Need Honest opinions/answers
This topic was created in the Astrology forum by healthfreak on Sunday, January 8, 2012 and has 5 replies.
If you dated someone for a long time (little more than a year relationship) in which you had strong feelings for this person but ended up doing something very hurtful (Cheating, using, lying) to them towards the end of the relationship without much of an explanation on your part and somewhat just disappered. Never said sorry or gave them their stuff back. Than you decided you wanted to talk to them again months later ... maybe to see how they are doing or to give their stuff back or to say sorry but found out they changed their number and obviously never told you about it... They never cussed you out or did anything to "get you back" they just dropped it and changed their contact info. How would you feel about that? Would you find other ways to get in contact with them or just let it go because you can see that they were hurt by you and didnt want you to be apart of their life anymore. Would it make you feel worse because you never got a chance to say sorry or say what happened or would you have an "oh well" kind of attitude.
What if out of the blue they hit you up from their new number... how would you handle that? Would you be nice and receptive or have some sort of a confused attitude with them?
Would really appreciate all the responses I can get and diferent views from different people. Thank you.
What if out of the blue they hit you up from their new number... how would you handle that? Would you be nice and receptive or have some sort of a confused attitude with them?
Would really appreciate all the responses I can get and diferent views from different people. Thank you.
Posted by healthfreak
If you dated someone for a long time (little more than a year relationship) in which you had strong feelings for this person but ended up doing something very hurtful (Cheating, using, lying) to them towards the end of the relationship without much of an explanation on your part and somewhat just disappered. Never said sorry or gave them their stuff back. Than you decided you wanted to talk to them again months later ... maybe to see how they are doing or to give their stuff back or to say sorry but found out they changed their number and obviously never told you about it... They never cussed you out or did anything to "get you back" they just dropped it and changed their contact info. How would you feel about that? Would you find other ways to get in contact with them or just let it go because you can see that they were hurt by you and didnt want you to be apart of their life anymore. Would it make you feel worse because you never got a chance to say sorry or say what happened or would you have an "oh well" kind of attitude.
What if out of the blue they hit you up from their new number... how would you handle that? Would you be nice and receptive or have some sort of a confused attitude with them?
Would really appreciate all the responses I can get and diferent views from different people. Thank you.
I think if I was that much of a bitch I wouldn't possess the ability to "feel bad" about someone else. Honestly after that, I would hope a big chunk of karma would come along and knock some sense into me.
Posted by thehealer
:/ well u are still very nice if u want that.
lol
thank you dear!Posted by thehealervirgo moon twin lolol.
pisces sun virgo moon has a very good sense of humour i must say!
Thanks
Moon twins sounds super cute???
Whoaaa. I would never do that. If you did that, or someone you know tell them to leave the poor man alone and just move on. My perspective from the person who has been cheated on..I never in my life under no circumstance ever want to see, hear, or smell the person who has cheated on me. I don't care if he wins a $ Biz and wants to apologize, or has my car and wants to return it. No no no, go away and leave me be. Keep your stuff Karma can sort all of it out.
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