I met a possessive taurus lady

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I met a taurus lady and she really wanted to come over to my place. It was already late (11), but I agreed. So she came over and she was looking really good. She started flirting with me heavily and speaking in a cute voice. I told her over the phone that it was late and that my place was a mess but she said she didn't care. So I started awkwardly cleaning my kitchen when she came over and apologized for the mess. I offered her alcohol or water and she chose the water. She was hugging me quickly and accidentally rubbed her breasts against me. I pretended not to notice and gave her a sly smile. Then we put on a movie and I could tell she wanted me to kiss her 3 minutes into the movie, so I did. This was a very, VERY beautiful woman. She's out of my league honestly, but I didn't care. I'll take it!

Anyway I think I did a good job that night because after sex she confessed she was falling in love with me and the next day she wanted to come by for a quick kiss so I hesitated but agreed even though I was super busy. She ended up staying the night again. lol lol cono

Why are you taurus women so possessive though? I mean I just met this woman and she said "voy a cortar tu cabeza" if she saw me talking to another woman, which is Spanish for cut off my head. She is Venezuelan. And that if she texted me at night and I did not reply quickly, she would come to my place and knock on the door loudly. Ayyyyy.

She also leaves buckets of hair at my place. There is hair EVERYWHERE. She has really long hair and I'm guessing she is leaving her mark.

I then joked I was going to get a maid because they are so cheap around here and I have no time to clean. She got jealous and said "no maid!!" I told her she would clean for me then or that my place would remain a mess. She said she would help me and that she didn't care if my place was a mess.

She just left my place and told me to behave three times. LOL

Why so possessive? Any tips on how to handle this woman?
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A.S. all Taurean women are possessive. If you don't want to deal with that, don't hook up with a bullette. We see everything in the world as our personal possession and this will include friends or lovers who we accept into our lives. They become extensions of ourselves. We're the sign of ownership and building and that includes relationships. What you do in this situation is your call but don't expect HER to change. As far as she's concerned she's already put her brand on you.
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I met a taurus lady and she really wanted to come over to my place. It was already late (11), but I agreed. So she came over and she was looking really good. She started flirting with me heavily and speaking in a cute voice. I told her over the phone that it was late and that my place was a mess but she said she didn't care. So I started awkwardly cleaning my kitchen when she came over and apologized for the mess. I offered her alcohol or water and she chose the water. She was hugging me quickly and accidentally rubbed her breasts against me. I pretended not to notice and gave her a sly smile. Then we put on a movie and I could tell she wanted me to kiss her 3 minutes into the movie, so I did. This was a very, VERY beautiful woman. She's out of my league honestly, but I didn't care. I'll take it!

Anyway I think I did a good job that night because after sex she confessed she was falling in love with me and the next day she wanted to come by for a quick kiss so I hesitated but agreed even though I was super busy. She ended up staying the night again. lol lol cono

Why are you taurus women so possessive though? I mean I just met this woman and she said "voy a cortar tu cabeza" if she saw me talking to another woman, which is Spanish for cut off my head. She is Venezuelan. And that if she texted me at night and I did not reply quickly, she would come to my place and knock on the door loudly. Ayyyyy.

She also leaves buckets of hair at my place. There is hair EVERYWHERE. She has really long hair and I'm guessing she is leaving her mark.

I then joked I was going to get a maid because they are so cheap around here and I have no time to clean. She got jealous and said "no maid!!" I told her she would clean for me then or that my place would remain a mess. She said she would help me and that she didn't care if my place was a mess.

She just left my place and told me to behave three times. LOL

Why so possessive? Any tips on how to handle this woman?
Oh I like her a lot.
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I met a taurus lady and she really wanted to come over to my place. It was already late (11), but I agreed. So she came over and she was looking really good. She started flirting with me heavily and speaking in a cute voice. I told her over the phone that it was late and that my place was a mess but she said she didn't care. So I started awkwardly cleaning my kitchen when she came over and apologized for the mess. I offered her alcohol or water and she chose the water. She was hugging me quickly and accidentally rubbed her breasts against me. I pretended not to notice and gave her a sly smile. Then we put on a movie and I could tell she wanted me to kiss her 3 minutes into the movie, so I did. This was a very, VERY beautiful woman. She's out of my league honestly, but I didn't care. I'll take it!

Anyway I think I did a good job that night because after sex she confessed she was falling in love with me and the next day she wanted to come by for a quick kiss so I hesitated but agreed even though I was super busy. She ended up staying the night again. lol lol cono

Why are you taurus women so possessive though? I mean I just met this woman and she said "voy a cortar tu cabeza" if she saw me talking to another woman, which is Spanish for cut off my head. She is Venezuelan. And that if she texted me at night and I did not reply quickly, she would come to my place and knock on the door loudly. Ayyyyy.

She also leaves buckets of hair at my place. There is hair EVERYWHERE. She has really long hair and I'm guessing she is leaving her mark.

I then joked I was going to get a maid because they are so cheap around here and I have no time to clean. She got jealous and said "no maid!!" I told her she would clean for me then or that my place would remain a mess. She said she would help me and that she didn't care if my place was a mess.

She just left my place and told me to behave three times. LOL

Why so possessive? Any tips on how to handle this woman?
Oh I like her a lot.
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she sound like a keeper. lol

after reading this, about possessiveness, I got curious so I just asked my husband, just now, 'i'm possessive right??" lol

and he said, ' well not in a bad way'.

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Ooooh... I really like her! She sounds amazing to me!

How to handle her?!?! Enjoy every minute while you are in agreement with her, but don't be afraid to put your foot down when you want something done your way. She needs to learn where your boundaries are, or else... She will walk all over you and lose respect for you.

The maid: lol... I love it when she covere her tracks by saying she was ok with the mess. Meaning, she won't always want to help clean up!! Hahahahaha....

So if you are ok with the mess as well, you will be two peas in a pod. Otherwise, put your foot down and get yourself an old ugly maid!

She is a double whammy of spicy, jealous and possessive: Taurus AND Latina - watch out and enjoy the ride 😈

Lo que me fascina de ella es que no tiene pelos en la lengua. Todo está dicho muy claramente!! Genial...

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She came over again. But she showed up without texting me first. She just knocked on the door and I was in the shower (just happened by chance). Then she got pissy because I did not answer the door and left. I raised my voice at her over the phone and told her to come back. She came over and we were very happy to see each other. We then chatted and she did some cleaning without me asking. Right before she left she said she had a "small question". Then she asked if it was okay for her to show up at ANY TIME OF THE DAY to check on me. I said she should text me first. She said she would come without texting. She then said I love you and left. It looks like I really am her property now...
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Posted by AnarchoScorpio
She came over again. But she showed up without texting me first. She just knocked on the door and I was in the shower (just happened by chance). Then she got pissy because I did not answer the door and left. I raised my voice at her over the phone and told her to come back. She came over and we were very happy to see each other. We then chatted and she did some cleaning without me asking. Right before she left she said she had a "small question". Then she asked if it was okay for her to show up at ANY TIME OF THE DAY to check on me. I said she should text me first. She said she would come without texting. She then said I love you and left. It looks like I really am her property now...
I can't believe a man as intelligent as you are didn't see this coming. Taurean ladies take intimacy much more seriously than Scorp's could ever imagine.
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she says the condoms are bothering her. red flag??
Dude... I told you, you need to put your foot down with her OR she will walk all over you.

No, she shouldn't come to your house without texting BECAUSE she isn't laid back when you don't answer her immediately!!!

Wear a condom!



You are setting yourself up for failure with her if you don't learn to put your foot down.
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i'm also surprised at him. I agree, she will WALK all over you.

when that happens, it's all downhill. unless they like this type of dynamic.
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She came over again. But she showed up without texting me first. She just knocked on the door and I was in the shower (just happened by chance). Then she got pissy because I did not answer the door and left. I raised my voice at her over the phone and told her to come back. She came over and we were very happy to see each other. We then chatted and she did some cleaning without me asking. Right before she left she said she had a "small question". Then she asked if it was okay for her to show up at ANY TIME OF THE DAY to check on me. I said she should text me first. She said she would come without texting. She then said I love you and left. It looks like I really am her property now...
I can't believe a man as intelligent as you are didn't see this coming. Taurean ladies take intimacy much more seriously than Scorp's could ever imagine.

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Ooooh... I really like her! She sounds amazing to me!

How to handle her?!?! Enjoy every minute while you are in agreement with her, but don't be afraid to put your foot down when you want something done your way. She needs to learn where your boundaries are, or else... She will walk all over you and lose respect for you.

The maid: lol... I love it when she covere her tracks by saying she was ok with the mess. Meaning, she won't always want to help clean up!! Hahahahaha....

So if you are ok with the mess as well, you will be two peas in a pod. Otherwise, put your foot down and get yourself an old ugly maid!

She is a double whammy of spicy, jealous and possessive: Taurus AND Latina - watch out and enjoy the ride 😈

Lo que me fascina de ella es que no tiene pelos en la lengua. Todo está dicho muy claramente!! Genial...
She sounds amazing?! She scares me and i don't even know her!

Lol... She did sound amazing to me at first, because she sounds like she REALLY knows what she wants and isn't afraid to express herself sexually... She also seems so focused on OP, no wandering eyes and promises loyalty. I like that. Lol... I'm not scared of stuff like this, it's our axis - our signs can be pretty intense 😛

But, she has crazy tendencies... As more is shared about her. And even in the begining, it seems like OP in no way can handle this woman. He is the perfect recipe for total disaster with her.

A woman like her needs a strong assertive man. And by strong, I don't mean muscles or a man that easily loses his temper. I mean a man that ALSO knows what he wants and can calmly communicate his needs clearly without budging. A man that doesn't falter at her intensity. A man that clearly draws the lines that should not be crossed. She would soften and get hooked with a man like that.

OP cannot communicate properly and is just letting her walk all over him. It's definitely a disaster waiting to happen. She will not like him being so mysterious and it will only trigger her jealousies and craziness even more.

I would never allow anyone to threaten me by cutting off my head, should I look at another man. Talk about lack of respect and trust!! No healthy foundation. I believe her too. She's not to be toyed with... And OP is having fun with it and testing limits of her temper.

Yeah, not a good match.

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"I agree, it sounds very brash and developing really really fast. If i was OP i would be terrified, angry, confused, a little bit of everything. He doesn't seem to mind it so i cant knock him or say anything. My moon would just freak out lol . Im just concerned if its genuine, since he's my water brethren."



Lol... That is so cute 😄 !!!! Yeah, I don't mind that type of energy at all, I mean... It doesn't scare me in the least. It's a pain to handle, but once that type of energy is well used - it really does promise a lot of pleasure. It's just very dangerous because if the person is too immature to handle it, it EASILY becomes toxic. And as you can see, it is already happening!

Why do you doubt it being genuine? What do you see that I don't see?!?! Please share!

I think she has an order in how she operates: she found him attractive, she wants to possess him and take over, if the take over was too easy - her deep feelings will never be brought up and the relationship will be one where she just uses him.

If he learns to put limits and shows strong character, she will learn to respect him, perhaps treat him as an equal and learn to soften and get gushy feelings.

That's how I see it, but who knows! Only time will tell...
I like this view on it, i mean her "order of operation", because it sounds exactly like what she's doing. Its not that i see something you don't see, its just OP lives alone and for some reason, it feels like a nice home to me with a small foyer and a second floor. Im not sure why but i just feel like he has a good career!! I told OP it might be about the money, but he didn't really respond to it, but my imagination really believes he has a very nice home with a quality car and well lined pockets! Call me crazy, but i just know it!

I changed my avi of my face to the crazy fish lol ! I didn't want to end up in the crazy racewars of this month's shenanigans which was a hot topic in DXP😢
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You haven't gotten rid of this chick yet?

Must be in desperate need of attention and company.

Taurus and all other astrology aside. The bitch is crazy we've already established that. Don't get fooled.
She must got some good pussu. He did say he thought she was out his league so maybe insecurity is keeping him around
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i don't care if she's out of my league and very beautiful. all the better! i'll take it without questioning it. she told me a lot of men look at her at the gym but that i'm the only man on the planet for her. verbatim. i don't know if she's just saying that. i don't care. i'm just enjoying it for the moment.

why would i get rid of a sweet woman who cooks for me and folds my laundry and wants to see me everyday? that's not insecurity. lol
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You haven't gotten rid of this chick yet?

Must be in desperate need of attention and company.

Taurus and all other astrology aside. The bitch is crazy we've already established that. Don't get fooled.
She must got some good pussu. He did say he thought she was out his league so maybe insecurity is keeping him around

i don't care if she's out of my league and very beautiful. all the better! i'll take it without questioning it. she told me a lot of men look at her at the gym but that i'm the only man on the planet for her. verbatim. i don't know if she's just saying that. i don't care. i'm just enjoying it for the moment.

why would i get rid of a sweet woman who cooks for me and folds my laundry and wants to see me everyday? that's not insecurity. lol
Because she did it w/o knowing your full name. Hey if u like it I love it but I know how.....



Nvm have fun fam
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yes only time will tell - meanwhile OP is enjoying himself and making sure he still has a head LOL !

she sleeps a lot. is this a taurus thing?
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maybe you are wearing her out but I'm sure she's loving it - what is a lot ? my friend works like no one I've ever seen and needs sleep only 5 hours daily. I need 8-9 hours - generally Taurus can work hard and play hard but then sleep hard too ... I think it also depends on other planetary placements - my Mars in Pisces affects my energy level so it comes in spurts and then I have to rest and regenerate in between



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she is kind of trying to pull me away from my friends. i was jamming out last night with some friends making music and drinking beers. she said she didn't like it and that i can't go again alone. i either can't go or she has to go with me. i told her there were no women. only the wife of my friend who invited us to his house for practice space and it was just us men, which is true.

she still didn't like it. lol?
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Taurus people can be clingy..they mark there place and live in it. The shit is cute at first until you realize how unhealthy it can be. I dated a Taurus who done this to me. He went in fast . At first i was like awww he is so cute.i Like how he would break his neck to do things for me. I like that he was just so sweet and kind. Less then a month he was telling me who he don't like ..trying to take up my time. Then when I started to get irritated he became nasty. Set boundaries with fix signs or they will walk over you
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She wants to come by again for a kiss tonight, but I made it clear that it was only a kiss this time. She also texted me "yo te amo" (I love you) this morning. I replied with "I miss you". I wonder if this woman really loves me or if she is playing with my emotions. She is pretty incredible though. She cleaned my kitchen the other day and cooked me breakfast...

Day 1 (no date, no wine and dine from Beast)

Beauty: I want to come over.

Beast: Idk, my place is messy and it's late.

Beauty: I don't care, I want to come over.

Beast: Ok

(beauty sleeps over, cleans the kitchen and cooks)

Day 2 (still no date, no wine and dine from Beast)

Beauty: I love you

Beast: I miss you. But only one kiss.

Day 13

Beast still has not said he loves Beauty back and still hasn't taken her on any dates and doesn't seem to have meaningful conversations with her (at least I haven't read it on this thread)

Beast says Beauty is out of his league, but Beauty is doing ALL the chasing, sexing, cooking, cleaning...

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