I am a Sagitarrius woman dating a libra man and am not sure what is going on. It's a long story so I apologize. We started dating last year and were together for 3 months. During that time things were perfect but he was a little over the top...texting me every 10 minutes telling me he missed me and things moved extremely fast. We were practically living together, but then had 2 arguments over this ex-girlfriend of his that he was still friends with and who is still in love with him but he says he has no interest in other than friendship. He broke up with me because he said that he knew that eventually we would end up fighting over her again and would rather end it before we went too far and he got hurt. I should say that when we were together I joked about him being over the top and really did analyze everything he did which he said drove him crazy. For example if he didn't hold my hand I would think something was wrong because he normally did,
Two months ago I wrote him an email saying that I was in love with him and realized I had been wrong about being jealous about his ex-girlfriend that he is still friends with. We started dating again, but this time it is completely different. He now only wants to see me about once a week and even though he is extremely busy with work this time, even when he has the time we don't spend it together. When we are together it is amazing, but he isn't even close to over the top. I am the one texting him that I miss him, etc. Can anyone tell me what is going on? Is he just taking it slow or does he not want to be with me? By the way, I have known him for 5 years, so I am not a crazy girl who just fell in love after a few months.
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Sep 01, 2011Comments: 37 · Posts: 496 · Topics: 28
Hes a Libra guy, hes gonna have plenty of female friends,try to adjust and get used to it. If you can show you trust him things will go alot smoother , just be fun with him and easy. He may just be taking it slower with you now because of the fights you had. Fighting zaps alot of energy out of Libras, we're lovers , not fighters. Good Luck ! Sag fem and Libra male has great potential.
Thanks for the responses. I really do adore him and am hoping that this will work out. I am giving him his space and trying not to pressure him because I have read that pressuring a libra guy will scare him. Thanks again for your advice...these message boards are awesome!
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May 25, 2012Comments: 122 · Posts: 5590 · Topics: 41
To the OP:
Simply put...you're being played. What happened in the past is over and the fact that you've known him for five years doesn't matter. He broke up with you and because you continue to chase him, he now thinks you're weak. You're not earning your way back into his good graces, he's using you for the attention because he's also being vindictive for the hell you caused him. You don't need him. Potential or not, if I were you, I'd keep it moving. Cut off contact and forget about him. Find someone better.