Mars in Aquarius

I hate your stoic demeanor, when I am just about ready to blow up. Nothing makes me as furious as a guy with his Mars in Aquarius going "It's ok, I am not offended. I'm sorry you feel that way though". Makes me want to gouge your eyes out.

What's your trigger?

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Posted by RamOfPeace
I hate your stoic demeanor, when I am just about ready to blow up. Nothing makes me as furious as a guy with his Mars in Aquarius going "It's ok, I am not offended. I'm sorry you feel that way though". Makes me want to gouge your eyes out.

What's your trigger?

LOL. My dad is an aquarius mars. When he gets angry he never raises his voice, he just changes his voice tone. It's eerily scary.

And he rarely loses his temper.

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Losing temper is not even a scenario with Aquarius Mars man.

Posted by RamOfPeace
I hate your stoic demeanor, when I am just about ready to blow up. Nothing makes me as furious as a guy with his Mars in Aquarius going "It's ok, I am not offended. I'm sorry you feel that way though". Makes me want to gouge your eyes out.

What's your trigger?

I always say "It's ok, I am not offended" when I want to piss somebody off on purpose.

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Posted by RamOfPeace
I hate your stoic demeanor, when I am just about ready to blow up. Nothing makes me as furious as a guy with his Mars in Aquarius going "It's ok, I am not offended. I'm sorry you feel that way though". Makes me want to gouge your eyes out.

What's your trigger?

I always say "It's ok, I am not offended" when I want to piss somebody off on purpose.

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Yes. That. Fuck. Fuck those guys. *mars in Gemini here*

This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

Posted by RamOfPeace
This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

Why should he be furious because you're furious?

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Posted by RamOfPeace
This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

Why should he be furious because you're furious?

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I'm not saying that he should be, just stating my reaction. In truth, nothing pisses off a woman scorned or offended more, than a guy with such reaction. Well played, indeed.

Btw... "softly apologetic" is not Aquarius Mars.

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Posted by RamOfPeace
This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

That's kind of hot actually lol. I like a man who never loses his cool.

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What's more, he watches my reaction to it and it makes him smile, twinkle eyed even. Gives me a mixed feeling of wanting to rip his face off and his shirt off. It's moghty embarassing.

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Btw... "softly apologetic" is not Aquarius Mars.

Pardon, I guess it's more "detached and thorough" with him. A.k.a. letting you down gently, but with no emotion attached in it. I guess I consider that soft, given the abindance of Gem and Aqua in me.

What makes you lose your temper in the first place?

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Posted by RamOfPeace
This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

That's kind of hot actually lol. I like a man who never loses his cool.

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Thanks.

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This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

That's kind of hot actually lol. I like a man who never loses his cool.

Thanks.

So are you really not mad, or do you like to drive the rest of us mere mortals crazy. 😛

I'm a libra mars so for me its easy to appear unbothered, but I'm really pissed.

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Actually, Libra mars is one the easiest to spot for us 😛

Truth is we are bothered...not by what you say but by the fact people can't argue without raising their voice.

i have this placement.
it suits me well in dark
times. calmness works.

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Posted by RamOfPeace
This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

That's kind of hot actually lol. I like a man who never loses his cool.

Thanks.

So are you really not mad, or do you like to drive the rest of us mere mortals crazy. 😛

I'm a libra mars so for me its easy to appear unbothered, but I'm really pissed.

Actually, Libra mars is one the easiest to spot for us 😛

Truth is we are bothered...not by what you say but by the fact people can't argue without raising their voice.

LOL. That's a pet peeve of mine too. People who can't argue without yelling, and people who can't disagree without name calling.

Why are libra mars easy to spot?

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Because they seem to be annoyed by the same things, which on the other end, give them the potential to be one of the few placement that can really drive us crazy, if they want to.

Same delicate spots.

Posted by TachibanaSan
i have this placement.
it suits me well in dark
times. calmness works.

It's perfect for women, along with Aqua Venus.

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Posted by RamOfPeace
I hate your stoic demeanor, when I am just about ready to blow up. Nothing makes me as furious as a guy with his Mars in Aquarius going "It's ok, I am not offended. I'm sorry you feel that way though". Makes me want to gouge your eyes out.

What's your trigger?

LOL. My dad is an aquarius mars. When he gets angry he never raises his voice, he just changes his voice tone. It's eerily scary.

And he rarely loses his temper.

Losing temper is not even a scenario with Aquarius Mars man.

Yeah. OK.

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Care to elaborate?

Posted by RamOfPeace
This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

he knows it does, hence why he does it. yes i know it's sick and twisted but its a dark side of Aqua in general or it can be.

Just like gem moon loves to troll others, Aqua placments do similiar shit but we are cold about it and that gets to other people. but deep down we really aren't cold, we just are so well gaurded you won't ever see it unless we want you too.

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Posted by TachibanaSan
i have this placement.
it suits me well in dark
times. calmness works.

It's perfect for women, along with Aqua Venus.

I wish everyone felt this way about aqua venus women. Most people find our love style confusing.

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Mentally challenging yet drama free what's not to like?

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Posted by RamOfPeace
I hate your stoic demeanor, when I am just about ready to blow up. Nothing makes me as furious as a guy with his Mars in Aquarius going "It's ok, I am not offended. I'm sorry you feel that way though". Makes me want to gouge your eyes out.

What's your trigger?

LOL. My dad is an aquarius mars. When he gets angry he never raises his voice, he just changes his voice tone. It's eerily scary.

And he rarely loses his temper.

Losing temper is not even a scenario with Aquarius Mars man.

Yeah. OK.

Care to elaborate?

to be fair, it does depend on moon placement

i find mars in aquarius to be so secretive and i just cant understand the motive of this placement half the time

this is coming from aqua mooner

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I believe Aquarius sun is the only one that can relate.

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Posted by RamOfPeace
I hate your stoic demeanor, when I am just about ready to blow up. Nothing makes me as furious as a guy with his Mars in Aquarius going "It's ok, I am not offended. I'm sorry you feel that way though". Makes me want to gouge your eyes out.

What's your trigger?

LOL. My dad is an aquarius mars. When he gets angry he never raises his voice, he just changes his voice tone. It's eerily scary.

And he rarely loses his temper.

Losing temper is not even a scenario with Aquarius Mars man.

Yeah. OK.

Care to elaborate?

to be fair, it does depend on moon placement

i find mars in aquarius to be so secretive and i just cant understand the motive of this placement half the time

this is coming from aqua mooner

I believe Aquarius sun is the only one that can relate.

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*nod*

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Posted by RamOfPeace
I hate your stoic demeanor, when I am just about ready to blow up. Nothing makes me as furious as a guy with his Mars in Aquarius going "It's ok, I am not offended. I'm sorry you feel that way though". Makes me want to gouge your eyes out.

What's your trigger?

LOL. My dad is an aquarius mars. When he gets angry he never raises his voice, he just changes his voice tone. It's eerily scary.

And he rarely loses his temper.

Losing temper is not even a scenario with Aquarius Mars man.

Yeah. OK.

Care to elaborate?

to be fair, it does depend on moon placement

i find mars in aquarius to be so secretive and i just cant understand the motive of this placement half the time

this is coming from aqua mooner

I believe Aquarius sun is the only one that can relate.

sun in aqua are pretty straightforward

in love, this mars placement feels uncomfortable

good relationship with others who are not intimate partners

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Sorry, I meant an Aquarius sun woman is the only one who can truly understand the behaviour in love of an Aquarius mars man.

Aqua mars is not a secret.

Posted by RamOfPeace
This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

Yes, Rational is how we roll. No drama, no yelling, no temper tantrum. Just cold, hard logic.

When I'm really pissed off, I will slow my speech and speak in a soft, direct, purposeful tone.

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This guy is just softly apologetic and wants to be friends, but it seems that the fact that I am furious and irritable has no effect on him. Zero. He's perfectly rational. It's insane. It drives ME insane.

Why should he be furious because you're furious?

I'm not saying that he should be, just stating my reaction. In truth, nothing pisses off a woman scorned or offended more, than a guy with such reaction. Well played, indeed.

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Why does it piss you off? I mean, are you wanting a shouting match? He's patiently allowing you to say your peace without interrupting or talking over you. I don't understand how his reaction causes you to have more anger.

Ohhhh, you're an Aries sun. He's letting you throw your temper tantrum and stays quiet because he knows one you say what you have to say, you'll be over it shortly. 😉

Posted by truecap
Ohhhh, you're an Aries sun. He's letting you throw your temper tantrum and stays quiet because he knows one you say what you have to say, you'll be over it shortly. 😉

That's how this mars in aqua deals with the aries in her life, anyway.

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Posted by RamOfPeace
I hate your stoic demeanor, when I am just about ready to blow up. Nothing makes me as furious as a guy with his Mars in Aquarius going "It's ok, I am not offended. I'm sorry you feel that way though". Makes me want to gouge your eyes out.

What's your trigger?

What's his Sun sign? I'm dealing with a guy with Mars in Aqua at the moment and he really gets on my nerves..
I'm Gemini with Aries rising btw.

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Sadge

Within last year I notice that a lot of Sadge and Aqua placements, particularly suns, come with a personal planet in Cap, ranging from 1 placement to a stellium.

Ir maybe it's because I keep dating men from 81-83 yr range.

Cap moons stick to me though, and it's never easy. But always valuable. First Aqua Mars I ever dealt with though.

I guess the Cap factor also comes with the fact that my generation (90-92) has Uranus and Neptune conjunct in Cap. Which automatically projects us in conjunctioj to anybody's emotional planets (moon, venus, mars) in Cap, regardless of the sun.

Posted by RamOfPeace
What's more, he watches my reaction to it and it makes him smile, twinkle eyed even. Gives me a mixed feeling of wanting to rip his face off and his shirt off. It's moghty embarassing.

bwhahahahaha...

ah, to stay chill and relaxed knowing you're driving sexual tension in someone and then that in turn drives sexual tension through you...

i have aries placements, that's our default reaction...the bash your head in/fuck you sideways approach. they know how to play on that.

you could easily defuse it if you wanted. no emotional reaction, no rile up. tell them they are right and sigh because even if they think they are right..they want people to put on a fight. tell them to explain it all to you because you just don't get it...and you'll see them deflate because they wanted a worthy adversary. and then make a passing remark that shows that you did get it and smirk at them and they'll be all over you.

don't lose your cool, until you should. 😈

Oh my, I'm in love â¤

It IS a great placement based on whatever I read on this thread!

I would love a bedtime story about an Aquarius Mars getting mad.