6 years ago, I saw a girl in my neighborhood who really intrigued me. I was a highschool back then and we often had eye contact but never really got the courage to talk to her. In highschool, we stayed as strangers. In college, I got into a school different than hers because she chose to go into an all girls school. Then I became friends with a guy in my school saying that he is courting a beautiful girl and he wants me to meet her. So, I agreed and met the girl of his dreams. It was the girl I was so curious about in highschool and we never talked we looked at each other and smile. But was glad when I learned she was planning to transfer to our school and she did. It was depressing at first but I never bothered to know her because my friend is courting her. Eventually, he was dumped and I still can't get to her because my friend was still in pain.
Until she finished college I never get to know her and I was stuck in college because I have a band and some of my grades went down. Some people informed me that she got a boyfriend after college(her first boyfriend). So I've given up and just try to move on and find someone but it never worked out. so I decided to hang out with other friends. I was invited to a party and drank all night. Then, someone walked into our table and it was her that same girl girl who intrigued me. She is friends with this friend of mine(also a girl) and I got shy and all. We talked and I learned she is still going out with her boyfriend and I told her I broke up and all(I was drank). But it got interesting because we never stopped communicating after that. I invited her to a commercial shoot because her looks are just so unique that you could picture her as a divine figure. Though, the funny thing about her is she's insecure and she never believes that she's beautiful. During the shoot she cried and said she is insecure of the girls around her because she's the ugliest and she can't act. So I give her an advice "would you let this opportunity slip away? you want confidence but you're not helping yourself. If this is the opportunity that I've been waiting for, I wouldn't let it slip away. either you regret it or you'd be proud of it. So what's it gonna be?" she really liked what I said and smiled and she did great during the acting portion. After the shoot she never stopped messaging me and we helped each other. I invited her to my house so that she can taste the cookies I made and asked me about my love life.
I said
"I'm real
I said
"I'm really tired of it, I think I would focus on my music for now."
she said
"yeah I think so. The girl you really like don't deserve you, you deserve more."
I said
"yeah atleast I got my band for now haha"
She said while eating the cookies I baked
"Yeah you have your music and your cookies. You'll never know you might meet someone because of these cookies."
so I was shocked when she said that and I was really happy. Then we hang out and I got her to be my model(because I'm also a photographer). then she asked me "hey _______ I've been wanting to ask you. You have many female friends but how you always ask me to come with you ha? why me?" while she laughed and I just told her that she's the best choice to be my model and all. Many things happened like I get to meet her sister, visit her house, and all. Recently, She wanted to help my family run our pastry shop. My family liked her a lot. She offered us help and every favor I ask her, She's willing to do it. I don't know I'm someone who doesn't want to assume things cause I'm scared. She's the girl I want to be with and after 6 years I don't know what to do but I'm happy with her.
She's a Leo woman and I'm a sagittarius man.
I don't know if she does like me or just a friend... I just can't figure it out because I don't want to assume.
Ask her to go out with you on a proper date. Make sure you use the word "date," and take her to a nice restaurant for dinner. Don't ask her "hey do you wanna hang out tomorrow?" Pay for the meal, dress up for her, be a gentleman, and kiss her goodnight nicely. Then if she accepts additional dates with you, then you are dating and then you can be REALLY happy. I am betting if you are very clear with her that it's a date, she will say YES.
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Jan 02, 2014Comments: 24 · Posts: 1381 · Topics: 110
She likes you...Trust me, a Leo woman would not waste her time, if she did not think that you have potential...She is just making sure that it is legit, and taking her time... Be patient.