Romantic Synastry Nightmare?!

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by PapaMolly on Thursday, February 15, 2018 and has 4 replies.
Venus Square Ascendant!

I've literally spent years hiding from this person to avoid rejection and I see this bastard aspect in the progress synastry chart. Fml. He's Venus, I'm the ascendant. Looks like this means he will find me unattractive now after all. I thought I could avoid this rejection but I guess it was meant to be. Thoughts on this placement?
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Posted by PapaMolly
Venus Square Ascendant!

I've literally spent years hiding from this person to avoid rejection and I see this bastard aspect in the progress synastry chart. Fml. He's Venus, I'm the ascendant. Looks like this means he will find me unattractive now after all. I thought I could avoid this rejection but I guess it was meant to be. Thoughts on this placement?
How long is this Venus square Asc progressing? When is it separating?

Is there any good aspect in progressed chart that's coming together? Or pMoon at a good degree?



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I have no clue. I think it only calculates progress for the current date. I saw no positive moon aspects or anything indicating romance from my knowledge.

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Posted by PapaMolly
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Posted by PapaMolly
Venus Square Ascendant!

I've literally spent years hiding from this person to avoid rejection and I see this bastard aspect in the progress synastry chart. Fml. He's Venus, I'm the ascendant. Looks like this means he will find me unattractive now after all. I thought I could avoid this rejection but I guess it was meant to be. Thoughts on this placement?
How long is this Venus square Asc progressing? When is it separating?

Is there any good aspect in progressed chart that's coming together? Or pMoon at a good degree?



I have no clue. I think it only calculates progress for the current date. I saw no positive moon aspects or anything indicating romance from my knowledge.



It would say aspecting/separating in the grid or you can move the dates forward/backward to see if Venus is moving away or not

But idk if you like someone let them know or make a move... Subtle moves for now to see if they are showing any interest?

You never know plus you said you don't know to read the chart all that well! And let's not forget about free will...


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Ah okay. I see it does transition to a venus trine ascendant instead but only once HE progresses.

Pretty sure he already knows I like him but I'd never pursue him out of my fear of rejection. Don't see that happening. Plus, he's no good for me anyway. It just bothers me when people are unattracted to me. I have a lot of Libra energy unfortunately.

Posted by ACsquarepluto
if his Venus squares your ascendant is conjuncts your midheaven or IC, which could be good. One aspect doesn't break anything. I would see if any of his planets fall into your 7th or 2nd houses
No 7th house from my knowledge but there is 2nd house moon overlay in our original synastry chart. His moon falls into my 2nd house. But I thought that only indicated how I viewed him.