Saturn conjunction sun/venus in relationships

Posted by starlover
,,,he also had Chiron in the 5th (unable to express joy or let oneself go) so watch out for that too...if ye see both of those aspects in a chart.....RUN !!

Posted by Tornadoday16
How do y'all feel about getting intimate with people whose saturn is conjunct your sun and venus? I know that recently their was a Taurus girl who was into me but I just could not stand to be around her which is something I blame on the fact that her saturn was conjunct my sun and venus. It was like I was in a prison just being around her, when ever I would laugh she would give me the evil eye.
My good friend has his own saturn conjuncting his sun and I have noticed that he has a problem with being happy. He told me once that he thinks it is stupid to be happy because it makes you naive... He's the kind of person that hates pop music or any pop comedy... Tortured soul... but it illustrates the point I am trying to make about the effect of having saturn conjunct your sun or venus.
So do you think it is ever possible to be intimate with someone with a saturn conjunct your sun/venus?

Posted by starlover

Posted by aime7

Posted by starlover
,,,he also had Chiron in the 5th (unable to express joy or let oneself go) so watch out for that too...if ye see both of those aspects in a chart.....RUN !!

I have Chiron in Virgo in the 5th House. I agree that it takes me a while to warm up.

aime the guy i was with never wanted to come dancing with me and in the whole 5yrs we were together, did so only once and even then wanted to go home at 11pm because he was tired. I told him i didnt usually go out until just before then and stayed out late. we were so different, i felt very squashed down by him, sadly. i have very light energy and love a good time

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Posted by starlover
His libido was very high but sadly it didn't compensate (to me) for his lack of joy. the other thing is the sex becomes very serious and towards the end brought me down....it became the main thing we had in common and then quite meaningless...sadly

Posted by starlover
aime, it depends on how the other person is. i am very joyful and love to go out and have fun. i guess my ex and i were very different..he was overly self conscious and hung up about what people thought of him whereas i am the opposite. i hoped it would rub off on him a little but he always seemed tense. maybe he will find someone more like him, but he did used to say to me that he loved my fun and zest for life, so maybe it was very good for him, but not me. unfortunately he drained me a lot.
you have a gemini ascendent! that is very chatty and light...my son has that too and is very funny and charismatic, so don't let the saturn stuff override the other aspects in your chart. Leo moon too is bright and expressive?

Posted by starlover
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