New Start or Return to Something
This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Sn1p3r187 on Thursday, January 9, 2014 and has 9 replies.
Okay, It's been a while since I mentioned anything about it. But it's been a while since me and ex Scorp broke up. I was pretty upset at the time and not willing to say much about it. Recently around a week ago and apparently she still loves me. She recently got out of a relationship with some dude whom I don't know, and apparently left me for him. She's been pretty broken over it and she has how broken she is over skype. I stated back on the Capricorn form about "Have you ever thought about it", this is part 1 to what I was talking about. Some part of me wants to be back together her with, while the other says make a new start because I don't want to repeat the past. And let's be honest. when I'm through with a relationship- I MEAN I'M THROUGH!!! No repeats, no start overs, no nothing.
Being friends is alright, but nothing more. If I think about the new start I want to take with my love life, it would be to this Pisces woman who goes to the same art school I go to. Her and I have many similar things in common. She makes a lot of art, plays a lot of video games, and she can keep interesting conversations. I would ask her out to someplace simple. But I've lost my mojo for the bit since it has been a while since I've done anything. I'm working on getting my groove back.
My real point would be- would you move on for a new start, or go back to an old relationship and make it work? Because it's so strange. Last time, she barely paid much attention. Now she is, I feel I was chasing first and now the roles have reversed. :/ Yeahhhh....
Being friends is alright, but nothing more. If I think about the new start I want to take with my love life, it would be to this Pisces woman who goes to the same art school I go to. Her and I have many similar things in common. She makes a lot of art, plays a lot of video games, and she can keep interesting conversations. I would ask her out to someplace simple. But I've lost my mojo for the bit since it has been a while since I've done anything. I'm working on getting my groove back.
My real point would be- would you move on for a new start, or go back to an old relationship and make it work? Because it's so strange. Last time, she barely paid much attention. Now she is, I feel I was chasing first and now the roles have reversed. :/ Yeahhhh....
Don't go back to a relationship that didn't worked out the first time around, there is a reason why it didn't work.
You said she left you for another guy & when things didn't went as she expected, she comes back crying. That kind of behavior is not fair with you, she didn't appreciated you, she rejected you and she prefered someone else over you.
I think you should try to forgive her but move on anyways. Start over with this new pisces girl and see how it goes. Because it seems like you are interested in her and as you said you two have a lot in common. So that's a good start right there.
Plus, Pisces & capricorn complement each other REALLY well. For me that is one of the most romantic couples! (I'm a pisces and I'm in a relationship with a capricorn and things are great between us)
You said she left you for another guy & when things didn't went as she expected, she comes back crying. That kind of behavior is not fair with you, she didn't appreciated you, she rejected you and she prefered someone else over you.
I think you should try to forgive her but move on anyways. Start over with this new pisces girl and see how it goes. Because it seems like you are interested in her and as you said you two have a lot in common. So that's a good start right there.
Plus, Pisces & capricorn complement each other REALLY well. For me that is one of the most romantic couples! (I'm a pisces and I'm in a relationship with a capricorn and things are great between us)
So, all in all I vote for a NEW START! 
Posted by camim20
Don't go back to a relationship that didn't worked out the first time around, there is a reason why it didn't work.
You said she left you for another guy & when things didn't went as she expected, she comes back crying. That kind of behavior is not fair with you, she didn't appreciated you, she rejected you and she prefered someone else over you.
I think you should try to forgive her but move on anyways. Start over with this new pisces girl and see how it goes. Because it seems like you are interested in her and as you said you two have a lot in common. So that's a good start right there.
Plus, Pisces & capricorn complement each other REALLY well. For me that is one of the most romantic couples! (I'm a pisces and I'm in a relationship with a capricorn and things are great between us)
Ha, I hear so much about Cap and Pisces. It must be match made in heaven then. I would keep my mind on it.
Well beyond what I said. She seems a bit obsessive too (no offense to Scorps) she won't stop messaging me on skype and texting up my phone. It gets a bit annoying sometimes. (sighs) I really do need some space to breath then.
It's possible the Scorp realizes she made a mistake by leaving you & things would be better this time around for the two of you. However, if you are feeling a connection to this other woman & you don't pursue it, you may always wonder about what might have been. Obviously the choice is yours, but whichever route you do choose, be fair & straight up with the other, so no one gets strung along/hurt. Good luck
Yuck, stay away from obsessive people. They just end up being big problems. To me, acting that way shows how immature and selfish a person is. Honestly, I wouldn't even keep someone like that as a friend. Depending on the level of obsession, she could try to get in the way of your love life. I mean, the only reason she's even talking to you right now (or talking about her feelings) is because she's lonely, right? She isn't in a relationship anymore so she has nothing to occupy her feelings and you're the easiest target for her attention.
I've tried to make relationships work quite a few times, but they never did, even when the person seemed more mature than your scorp ex. I would move forward. Maybe that pisces girl won't end up leaving you for another guy then come back later just to say she's sorry and that she still loves you. Or maybe the pisces girl isn't even a good long-term match for you, but you should definitely not go backwards! Just make sure your past relationship isn't keeping you from giving it your all with the next girl. (Oh and make sure you specifically tell the scorp what kind of relationship you want to have with her, whether it be romantic, friends, or nothing. Don't leave her hanging). Good luck.
I've tried to make relationships work quite a few times, but they never did, even when the person seemed more mature than your scorp ex. I would move forward. Maybe that pisces girl won't end up leaving you for another guy then come back later just to say she's sorry and that she still loves you. Or maybe the pisces girl isn't even a good long-term match for you, but you should definitely not go backwards! Just make sure your past relationship isn't keeping you from giving it your all with the next girl. (Oh and make sure you specifically tell the scorp what kind of relationship you want to have with her, whether it be romantic, friends, or nothing. Don't leave her hanging). Good luck.
Posted by tiziani
I would work on getting my mojo back. If you already have options without it, imagine how much more freedom you will have one you retrieve it. The girls will always be there.
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Posted by Scenic
Yuck, stay away from obsessive people. They just end up being big problems. To me, acting that way shows how immature and selfish a person is. Honestly, I wouldn't even keep someone like that as a friend. Depending on the level of obsession, she could try to get in the way of your love life. I mean, the only reason she's even talking to you right now (or talking about her feelings) is because she's lonely, right? She isn't in a relationship anymore so she has nothing to occupy her feelings and you're the easiest target for her attention.
I've tried to make relationships work quite a few times, but they never did, even when the person seemed more mature than your scorp ex. I would move forward. Maybe that pisces girl won't end up leaving you for another guy then come back later just to say she's sorry and that she still loves you. Or maybe the pisces girl isn't even a good long-term match for you, but you should definitely not go backwards! Just make sure your past relationship isn't keeping you from giving it your all with the next girl. (Oh and make sure you specifically tell the scorp what kind of relationship you want to have with her, whether it be romantic, friends, or nothing. Don't leave her hanging). Good luck.
At first I thought she matured a bit, but she hasn't. If she was so quick to get back with me this time then she hasn't learned from the past yet. Right now for me it feels like a battle between my brain and heart. But I think I'll go with what my brain says, to leave it.
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