found out he is, that would be a different thing.
The issues today with women is that we "assume" we are in a relationship, we "assume" we are monogamous with these men, we "assume" you're the only one, WITHOUT actually discussing these things with each other, because you don't wanna "scare" the man off. But if you can't have these conversations with this so called man you want for the long haul... do you really think you're gonna be happy in the long run?
Now that you know, address it. It is better to know than speculate. Now if he says he isn't and you know the source is credible you have two choices.. either stay knowing and "hope" you're the one... or look for someone who values you and want to be with you wholeheartedly and not play games.
Cyber hugs my love. I know it's hard to accept.
The issues today with women is that we "assume" we are in a relationship, we "assume" we are monogamous with these men, we "assume" you're the only one, WITHOUT actually discussing these things with each other, because you don't wanna "scare" the man off. But if you can't have these conversations with this so called man you want for the long haul... do you really think you're gonna be happy in the long run?
Now that you know, address it. It is better to know than speculate. Now if he says he isn't and you know the source is credible you have two choices.. either stay knowing and "hope" you're the one... or look for someone who values you and want to be with you wholeheartedly and not play games.
Cyber hugs my love. I know it's hard to accept.
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Posted by Whorpio
I'd probably get a fidget spinner to distract me.
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfullyclick to expand
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioChrist, you are as nuts as me lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
But I'd definitely get the sharpest knife and cut her nipples off lolclick to expand
Posted by Neno2I understood it's 'them'...too messy without experience! ?
Murder her?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShineLol you cut the balls I cut the nipples ???Posted by EvoxxxscorpioChrist, you are as nuts as me lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
But I'd definitely get the sharpest knife and cut her nipples off lolclick to expand
Haahaa, we could go into business.....gruesome revenge on cheating lovers...only the sharpest and shiniest knives used
And after the revenge we could have some of your gruesomely delicious food
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioThey don't really need nipples to Fk you know...Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
But I'd definitely get the sharpest knife and cut her nipples off lolclick to expand
You know right? ?
Posted by TheSagLadySo you've never heard the story when spouse come home and wow!!!
Wah!
WAH!
That'll be my initial reaction.. ?
But that wont happen to me anw tho.. i dont hv sex with guys im not in a relationship with... so... wont happen.. no need to worry... ?
So never say never! ?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShinelol I wouldn't go that far lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShineLol you cut the balls I cut the nipples ???Posted by EvoxxxscorpioChrist, you are as nuts as me lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
But I'd definitely get the sharpest knife and cut her nipples off lol
Haahaa, we could go into business.....gruesome revenge on cheating lovers...only the sharpest and shiniest knives used
And after the revenge we could have some of your gruesomely delicious foodclick to expand
I don't think someone is used to my perverse sense of humour yet
Posted by MyStarsShineWill you register your business and get license to kill? Or do it without license? It's illegal you know! Got to have paperwork in order!Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShineLol you cut the balls I cut the nipples ???Posted by EvoxxxscorpioChrist, you are as nuts as me lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
But I'd definitely get the sharpest knife and cut her nipples off lol
Haahaa, we could go into business.....gruesome revenge on cheating lovers...only the sharpest and shiniest knives used
And after the revenge we could have some of your gruesomely delicious foodclick to expand
And maybe attend some course or seminar. No one will let you just do it without proper training.
?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYou know what nipples are do you?Posted by GemitatiLol but there will be no more feeding or motor boating thoPosted by EvoxxxscorpioThey don't really need nipples to Fk you know...Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
But I'd definitely get the sharpest knife and cut her nipples off lol
You know right? ?click to expand
Why no motorboating? Same boat - nipple less model! ?
Posted by GemitatiHaha Gem,Posted by MyStarsShineWill you register your business and get license to kill? Or do it without license? It's illegal you know! Got to have paperwork in order!Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShineLol you cut the balls I cut the nipples ???Posted by EvoxxxscorpioChrist, you are as nuts as me lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
But I'd definitely get the sharpest knife and cut her nipples off lol
Haahaa, we could go into business.....gruesome revenge on cheating lovers...only the sharpest and shiniest knives used
And after the revenge we could have some of your gruesomely delicious food
And maybe attend some course or seminar. No one will let you just do it without proper training.
?click to expand
The problem I have is I am not violent, but have a colourful and eccentric mind
Maybe I write a manual .... How to .........
Lol
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioDon't tease her! 5 Scorpios - she might cut balls for teasing as well! Just nod...Posted by MyStarsShineLol I was just teasing you ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShinelol I wouldn't go that far lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShineLol you cut the balls I cut the nipples ???Posted by EvoxxxscorpioChrist, you are as nuts as me lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
But I'd definitely get the sharpest knife and cut her nipples off lol
Haahaa, we could go into business.....gruesome revenge on cheating lovers...only the sharpest and shiniest knives used
And after the revenge we could have some of your gruesomely delicious food
I don't think someone is used to my perverse sense of humour yetclick to expand
?
Posted by MyStarsShineThat's what they all say when busted without license! I am not violent - I am an eccentric...so if Evo out you have to pay for knifes and permit yourself.Posted by GemitatiHaha Gem,Posted by MyStarsShineWill you register your business and get license to kill? Or do it without license? It's illegal you know! Got to have paperwork in order!Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShineLol you cut the balls I cut the nipples ???Posted by EvoxxxscorpioChrist, you are as nuts as me lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioHahahaPosted by MyStarsShineLol You're nuts ?
Fuming
And I would select my sharpest knife and kill him of at least cut off his balls
Lol
It's never happend ... Thankfully
Five planets in Scorpio....what do you expect?
But I'd definitely get the sharpest knife and cut her nipples off lol
Haahaa, we could go into business.....gruesome revenge on cheating lovers...only the sharpest and shiniest knives used
And after the revenge we could have some of your gruesomely delicious food
And maybe attend some course or seminar. No one will let you just do it without proper training.
?
The problem I have is I am not violent, but have a colourful and eccentric mind
Maybe I write a manual .... How to .........
Lolclick to expand
What a whimp! @Evoxxxxscorpio
Woman was agree to eat that sheet you like...how dare you? ?
I would feel disappointed, betrayed but also maybe not surprised. Seems like he's not ready to settle down yet.
Thanks again for the people who took the time to respond to this post.
i agree with you, i am going to ask and talking to him about what i want and he wants again in person & not over text. his away for the weekend, so it will be when he comes back home.
if he is truly seeing other people, i will walk away.
last thing i need is someone giving me an STD he caught from someone els or not taking the time to get to know me fully as much i am taking the time.
i will be a little angry because i said from the start what i am looking for and hate having my time wasted.
so we'll just have to wait and see what happens. i will update this post with an update
Posted by lesenfantterribles
lol omg everyone in this thread is so serious! "kill him!", they say. "never speak to him again!". ??
y'all have only been on a handful of dates & you never asked if he was sleeping with anyone else. it's not embarrassing or stupid or anything negative that you didnt ask up front about it. you were being open & trusting & that is wonderful! but he has the right to sleep with other people. especially, if they all know what he's up to.
i do think he should have mentioned it by the 3rd intimate time but he's free to do what he wants. def ask him if the other people he sleeps with know that he has multiple partners.
i agree with you, i am going to ask and talking to him about what i want and he wants again in person & not over text. his away for the weekend, so it will be when he comes back home.
if he is truly seeing other people, i will walk away.
last thing i need is someone giving me an STD he caught from someone els or not taking the time to get to know me fully as much i am taking the time.
i will be a little angry because i said from the start what i am looking for and hate having my time wasted.
so we'll just have to wait and see what happens. i will update this post with an update
Posted by simsim88Two words...see ya. Honestly I wouldn't be in this situation because I would find that information out before I would sleep with them.
How would you feel if you find out the person you been dating is dating multi people? and what would you do about it?
To clarify;
-Someone you been dating for a month only and been on 5-6 dates together, text daily, had sex with, sleepovers, cuddles and deep conversations
-Find out from a relay able 3rd person so you know his having sex with others.
-He didnt tell you his dating others & didnt need to ask at the time because when you spend time together it "feels" right, so it never crossed your mind
-we are only dating, nothing serouius yet (only knew each other for a month)
Now to ask the question again..
How would you feel if you find out the person you been dating is dating multi people? and what would you do about it?
Posted by TheSagLadyYou made it seems like 'relationships' is a guarantee of him not sleeping around and I am telling you that even marriage isn't a guarantee! So you never know! ?Posted by GemitatiPosted by TheSagLadySo you've never heard the story when spouse come home and wow!!!
Wah!
WAH!
That'll be my initial reaction.. ?
But that wont happen to me anw tho.. i dont hv sex with guys im not in a relationship with... so... wont happen.. no need to worry... ?
So never say never! ?
The questions is about people you date, Gemi.. not your spouse.. ???click to expand
Anyone I'm dating I'm going to assume that they are seeing and fucking other women. If I sleep with them without confirmation of exclusivity then that's on me.
UPDATE!!! the person went MIA and never came back.
his always online on facebook yet cant reply to a text message.
which to me is a slap to the face, im a very successful busy person so to take time to invest in someone is a big deal for me.
after not reaching out to him for 4 days, i decided to text him one last time.
it was a simple short text, saying i hope his well, and that its rude to go mia on people and that its not gonna workout between us & that i am looking for something more.
his always online on facebook yet cant reply to a text message.
which to me is a slap to the face, im a very successful busy person so to take time to invest in someone is a big deal for me.
after not reaching out to him for 4 days, i decided to text him one last time.
it was a simple short text, saying i hope his well, and that its rude to go mia on people and that its not gonna workout between us & that i am looking for something more.
All those other people
can pay for his funeral.
can pay for his funeral.
Posted by ShaniajamMy life with women they want me to play puzzles with memes and shit and when they finally break down all I can say is you didn't ask me anything or be direct it's always assumptions.
Yeah you should've asked him this from the beginning then if he said he wasn't and then you found out he is, that would be a different thing.
The issues today with women is that we "assume" we are in a relationship, we "assume" we are monogamous with these men, we "assume" you're the only one, WITHOUT actually discussing these things with each other, because you don't wanna "scare" the man off. But if you can't have these conversations with this so called man you want for the long haul... do you really think you're gonna be happy in the long run?
Now that you know, address it. It is better to know than speculate. Now if he says he isn't and you know the source is credible you have two choices.. either stay knowing and "hope" you're the one... or look for someone who values you and want to be with you wholeheartedly and not play games.
Cyber hugs my love. I know it's hard to accept.
If you didn't ask...can't blame the guy.
Posted by GcgcPosted by ShaniajamMy life with women they want me to play puzzles with memes and shit and when they finally break down all I can say is you didn't ask me anything or be direct it's always assumptions.
Yeah you should've asked him this from the beginning then if he said he wasn't and then you found out he is, that would be a different thing.
The issues today with women is that we "assume" we are in a relationship, we "assume" we are monogamous with these men, we "assume" you're the only one, WITHOUT actually discussing these things with each other, because you don't wanna "scare" the man off. But if you can't have these conversations with this so called man you want for the long haul... do you really think you're gonna be happy in the long run?
Now that you know, address it. It is better to know than speculate. Now if he says he isn't and you know the source is credible you have two choices.. either stay knowing and "hope" you're the one... or look for someone who values you and want to be with you wholeheartedly and not play games.
Cyber hugs my love. I know it's hard to accept.click to expand
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