ok, so, i work with this guy, he is married, been with his wife a long time, shes cute, he and i never met, we are on phone a lot and on computer, he works from home in Cali. he calls a lot, hes flirty and has confided things in me, we goof off, have fun, he brings up his wife pretty often, which is fine, he is aware i have a bf, its a fun working relationship, after 2 weeks we saw each others pics, the next day, he shut off, i know what youre thinking! no im pretty attractive, ive never had this reaction before, i dont know if its the capricorn in me, but it was a serious blow to my ego, it was a total 180. no calls, barely answering emails, now its awkward, i was mega bitchy for the next 2 days when i had to deal with him, then today, almost a week after his 180, he called 3x about stuff he could of just emailed me, and he went off topic, i reverted back to my sweet carefree self, but im so perturbed by this, not to mention i have to meet him soon when he comes out to visit my company for the first time in a few months. theres a serious dent in our working relationship, i feel like im on eggshells now, not sure if hes going to pull another 180, and it isnt like he is back to the way he was, its just weird between us. he does send an email here and there to get my attention, and during my bitchy 2 days, he called 1x, i didnt pick up cause i was on a call, then i called back and he didnt pick up, but he emailed me seconds later, so he was at his desk! what kind of crap is that! just wondering what your ideas are for the sudden change. hes a professional person, im surprised he wouldnt at least try to hide his sudden dislike or whatever it is.
