Shit! My bf is a Bisexual :O

Yesterday, my bf told me he is a Bisexual. My reaction was like 'eeeerrr, seriously?' We've been dating in almost a m...

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Maybelle on Wednesday, November 6, 2013 and has 159 replies.
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Posted by Maybelle
You guys are over doing now.


Ehh, looks like they're repeating what has already been said numerous times throughout the thread.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
the only problem is when you dump him he'll stop sharing his bisexual status, so do it in a way, that he won't....
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^This isn't bad advice.
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If she came out and told him she were bisexual, hed be jumping for joy and these comments would cheer them both on.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
the only problem is when you dump him he'll stop sharing his bisexual status, so do it in a way, that he won't.
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did CC actually write this? Wow, great advice
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here's the thing though.....
usually things of this personal nature, guys/girls whoever, would personally know deep down who to share this with.
Very strange.
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unless it was a "test", to see if she loses it.
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Posted by DMV
Posted by CluelessCancer
the only problem is when you dump him he'll stop sharing his bisexual status, so do it in a way, that he won't.
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did CC actually write this? Wow, great advice


lol I know, right?

Posted by lisabethur8
unless it was a "test", to see if she loses it.
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To what end?



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Posted by Montgomery
Posted by DMV
Posted by CluelessCancer
the only problem is when you dump him he'll stop sharing his bisexual status, so do it in a way, that he won't.
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did CC actually write this? Wow, great advice


lol I know, right?

Posted by lisabethur8
unless it was a "test", to see if she loses it.


To what end?


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while she's thinking and fussing "Dealbreaker"....he's probably doing the same thing.
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some people do "tests" all the time during the first courtship. They wanna see if you're gonna be good for the long haul. to see if compatibility is there. If not....hit the road,jack.
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Posted by Nala13
True story ... My friend met a dude at a bar. They decided to go back to his place and have sex. She said they got back to his apartment and sat on the couch to have a drink. He then said you should know that I also sleep with men. She thanked him for being honest and told him she was no longer interested. He said he understood. They finished drinking talked a little while and she left. This is what an adult does. A grown ass man. He tells you before not after.
And if a persons sexual preference is not a deciding factor then what is?


I would prefer he told me before we left the bar.
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
I've got a better question.
Why don't I feel like you when a woman tells me she's bi-sexual? Why instead do I get excited?


Social engineering......
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Posted by GetMisted
If I asked a woman at the bar if she was Bisexual, I'd most likely get slapped.
Would you seriously ask a man the same?


If we are on the topic of sex, then yes. Absolutely!!!
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get a threesome going. you won't regret it.
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Posted by Mr. Defense

Yep, I'm bigoted. I have good friends of all different races, and I have a good gay friend. He would agree with nearly everything I've said in this thread. He also dislikes bisexuals, feeling like they're indecisive and their sexual preference is irresponsible. I'm inclined to agree. Choose one of the other, you can't be both. I have no problem with people who are completely gay or completely straight. At least they can bite the bullet and be with one gender. Bisexuals are just idiots.


Of course a gay person would say that. You gotta hate what is less on the scale than you so you feel better. Just like how black people hate gays.
Sorry but its true its how social culture works.
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Posted by Sag89
get a threesome going. you won't regret it.


MFF or MMF for you, sag? Tongue
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I've tried all threesomes. Two girls. Two guys. A guy and a girl. All beautiful experiences. It's not for eveyone but it's nothing to be ashamed of either.
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Couldn't you tell by the funny taste on his dick?


You know this because.....


Autofellatio
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Posted by Mr. Defense

Yep, I'm bigoted. I have good friends of all different races, and I have a good gay friend. He would agree with nearly everything I've said in this thread. He also dislikes bisexuals, feeling like they're indecisive and their sexual preference is irresponsible. I'm inclined to agree. Choose one of the other, you can't be both. I have no problem with people who are completely gay or completely straight. At least they can bite the bullet and be with one gender. Bisexuals are just idiots.


Of course a gay person would say that. You gotta hate what is less on the scale than you so you feel better. Just like how black people hate gays.
Sorry but its true its how social culture works.


Whaaaaaa?
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That is really how things are alot of the times.
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Posted by Sag89
get a threesome going. you won't regret it.


MFF or MMF for you, sag? Tongue



I've tried all threesomes. Two girls. Two guys. A guy and a girl. All beautiful experiences. It's not for eveyone but it's nothing to be ashamed of either.


i think that's your venus in aqua that is experimental, sag. mars in scorpio people are usually too jealous/controlling to share. Tongue
in principle i agree with you though. though in practice i don't think i could handle that. unless i wasn't romantically involved with the other people involved. if someone tried to touch my girlfriend sexually i likely would attempt to terminate their life force. Big Grin
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Oh these have only taken place when I have been single! I do not know if I could do that in a monogamous relationship. Maybe but I don't know
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Posted by feby16aqua
But not everyone is the same, and everyone has deal breakers.
I'm not even sure I would be upset if the man I was with left me for another man. But yet, leaving for another woman would kill me. HMMMMMM. What's that about??
Is there a difference, aside from the obvious, between ass and pussy sex? Do you value one more than the other? Think and be honest please.


I think being left just sucks! But that is an interesting thought.
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It seems that woman on woman action is slightly more tolerated (particularly in pornography) because women have been sexualized as objects for millennia and are socially conditioned to seek their self-worth through mating prowess and displays of said sexuality. Women are also less *fixed* in terms of sexual orientation than males are, biologically speaking, which may cause the presence of a truly bisexual male and not one who is merely stimulated by anal play to be seen as more unusual. However, if a real emotional bond has been made with a partner the only logical reason to feel insecure about such an orientation is doubt in one's own ability to pleasure their partner adequately. Unless the man in question specifically requests activities that are uncomfortable for one to perform these fears need not be necessary.
As to why it's more prevalent for heterosexuals to feel discomfort or even disgust for homosexuals, well, I think that's probably just a matter of being the minority. It isn't something they've been able to experience for themselves so they are relatively unable to understand such a concept. And I personally fail to see how it matters whether or not a person's sexuality is disclosed upon meeting a new partner. It would be a bit ridiculous for straight people to walk around introducing themselves as such, and they aren't subject to ridicule or prying about their proclivities, so why should anyone else be? Why is it everyone's business what gay people do behind closed doors when heterosexuals aren't pressured the same way to put their own bedroom activities on display for all to see?
That being said, not everyone finds male on male action to be gross. I always thought it was kind of hot. But then again it has come to my attention that some of my tastes are a little warped.
*shrug*
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Posted by scorchedearth
have either of you guys been left for someone else?
i've never had someone break up with me to be with someone else.


I mean not that I know of! lol
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Posted by TMV
It seems that woman on woman action is slightly more tolerated (particularly in pornography) because women have been sexualized as objects for millennia and are socially conditioned to seek their self-worth through mating prowess and displays of said sexuality. Women are also less *fixed* in terms of sexual orientation than males are, biologically speaking, which may cause the presence of a truly bisexual male and not one who is merely stimulated by anal play to be seen as more unusual. However, if a real emotional bond has been made with a partner the only logical reason to feel insecure about such an orientation is doubt in one's own ability to pleasure their partner adequately. Unless the man in question specifically requests activities that are uncomfortable for one to perform these fears need not be necessary.
As to why it's more prevalent for heterosexuals to feel discomfort or even disgust for homosexuals, well, I think that's probably just a matter of being the minority. It isn't something they've been able to experience for themselves so they are relatively unable to understand such a concept. And I personally fail to see how it matters whether or not a person's sexuality is disclosed upon meeting a new partner. It would be a bit ridiculous for straight people to walk around introducing themselves as such, and they aren't subject to ridicule or prying about their proclivities, so why should anyone else be? Why is it everyone's business what gay people do behind closed doors when heterosexuals aren't pressured the same way to put their own bedroom activities on display for all to see?
That being said, not everyone finds male on male action to be gross. I always thought it was kind of hot. But then again it has come to my attention that some of my tastes are a little warped.
*shrug*


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Posted by feby16aqua
Most people aren't comfortable with their sexuality. Period. and INSECURITY pops into my head over and over here.


that's because of religious stuff and how people are raised. women especially are taught to repress their sexuality. and to be okay with being treated like an object. men are "empowered" by being sluts. but women are slut shamed for the same activities. the heterosexual world of sexuality is really scary to me. the double standards women put up with and the ways they accept being treated by men. it's not the same in the gay world. though there are some "studs" or "bois" that act like date rape-y frat jocks.
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@lisberthur,
while she's thinking and fussing "Dealbreaker"....he's probably doing the same thing.
yeppers.
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Posted by feby16aqua
truth or dare


lets go!
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I'm fixing to leave for a party tonight but you've got me for a few minutes.
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Good night -_-
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It's just a gif of putting on some shades. smile
I don't think I have time for a dare right now so I'll stick to truth.
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ermagerhd.....
That's terrible lol.
Ugh. I guess if I really had to choose I would say GIVE orgasms. I can be happy with other pursuits but I've invested a lot of time in honing my skills so it would be a shame to give that up lol.

What about you scorch?
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Posted by feby16aqua
Truth or dare DMV?
aww hell ya my favs are here!!!!!


truth
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Posted by scorchedearth
i can understand not wanting to share your partner feby. i get that completely. i can see how that being the thing could create problems. i don't like sharing either. if someone i was with wanted that i would have a really big problem with it too. that would take me completely out of my comfort zone.


do u ever joke with your partner or someone your dating about a 3some or what have you?
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Posted by scorchedearth
i'll never understand someone withholding sex as a punishment. .


Eved since my saturn return, ive learned alot through other scorpios. Especially the reward/punishment system.ive seen my friends go through it and how much it hurts them.
every time I think about being stingy I do the opposite . I embrace n talk about whats bothering me.
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Posted by feby16aqua
Posted by DMV
Posted by feby16aqua
Truth or dare DMV?
aww hell ya my favs are here!!!!!


truth


Have you ever had sex with more than one person in a 24 hour period? Not including a threesome
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haha I call that the TRIFECTA.
doesnt happen all the time but when it does, I play lotto.
at the most 3 men on 3 seperate occasions. A libra in the am b4 work, I slept over so it was easy. A sag in the eveing, 9pm. A scorpio at night, just made it b4 2am after the club.
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Posted by feby16aqua
DMV and I are linked by our cap venuses. I've noticed we feel / think the same way about a lot of things. ???


ive learned that cap venus are remarkably similar....
feby, truth or dare?
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Posted by scorchedearth
my venus in aries feels left out of this cap venus love fest. fuck you both! Crying

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at least your brave n love. I resist it, I dont want to get cheated on.
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Posted by feby16aqua
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Posted by feby16aqua
DMV and I are linked by our cap venuses. I've noticed we feel / think the same way about a lot of things. ???


ive learned that cap venus are remarkably similar....
feby, truth or dare?


I'll do a truth and a dare. Damn libra moon I can't even decide about this!!! haha j/k TRUTH
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would you have sex with Sutekh if got the chance? Email him the question and answer.
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Posted by feby16aqua
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haha I call that the TRIFECTA.
doesnt happen all the time but when it does, I play lotto.
at the most 3 men on 3 seperate occasions. A libra in the am b4 work, I slept over so it was easy. A sag in the eveing, 9pm. A scorpio at night, just made it b4 2am after the club.


I did this one time. Between an aqua and a taurus. I told the taurus about it that same night. Not sure he was too happy about that...he looked shocked but didn't stop him from shabang bang
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wow ive never told guy. Especially the 3rd guy.
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Posted by scorchedearth
brave? i guess. rash is probably a better word. i'm sure you guys don't have as much drama in your relationships as i do. since you guys think more before you act. Tongue


oh I gots drama. I just dont claim these fools
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Mars in scorpio is quite tricky
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Posted by scorchedearth
it can be. especially if we're unevolved and playing power games. no one else can mindfuck the way a mars in scorpio person can.


ive spent 4 years getting to know one and ive learned its best 2 let him lead.
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Even in the bedroom, this dude likes 2 lead. He picks the positions, the time, what I wear.
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Posted by scorchedearth
it can be. especially if we're unevolved and playing power games. no one else can mindfuck the way a mars in scorpio person can.


Yeah but at the end of the day you can be stuck playing with yourself.


i've been on the receiving end of it too. my sag ex has mars in scorpio too. it wasn't me bragging about anything. it was me remembering what that few years of my life was like. it's not fun. two mars in scorpio people in one relationship is probably the most emotionally toxic and obnoxious thing i've ever gone through. you're constantly trying to out douchebag each other. it's exhausting.
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um story of my life w my ex lol
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Posted by ellessque
I think I would traumatize another water mars. Big Grin


LOL right?
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Posted by scorchedearth
that has me curious. ^_^


He was a scorpio w a mars in scorpio w a scorpio rising
Me sag w cancer rising and mars in scorpio

ughhh games fight fight at times lol it was bad, sex was amazing tho
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I have mars in scorp, along with mercury and pluto...are we that bad?! lol! i don't think i even know how i get my way when i do. I swear i'm only a tiny bit bossy Big Grin
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Posted by scorchedearth
no one needs more than two placements in scorpio. >_>
i bet the fighting was super intense and dramatic.


They were and he had a scoprio merc w a pisces moon. Do not ask me how some one w so much water liked me lol
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Posted by GetMisted
Sex doesn't always come up in discussion before leaving together to actually have sex. Especially since alcohol is involved.
When it comes to dating, sure it will be discussed before sex happens. But in her example, it all happens way to fast. Thinking with boozed infused minds and with the wrong head obviously.
Hence why I felt her story was fabricated. How many times have you asked a man if he was bisexual before leaving the bar to have sex with him? Answer me that please.


I don't have sex with random guys I meet at bars.
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Posted by scorchedearth
LM, would you date a male bisexual?


No I would not.
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Posted by Sag89
Posted by scorchedearth
no one needs more than two placements in scorpio. >_>
i bet the fighting was super intense and dramatic.


They were and he had a scoprio merc w a pisces moon. Do not ask me how some one w so much water liked me lol
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Lol that is alot of water. well you've got a good amount of water in you yourself.
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I want to be with straight guys. I have never been with a bi guy before that I can remember or that I know of hell anyone of my exs could have been bi and I was in the unknown about it but may have suspected it anyway it dont matter about that though I have friends that are like that. I am straight myself so not sure what bi is like though have been around people like that. I feel safer being around gay guys and the genders coz i know they wont hit upon me. If they do its only joke. With the other lot, gay girls and bi's, I have keep getting hit upon and dont like that at all. It seems like they dont know when to stop hitting upon me so feel awkward around them unless I can palm them off to someone else for them to be happy. So its like that with them I have found this to be true. I mean I say no I dont like gay girls or bi's hitting on me and try to get them to like someone else but they just dont get it. Its like for them a green light go ahead which I have to be careful of and make sure I get myself out of there as quick as possible before trouble starts or sets in. Usually they are the trouble makers not happy within themselves at all and blame everyone else for their perceived and distorted views on all topics. Even if you dont know them at all they will pick you and dump on you all their shit and dirt and expect you to 'deal' with it while they go about their own business which is to spy on you and blame you for them being bi/gay. Get over youself asshole cap man!! There are plenty more guys out there that are nicer than you. Actually you are precisely why and the reason why I am uncomfortable around bi guys and gay girls, you give them a bad reputation and hence youself a bad rep. If you jsut stop with the attitude and having to 'prove' yourself all people who dont care either way you'd understand what it is I am talking about. Too petty for my liking.
I love gay guys they are awesome like they have this ability to have lots of fun and really are beautiful people. So I figure if you a female for a fun time you go out with a gay guy and its just fun like having a besty on your arm, you know you wont get harrassed by them coz there looking at all the other guys too and its like you get to compete and bitch about guys in general and be fun people going out for the night and good luck to the winner who goes home with someone at the end of the night. Its a fun night out. Its a nice way of going out for the night. Wont get that with any other gender.
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