Most Shallow and Superficial signs?

I've noticed this a lot with Aries, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, and Sagittarius. I don't understand. Why be like that? I'm saying all people from those signs are like that, but I've seen it happen too much. Like this Aries chick I know at my job. She can never have a good relationship, EVER!..... She always talks about how she wants to be with a dude that's like Prince charming, with the face of the dude from one direction and the body of a supermodel. She sets her standards way too high for anyone and I believe that's why she is single right now. She can only scratch the surface of the guys she with, never the inside. If someone else hotter came along she would very quick to jump the gun on that. Then the Virgo women I have been with must've saw me as perfect in their eyes because whenever I showed up on the scene ; I didn't even do anything. I became friends with a few on facebook and they were already asking me out, to which I rejected them; well a few of them. Though I did fall in love with a Virgo woman, it was the smoothest relationship I ever had. Sex was the bomb! Enough said. Cancer, don't even get me started on that. It's very complicated with them and as they say that they have bad mood swings I think their tastes and likes can change along with them because that's happened a few times before and the results were not pretty. I don't understand superficial people. It's like they'll stay with a man or woman just because they're hot or they give good sex and they seem very oblivious to the fact that they're stealing from them, beating them, or just plain out right using them. And then my mom, she a Libra. But she is just as shallow and superficial as anyone else. I love her to death, but I honestly think she should learn to change her ways. She talks trash behind everyone's back, she has crazy ass mood swings and flips out on my sister for no reason at all. Though when she does flip out on my brother it feels really justified because I can reason with her on that, just not my sister. Though I know my mom would never let any man screw her over because she chases them out with a knife or gun with the intent to kill, my mom crazy! But I love her. Which signs do you think are the most Superficial?

Well take into consideration age & maturity. Astrology is usually not the problem or the common denominator

If all of these people you mentioned are in their 20's for example, it shouldn't be surprising that they're more shallow/immature than they'd be persay they were in their 30's or 40s

To answer your question though...if there's 1 sign that I'd consider the most superficial it'd be Aries. I'd rather not say why I feel that way b/c I don't want to be attacked (lmao) but nonetheless, that has been my experience.

Superficial is of course bad, but keep in mind though that sometimes superficial relations turn into deeper connections & love. These kinds of relationships may take more work & effort to last b/c it's def. a struggle trying to get someone to love you for who you are when all they really wanna do is love what you can do for them or love the aspect of love itself. BUT it is possible for the most shallow person to fall in love with the 1 person they least expected.

Posted by Sn1p3r187
Then the Virgo women I have been with must've saw me as perfect in their eyes because whenever I showed up on the scene ; I didn't even do anything. I became friends with a few on facebook and they were already asking me out, to which I rejected them; well a few of them. Though I did fall in love with a Virgo woman, it was the smoothest relationship I ever had. Sex was the bomb! Enough said.

So Virgo is a shallow and superficial sign because you rejected a few women that asked you out and had good sex with another one.

Posted by krysrenee7
Well take into consideration age & maturity. Astrology is usually not the problem or the common denominator

If all of these people you mentioned are in their 20's for example, it shouldn't be surprising that they're more shallow/immature than they'd be persay they were in their 30's or 40s

To answer your question though...if there's 1 sign that I'd consider the most superficial it'd be Aries. I'd rather not say why I feel that way b/c I don't want to be attacked (lmao) but nonetheless, that has been my experience.

Superficial is of course bad, but keep in mind though that sometimes superficial relations turn into deeper connections & love. These kinds of relationships may take more work & effort to last b/c it's def. a struggle trying to get someone to love you for who you are when all they really wanna do is love what you can do for them or love the aspect of love itself. BUT it is possible for the most shallow person to fall in love with the 1 person they least expected.

Sounds like something out of a movie. Wonder if that typically happens. Oh dear god I hope that doesn't happen to me. But I'm better off where I'm at. I likes it to stay that way yes.

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Posted by Sn1p3r187
Then the Virgo women I have been with must've saw me as perfect in their eyes because whenever I showed up on the scene ; I didn't even do anything. I became friends with a few on facebook and they were already asking me out, to which I rejected them; well a few of them. Though I did fall in love with a Virgo woman, it was the smoothest relationship I ever had. Sex was the bomb! Enough said.

So Virgo is a shallow and superficial sign because you rejected a few women that asked you out and had good sex with another one.

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Nah, because the last few only went after me because they thought I was hot. It really irritated me. The other one, was a bit different. She wasn't after looks at all, we mainly related through intelligence since we both studied physics and liked the concept of it. I have yet to meet another Virgo that isn't after me purely for looks or anything else. No offense to them.

This is where I should just nod, smile, and walk away lol.

Posted by MissFisk
You've come to this conclusion at the ripe, wise age of.... 19.

Either that or I have had too much to drink. I'm betting on the latter.

You know what, that one dude was right. I think I am superficial for calling other people superficial. Just like Eminem who finds that one dude offensive for calling him offensive. I think we're all superficial in a way. So who was I to say that other people were when I was being that. This thread actually feels really stupid now. And MissFisk is right, I'll leave conclusions at my death bed.

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Posted by Sn1p3r187
You know what, that one dude was right. I think I am superficial for calling other people superficial. Just like Eminem who finds that one dude offensive for calling him offensive. I think we're all superficial in a way. So who was I to say that other people were when I was being that. This thread actually feels really stupid now. And MissFisk is right, I'll leave conclusions at my death bed.

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Ummmm... What? What were you trying to say?

Posted by Sn1p3r187
You know what, that one dude was right. I think I am superficial for calling other people superficial. Just like Eminem who finds that one dude offensive for calling him offensive. I think we're all superficial in a way. So who was I to say that other people were when I was being that. This thread actually feels really stupid now. And MissFisk is right, I'll leave conclusions at my death bed.

I think I was that guy. :>

While I agree with most of the forumers here that you are way too young to form these conclusions and that it is a huge disservice to yourself to completely shut off all these signs just because you think they are superficial, I think it is favorable to yourself to make some analysis out of other people. At least it is a start, and that will enable you to look deeper upon yourself and other people and speed up your maturity.

I agree with MissFisk, do not come into a conclusion. Just don't. You're way too young to form any conclusion as to what people think. You won't realize that until you're 25 or 26. At 19 or 20, you'd often think that you're mature enough to grasp everything. But that's completely wrong because you still need LIFE EXPERIENCES you ought to LEARN. Come back at age 25/26. Let's see if you still have the same observations.

Another, it is definitely unfavorable to anyone to completely shut off other signs just because of certain unfavorable characteristics they see in people of the same signs. Each sign has something good to contribute to the whole world. Once you unlock these good things, I bet, you won't make the same conclusions again.

It's not that I think you are superficial. From what I see, you just make the wrong judgments. All because you still lack maturity. But this is not something to worry about because you're merely 19! Just enjoy life today and learn life's experiences! Have fun!

I think I'm "old enough." I think :>

Thanks scorched. 🙂

Yay! I'm YOUNG!!!!! 🙂!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You're 19. Everyone your age is superficial and shallow.

None of those signs are superficial; just the people YOU know are...a few folks who happen to be those signs. *shrug*

Young people usually aren't as wise as their elders b/c the only reason their elders are so wise in the 1st place is b/c they've lived long enough to allow their experiences to translate into wisdom!

However, some older folks are very stuck in their ways & hold onto beliefs/traditions that don't even make sense OR that meshed better with the generation/society they used to live in. Things have changed & will always change but elders often struggle with this. They think that their way in the 50's should be how it should remain lol It's a lot harder to correct someone whose a lot older, which is even worse b/c they're giving the wrong advice to the youngins' that actually listen to them!

honestly,being shallow & superficial is the best way to be in life in general..it prevents you from dealing with petty bullshit pretty much..you judge things swiftly & be done,and let the suckers of the world focus on weak people problems & emotions

As someone mentioned above: "Well take into consideration age & maturity. Astrology is usually not the problem or the common denominator." That's right. Astrology is just a tool. Everything else depends on one's personal choices.

Each constellation, with its own unique mechanism, is a part of a whole evolutionary cycle on a very, very grand scale. Depending on the quality, the modality and their respectful elements, they possess different effects on the native for a purpose of all sorts, revealing more or less the chosen journey of every single person. Therefore, we face the karmic Law of Causality.

The signs are a part of the completion of a whole cycle. Each plays a very important role in this Matrix. You cannot remain only with your Yin side (Earth and Water) forever, simply because there are other forces to do their work in the evolutionary process. You cannot deny them, even if they appear to be "superficial" to you. They are always here and there for a very good reason.

I'm definitely not a superficial thinker, but I don't see the point of discriminating others for what they are, because each person can be very beneficial in many ways. It truly depends on your level of personal growth and consciousness, especially when you are able to find many hidden treasures among the ocean of differences. Arrr!

It seems that your understanding for psychological astrology isn't well developed enough. You tend to judge too quickly. You must understand that not everyone shares the same levels of depth as you do, and each one of us has qualities that others may lack, more or less. Just leave these folks to do their bidding and do your own thing. Everyone is capable of personal growth, and this really happens in . Sooner or later.

I hope you'll appreciate the constructive criticism.

And one more thing. My chart forms quite an interesting trio: Mercury in Virgo, Mars in Aries, and Pluto in Scorpio. Yes, that's correct. These three form a very powerful Yod and I have a serious mission to accomplish, so I'm very far from being superficial, LOL. Wish me luck!