Is there a way to tell if a Gemini man is actually sorry, being genuine?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Purpleaqua01 on Monday, February 11, 2019 and has 3 replies.
My first love and I have been drifting apart lately. He’s not putting in enough effort anymore & every time I try to leave he gets on his hands and knees and begs me to stay. WHY? Lol. We’ve been so disrespectful to each other and it’s both of our faults. I broke up with him a few days ago because I felt he just didn’t respect me anymore.. so the next day he comes into my job(I’m an exotic dancer) and he starts tipping other girls right in front of me. My heart is in pieces. I would have rather of caught him cheating than him be ok with watching dance on other men. He knows how important it is for me to know that he see’s me as more than my job. He comes up to me at work like it was nothing and said hi. I flipped on him for being there. And all he said was “i can’t tell him where to go anymore “ so I leave my job, crying. I explain to him that yes we were broken up since yesterday but now I know I made the right decision. & that I never wanted to speak to him again. He’s been hysterically calling me, begging me to forgive him. He sent this text yesterday... “You mean so much to me, I know things have rocky lately & what I did the night before was totally unacceptable. I can’t stand the thought of not being with you, I can’t say sorry enough I love you blank, I fucked up a good relationship we built. Your good to me blank & I don’t want to lose you”. HOW COULD HE. How could he come to my job and see me like this if he loves me so much? He claims he did it out of spite and was mad. I can understand that but I told him to NEVER come to my job if he wants to be with me. I’m starting 2 businesses at once right now so hopefully I’ll be out this year.... I need help because I love him so much but I need advice from ppl who don’t know him or I. I’m scared to death of getting hurt again. So with all this in your opinion do you think he’s being genuine? Could a man be so mad that he watches the girl he “loves” dance for money.

I’m an aqua sun, Leo moon, aqua Venus

He’s a Gemini, Aries moon, Taurus Venus
Once a trick, always a trick.
Posted by Purpleaqua01

My first love and I have been drifting apart lately. He’s not putting in enough effort anymore & every time I try to leave he gets on his hands and knees and begs me to stay. WHY? Lol. We’ve been so disrespectful to each other and it’s both of our faults. I broke up with him a few days ago because I felt he just didn’t respect me anymore.. so the next day he comes into my job(I’m an exotic dancer) and he starts tipping other girls right in front of me. My heart is in pieces. I would have rather of caught him cheating than him be ok with watching dance on other men. He knows how important it is for me to know that he see’s me as more than my job. He comes up to me at work like it was nothing and said hi. I flipped on him for being there. And all he said was “i can’t tell him where to go anymore “ so I leave my job, crying. I explain to him that yes we were broken up since yesterday but now I know I made the right decision. & that I never wanted to speak to him again. He’s been hysterically calling me, begging me to forgive him. He sent this text yesterday... “You mean so much to me, I know things have rocky lately & what I did the night before was totally unacceptable. I can’t stand the thought of not being with you, I can’t say sorry enough I love you blank, I fucked up a good relationship we built. Your good to me blank & I don’t want to lose you”. HOW COULD HE. How could he come to my job and see me like this if he loves me so much? He claims he did it out of spite and was mad. I can understand that but I told him to NEVER come to my job if he wants to be with me. I’m starting 2 businesses at once right now so hopefully I’ll be out this year.... I need help because I love him so much but I need advice from ppl who don’t know him or I. I’m scared to death of getting hurt again. So with all this in your opinion do you think he’s being genuine? Could a man be so mad that he watches the girl he “loves” dance for money.

I’m an aqua sun, Leo moon, aqua Venus

He’s a Gemini, Aries moon, Taurus Venus
As an Aqua, I don't understand why you're so weak for a man and a Gemini at that.

You are crazy to let him treat you like that. He's been shitting on you since day one.