ladylibra21
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You're spanking a baby?
Is he still in diapers? If not, he's young enough to still be having accidents .... and you hit him?
You should go directly to jail.
Ya ya P-Angel whatever you say.
Posted by ladylibra21For you to say it like the above, makes the suggestion that you hitting children has worked for you in the past. To say that it doesn't work, means that you know what it means to work, which means you have hit children in the past to know the characteristics of "work" with a child.
Spanking does not work with him .....
Posted by ladylibra21You were hitting these children, weren't you?
I worked child care for 3 years
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Whatever makes your twisted little heart happy P-Angel. Lol I love children and I am a very nurturing person and I use spanking as the very last resort when he is doing something dangerous. I don't spank other people's children.
Doesn't sound out of the ordinary to me I have a 2 year old who can be a maniac at times my best advice is consistency , following through and being on top of him . I don't spank ,his father does but he will laugh at him I think spanking is just teaching your child violence is a solution and really builds up aggression in them . You need to be consistent meaning he does something wrong even little you gotta stop him there you have to warn him and follow through don't let things go .be strict and eventually he'll understand better what not to do and the consequences and then life will be easier for you . Consequences for my 2 year old are time out , taking things away ( as well as privileges) and if he gets really bad I have to restrain him hold his body until he's calm enough . Follow through follow through don't say I'm gunna take your toy away or your going to your room and not mean it because then he will notice the inconsistency and try to get away with things.it takes A LOT of work and patience but in the end it will make it easier . You also have to understand these are terrible twos behavior like this is normal . An example of what I do .. Give child instructions, then warning ( you'll go to your room if you don't listen ) , consequences ( I'm going to count to 3 if you don't listen your going to your room , 123, goes to room if didn't listen .at first it's difficult but when you get into the routine it will almost always work .
His father has worked in childcare for 9 years the kids always listen to him and love him , he taught me a lot and to give no room for bad behavior . Like I said he will spank him (as a last resort) that's the only thing I do not agree with but he would never Spank another kid.
Jezz kids arent made out of sugar. We were all kids back than and let me tell ya, my mum spanked me when I crossed the line badly. And it worked. I didnt die cuz of that and neither did I hate my mum cuz of that. Today we laugh about it together. Dont let anyone make u feel bad about your way of raising your kid. If u feel its too much to handle than go and get help, talk to other mums etc. You can do it. I honestly hated all those spoiled brats who never got spanked and were talkin to their parents like some hood crack brat. No respect at all. For example its very common in asian culture to "punish" your kid like having to stay in ur room all day, a good spank on ur ass or even with the belt. Jesus... its your right to listen to ur own inner voice how to handle ur boy. I know maaaaany filipinos who got spanked etc with a broom haha or worst case the belt. All I'm trying to say is that NONE of them hates their parents!!! They have huge respect and laugh about it years after. No worry you'll be fine
Posted by AquaNextDoor
..... my mum spanked me when I crossed the line badly.
oh man, you must have been a really bad 2-yo, since your mother spanked you, and only when you crossed the line bad.
Good thing for her, right ...... because if you were crossing lines that bad at two years old, and she wasn't there to smack some sense into you ... then just imagine how terrible you'd be.
Posted by ladylibra21
I use spanking as the very last resort when he is doing something dangerous.
Which is just you backpedalling because you already referred to is as "tiff" .. and you described it as minor behavioural problems.
Hey, here's a thought ... maybe the reason why a 2 year old has such bad behavior is because his fucking mother is hitting him.
Posted by BetaBanana
Doesn't sound out of the ordinary to me ....
Really?
Hitting a 2 year old doesn't seem out of the ordinary.
Posted by P-AngelYou are really shitty in the way you try to conveigh your points and I mean in nearly ALL your replies, regardless of the topic..
Posted by ladylibra21
I use spanking as the very last resort when he is doing something dangerous.
Which is just you backpedalling because you already referred to is as "tiff" .. and you described it as minor behavioural problems.
Hey, here's a thought ... maybe the reason why a 2 year old has such bad behavior is because his fucking mother is hitting him.click to expand
Maybe the reason he is bad is because he is going through his "terrible two's?" You moron. That's the problem why too many kids are running around doing whatever the hell they want -their parents were too soft spoken while they were growing up, probably spoiling the living shit out of them. They read magazines and believed the P.C. bullshit. There is nothing wrong with good old fashioned discipline. Sometimes it's needed. When I was a kid, if I was bad I got spanked and pulled by the ear, especially if I threw a tantrum in public, granted that was in the 80's, kids got a smack all the time if they were bad! Of course mainstream media has now brainwashed the masses that it's child abuse if you smack your kid when they act up; Apparently it's also child abuse if you take a picture of your kid getting their first bath. What a crock of shit. She isn't beating her children. You know what? It does shape who you become and in a good way. You learn to respect your parents.
If you can't see that that then you are delusional.
Posted by tizianiI can even recall when I was in elementary school and if a kid was really bad, the parent got a call from the principle and got permission to paddle the kid!Posted by channingtatumsneckLOL what they should have given Roman years ago!
wooden spoon spankings!!!click to expand
Posted by gemguyaz34This. I'm thankful that my mum taught me respect. She is a good mum. Every parent has to make a choice how they teach their kids respect and shouldnt feel bad abozt it. Beating and spanking arent the same to me.Posted by P-AngelYou are really shitty in the way you try to conveigh your points and I mean in nearly ALL your replies, regardless of the topic..
Posted by ladylibra21
I use spanking as the very last resort when he is doing something dangerous.
Which is just you backpedalling because you already referred to is as "tiff" .. and you described it as minor behavioural problems.
Hey, here's a thought ... maybe the reason why a 2 year old has such bad behavior is because his fucking mother is hitting him.
Maybe the reason he is bad is because he is going through his "terrible two's?" You moron. That's the problem why too many kids are running around doing whatever the hell they want -their parents were too soft spoken while they were growing up, probably spoiling the living shit out of them. They read magazines and believed the P.C. bullshit. There is nothing wrong with good old fashioned discipline. Sometimes it's needed. When I was a kid, if I was bad I got spanked and pulled by the ear, especially if I threw a tantrum in public, granted that was in the 80's, kids got a smack all the time if they were bad! Of course mainstream media has now brainwashed the masses that it's child abuse if you smack your kid when they act up; Apparently it's also child abuse if you take a picture of your kid getting their first bath. What a crock of shit. She isn't beating her children. You know what? It does shape who you become and in a good way. You learn to respect your parents.
If you can't see that that then you are delusional.click to expand
Ok I'm not about to tell a mother how she should raise her child but if your kids ascendant in Aquarius then you need to stop trying to break him in, you will only end up aging yourself quicker and he won't realise his true potential.......it makes me really angry when adults mistake free spirited children as rebels without a cause, if your child has that much gusto and gives you a run for your money then that means he doesn't follow and likes to do things his way, then you should nurture that!!!
also if you know he's gonna have a shit time in public school and won't get a proper education then please consider Steiner education, we have two Steiner schools in my town (I live In a hippy town lol) and they are perfect with strong willed children with energy to burn, their school motto is " education is a journey not a race"
also if you know he's gonna have a shit time in public school and won't get a proper education then please consider Steiner education, we have two Steiner schools in my town (I live In a hippy town lol) and they are perfect with strong willed children with energy to burn, their school motto is " education is a journey not a race"
I threw tantrum in public... once! Lol never again. She just said "wait until we're home" u knew shit will go down hahaha
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11You have to draw the line somewhere. I'm a Gemini and my parent's never disabled my independent way of who I was or restricted me in that sense. Bad behavior is bad behavior and the younger a child is when it is nipped and teaches them a lesson, the better.
Ok I'm not about to tell a mother how she should raise her child but if your kids ascendant in Aquarius then you need to stop trying to break him in, you will only end up aging yourself quicker and he won't realise his true potential.......it makes me really angry when adults mistake free spirited children as rebels without a cause, if your child has that much gusto and gives you a run for your money then that means he doesn't follow and likes to do things his way, then you should nurture that!!!
also if you know he's gonna have a shit time in public school and won't get a proper education then please consider Steiner education, we have two Steiner schools in my town (I live In a hippy town lol) and they are perfect with strong willed children with energy to burn, their school motto is " education is a journey not a race"
@aquanextdoor - I agree with you!
Posted by AquaNextDoorThis too!
I threw tantrum in public... once! Lol never again. She just said "wait until we're home" u knew shit will go down hahaha
Posted by gemguyaz34Yes @The_eleventh_sign I se what you are saying and I struggle with trying to find out what is him being creative and him begin stubborn and I have done pretty well with that and picking my battles, but it's like come on I ask you to do something like go pick that food up you dropped and throw it in the trash after you threw it off the table because you decided you didn't want it even though you picked it out and you say uhhh no (yes just like that he is so sassy) im not gonna see that as him being his own person im gonna see that as you being a little shit just because you can.Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11You have to draw the line somewhere. I'm a Gemini and my parent's never disabled my independent way of who I was or restricted me in that sense. Bad behavior is bad behavior and the younger a child is when it is nipped and teaches them a lesson, the better.
Ok I'm not about to tell a mother how she should raise her child but if your kids ascendant in Aquarius then you need to stop trying to break him in, you will only end up aging yourself quicker and he won't realise his true potential.......it makes me really angry when adults mistake free spirited children as rebels without a cause, if your child has that much gusto and gives you a run for your money then that means he doesn't follow and likes to do things his way, then you should nurture that!!!
also if you know he's gonna have a shit time in public school and won't get a proper education then please consider Steiner education, we have two Steiner schools in my town (I live In a hippy town lol) and they are perfect with strong willed children with energy to burn, their school motto is " education is a journey not a race"click to expand
Posted by gemguyaz34I think it's important to teach a kid discipline, self respect and independence out of love, but completely impractical and unnessasary to stand over them and keep them bound up.at the same time pulling your own hair out, sometimes adults need to let go of shitPosted by The_eleventh_sign_11You have to draw the line somewhere. I'm a Gemini and my parent's never disabled my independent way of who I was or restricted me in that sense. Bad behavior is bad behavior and the younger a child is when it is nipped and teaches them a lesson, the better.
Ok I'm not about to tell a mother how she should raise her child but if your kids ascendant in Aquarius then you need to stop trying to break him in, you will only end up aging yourself quicker and he won't realise his true potential.......it makes me really angry when adults mistake free spirited children as rebels without a cause, if your child has that much gusto and gives you a run for your money then that means he doesn't follow and likes to do things his way, then you should nurture that!!!
also if you know he's gonna have a shit time in public school and won't get a proper education then please consider Steiner education, we have two Steiner schools in my town (I live In a hippy town lol) and they are perfect with strong willed children with energy to burn, their school motto is " education is a journey not a race"click to expand
Posted by ladylibra21Lol if that was my kid he'd be eating out of bowls on the ground and I'd probably have docs at my doorsPosted by gemguyaz34Yes @The_eleventh_sign I se what you are saying and I struggle with trying to find out what is him being creative and him begin stubborn and I have done pretty well with that and picking my battles, but it's like come on I ask you to do something like go pick that food up you dropped and throw it in the trash after you threw it off the table because you decided you didn't want it even though you picked it out and you say uhhh no (yes just like that he is so sassy) im not gonna see that as him being his own person im gonna see that as you being a little shit just because you can.Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11You have to draw the line somewhere. I'm a Gemini and my parent's never disabled my independent way of who I was or restricted me in that sense. Bad behavior is bad behavior and the younger a child is when it is nipped and teaches them a lesson, the better.
Ok I'm not about to tell a mother how she should raise her child but if your kids ascendant in Aquarius then you need to stop trying to break him in, you will only end up aging yourself quicker and he won't realise his true potential.......it makes me really angry when adults mistake free spirited children as rebels without a cause, if your child has that much gusto and gives you a run for your money then that means he doesn't follow and likes to do things his way, then you should nurture that!!!
also if you know he's gonna have a shit time in public school and won't get a proper education then please consider Steiner education, we have two Steiner schools in my town (I live In a hippy town lol) and they are perfect with strong willed children with energy to burn, their school motto is " education is a journey not a race"click to expand
LOL it is funny you say that because last night it was spiting and I asked him if he was a camel and he said no and I said ok don't spit or I will have to let you sleep outside like a camel and all night he kept saying I'm not an animal mom I promise LOL
Posted by ladylibra21And that's when you send them to bed without supper.Posted by gemguyaz34Yes @The_eleventh_sign I se what you are saying and I struggle with trying to find out what is him being creative and him begin stubborn and I have done pretty well with that and picking my battles, but it's like come on I ask you to do something like go pick that food up you dropped and throw it in the trash after you threw it off the table because you decided you didn't want it even though you picked it out and you say uhhh no (yes just like that he is so sassy) im not gonna see that as him being his own person im gonna see that as you being a little shit just because you can.Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11You have to draw the line somewhere. I'm a Gemini and my parent's never disabled my independent way of who I was or restricted me in that sense. Bad behavior is bad behavior and the younger a child is when it is nipped and teaches them a lesson, the better.
Ok I'm not about to tell a mother how she should raise her child but if your kids ascendant in Aquarius then you need to stop trying to break him in, you will only end up aging yourself quicker and he won't realise his true potential.......it makes me really angry when adults mistake free spirited children as rebels without a cause, if your child has that much gusto and gives you a run for your money then that means he doesn't follow and likes to do things his way, then you should nurture that!!!
also if you know he's gonna have a shit time in public school and won't get a proper education then please consider Steiner education, we have two Steiner schools in my town (I live In a hippy town lol) and they are perfect with strong willed children with energy to burn, their school motto is " education is a journey not a race"click to expand
My father was Scorpio and my mother was Sag. If I was bad at the dinner table, I got sent to bed early and could not come out of my room. I learned fast.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by BetaBanana
Doesn't sound out of the ordinary to me ....
Really?
Hitting a 2 year old doesn't seem out of the ordinary.
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No not hitting a 2 year old , the 2 year old throwing tantrums
Spanking a 2 yr old truly doesn't teach them.. I used time out, and I did swat their hand, just enough to realize they shouldn't do that. I have 3 very loving, wonderful daughters that are thriving. I rarely ever need to punish them, I talk to them about right and wrong. How they would feel if this or that happened. I just try to make them feel it and think about it from another perspective. Mine are now 14yrs, 7yrs, and about turn 6yr next week. I would practice explaining before or after, the reason they are getting punished and then have them explain it back. That really worked for me, too!!
Also, I highly stress the difference in calm spanking with a parent being in control of their emotions vs a parent just taking their anger or frustration out on the child by using the spanking method.
Consistency has been my go to!! I would suggest the strong willed child, read it. You will survive these days!! Sometimes you just have to figure out what works to get the results you need, without bribing or giving in to poor behavior.
Also, I highly stress the difference in calm spanking with a parent being in control of their emotions vs a parent just taking their anger or frustration out on the child by using the spanking method.
Consistency has been my go to!! I would suggest the strong willed child, read it. You will survive these days!! Sometimes you just have to figure out what works to get the results you need, without bribing or giving in to poor behavior.
One of the department heads has two little Sagi's, 2 and 3 or ( 4 ?) years old.
Totally out of control. The mom and dad already stuck the oldest one in preschool, and it's stabbing her little schoolmates with scissors.
Totally out of control. The mom and dad already stuck the oldest one in preschool, and it's stabbing her little schoolmates with scissors.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11So what the f ck is a 2 year old, a rebel with a cause? Yes, let the child raise the parent. It's not like we can have enough of pampered, "ambitious" little narcissists echo booming around.
......it makes me really angry when adults mistake free spirited children as rebels without a cause, if your child has that much gusto and gives you a run for your money then that means he doesn't follow and likes to do things his way, then you should nurture that!!!
Lol @ "do things his way". That includes running in front of a bus his way..?
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Posted by ladylibra21
..... mommy you don't spank me for doing this and he will recount why he got a spanking or you don't take away that. He never forgets what he sees as a wrong doing.
He even recognizes that hitting him is a wrong doing.
Looks like a lot of adults in here approve of hitting babies, according to their responses.
Let's hope none of you procreate.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by ladylibra21
..... mommy you don't spank me for doing this and he will recount why he got a spanking or you don't take away that. He never forgets what he sees as a wrong doing.
He even recognizes that hitting him is a wrong doing.
Looks like a lot of adults in here approve of hitting babies, according to their responses.
Let's hope none of you procreate.click to expand
your son is probably a serial rapist.....lol serial murderer.....likes lil children.......
Posted by ladylibra21You are seriously fucked up.
Whatever makes your twisted little heart happy P-Angel. Lol I love children and I am a very nurturing person and I use spanking as the very last resort when he is doing something dangerous. I don't spank other people's children.
You need help.
Of course, you can't spank other people's kids. If you touched my son, I'd tear you limb from fucking limb.
What a manipulative, heartless bitch you are.
I say I would never spank someone else's kid and you some how find a way to get offended by that. LMAO get yourself a life. If you are not going to post concrete constructive advice get out of this forum. I wouldn't be surprised is 037 was P-Angel in pretending to be someone else.
i dont believe in spanking, and i know that other cultures do believe in them. from this topic and other commentors they are ok with it because their parents did so.
not Always. some children get spanked or even beat but they swore to their soul that they would never do that to their children. it's Always 50/50 with individuals and choice.
not Always. some children get spanked or even beat but they swore to their soul that they would never do that to their children. it's Always 50/50 with individuals and choice.
At that age, it's really only recommended to lightly swat their hands if they're misbehaving. Things like time out or other types of positive/negative punishment are also good. Either way, every child reacts differently to punishments. You just have to find what works best for your kid. It doesn't sound like whatever you're doing now is working too well. Make sure you approach these situations calmly as well, especially if your're spanking, though I'd recommend to not do that at all. It's not even working for you anyway. If he keeps tracks of every wrong he feels you've dealt to him, then to me that's a sign that you've dealt enough damage that he's building some negative emotions up. Which would obviously lead to him acting out. If you don't change that, I would think it would eventually turn into resentment towards you or at least a loss of respect.
Posted by Scenici agree. some children will store this deeply inside of them, looking at you like you are not loving and nurturing and they will Always remember the cruelty.
At that age, it's really only recommended to lightly swat their hands if they're misbehaving. Things like time out or other types of positive/negative punishment are also good. Either way, every child reacts differently to punishments. You just have to find what works best for your kid. It doesn't sound like whatever you're doing now is working too well. Make sure you approach these situations calmly as well, especially if your're spanking, though I'd recommend to not do that at all. It's not even working for you anyway. If he keeps tracks of every wrong he feels you've dealt to him, then to me that's a sign that you've dealt enough damage that he's building some negative emotions up. Which would obviously lead to him acting out. If you don't change that, I would think it would eventually turn into resentment towards you or at least a loss of respect.
Posted by GreyWizRebelling is easy. Walking the line actually requires effort.
I don't tolerate disrespect and have no compassion for rebellious people. The most successful children have respect for authority and are disciplined.
If Ye Olde Hag hasn't totally hi-jacked the thread (please ignore her... ugh),
then I would look at what he's eating... esp when not around you.
Like anything with additives, preservatives, or RED food dye (that's the worst).
Srsly-- makes some kids crazy. o.O
then I would look at what he's eating... esp when not around you.
Like anything with additives, preservatives, or RED food dye (that's the worst).
Srsly-- makes some kids crazy. o.O
Posted by GreyWiz... which kind of contradicts your previous statement, "I don't want blind obedience and certainly want them to question and think critically."
I will give a explanation as to why it is bad and expect them to respect me. if they want to act cool then they are going to get their ass kicked out.
You're not always going to see eye to eye with them, nor or you always right. Anyone who has a list of reasons - or even one reason, that's gonna make them give up on their kids/"kick their ass out" probably has no business procreating. Whatever the question is, that is not the answer.
Posted by GreyWizRespect is earnt from understanding not enforcement, you think my kids won't be disciplined? Fuck my kids are gonna be put to work the second they come out of the womb, all I'm saying is that kids need fucking purpose not to be another brick in the wall, the sooner baby boomer generation dies off the better because they've practically enslaved all other generations with their greedPosted by enfant_terrible+1. If i have a sag or aqua child they will be sent out at age 13. I don't tolerate disrespect and have no compassion for rebellious people. The most successful children have respect for authority and are disciplined.Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11So what the f ck is a 2 year old, a rebel with a cause? Yes, let the child raise the parent. It's not like we can have enough of pampered, "ambitious" little narcissists echo booming around.
......it makes me really angry when adults mistake free spirited children as rebels without a cause, if your child has that much gusto and gives you a run for your money then that means he doesn't follow and likes to do things his way, then you should nurture that!!!
Lol @ "do things his way". That includes running in front of a bus his way..?
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Posted by MontgomeryHaha, this is true...my friends daughter, who is a terrorist, will get really out of control and tell me herself "it's gonna be a wild night, I had red dye 40!"
If Ye Olde Hag hasn't totally hi-jacked the thread (please ignore her... ugh),
then I would look at what he's eating... esp when not around you.
Like anything with additives, preservatives, or RED food dye (that's the worst).
Srsly-- makes some kids crazy. o.O
I try not to let her see me laugh
Posted by channingtatumsneckThis too.
never been spanked. never been controlled.
http://lenisastrology.blogspot.com/2007/10/child-with-pluto-conjunct-ascendant.html
I was spanked a few times but my parent's didn't really find it effective...apparently I would just give a mean ass poker face or shrug. Like there was no way I was giving them the satisfaction.
Good news, though...I grew out of it...so will your little dude.
Also... never let them see you lose it.
Keep your cool-- once it's gone, you're toast... and
they know it.
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Keep your cool-- once it's gone, you're toast... and
they know it.
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@LadyLibra.... how many hours a day are you with him or what hours of each day are you with him?
Posted by WynterLOL
One of the department heads has two little Sagi's, 2 and 3 or ( 4 ?) years old.
Totally out of control. The mom and dad already stuck the oldest one in preschool, and it's stabbing her little schoolmates with scissors.
Is the department head a Pisces?
Posted by MontgomeryNo, but her stay-at-home husband is! 😄Posted by WynterLOL
One of the department heads has two little Sagi's, 2 and 3 or ( 4 ?) years old.
Totally out of control. The mom and dad already stuck the oldest one in preschool, and it's stabbing her little schoolmates with scissors.
Is the department head a Pisces?
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Posted by LetltBI have him for probably 5 waking hours during the week (5 on Monday and 5 on Tuesday) his dad has him Wed and Thurs and me and his dad alternate the weekends. We moved out of his dad's house in July so I know he is still getting used to the separation too.
@LadyLibra.... how many hours a day are you with him or what hours of each day are you with him?
Posted by ladylibra21Nothing wrong with a spat on the hand or the leg of a two year old when they're about to do something dangerous, like burn themselves or electrocute themselves. The spat is a lot less harmful than a burn or death.
Whatever makes your twisted little heart happy P-Angel. Lol I love children and I am a very nurturing person and I use spanking as the very last resort when he is doing something dangerous. I don't spank other people's children.
Posted by ladylibra21When did this behavior start? Kids get very confused when they have to go back and forth between mom and dads house. I'm sure since he can't express his confusion he is acting out towards you and maybe, at his daycare. That 5hrs a week would be very difficult to get him acclimated to you...Posted by LetltBI have him for probably 5 waking hours during the week (5 on Monday and 5 on Tuesday) his dad has him Wed and Thurs and me and his dad alternate the weekends. We moved out of his dad's house in July so I know he is still getting used to the separation too.
@LadyLibra.... how many hours a day are you with him or what hours of each day are you with him?click to expand
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i was kind of shocked about there are some posters i've read somewhere on another forum, where they say they don't/won't have children because they have a stellium in aquarius and also a stellium in another planet which is more freedom loving. and the
Thank you all for your insight, I find some of the feedback really great. I have been associated with an Aquarius intermittently for about 3 years. We met at a Toastmasters club hit it off as casual acquaintances but one day at Starbucks the friendly asso
... is playing texting games. Normal?
I could post this on the Aqua board, since my dad's an Aqua but no one goes there so here we are. I bought a house in December, and while remodeling I was storing a lot of my stuff that I didn't want to get destroyed at my parents - including our big e
And least... I know I love it and my parents hate it (Aqua and Libra)...
I can't stand his behaviour at times, but I can't get enough of him!!! I'm drowning... Do Aquarians toy with people's emotions? Or are you so scared of being hurt you test someone to the point of them letting go, then be like, I knew it!? How do you peo
Fuck you aquariuses; fuck your asshole ways, fuck your asshole "detachment" fuck your asshole AQUARIUS "aloofness" fuck your self admiration, complete arrogance, and egotistical ways. You're all the same. so fuck you aquas! Bye bye!!!!!! FUCKERS!!!
We broke up a year ago and he still wants nothing to do with me. I left him one last text saying I want to be fiends I miss your friendship and want to know why you have no interest in communicating with me anymore. And left it at that; I said just get ba
Aquarius friend threw everything I shared in confidence in my face. She's quite blunt, outspoken and heartless with her brutal honesty. Is this common? I asked her if she would be willing to meet me half-way and not communicate my flaws without my permis
Moon Aries 8.32 II Aries 5.59
Mercury Scorpio 19.08 R III Taurus 10.31
Venus Scorpio 2.05 IV Gemini 6.13
Mars Capricorn 5.02 V Gemini 28.21
Jupiter Gemini 12.32 R VI Cancer 21.21
Saturn Scorpio 5.49 VII Leo 21.05
Uranus Aries 4.47 R VIII Libra 5.59
Neptune Pisces 0.25 IX Scorpio 10.31
Pluto Capricorn 8.09 Midheaven Sagittarius 6.13
Lilith Gemini 8.05 XI Sagittarius 28.21
Asc node Scorpio 26.01 XII Capricorn 21.21
That is my son's chart he is 2 and very very stubborn, rebellious, and emotional he is almost 3 (Nov. 23) and he tests me more than any toddler I have ever seen and I worked child care for 3 years. Spanking does not work with him he either laughs or gets so mad that he cant even process why he is being punished he will some times retaliate or say to me a week later mommy you don't spank me for doing this and he will recount why he got a spanking or you don't take away that. He never forgets what he sees as a wrong doing. I do hands on the wall with him which is basically he has to put his hands on the wall for 2 minutes without talking or moving he hates is with a passion and the threat of it usually works because he hates sitting still, but sometimes he throws him self around and refuses to do it so I am literally holding his hands there. This is very exhausting for me.He grows very attached to people though and has behavior problems at daycare if a teacher he likes quits. Friday he was in the office 4 times. This is so embarrassing for me because I was far from this as a child we are total opposites I don't feel like I can control my child which terrifies me because he goes to school in 2 years and he is extremely intelligent and I would hate to have to hold him back for behavior.
Any advice for me? Here is my chart I am mostly pretty passive so you can see why the whole thing tears me up. It breaks me to the core to have to fight with him like this.
Sun Libra 27.48 Ascendant Leo 9.34
Moon Cancer 23.58 II Virgo 1.45
Mercury Libra 14.23 III Virgo 28.25
Venus Sagittarius 13.55 IV Scorpio 0.31
Mars Libra 20.41 V Sagittarius 5.48
Jupiter Cancer 10.46 VI Capricorn 9.37
Saturn Capricorn 8.35 VII Aquarius 9.34
Uranus Capricorn 2.03 VIII Pisces 1.45
Neptune Capricorn 9.52 IX Pisces 28.25
Pluto Scorpio 14.27 Midheaven Taurus 0.31
Lilith Libra 28.27 XI Gemini 5.48
Asc node Aquarius 23.20 XII Cancer 9.37