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Is there some astrological explanation for why I keep becoming attracted to Capricorns?
Posted by ashley1734What kind of energy are you picking up?
There have been so many over the last couple years...I have no idea why, because when I read about a Capricorn male (in general) it seem very evident it wouldn't be a good match for me, but over and over again I am attracted to their energy.
Is there something in my chart that could help explain this? I have no actual Cap in my chart.
Sun: Gemini
Moon: Virgo
Venus: Aries
Mercury: Taurus
Mars: Gemini
Asc: Libra
To me, it seems from my chart I would be mostly attracted to Geminis (which I'm not) and Aries (which I am most of the time).
I've had people tell me this as well, but too shy to ask. Ha!
...not to mention, most of them have had their Venus in Aquarius (not the best placement for me I have come to find)
Posted by GreenteaIt hasn't really been the same for any one of them...one was really quite shy, and another was life of the party...but there is something very masculine and CALMING about them for me. Calming is really the best way to describe it. There isn't much that has that affect on me. They aren't quite as manly/brute as the Taurus man, but I just feel totally safe around them. I get all doe-eyed, which is really quite bizarre for me.Posted by ashley1734What kind of energy are you picking up?
There have been so many over the last couple years...I have no idea why, because when I read about a Capricorn male (in general) it seem very evident it wouldn't be a good match for me, but over and over again I am attracted to their energy.
Is there something in my chart that could help explain this? I have no actual Cap in my chart.
Sun: Gemini
Moon: Virgo
Venus: Aries
Mercury: Taurus
Mars: Gemini
Asc: Libra
To me, it seems from my chart I would be mostly attracted to Geminis (which I'm not) and Aries (which I am most of the time).
I've had people tell me this as well, but too shy to ask. Ha!click to expand
Maybe it is in your houses that you attract these types. And not just what you posted here. Look at 7th, 5th, 12,
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Oh ok I didn't think of that.
Maybe it is in your houses that you attract these types. And not just what you posted here. Look at 7th, 5th, 12,
7th House: Aries (Venus)
5th House: Aquarius (Jupiter)
12th House: Virgo (Moon)
Only thing in Capricorn is Neptune (3rd House)
Posted by Koniucha
Wet need to see your circle chart
Posted by KweestaI've got Saturn in the 2nd House (Scorpio).
Where is Cap in your chart? It appears to be down by the nadir (4th house). So maybe Cap feels Cancer to you - home, emotions, maternal, nurturing, grounding, foundations. Where is Saturn Cap's planet?
But that definitely describes the feeling.
Your moon.
Virgo Moon looks to the little things in life for their happiness and security. They may deny it, but they actually enjoy activities like running errands, taking care of details, and so on. They may complain about it, but as long as they feel appreciated they will do their best to not
only take care of themselves, they'll take care of you, too. They will usually be the first to volunteer to help someone else.
Caps Suns
Self-confident, calm and hardworking, the Capricorn Sun Sign personality is practical, responsible and persistent. If someone starts a project and drops the ball, Capricorn Sun Sign sees it through to the end. Those born under this Sign will be experts at finding the right resources that are needed and make the best out of it.
They may be perceived as stuffy or rigid and so they need to learn to bend when life doesn't go the way they want. Sometimes their seriousness can make them appear unhappy and they can be difficult to approach because they look so formal and aloof. In reality, they are just cautious.
So your moon has an industrious vibe that speaks to Caps, while also wrapped up in a fun Gem package.
Virgo Moon looks to the little things in life for their happiness and security. They may deny it, but they actually enjoy activities like running errands, taking care of details, and so on. They may complain about it, but as long as they feel appreciated they will do their best to not
only take care of themselves, they'll take care of you, too. They will usually be the first to volunteer to help someone else.
Caps Suns
Self-confident, calm and hardworking, the Capricorn Sun Sign personality is practical, responsible and persistent. If someone starts a project and drops the ball, Capricorn Sun Sign sees it through to the end. Those born under this Sign will be experts at finding the right resources that are needed and make the best out of it.
They may be perceived as stuffy or rigid and so they need to learn to bend when life doesn't go the way they want. Sometimes their seriousness can make them appear unhappy and they can be difficult to approach because they look so formal and aloof. In reality, they are just cautious.
So your moon has an industrious vibe that speaks to Caps, while also wrapped up in a fun Gem package.
Posted by GennieI guess that makes sense, but it's more like even when I first meet them, there is a really strong physical and magnetic attraction before ever knowing each other's preferences, quirks, work ethic, etc. Interesting.
Your moon.
Virgo Moon looks to the little things in life for their happiness and security. They may deny it, but they actually enjoy activities like running errands, taking care of details, and so on. They may complain about it, but as long as they feel appreciated they will do their best to not
only take care of themselves, they'll take care of you, too. They will usually be the first to volunteer to help someone else.
Caps Suns
Self-confident, calm and hardworking, the Capricorn Sun Sign personality is practical, responsible and persistent. If someone starts a project and drops the ball, Capricorn Sun Sign sees it through to the end. Those born under this Sign will be experts at finding the right resources that are needed and make the best out of it.
They may be perceived as stuffy or rigid and so they need to learn to bend when life doesn't go the way they want. Sometimes their seriousness can make them appear unhappy and they can be difficult to approach because they look so formal and aloof. In reality, they are just cautious.
So your moon has an industrious vibe that speaks to Caps, while also wrapped up in a fun Gem package.
Cap energy is like...." I have a 5 year plan! " There is a self assuredness, a sense of grounding, AND its a Cardinal sign, so leadership threads here. In the sun, caps can be risk takers as they ascend whatever life ladder they are attempting, but in the moon, they have a more tauran energy without all the tauran love.
Because our swag is too powerful for some too handle. But I guess a certain Gemini loves that power. But none can have it.
Posted by GennieThat's a pretty good description from my experience....Taurean energy without the Taurean love. Both masculine in their general energies, but where the Taurus man is loving and sweet and emotional, the Capricorn is more cold and slow to open up.
Cap energy is like...." I have a 5 year plan! " There is a self assuredness, a sense of grounding, AND its a Cardinal sign, so leadership threads here. In the sun, caps can be risk takers as they ascend whatever life ladder they are attempting, but in the moon, they have a more tauran energy without all the tauran love.
So perhaps it's just that Capricorn men have something that MOST women are attracted to and there's nothing that outwardly account for the strong attraction in my chart.
Posted by Sn1p3r187Hahahaha. Accurate.
Because our swag is too powerful for some too handle. But I guess a certain Gemini loves that power. But none can have it.
Posted by KweestaThere we go. That's what I was wondering...if there was some clear explanation. Thank you!
Saturn (Cap's planet) opposed to mercury in the 8th. Mercury rules most of you - the sun, mars, and moon. Saturn energy stimulates you.
Posted by KweestaThis would also make sense.
And there is a paternal (father) love thing there, too. Capricorn men may represent that paternal love you have been seeking. It all works its way down to your 4th house (some say the father).
I am always drawn to Cancer men as well probably for the same reason. And once in awhile a Virgo.
Posted by tizianiI see that Fortune talked about here once in awhile, I'll have to educate myself on that....
Maybe it's your Fortune or Spirit.
Virgo moon!!! 😄
Taurus mercury.
Taurus mercury.
Posted by tizianiWhat do you mean Tiziani?
Maybe it's your Fortune or Spirit.
Big Dick
Hard working
Masculine
Dominant
Stoic
Hard working
Masculine
Dominant
Stoic
Posted by PotHeadVirgo25Posted by Sn1p3r187😆
Because our swag is too powerful for some too handle. But I guess a certain Gemini loves that power. But none can have it.click to expand
Also the Virgo ladies love our swag. It's too much for them and they can't handle it for more than 3 days. 😆
Posted by Magenta_AzureBig Dick-- not so much
Big Dick
Hard working
Masculine
Dominant
Stoic
Hard working-- def
Masculine--def
Dominant---eh
Stoic--100%
Just checked and most of them have had not only Venus in Aquarius but also their Moons...could add to their stoic nature, but if I were to describe what I'm attracted to, it would never be the detachment that this combination of placements seems to make.
Posted by ashley1734So maybe a Capricorn with a warmer moon would be like candy for you.
Just checked and most of them have had not only Venus in Aquarius but also their Moons...could add to their stoic nature, but if I were to describe what I'm attracted to, it would never be the detachment that this combination of placements seems to make.
Taurus Moon, Cancer Moon, Scorpio Moon, or for a little wild, a Leo Moon, although a Leo moon may be too needy for your sun sign. Other placements count as well.
Posted by GennieOk so maybe I shouldn't write Caps off all together. My last experience left me a little bummed, but yes perhaps with a more emotional Moon it would be a different experience. I've had three loves in my life, Aries, Scorpio and Cancer so maybe that Cancer/Scorpio energy really would be something nice to a Cap.Posted by ashley1734So maybe a Capricorn with a warmer moon would be like candy for you.
Just checked and most of them have had not only Venus in Aquarius but also their Moons...could add to their stoic nature, but if I were to describe what I'm attracted to, it would never be the detachment that this combination of placements seems to make.
Taurus Moon, Cancer Moon, Scorpio Moon, or for a little wild, a Leo Moon, although a Leo moon may be too needy for your sun sign. Other placements count as well.
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Never met anyone with a Leo Moon I don't think.
The Scorpio I'm dating has a Gem moon and matches nothing like some of other Scorpios with jealousy and possessiveness. Completely different experience, so I think thats a good outlook to have.
Posted by GennieWeird cus it's not that Geminis AREN'T jealous and possessive. People think it's such an aloof sign, but definitely not the case. It's great that that Air energy breaks up the usually very serious Scorpio-ness with your guy though. My Scorp (not sure his Moon I'll have to check) was such the stereotype of Scorpio.
The Scorpio I'm dating has a Gem moon and matches nothing like some of other Scorpios with jealousy and possessiveness. Completely different experience, so I think thats a good outlook to have.
Posted by ashley1734Ahh yeah my ex had his Moon in Pisces. Explains so much haha. Most sentimental and sensitive man I've ever met.Posted by GennieWeird cus it's not that Geminis AREN'T jealous and possessive. People think it's such an aloof sign, but definitely not the case. It's great that that Air energy breaks up the usually very serious Scorpio-ness with your guy though. My Scorp (not sure his Moon I'll have to check) was such the stereotype of Scorpio.
The Scorpio I'm dating has a Gem moon and matches nothing like some of other Scorpios with jealousy and possessiveness. Completely different experience, so I think thats a good outlook to have.click to expand
Posted by ashley1734Thats interesting because i think if the sun scorpio is paired with a water moon it just feeds the issue. Fire moons brings out the aggression possibly.Posted by GennieWeird cus it's not that Geminis AREN'T jealous and possessive. People think it's such an aloof sign, but definitely not the case. It's great that that Air energy breaks up the usually very serious Scorpio-ness with your guy though. My Scorp (not sure his Moon I'll have to check) was such the stereotype of Scorpio.
The Scorpio I'm dating has a Gem moon and matches nothing like some of other Scorpios with jealousy and possessiveness. Completely different experience, so I think thats a good outlook to have.click to expand
Posted by GennieWell, I can say with certainty that he had both sides of the coin to him.Posted by ashley1734Thats interesting because i think if the sun scorpio is paired with a water moon it just feeds the issue. Fire moons brings out the aggression possibly.Posted by GennieWeird cus it's not that Geminis AREN'T jealous and possessive. People think it's such an aloof sign, but definitely not the case. It's great that that Air energy breaks up the usually very serious Scorpio-ness with your guy though. My Scorp (not sure his Moon I'll have to check) was such the stereotype of Scorpio.
The Scorpio I'm dating has a Gem moon and matches nothing like some of other Scorpios with jealousy and possessiveness. Completely different experience, so I think thats a good outlook to have.click to expand
When he drank, he could be SO mean, so possessive, so jealous and infuriating (why we broke up). But the times he wasn't drunk and actually even certain times when he was drunk, it was the most flowery words, he would write me poetry and check the air pressure in my tires and tell me he loved me a million times a day. It was hard to break away from that bond...in fact, we really never have, we just know we don't work out as a couple. We still try every year or so when both of us are single. Always has the same conclusion.
Sign sun wise, Aquas and Scorps are supposed to be scrappy. But take into account his Gem moon and my Aqua Moon, and it makes the sun signs more friendly, like two puppies.
i agree most people don't think Geminis have anything but air in the head. Which is totally wrong, Gems are sensitive, have to be with all that mutable energy. Virgos too. So you have very mutable energy,
i agree most people don't think Geminis have anything but air in the head. Which is totally wrong, Gems are sensitive, have to be with all that mutable energy. Virgos too. So you have very mutable energy,
Posted by ashley1734What was his Mars?Posted by GennieWell, I can say with certainty that he had both sides of the coin to him.Posted by ashley1734Thats interesting because i think if the sun scorpio is paired with a water moon it just feeds the issue. Fire moons brings out the aggression possibly.Posted by GennieWeird cus it's not that Geminis AREN'T jealous and possessive. People think it's such an aloof sign, but definitely not the case. It's great that that Air energy breaks up the usually very serious Scorpio-ness with your guy though. My Scorp (not sure his Moon I'll have to check) was such the stereotype of Scorpio.
The Scorpio I'm dating has a Gem moon and matches nothing like some of other Scorpios with jealousy and possessiveness. Completely different experience, so I think thats a good outlook to have.
When he drank, he could be SO mean, so possessive, so jealous and infuriating (why we broke up). But the times he wasn't drunk and actually even certain times when he was drunk, it was the most flowery words, he would write me poetry and check the air pressure in my tires and tell me he loved me a million times a day. It was hard to break away from that bond...in fact, we really never have, we just know we don't work out as a couple. We still try every year or so when both of us are single. Always has the same conclusion.click to expand
Posted by GennieSo do you think with my last Cap (with Aqua Moon) his aloofness was probably more due to his Venus in Aquarius?
Sign sun wise, Aquas and Scorps are supposed to be scrappy. But take into account his Gem moon and my Aqua Moon, and it makes the sun signs more friendly, like two puppies.
i agree most people don't think Geminis have anything but air in the head. Which is totally wrong, Gems are sensitive, have to be with all that mutable energy. Virgos too. So you have very mutable energy,
Posted by GennieMars in SagPosted by ashley1734What was his Mars?Posted by GennieWell, I can say with certainty that he had both sides of the coin to him.Posted by ashley1734Thats interesting because i think if the sun scorpio is paired with a water moon it just feeds the issue. Fire moons brings out the aggression possibly.Posted by GennieWeird cus it's not that Geminis AREN'T jealous and possessive. People think it's such an aloof sign, but definitely not the case. It's great that that Air energy breaks up the usually very serious Scorpio-ness with your guy though. My Scorp (not sure his Moon I'll have to check) was such the stereotype of Scorpio.
The Scorpio I'm dating has a Gem moon and matches nothing like some of other Scorpios with jealousy and possessiveness. Completely different experience, so I think thats a good outlook to have.
When he drank, he could be SO mean, so possessive, so jealous and infuriating (why we broke up). But the times he wasn't drunk and actually even certain times when he was drunk, it was the most flowery words, he would write me poetry and check the air pressure in my tires and tell me he loved me a million times a day. It was hard to break away from that bond...in fact, we really never have, we just know we don't work out as a couple. We still try every year or so when both of us are single. Always has the same conclusion.click to expand
Posted by muffle_kerfuffleAhh ok another interesting possible link.
Moon and merc are earth signs, and given we are mercury ruled, we're very social. So I'd say your emotions and communication, something we value, so that might explain it.
It just seemed too coincidental that over the years I kept (and still keep) being drawn toward Caps. No matter if they are physically what I would normally be attracted to or not.
Posted by ashley1734Cap with Venus in Aqua, the eternal relationship shopper. And an Aqua moon that makes its easier to hop. Ouch.Posted by GennieSo do you think with my last Cap (with Aqua Moon) his aloofness was probably more due to his Venus in Aquarius?
Sign sun wise, Aquas and Scorps are supposed to be scrappy. But take into account his Gem moon and my Aqua Moon, and it makes the sun signs more friendly, like two puppies.
i agree most people don't think Geminis have anything but air in the head. Which is totally wrong, Gems are sensitive, have to be with all that mutable energy. Virgos too. So you have very mutable energy,click to expand
Posted by GennieYeah...at first I felt bad for myself for being sprung on such a guy, but now that I've gathered myself and can see it clearer, I feel bad for him.Posted by ashley1734Cap with Venus in Aqua, the eternal relationship shopper. And an Aqua moon that makes its easier to hop. Ouch.Posted by GennieSo do you think with my last Cap (with Aqua Moon) his aloofness was probably more due to his Venus in Aquarius?
Sign sun wise, Aquas and Scorps are supposed to be scrappy. But take into account his Gem moon and my Aqua Moon, and it makes the sun signs more friendly, like two puppies.
i agree most people don't think Geminis have anything but air in the head. Which is totally wrong, Gems are sensitive, have to be with all that mutable energy. Virgos too. So you have very mutable energy,click to expand
they're cold with you. And you like it.
Posted by ashley1734Mars in Sags can turn into ugly people when the argument doesn't go their way. They have the same anger management issues that Mars in cancer people can have.Posted by GennieMars in SagPosted by ashley1734What was his Mars?Posted by GennieWell, I can say with certainty that he had both sides of the coin to him.Posted by ashley1734Thats interesting because i think if the sun scorpio is paired with a water moon it just feeds the issue. Fire moons brings out the aggression possibly.Posted by GennieWeird cus it's not that Geminis AREN'T jealous and possessive. People think it's such an aloof sign, but definitely not the case. It's great that that Air energy breaks up the usually very serious Scorpio-ness with your guy though. My Scorp (not sure his Moon I'll have to check) was such the stereotype of Scorpio.
The Scorpio I'm dating has a Gem moon and matches nothing like some of other Scorpios with jealousy and possessiveness. Completely different experience, so I think thats a good outlook to have.
When he drank, he could be SO mean, so possessive, so jealous and infuriating (why we broke up). But the times he wasn't drunk and actually even certain times when he was drunk, it was the most flowery words, he would write me poetry and check the air pressure in my tires and tell me he loved me a million times a day. It was hard to break away from that bond...in fact, we really never have, we just know we don't work out as a couple. We still try every year or so when both of us are single. Always has the same conclusion.click to expand
Posted by GennieOh yes and combine that with a drinking problem and it was very easy to forget my poetry-writing, cuddling little Scorpion.Posted by ashley1734Mars in Sags can turn into ugly people when the argument doesn't go their way. They have the same anger management issues that Mars in cancer people can have.Posted by GennieMars in SagPosted by ashley1734What was his Mars?Posted by GennieWell, I can say with certainty that he had both sides of the coin to him.Posted by ashley1734Thats interesting because i think if the sun scorpio is paired with a water moon it just feeds the issue. Fire moons brings out the aggression possibly.Posted by GennieWeird cus it's not that Geminis AREN'T jealous and possessive. People think it's such an aloof sign, but definitely not the case. It's great that that Air energy breaks up the usually very serious Scorpio-ness with your guy though. My Scorp (not sure his Moon I'll have to check) was such the stereotype of Scorpio.
The Scorpio I'm dating has a Gem moon and matches nothing like some of other Scorpios with jealousy and possessiveness. Completely different experience, so I think thats a good outlook to have.
When he drank, he could be SO mean, so possessive, so jealous and infuriating (why we broke up). But the times he wasn't drunk and actually even certain times when he was drunk, it was the most flowery words, he would write me poetry and check the air pressure in my tires and tell me he loved me a million times a day. It was hard to break away from that bond...in fact, we really never have, we just know we don't work out as a couple. We still try every year or so when both of us are single. Always has the same conclusion.click to expand
related but tangential topic. Is a seriously detached aqua attaching to a cuddly yet possessive Scorpio as a form of emotional cutting just to feel something?
Posted by GenniePerhaps, but maybe the better way to look at it is that the Aqua needs love too and is thus attracted to someone who is loving and outward with their emotions (good or bad). They are attracted to the traits they wish they could maybe develop in themselves, or the traits they are afraid of.
related but tangential topic. Is a seriously detached aqua attaching to a cuddly yet possessive Scorpio as a form of emotional cutting just to feel something?
interesting theory. I can see what Muffle was saying about your Tauran Mercury. Very matter of fact, likes to communicate by gathering as much information as possible before committing to a train of thought.
Posted by GennieEternal researcher. 😄
interesting theory. I can see what Muffle was saying about your Tauran Mercury. Very matter of fact, likes to communicate by gathering as much information as possible before committing to a train of thought.
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