I think I'm doomed to be single for life! Is it my venus in aries?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by TaurusCap323 on Tuesday, October 20, 2015 and has 32 replies.
With my places it rly explains my mixed up personality,


Sun taurus
Moon aqua
Venus aries
Mars Pisces
Rising cap

I've only had one boyfriend my while life and I was in high school YEARS ago! I can't seem to find a guy that has all the things I need. And the ones that excite me and get me interested are usually the worst kind! I've never been In a stable long term relationship and I fear I will never be able to because I will be bored to death. Even with me and my high school sweet heart when he was sweet I took it for grated and once I admitted to having feelings for an old flame still and we broke up it was years of back and forth that kept me interested it was like a 10 game of cat and mouse it was exciting and passionate and thrilling. But I couldn't be still with him I couldn't conform to a stable life work come home cook go to bed etc I can't conform to that. I don't think once I rly have someone I will wmt them forever. And I love the feeling of excitement can that be maintained in a long term relationship? Maybe I'm doomed to just live the honeymoon phase with different ppl forever. I dread the thought of being tied down and stuck with someone smh

Anyone else have these issues?
My sister has an Aries Venus, but she's also a Taurus sun. The energy from both can counteract each other, it seems. With that mixture, she's either all IN or all OUT. She can lose interest relatively quickly if the guy doesn't play by 'her rules'. My Taurus Venus questions her actions constantly haha but we're just different in that sense. I can be flirty and date, but I don't give in easily and love is a very DEEP and SERIOUS thing for me. I can honestly say I've only truly loved one person in my entire dating life; till stuck on it. And she's claimed to have loved, but then also acts like love interests come a dime a dozen. Different perspective is all!
Anyway, it's who she is and she's happy. Don't be too hard on the placement.
I forgot to add that it doesn't mean you're doomed to be single; not in any way. You just have a different approach to love. All you need to do is find someone with a similar energy in that regard.
No, it's not. Plenty of people operate with Venus is Aries just fine in a relationship. Find another fire or air Venus and spar off into the sunset with one another.
Just for the record, I'm a Taurus Venus and I have only had one boyfriend in my lifetime, so far.
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Posted by Reincarnation
I went on a date with a double Taurus with a Venus in Aries once.

I honestly thought it was going to be great. She was very beautiful and she was a Taurus woman after all. As a loner Scorpion, I always got along very well with Cows. Almost too well.

Well - that date was probably the most terrible date of my life. I invited her for sushi and she instead took out the expensive hibachi menu. This kind of suprised me. It was the first date. I never said I was going to spend money on her for hibachi. I barely knew her. I just wanted some cheap sushi and decent conversation. It was the first date!

Overall, I found her crass and ugly inside. She also ended up ordering the filet mignon (hibachi) AND the lobster side. Her dinner included an appetizer, an expensive dessert, and two glasses of fine wine. Basically a decent dinner for a committed girlfriend or wife or something. So I texted my good Sag friend about what was going on so he could have a laugh. He told me to split the bill. Wise Sag advice, as always.

Confident I never wanted to see this woman again, I casually mentioned "Oh BTW - we're splitting the bill, right? Just wanted to make sure." She definitely didn't like that.

I enjoyed my sushi quickly and told her I had to go because something came up. Paid for my sushi, tipped, and left. Good riddance.

She is classless for ordering like she's with a boyfriend and having no shame but you weren't any better by being cheap. If you're gonna take a girl on a date then pay the whole bill.
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Evidently some women blatantly don't deserve to be put on a pedestal like that lol. It was their first date. She needed a reality check and he delivered it fairly.
oh my... I have 3 of your placements..

Taurus sun
Aries Venus
Pisces Mars

Virgo rising though..

I used to believe that I'll die alone lol .. I still wonder about that... Yeah I do get bored and I run away once irritated and my Scorpio moon is the worst ...always have so many doubts about others intentions..etc

I always broke up after 4 months (I guess when the honeymoon phase wears off as you said)

now im in my longest relationship (1 year) and it feels strange as hell .. And i almost broke up several times.. I know me and bf are not the most compatible.. but I love him. I hope this lasts but I'm scared if he changes on the long run.. ppl change you know.. :/
Posted by Reincarnation
I went on a date with a double Taurus with a Venus in Aries once.

I honestly thought it was going to be great. She was very beautiful and she was a Taurus woman after all. As a loner Scorpion, I always got along very well with Cows. Almost too well.

Well - that date was probably the most terrible date of my life. I invited her for sushi and she instead took out the expensive hibachi menu. This kind of suprised me. It was the first date. I never said I was going to spend money on her for hibachi. I barely knew her. I just wanted some cheap sushi and decent conversation. It was the first date!

Overall, I found her crass and ugly inside. She also ended up ordering the filet mignon (hibachi) AND the lobster side. Her dinner included an appetizer, an expensive dessert, and two glasses of fine wine. Basically a decent dinner for a committed girlfriend or wife or something. So I texted my good Sag friend about what was going on so he could have a laugh. He told me to split the bill. Wise Sag advice, as always.

Confident I never wanted to see this woman again, I casually mentioned "Oh BTW - we're splitting the bill, right? Just wanted to make sure." She definitely didn't like that.

I enjoyed my sushi quickly and told her I had to go because something came up. Paid for my sushi, tipped, and left. Good riddance.

oh my... I wouldnt do that.. Id offer to pay and if i know he wont let me pay.. i will definitely avoid expensive dishes..

man.. you better avoid sushi restaurants lol but well you knew early shes greedy.. maybe too early. Good for you.. you were lucky!
Posted by Kodak375
Posted by Reincarnation
I went on a date with a double Taurus with a Venus in Aries once.

I honestly thought it was going to be great. She was very beautiful and she was a Taurus woman after all. As a loner Scorpion, I always got along very well with Cows. Almost too well.

Well - that date was probably the most terrible date of my life. I invited her for sushi and she instead took out the expensive hibachi menu. This kind of suprised me. It was the first date. I never said I was going to spend money on her for hibachi. I barely knew her. I just wanted some cheap sushi and decent conversation. It was the first date!

Overall, I found her crass and ugly inside. She also ended up ordering the filet mignon (hibachi) AND the lobster side. Her dinner included an appetizer, an expensive dessert, and two glasses of fine wine. Basically a decent dinner for a committed girlfriend or wife or something. So I texted my good Sag friend about what was going on so he could have a laugh. He told me to split the bill. Wise Sag advice, as always.

Confident I never wanted to see this woman again, I casually mentioned "Oh BTW - we're splitting the bill, right? Just wanted to make sure." She definitely didn't like that.

I enjoyed my sushi quickly and told her I had to go because something came up. Paid for my sushi, tipped, and left. Good riddance.

Shes a food ho. Taurus and aries women do that.
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Don't generalize, love. I'm an Aries/Taurus sun cusp, Taurus dominant. And I would never in my life treat another person that way. In fact, if a man asks me out, I immediately make sure that I have enough money as backup. Even if he invites me; I just have a nagging fear that tells me I should never expect others to cover me. And that's not a negative thought in regards to others, I just find it impolite to expect someone else to take care of me. I'm very aware of how I'm affecting/treating the other person. Blame my Pisces moon house lol
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Posted by xomelindabelle
My sister has an Aries Venus, but she's also a Taurus sun. The energy from both can counteract each other, it seems. With that mixture, she's either all IN or all OUT. She can lose interest relatively quickly if the guy doesn't play by 'her rules'. My Taurus Venus questions her actions constantly haha but we're just different in that sense. I can be flirty and date, but I don't give in easily and love is a very DEEP and SERIOUS thing for me. I can honestly say I've only truly loved one person in my entire dating life; till stuck on it. And she's claimed to have loved, but then also acts like love interests come a dime a dozen. Different perspective is all!
Anyway, it's who she is and she's happy. Don't be too hard on the placement.

I love Venus in Taurus.

One of the best placements for Venus.
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Thank you, dear. I'm grateful for the placement. As I mentioned previously, I tend to like Taurus placements. Sun, Moon, Venus and Mercury in particular smile
Hahaha a lot of Taurus women I know would totally do that.

I have an Aries Venus coupled with my Gemini sun imagine how hard it is for me to stay interested. Buttttt with age it has gotten much better. I still have the feeling that I might be single for we but I'm finally ok with that.
you want the best woman but your cheap...Get your money up!!! LOL

you technically should not be dating anyone if you have issues paying for a date...i would've excused myself to the restroom as soon as you said dutch and let you pay for the entire bill...i feel horrible for that woman she was on the worst date ever with a turd.

wasting her time with your ridiculous expectations...cheap sushi and conversation, that is not the type of women she is....


Posted by Reincarnation
I went on a date with a double Taurus with a Venus in Aries once.

I honestly thought it was going to be great. She was very beautiful and she was a Taurus woman after all. As a loner Scorpion, I always got along very well with Cows. Almost too well.

Well - that date was probably the most terrible date of my life. I invited her for sushi and she instead took out the expensive hibachi menu. This kind of suprised me. It was the first date. I never said I was going to spend money on her for hibachi. I barely knew her. I just wanted some cheap sushi and decent conversation. It was the first date!

Overall, I found her crass and ugly inside. She also ended up ordering the filet mignon (hibachi) AND the lobster side. Her dinner included an appetizer, an expensive dessert, and two glasses of fine wine. Basically a decent dinner for a committed girlfriend or wife or something. So I texted my good Sag friend about what was going on so he could have a laugh. He told me to split the bill. Wise Sag advice, as always.

Confident I never wanted to see this woman again, I casually mentioned "Oh BTW - we're splitting the bill, right? Just wanted to make sure." She definitely didn't like that.

I enjoyed my sushi quickly and told her I had to go because something came up. Paid for my sushi, tipped, and left. Good riddance.

Posted by balblair
you want the best woman but your cheap...Get your money up!!! LOL

you technically should not be dating anyone if you have issues paying for a date...i would've excused myself to the restroom as soon as you said dutch and let you pay for the entire bill...i feel horrible for that woman she was on the worst date ever with a turd.

wasting her time with your ridiculous expectations...cheap sushi and conversation, that is not the type of women she is....


Posted by Reincarnation
I went on a date with a double Taurus with a Venus in Aries once.

I honestly thought it was going to be great. She was very beautiful and she was a Taurus woman after all. As a loner Scorpion, I always got along very well with Cows. Almost too well.

Well - that date was probably the most terrible date of my life. I invited her for sushi and she instead took out the expensive hibachi menu. This kind of suprised me. It was the first date. I never said I was going to spend money on her for hibachi. I barely knew her. I just wanted some cheap sushi and decent conversation. It was the first date!

Overall, I found her crass and ugly inside. She also ended up ordering the filet mignon (hibachi) AND the lobster side. Her dinner included an appetizer, an expensive dessert, and two glasses of fine wine. Basically a decent dinner for a committed girlfriend or wife or something. So I texted my good Sag friend about what was going on so he could have a laugh. He told me to split the bill. Wise Sag advice, as always.

Confident I never wanted to see this woman again, I casually mentioned "Oh BTW - we're splitting the bill, right? Just wanted to make sure." She definitely didn't like that.

I enjoyed my sushi quickly and told her I had to go because something came up. Paid for my sushi, tipped, and left. Good riddance.


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Um, no. That's just blatantly rude. He was clearly willing to pay for the date initially, considering he'd taken her out. But it's when she took advantage that he gave her a reality check. Date's are not supposed to center around how much money in spent. The basis of a date is to connect with one another. Granted, it's nice to be treated to things. But when it is offered, not a demand. Especially when you're on a first date! Her behavior was presumptuous and obnoxious.
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Posted by Kodak375
Posted by Reincarnation
I went on a date with a double Taurus with a Venus in Aries once.

I honestly thought it was going to be great. She was very beautiful and she was a Taurus woman after all. As a loner Scorpion, I always got along very well with Cows. Almost too well.

Well - that date was probably the most terrible date of my life. I invited her for sushi and she instead took out the expensive hibachi menu. This kind of suprised me. It was the first date. I never said I was going to spend money on her for hibachi. I barely knew her. I just wanted some cheap sushi and decent conversation. It was the first date!

Overall, I found her crass and ugly inside. She also ended up ordering the filet mignon (hibachi) AND the lobster side. Her dinner included an appetizer, an expensive dessert, and two glasses of fine wine. Basically a decent dinner for a committed girlfriend or wife or something. So I texted my good Sag friend about what was going on so he could have a laugh. He told me to split the bill. Wise Sag advice, as always.

Confident I never wanted to see this woman again, I casually mentioned "Oh BTW - we're splitting the bill, right? Just wanted to make sure." She definitely didn't like that.

I enjoyed my sushi quickly and told her I had to go because something came up. Paid for my sushi, tipped, and left. Good riddance.

Shes a food ho. Taurus and aries women do that.

Don't generalize, love. I'm an Aries/Taurus sun cusp, Taurus dominant. And I would never in my life treat another person that way. In fact, if a man asks me out, I immediately make sure that I have enough money as backup. Even if he invites me; I just have a nagging fear that tells me I should never expect others to cover me. And that's not a negative thought in regards to others, I just find it impolite to expect someone else to take care of me. I'm very aware of how I'm affecting/treating the other person. Blame my Pisces moon house lol

THIS SITE IS NOTHING BUT GENERALIZATIONS. hahaha nah i kid. Again not all aries and taurus women. But a food ho is someone who only goes out on a date for a meal at a fancy restaurant and look good. It has nothing to do with the man. And aries and taurus women are like the main offenders, as seen on instagram. Some women like you hate when the man does the little extra stuff, some women expect free meals and stuff.
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Haha that's true, can't argue that!
Fair enough, I've certainly known women like that. Their expectatio
Crap, it cut off lol

Haha that's true, can't argue that!
Fair enough, I've certainly known women like that. Their expectations to be pampered are abundant lol and I've even met men like that! I just can't stand the idea that the focus of a date has become another platform for consumer greed. What about getting lost in good conversation? What about that undeniable vibe you feel with that person? People are forgetting to engage with each other, on a multitude of levels. And we wonder why so many connections are starting to fizzle out? Greedy, spoiled expectations that are unfortunately overshadowing a potential for love.
And yes, I have met men who like to be pampered just to be pampered, without reverence to the concern of the individual who was 'taking care' of them. It's a sad thing, either way.
er out on a date to a restaurant that has items on a menu that he couldnt afford? He chose the restaurant! LOL WTF!!!!

He expected her to order specific items on a restaurant menu that he could afford within his budget, because she is a psychic and would know he is broke and his budget only allows for max $ 20 3 roll combo? right LOL

Listen if you invite me for dinner it would make sense to afford the venue chosen and do not date if you can not afford to, the idea of a woman of my caliber ordering allocated menu items is hilarious, If I can afford filet mignon and lobster on my own and its a delicacy that I eat on a regular basis Im ordering that and wine and a desert, which is pretty basic menu items then the person who is taking me out should too!

Know your audience and proceed accordingly...I would be eating what I normally eat...if your taking me out to a venue youve chosen your aware of the price points at that restaurant.

UM he should date his palm, aka PALMALA..Im sure he went home and had an awesome night alone..him..palm... all the cheap sushi he could afford LOL hilarious

choking that chickennn w/ the soy sauce lmaoooooooo







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Posted by balblair
you want the best woman but your cheap...Get your money up!!! LOL

you technically should not be dating anyone if you have issues paying for a date...i would've excused myself to the restroom as soon as you said dutch and let you pay for the entire bill...i feel horrible for that woman she was on the worst date ever with a turd.

wasting her time with your ridiculous expectations...cheap sushi and conversation, that is not the type of women she is....


Posted by Reincarnation
I went on a date with a double Taurus with a Venus in Aries once.

I honestly thought it was going to be great. She was very beautiful and she was a Taurus woman after all. As a loner Scorpion, I always got along very well with Cows. Almost too well.

Well - that date was probably the most terrible date of my life. I invited her for sushi and she instead took out the expensive hibachi menu. This kind of suprised me. It was the first date. I never said I was going to spend money on her for hibachi. I barely knew her. I just wanted some cheap sushi and decent conversation. It was the first date!

Overall, I found her crass and ugly inside. She also ended up ordering the filet mignon (hibachi) AND the lobster side. Her dinner included an appetizer, an expensive dessert, and two glasses of fine wine. Basically a decent dinner for a committed girlfriend or wife or something. So I texted my good Sag friend about what was going on so he could have a laugh. He t
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balblair:

A woman of your caliber? Are you kidding me? Someone needs a hefty slice of HUMBLE PIE. How is he supposed to 'know his audience' that well on the first date? I don't remember receiving inquiries about my eating/indulging habits from dates in the past, so do you expect HIM to read HER mind? Or predict her rapacious expectations? No, so the door swings both ways.
I'm in disbelief that someone as pigheaded as you exists. But that only reaffirms my beliefs and the way I conduct myself amongst others.
I like doing dutch or even splitting the check up evenly depends.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I like doing dutch or even splitting the check up evenly depends.

Taurus woman impresses me so much, you are so very nice. If i am your partner i will try my best to foot the bills until i can take no more smile
@Reincarnation i think because you invited her for dinner, she thought its a slightly more formal date so she ordered some main course for it. Still its not very nice to order expensive stuff i know but well its a dinner & its actually pretty hard for sushi to be filling as a main course. Probably a lunch date will be more ideal in that case smile
@ angmodurian- Lets go I'm hungry...Okay I will wine and dine you, just bring the appetite. Four course meal coming up..lol.
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@ angmodurian- Lets go I'm hungry...Okay I will wine and dine you, just bring the appetite. Four course meal coming up..lol.

You guys are really legendary food lovers Big Grin



@ Angmodurian- I can cook that steak, lobster, side order and dessert, instead of going out to eat. I can make our own four course meal and a beverage. Lol haha
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@ Angmodurian- I can cook that steak, lobster, side order and dessert, instead of going out to eat. I can make our own four course meal and a beverage. Lol haha

Oh my God!!! My profession is a chef too haha but wow a girl that knows how to cook impresses me so much. I am definitely going to keep an eye out for taurus gal, hopefully i can afford the maintenance cost Big Grin
Haha oh I love someone who cook as well...Lol but I want to try your cooking too. Haha impressive.
@ black mamba- I am only 150 for all the food I eat. And I exercise too.... not all Taurus are fluffy. Haha
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@ black mamba- I am only 150 for all the food I eat. And I exercise too.... not all Taurus are fluffy. Haha

Had a taurus friend getting dumped by her scorpio boyfriend but she is still hoping to get him back when that guy is clearly being a jerk. Only 2 weeks after break up that dude already got a new gf. Worked hard to dissuade her from continuing to do this, it worked that relationship devastates her so much.... Had a newfound respect & admirations for Taureans since then, the loyalty u guys have really so impressive.
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Posted by TaurusCap323
With my places it rly explains my mixed up personality,


Sun taurus
Moon aqua
Venus aries
Mars Pisces
Rising cap

I've only had one boyfriend my while life and I was in high school YEARS ago! I can't seem to find a guy that has all the things I need. And the ones that excite me and get me interested are usually the worst kind! I've never been In a stable long term relationship and I fear I will never be able to because I will be bored to death. Even with me and my high school sweet heart when he was sweet I took it for grated and once I admitted to having feelings for an old flame still and we broke up it was years of back and forth that kept me interested it was like a 10 game of cat and mouse it was exciting and passionate and thrilling. But I couldn't be still with him I couldn't conform to a stable life work come home cook go to bed etc I can't conform to that. I don't think once I rly have someone I will wmt them forever. And I love the feeling of excitement can that be maintained in a long term relationship? Maybe I'm doomed to just live the honeymoon phase with different ppl forever. I dread the thought of being tied down and stuck with someone smh

Anyone else have these issues?

I have the same issues as you but I have a Leo moon and rising with a venus in pisces!!! No mere mortal can ever live up to my expectations!! I have been single 12 years. My dates don't last two days and when I take a plunge in the deep end with a LDR in the form of a Sag it ended last year... Well I gave up!!

But my luck could be changing as I have been friends with a lovely fire taurus just like myself for the last 10 months and we are hoping to progress our friendship!! He ie actually my peach blossom. Don't give up hope young one!! Use your youth and be free!! Good luck!!
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You know Chinese has an art call face reading & i believe i have that capability to a certain extent. When i look at your dp, i can feel that you are a very demanding person in relationship (very opinionated) & somehow u get bored very easily, which is suprising because you are not a gem supposedly. I believe u still are not certain what kind of man you are looking for. People expressions do change as they progress in life & get wiser. Your mentality is not yet ready to settle down hence you find difficulty holding on to a relationship. Just my take on this hope it doesnt offend you. I dont know why but your looks kinda give me some sort of warm feelings smile
@Angmodurian- Aww Thanks.... I'm just cooking breakfast now. Haha.

And shit it blows when things don't work out... But got to move on, everything happens for a reason...
Yup so sad and true.
@busyeyes88 now i think i know why you give off a warm vibe, probably you let people feel kinda safe & have this really stable & magnificent aura. True to its essence, earthy charateristics.

Regarding that settle down part i think age doesnt matter, so far i have noticed people that want to settle down have slightly weaker & more sincere vibe. For you its still burning strong haha. I wonder what kind of male can handle you, but he must be very impressive to be able to do this Big Grin