I've never known a bigger liar than the Pisces Man. I was with him for little over 10 Months and I've caught him in numerous lies. All the while I'd try to pardon it, but I can't take it anymore. And I can never get a sincere apology from him. He can never give me a real explination. He lies, So effortlessly, after hearing me cry and seeing how much its hurt me, He continues to lie. He went behind my back and told another girl that he had no feelings for me, and a lot of other things. Then when I find out, he tells me he didn't mean any of it. That he didn't know what to say.. blah. I just dont know where to turn anymore. We are offically over, he tells me he wants to work on himself, he wants to mature and to stop hurting me.. And that hopefully we will be together in the future. I guess im writing this because I want advice from an Astrological Perspective. Are all pisces men like this? Can someone give me some insight why pisces men are so (tryning to think of a word to describe them is like counting rain drops).. Immature and Cowardly? Why cant I ever get anything from him? It always seems like he doesnt care. If I dont call him he wont call me, I always do thoughtful things.. like writing poems etc.. and he never does it for me. I just.. Dont know. I am so hurt, so heart broken. And he seems to be doing fine. Its killing me. Thnx for reading.
Cappy Girl.
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
I've heard a lot of people say that they're this way...
I've had similar from a few other signs too...
The explanation some say is that pisces are able to escape into various versions of reality if they want. So your reality might be different from his at this point...
The key is maturity which enables all to act according to what the situation demands, so let him mature and live your life... he may or may never mature but why should you wait on him is what you should ask yourself?
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Oct 11, 2006Comments: 2454 · Posts: 30581 · Topics: 372
Sorry this happened to you.
My bestfriend for years was a pisces male. I obviously never knew him on a romantic level, but we were very close and I knew everything about him.
He was so strange with relationships and love. He would fall in "love" very quickly. ( I think he loved the idea of love more than anything.) His girlfriend would be his everything. He would shower her with gifts and affection, put her first, etc. (Every girl's dream boyfriend, seriously.) But out of no where...I swear...he'd decide he really didn't like her anymore, or he was wrong about her from the beginning.
I'd be so confused... & he'd just tell me he thought she was a certain person but the more and more he got to know her the less he really liked her. & all along he was trying to ignore it and pretend he was happy for her sake. But he got tired of it. In the end he always left the relationship feeling very resentful of the ex. & still bad mouths most of them.
Wierd. I dont know...it's true what they say though, about them living in their own heads.
Just know it has nothing to do with you. They're just seriously on a different frequency than most.
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 6247 · Topics: 51
Many of them, the women and the men, lie consistently to the point you may not know if they are being honest or not - they can also be very manipulative. Sometimes, I think they even believe their own lies.
exactly, we're all guilty of telling ourselves something and believing it if we're not careful. Some people cannot really not ever reach the same version of reality as another person... when we start using accusing words... that funny enough can have the reverse effect, it makes some sink further into whatever dimension they're in...
I've even noticed some using their zodiac sign as an excuse to pull off some of the crap they do.
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Zen: "I've even noticed some using their zodiac sign as an excuse to pull off some of the crap they do."
If that was the case, astrologers would have them sitting on the thrown with an halo..funny they don't follow that particular characteristic!...my brother is a pisces..I feel sorry for any girlfriend of his..there is no way that guy will ever stop looking and falling in love..he has a good heart but oh boy..UNFAITHFUL to the core.
Shapeshifters indeed...
Not all Pisces people are good at deception. You're right that a lot of them are immature and cowardly. I'd like to think maturity and bravery comes with age.
pisces are not bad people, they are just not very proactive. as far as apologies go, my ex-boyfriend, who was a pisces, used to apologize so sincerely that i could not resist forgiving him...and he definately showed that he cared about me, and if i cried, he was extremely sad about it...but overall, they are not very proactive...they feel a LOT OF THINGS, but they just FEEL...they don't do ANYTHING about ANYTHING...they may be feeling sorry, but they won't do much about it...they'll sit quitely in their own little corner, and be depressed....and you might be thinking that they don't care (cuz they're not doing anything about it)...but they DO care...
what makes you think he was lying when he told another girl he had no feelings for you?
they like to be punished. they like to feel hurt. if you keep crying and expecting him to apologize, he'll just keep doing what he's doing in attempt to get what he wants. slash his tires and tell the police he's running a child porn ring. tell him you aren't attracted to him. and kick him in the balls if you can. he'll come in his pants, and you can move on.
if you don't make him suffer, he will make you suffer. they need there to be suffering.
actually, it's probably too late to hurt him at all. instead of thinking you're mean, he'll think you're just some crazy, overemotional nutjob. the more you let him hurt you, the more he'll want to hurt you. the more you forgive, the more he'll do to see if you'll finally break and move on. the more you lower your expectations, the more you'll have to keep lowering them, because he sure as fuck isn't going to fulfill them.
next time you meet one, crack out the whip and make sure he knows who's boss. expect more than anyone can ever do, and he'll keep trying. make yourself attainable, and he'll swim away.