Moon sign and reaction in extreme situations

2 years ago I was in a car crash with my ex bf, first thing that pops into my mind after the car stopped spinning was "I gotta take my bag and phone " ;o Yesterday Im in my bf apartment chilling alone, I hear someone walking at the kitchen(at least I thought so), I freak out, get up and quietly get out of there and lock the door. I'm already outside and I'm thinking, dude, if there's a thief inside, there's a chance he's gonna steal the ps4 if he's got someone else helping him. So i go back and check and there's no one in the appartement. Anyways, I'M CAP MOON, am I a materialistic fck? What about your moon signs and similar situations?

lol I'm crazy like that too virgo sun cap moon

Wow ...ha your pic...just jarred me ..never mind.

I just get through extreme situations as I can. I try not to think about what's going on.

Posted by Neno2
I always try to calm the situation😃

I can definitely say i don't have that trait or ability.

PiscesMoon, SagMercury: think of everything, prioritize, call police|emergency, damage limititation.

Once I was present in a car crash experience and all I was interested in was to control that no other car gets into the problem. that my driver is ok and does not overestimate his power|health. that I check everything he helds for fact.

He was a Virgo Rooster and reacted very well to me. I bet some dominant aso would try to do everything alone and tell me keep quiet.

I’m usually the calmest one in an actual crisis. It’s really strange because little things set me off like crumbs on the counter I just cleaned, or dishes in the sink. It’s not that hard to just open the dishwasher, lol.

But when something serious happens I go into this help everyone else mode and don’t think of myself much.

We all react differently, your way or my way isn’t wrong or right. I think I’m usually in shock to be honest. When my son passed away, I was at work.

I’ll never get over the guilt. I was actually relieved he was asleep when I got home. He always wanted to be held, and he really seemed to calm down a lot when I’m Yours played on the radio and I’d hold him and sing it to him.

After an hour I asked my ex how long he was napping because it seemed too long for him, and he went to check on him.

He brought him out and he was already gone. My ex said, is he supposed to look like this? Think my ex was in shock too. His lips were blue and sunken in. I yelled to my oldest to call 911, and my ex tried giving him cpr while on the phone with the 911 person.

I was in shock I think. My kids were all crying and sitting in a circle, hugging each other in the kitchen.

And when we followed the ambulance to the hospital I kept thinking I should’ve put on my regular shoes, I’m still wearing my work ones. I don’t know why that thought kept going through my head? I think I couldn’t deal with what I knew they were going to tell me.

It made no sense. Then all my sisters were there, my parents, his sisters and brother, all just staring at me waiting for me to breakdown. A nurse gave me a tissue box, and I was just holding him and they cried and watched me. I couldn’t even cry.

In my head I wished they would all go away and let me be alone with him.

Ok so I took this too far. It’s just almost his birthday and I needed to get that out. Sorry 😐

Back to the post, I was strong for everyone else and falling apart inside. That’s usually how I operate, then flip on little things for like two minutes and then get over it.

Posted by ellesbelles
@HippieGem

I am so sorry for your loss.

*tight hugs*

Thanks Elle 🤗 I think it’s so wrong for a child to die before a parent. But it happens though.

I’m at the point where I appreciate his short time here and I wouldn’t change a thing. I’m glad I had that time with him, and everyone else did. My oldest Aries son and I used to argue over who was holding him. No one wanted to let go of that little guy, lol.

I couldn’t talk about it at first, people don’t know what to say and that’s understandable. Nothing anyone says can make that better. Time is a beautiful thing.

Not something you ever get over, but can appreciate and be grateful for the memories even if it didn’t end how you want.