Should I be worried my Gemini boyfriend won’t tell me he loves me?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Purpleaqua01 on Monday, January 7, 2019 and has 14 replies.
Also, he’s been with a girl for 5 years before, but that was in high school & hes 28 now. When I told him I loved him I made it super sweet, I told I’ve never said to anyone before. And he said nothing...
Sometimes actions speak louder then words
Posted by Vitale

Sometimes actions speak louder then words
That’s basically what he’s implying... idk tho wouldn’t he want me to know tho? It’s weird...
Posted by Purpleaqua01

Posted by Vitale

Sometimes actions speak louder then words
That’s basically what he’s implying... idk tho wouldn’t he want me to know tho? It’s weird...
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He doesn’t want to be vulnerable saying it out loud because his last relationship burned him so badly 🤷🏻‍♀️

Posted by Purpleaqua01

Taurus Venus..... it could possibly be because I’m still stripping for money.

It could possibly be that indeed, as i understand it, that's a very possessive placement and it's difficult to reconcile calling someone your own (probably a prerequisite for the "i love you" words for possessive venuses) if that someone is stripping for randoms.

Him being there for you as you've said is him giving you time to sort it out, so he apparently does see potential in you but doesn't want to go "too deep" because of your proffession and the things you're exposed to while doing it.
Posted by Purpleaqua01

He’s a Gemini, Aries moon, Taurus Venus. So our relationship has been a growing experience for sure, it’s both of our first serious relationship. He’s a provider he’s got me no matter what & we’ve basically been thru hell & back together. Some of the things we’ve been thru in 9 months O can’t believe we’re still here. & no cheating that I know of, we’re together everyday and we plan on moving in together in a few months. So why won’t he tell me he loves me? I’ve told him several times lol. He won’t say it back and I even called him out on it.. He says “ you don’t think I don’t? We’ve almost been together a year & we’ve been thru the most “ but he won’t say it back. It hurts my feelings at this point.. it could possibly be because I’m still stripping for money. What should I do?

I’m an aqua, Leo moon, aqua Venus btw


Of course you should. He showed a lack of sincerity by telling you “you don’t think I don’t?” When someone is asked a question and responds with a question, that’s denial. Especially from a guy.
Smh 9 months??

Lol be prepared to wait. I barely choked out those three words and we are 3 years in.

Aries moon, Taurus Ven here.
He’s supporting you financially and you’ve gone through hell together and you still need verbal affirmation? LMaO. Where’s your mars?
I don’t understand Gem men.

However...for a man to say it means a commitment.

I say it when I love someone for things they are. Not nessesary in a romantic way or ‘marry me I love you’...and I make it clear! I love saying it.

It makes me feeling all...warm and fuzzy. I don’t have to hear it back.

Because it’s my business. I want to say it - I say it. No pressure for response.

Not for Gemini men but for all men of the zodiac...he will tell you when he is certain you are the one.

As someone told me...I love the foundation we are building. Enough for me to know he is seriously into me. More valuable than ‘I love you’...

He will say it when he will decide to propose. For him it’s a not just words to say. It’s commitment words...apparently.

Move in together. Live together. Build that foundation and if he isn’t saying it it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you.

But I would say he is still watching you and evaluating all you have together. Be annoying about it and you will lose the man. Just for not saying THE word? That would be stupid...
Posted by Mr_Pinchy

Posted by Purpleaqua01

Taurus Venus..... it could possibly be because I’m still stripping for money.

It could possibly be that indeed, as i understand it, that's a very possessive placement and it's difficult to reconcile calling someone your own (probably a prerequisite for the "i love you" words for possessive venuses) if that someone is stripping for randoms.

Him being there for you as you've said is him giving you time to sort it out, so he apparently does see potential in you but doesn't want to go "too deep" because of your proffession and the things you're exposed to while doing it.
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What’s her profession?
Posted by aquarius09

He’s supporting you financially and you’ve gone through hell together and you still need verbal affirmation? LMaO. Where’s your mars?
Up her ass! Apparently...
I don't get Geminis anyway.
Posted by Gemitati

Posted by aquarius09

He’s supporting you financially and you’ve gone through hell together and you still need verbal affirmation? LMaO. Where’s your mars?
Up her ass! Apparently

Lmao I’m up my ass because I want to hear my boyfriend of 9 months tell me he loves me? I can’t stand ppl like you, yes I expect the world because I know I deserve it. I asked a genuine question leave your BITTER miserable opinions to yourself.
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Posted by Purpleaqua01

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by aquarius09

He’s supporting you financially and you’ve gone through hell together and you still need verbal affirmation? LMaO. Where’s your mars?
Up her ass! Apparently

Lmao I’m up my ass because I want to hear my boyfriend of 9 months tell me he loves me? I can’t stand ppl like you, yes I expect the world because I know I deserve it. I asked a genuine question leave your BITTER miserable opinions to yourself.

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If he doesn’t tell you it means you haven’t deserved it yet. When you deserve it he will say it. The end!