Love & Hip Hop, Taurus - Virgo love

So yes I watch love & hip hop and would really like to know if anyone else gives themselves a facepalm when they see Tahiry go back to Joe Budden time and time again. I mean, come onnn. Who wants him anyways?? I met him before and he is not at all pleasant in person.
She is a Taurus and he is a Virgo. Is there some tie with these two signs or something?
Please Tahiry, move the eff on, cut all ties and do not look back. I will give you a little scorpio push!

They are compatible. That's how it be sometimes.

Worse than that, I just learned Peter Gunz is a Capricorn smh. Thank goodness Tahiry isn't with her other compatible sign.

She'll move on when she's 100% done.

i do hope so! i feel like she can do so much better & i feel like joe knows he has a hold on her.

& whattt? peter gunz is a cap?? that would have been my last guess. what a mess

right tiziani, i feel like they both have deeper rooted issues but even more why they need to find other people

I dated a Taurus before. Never again!!

Lol it really is. Guilty pleasure!

Their toxic obsession with each other has nothing to do with astrology at this point!!

I'm no longer believing that Tahiry is just this great awesome woman who needs to run from this oh so toxic man. She's done a lot of wrong too. Hell, any woman who finds that level of toxic to be cute or desirable is just as crazy as the man whose toxic!

She tries to play for the cameras & the world like she's this "Take no non-sense" business woman who refuses to settle & won't let anyone get over on her. But the proof is in the pudding. She DOES take nonsense. She DOES let people get over on her. She DOES have low-self esteem. And she DOES condone his cheating. She condones it, encourages it & enables it to continue every single time she steps foot back into his house & takes him back.

So I don't feel sorry for her anymore. She wants Joe Budden but yet won't face the fact that some of the demons he's got come with the territory of being with him. Joe Budden and his demons are a package deal!

She's constantly trying to blame him for why she can't stay away from him. And that's where she's going wrong. She needs to accept responsibility & own up to the fact that her OWN low-self esteem is the reason she keeps going back, & not b/c Joe Budden is the biggest master manipulator in the world! Joe Budden is giving her what he's always given her: Putting bullsh**t in a pot & trying to call it love. And she's still eating it up every single time. That's not his fault, that's her fault.

Good points!

I'm not sleeping on that Kaylin girl though lol b/c she wasn't with him long enough to say that he would've done her any differently than he did Tahiry. 6 months vs. 10 years. HUGE difference. The Scorpio probably came out of fire unhurt b/c she didn't sit in the cooker for long enough! lol

I don't have respect for women like Tahiry. I don't condone the things Joe has put her through, but SHE does condone them, hence the reason I don't respect her.

Tahiry is nothing more than a dominant doormat. She thinks all the screaming, fussing & fighting in the world will change who Joe is and what Joe does, but all of that kicking and screaming means nothing if you're still gonna knock on his door & go back to him after it's all said & done. Women like this feel they are somehow sticking up for themselves when they find out they've been betrayed & put him in the dog house for it. If only she realized that leaving a man who you've gotta put in the dog house 1,000 times is what you call sticking up for yourself!

Ugh hes a Virgo. No wonder 🙂

^ lol i know right.

i thought i had responded, but i dont see my post! ughh

i agree with you ladies to an extent. i think Tahiry comes off strong just because she gets riled up from her past issues with joe. but i guess a women in love is dumb lol. She def is a fool for continuing this relationship. like i said, i dont understand it. i feel like there is something deeper. i dont know, like some deeper ties that keep them going back to each other. toxic? yes!

i have seen that taurus can be pretty naive when it comes to relationships. Could this be it? ive seen how he talks to her and i think to myself i would have dropped him so quick. he is disrespectful and condescending, but she keeps saying she cares so much about him. i am sorry but my dignity is greater than caring for someone who treats me the way he treats her! but its true, he knows he can get away with it.

i applaud kaylin as a scorp for leaving him with her head held high after what he pulled! sheesh

Well Kaylin was smart...She saw how he mistreated his ex & other women & wasn't willing to be the dumb fool in believing that she'd get treated any differently

She wanted his money, his slinger & the bragging rights to be able to say that she "had" Joe Budden. Once she got her 5 minutes on Tv, some good dick & a few "gifts," she was good to go lol

I don't agree with slut-tendencies but the 1 things she did RIGHT was in not believing that she'd be any different. Tahiry could learn a lot from her. But oh wait, she can't b/c she's too busy arguing with Joe about the 1500 girls that come over just to "sit" on his bed. Smh

Hell no there's nothing "deeper" going on. She's just using the fact that they've known each other for a long time as an excuse & a disguise for her low-self esteem. Knowing a man for 10 years is NOT a free pass to be a doormat. She's with Joe b/c she doesn't believe she deserves better & neither does Joe...that's why he won't give her "better."

I think JB is a total mindfuck....

Just watched tonight's episode. She swears she's done but I don't believe her. She wasn't mad enough. She went to a counseling session with him AFTER the fact. Women don't go to counseling sessions with a man unless a part of them (even if it's just 1% ) still has hope for the relationship.

Tahiry is a dominant doormat. She thinks breaking up with him for a week or giving him the "hurt woman's" speech will somehow make her look stronger & more esteemed than she really is. But the proof is in the pudding. She's still asking for an explanation to a question she already knows the answer to. She's not done

But they look so darn good together.

I think people are being a bit harsh. I don't watch the show like that, but every "perfectly" compatible relationship that I've known was drawn out with highs and lows, and didn't end when it probably should have.

From the Libra and Gemini couples, to Cap/Cap, Virgo/Taurus, Virgo/Cap, Cancer/Pisces, Scorpio/Pisces...the list continues. I've noticed people take MUCH more from their compatible signs than they would from others....and possibly because of comfort and the highs being so good. Not saying its right, but not abnormal imo.

Joe is an ugly pinhead. Tahiry should leave him for good; she can do much better. However, she has low self-esteem obviously; she'll go back.

Posted by krysrenee7
Just watched tonight's episode. She swears she's done but I don't believe her. She wasn't mad enough. She went to a counseling session with him AFTER the fact. Women don't go to counseling sessions with a man unless a part of them (even if it's just 1% ) still has hope for the relationship.

Tahiry is a dominant doormat. She thinks breaking up with him for a week or giving him the "hurt woman's" speech will somehow make her look stronger & more esteemed than she really is. But the proof is in the pudding. She's still asking for an explanation to a question she already knows the answer to. She's not done

i think its funny how joe gets her taurus behind so railed up. what she needs to do is the opposite. he knows he can get a rise out of her.

its true, she tries to act all big and bad, yet i see them in recent pics. my thing is just cut ties! they make a joke out of it now. even if you care about him, dont you care more about yourself?!

lets be honest, he will not be changing no matter how much therapy you two go through.

Posted by lnana04
But they look so darn good together.

I think people are being a bit harsh. I don't watch the show like that, but every "perfectly" compatible relationship that I've known was drawn out with highs and lows, and didn't end when it probably should have.

From the Libra and Gemini couples, to Cap/Cap, Virgo/Taurus, Virgo/Cap, Cancer/Pisces, Scorpio/Pisces...the list continues. I've noticed people take MUCH more from their compatible signs than they would from others....and possibly because of comfort and the highs being so good. Not saying its right, but not abnormal imo.

i dont know, i thought it was just between the water signs. otherwise the most compatible signs wouldn't be so compatible if they didnt balance out, no? i always see the dysfunctional ones being the ones that are not compatible.. leo/pisces, cancer/sag, sag/cap

i think its deeper than that. if they didnt have their own deep rooted issues as individuals, maybe things would be different. thats why astrology is not everything even with the most compatible signs imo

Posted by GemStar05
Joe is an ugly pinhead. Tahiry should leave him for good; she can do much better. However, she has low self-esteem obviously; she'll go back.

you hit every nail on the head here lol