Relationship abuse

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by uchiha on Friday, March 10, 2017 and has 11 replies.
If your gf/wife hits you and you don't ever hit her back...like she punches you on the face etc. you might let it slide for the while but will you eventually retaliate and hit her back? Do you think these people need counseling lol?
Posted by the_sunflower
yeah if i hit my bf, he will hit me back. so i don't do it. i think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl, but not necessarily harder. yeah they need counseling because there are better ways to talk about problems
What would cause you to hit him in the first place? Can't it be resolved through talking?
Posted by P6X58DE
My ex did that, she went flying across the room on her ass after punching me in the nose. Just a push nothing more.

End of relationship, proper anger issues.
Yeah why do they think they can get out of hand with us lol
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Posted by the_sunflower
yeah if i hit my bf, he will hit me back. so i don't do it. i think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl, but not necessarily harder. yeah they need counseling because there are better ways to talk about problems
What would cause you to hit him in the first place? Can't it be resolved through talking?
when he turns perverted and i jokingly slap him. he slaps me back and i totally enjoy getting slapped
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Lol ok but that ain't healthy tho
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
This is like asking if the house is on fire should you call 9-11
I wouldn't know what to do when my house is on fire...I'd think of running first before calling 9-11...but relationships are different, too much love and emotions invested, people can get confused and not know what to do...
Anytime a GF ever tried to throw hands at me, I'd just put her in a crucifix lock

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& tickled her w/ my chin (like a chin noogie to the neck & trapezius) until she got tired.

Works everytime.

Posted by UrsaMediocre
Anytime a GF ever tried to throw hands at me, I'd just put her in a crucifix lock

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& tickled her w/ my chin (like a chin noogie to the neck & trapezius) until she got tired.

Works everytime.


Woah...this is why i want a small girl lol nothing bigger than me
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Naw I let one slide. Gone have to grab ya wrist n tell u twice tho. But twice naw that's the end of the relationship. You can't control yaself and im not a doormat. I know women can be feisty but a slap with force is deep it sends a message lol but twice? Hell Naw you tripping
my boy try 20 times!!! this girl has a perfect life and she dont like the guy's family...so she hits him, beat him up etc. but now he's had enough...he hit her in an arguement and she didnt even touch him...so that goes to show...i simply advised counselling cuz i dont wanna take sides etc.
Posted by lady_chatterley
Posted by the_sunflower
yeah if i hit my bf, he will hit me back. so i don't do it. i think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl, but not necessarily harder. yeah they need counseling because there are better ways to talk about problems
I don't think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl. I think it's fair for a guy to leave a girl if she hits him. No one should take abuse, but they shouldn't abuse back.
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If the girl wants to fight a man...then she thinks she is a man...and she should be treated as a man...you'd lose a couple teeth if u try to fight a man...so just dont hit him cuz he can obviously over power...just live, love and stay peacefull
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Posted by the_sunflower
yeah if i hit my bf, he will hit me back. so i don't do it. i think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl, but not necessarily harder. yeah they need counseling because there are better ways to talk about problems
I don't think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl. I think it's fair for a guy to leave a girl if she hits him. No one should take abuse, but they shouldn't abuse back.
If the girl wants to fight a man...then she thinks she is a man...and she should be treated as a man...you'd lose a couple teeth if u try to fight a man...so just dont hit him cuz he can obviously over power...just live, love and stay peacefull
Wrong. If the girl wants to fight a man, let the man defend himself, but he doesn't have to hit her or make her lose a couple of teeth. That's just wrong. It should end with him blocking her and then ultimately leaving her after the incident.

Just because someone is bigger doesn't mean they should use it for violence.
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Okay i agree with you to a certain extent. If you can defend and leave then do that. But a girl wanting to fight a man needs to learn her lesson aswell. If you play with fire you get burned. If you try to pretend to be a man and fight a man, he may treat you as a man. So if you lose a couple teeth then I'm sure you'd rethink hitting a guy again.

But personally your way is the sweeter way and I'd rather do that.



Posted by Impulsv
Fb news reported gf made him drunk bleach n he died

Domestic abuse women towards men exist
People think it doesnt exist lol I remeber my friend and his wife fought, we she basically beat him up, she then called police...when the police arrived and saw the state of the husband, they arrested the wife instead


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