Should I *Open Up* to Water Women?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by firebunny on Tuesday, September 17, 2013 and has 33 replies.
Should I? I'm a Virgo. Please tell me. They keep on saying that Earth is compatible with Water. But I learned my lesson. I'm quite scared of Water women TBH. What should I do?
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THE STING! At least for Scorps... then for Cancer, I'm afraid that they'd get too emotional... @_@
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Why not? Honestly your personality seems better suited to water signs.


why do you say so? water women are everywhere. i think they're the most common nowadays.
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Posted by ellessque
then how about pisces?
scorps aren't so bad. if you are honest (which you seem strikingly so), straightforward, and don't play games....there is no reason for a sting.


pisces? they're opposite my sign so it's a no-no.
i think scorps are nice people but i'm scared of them. i mean, when they fall in love, they fall in love DEEPLY like there's no point of return! In my situation, I'd always want some allowance, some option... If I date a Scorpio, I really have to make sure I love her or else... @_@
Even friendships take another meaning... I'm friendly as a bunny but some women, particularly Scorpios, mistake my friendliness for love and romance... and then they have this magnetic stare.... @_@!!! It's like telling you, convincing you to LOVE them!!! And I have fallen for that once in my life! @_@ I have fallen in love with a Scorpio woman but I'm a perfectionist Virgo. I told myself:"If I don't cut this relationship short, I'll pretty much end up marrying her!" @_@
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PVAF, I think you once said that Cancer is good for me. Why? What's with my personality? smile
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
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Posted by ellessque
then how about pisces?
scorps aren't so bad. if you are honest (which you seem strikingly so), straightforward, and don't play games....there is no reason for a sting.


pisces? they're opposite my sign so it's a no-no.
i think scorps are nice people but i'm scared of them. i mean, when they fall in love, they fall in love DEEPLY like there's no point of return! In my situation, I'd always want some allowance, some option... If I date a Scorpio, I really have to make sure I love her or else... @_@
Even friendships take another meaning... I'm friendly as a bunny but some women, particularly Scorpios, mistake my friendliness for love and romance... and then they have this magnetic stare.... @_@!!! It's like telling you, convincing you to LOVE them!!! And I have fallen for that once in my life! @_@ I have fallen in love with a Scorpio woman but I'm a perfectionist Virgo. I told myself:"If I don't cut this relationship short, I'll pretty much end up marrying her!" @_@

okay after reading this I think I'm wrong. Sounds like you're looking for something light and fun. Air signs are definitely better. Water signs like deep meaningful relationships. It's in our nature to look long term. I don't expect a marriage proposal from each guy I date. But I do want a firm commitment, because I get very emotionally attached. But I have a fixed Venus, Aquarius, which is surprisingly not as light, airy, and detached as some think. :-/
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LOL I LOVE SURPRISES! Big Grin Maybe you're right. I think I'm better off with Aire. Fire is fine with me too but no Sag... they can be very emotional too!
Aire girls surprise me the most. LOL. Especially Aquarius and Gemini. Water women are best as friends I think.
Now the next question is: how should I deal with Water women... so I wouldn't hurt them?
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Posted by firebunny
PVAF, I think you once said that Cancer is good for me. Why? What's with my personality? smile


You have a sweetness and sensitivity in your nature that is very unusual for a Virgo. I think a Cancer will nurture it. And a Scorpio would be very protective and loyal to you due to it. I could even see you with a Pisces. When you are ready to settle down, I think you will be more compatible with water signs or maybe a Taurus.
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Maybe I'm not ready to settle down yet. LOL. I'm too young!
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Posted by ellessque
air suns with some fire placements, at least for now.
if you think you might hurt water women, then you probably shouldn't try dealing with them....holding back is just going to get messy.


how about friendships? is it ok to be friends with them? what if a certain water girl is friends with me but there are some indicators that she seems to be wanting more? on the other hand, i needed her so much since i'm a transferee to this school. >_
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Well, that's strange... coz I only have one water placement. @_@
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Let them know you're only interested in them as friends.


this is HARD. >__
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Thank you very much, PVAF. I appreciate all your responses! smile
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Posted by firebunny
Well, that's strange... coz I only have one water placement. @_@


Yeah I don't know what it is. Maybe it's you Leo moon. Your energy doesn't feel cool and logical like I'm use to with Virgos. More warm and sensitive.
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Yeah probably. LOL. Thanks for everything PVAF. Now how can I text you? Are you from the US? I'm logging off in few minutes. Ands, the only other Filipino on here, is always out of reach. I wonder what's up with that guy? @_@
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Let them know you're only interested in them as friends.


this is HARD.


Not surprising with a Leo moon!
Love me! Love me! Everyone love and admire me! Tongue
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LOL. SOOO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Big Grin
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
^^ They're attracted to you because you come off watery. Let them know you're only interested in them as friends. Don't send mixed signals. Treat friends like friends, and don't flirt with them like you're interested.


this ^^^^^^
you do come off a bit watery and it's enticing to water signs. just be completely honest with them and you will have some good friends for life.
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Thanks Elle. You have the googley eyes MrWendall has mentioned! I can't stop looking at them! LOL.
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Posted by Nicrobliz
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Let them know you're only interested in them as friends.


this is HARD.


Not surprising with a Leo moon!
Love me! Love me! Everyone love and admire me! Tongue


LOL. SOOO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Big Grin


LOL!
But you have to remember that, when you are with someone (serious or not), you'll have to tone down that aspect pronto. So, why not start practising now?
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In the process, dude. But I just can't make anyone feel that way. Those words are going to be really really hard to say. Right now, I am waiting for the right time before I could say that. I'm waiting for the most casual moment when saying it won't hurt at all. Is this the right thing to do, mate? LOL.
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Posted by ellessque
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
^^ They're attracted to you because you come off watery. Let them know you're only interested in them as friends. Don't send mixed signals. Treat friends like friends, and don't flirt with them like you're interested.


this ^^^^^^
you do come off a bit watery and it's enticing to water signs. just be completely honest with them and you will have some good friends for life.


Thanks Elle. You have the googley eyes MrWendall has mentioned! I can't stop looking at them! LOL.


your flirty Leo moon is going to get you in trouble! You better watch yourself! Tongue
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LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!! smile))) Come on, Elle. I can't stop myself from complimenting a girl. Tongue LOL
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Well, that's strange... coz I only have one water placement. @_@


Yeah I don't know what it is. Maybe it's you Leo moon. Your energy doesn't feel cool and logical like I'm use to with Virgos. More warm and sensitive.


Yeah probably. LOL. Thanks for everything PVAF. Now how can I text you? Are you from the US? I'm logging off in few minutes. Ands, the only other Filipino on here, is always out of reach. I wonder what's up with that guy? @_@

yeah I'm in the US. Email maybe? It comes straight to my phone.
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my phone right now is old school coz i just had my old phone dropped into the sea due to some carelessness. LOL. but maybe next week, i'm going to buy some new phone. LOL.
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Posted by Nicrobliz
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Let them know you're only interested in them as friends.


this is HARD.


Not surprising with a Leo moon!
Love me! Love me! Everyone love and admire me! Tongue


LOL. SOOO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Big Grin


LOL!
But you have to remember that, when you are with someone (serious or not), you'll have to tone down that aspect pronto. So, why not start practising now?


In the process, dude. But I just can't make anyone feel that way. Those words are going to be really really hard to say. Right now, I am waiting for the right time before I could say that. I'm waiting for the most casual moment when saying it won't hurt at all. Is this the right thing to do, mate? LOL.


Are you referring to the ones you wish to keep as friends only? You don't have to say anything - just be careful on how you interact with them. Do that and you won't find yourself in such awkward situations.
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Thanks. But what if something gravitates. I mean just what if these girls flirt with me? @_@
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Posted by firebunny
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Let them know you're only interested in them as friends.


this is HARD.


Not surprising with a Leo moon!
Love me! Love me! Everyone love and admire me! Tongue


LOL. SOOO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Big Grin


LOL!
But you have to remember that, when you are with someone (serious or not), you'll have to tone down that aspect pronto. So, why not start practising now?


In the process, dude. But I just can't make anyone feel that way. Those words are going to be really really hard to say. Right now, I am waiting for the right time before I could say that. I'm waiting for the most casual moment when saying it won't hurt at all. Is this the right thing to do, mate? LOL.


Are you referring to the ones you wish to keep as friends only? You don't have to say anything - just be careful on how you interact with them. Do that and you won't find yourself in such awkward situations.


Thanks. But what if something gravitates. I mean just what if these girls flirt with me? @_@


Dude, come on, grow a backbone will ya! LOL!
The only way you can continue down this path is to NEVER get seriously/emotionally involved with anyone.
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LOLZ. Thanks thanks. smile I appreciate it. Tongue
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OMG. Everything's gonna bore me down if I don't flirt! LOL. Thing is, now I know Water women are to be avoided FOR NOW. LOL.
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
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OMG. Everything's gonna bore me down if I don't flirt! LOL. Thing is, now I know Water women are to be avoided FOR NOW. LOL.


It depends on how you flirt. No scratch that. Just don't flirt with women you aren't interested in.
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What if you're partially interested? @_@
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LOL. Never mind. I'll just play jokes and probably these girls would realize that I'm just all kidding... LOL...
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Setting limits is a good idea. Now I have to mold mine in the next coming weeks/months. @_@
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How not to hurt "water" women? Don't play games. And let them know when you're going to disappear.
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Posted by KingVirgo
Bruh you have to open up to females in general, if not then your wasting their time.


yeah, this thread sounds like I'm listening to a 10 y.o. boy, "girls are scary"
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ad is hilarious Big Grin;
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Just don't flirt with women you aren't interested in.

I'm not certain this is possible for a Leo Moon, at last not a male;
C) Great pic, Elle;
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Posted by ellessque
scorps aren't so bad. if you are honest (which you seem strikingly so), straightforward, and don't play games....there is no reason for a sting.
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Yet, even in the absence of a reason, a sting will be attempted. It's just in your nature;
E) Best of luck, Mr. Bunny. smile
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by firebunny
PVAF, I think you once said that Cancer is good for me. Why? What's with my personality? smile


Yes, CANCER IS TOO GOOD FOR YOU! Leave us alone man. We don't want your bullsh!T.

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And Virgo is too perfect for you, CC! You don't deserve another Virguy! LOL Big Grin
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Bruh you have to open up to females in general, if not then your wasting their time.


yeah, this thread sounds like I'm listening to a 10 y.o. boy, "girls are scary"
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i'm not scared of girls. i'm just scared of hurting them. >_
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Posted by StoicGoat
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Just don't flirt with women you aren't interested in.

I'm not certain this is possible for a Leo Moon, at last not a male;
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Yeah, I just did twice this afternoon. with a Gemini and a Virgo. smile not water so I'm safe! smile
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Posted by ellessque
thanks, stoic genie! smile


that statement alone is scary! @_@
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Posted by tw1nk1e
I was completely horrible and have yet to be stung by a Scorpio. Not saying to do that, but they are much more patient than you can imagine. Just don't test their boundaries.
Cancer gives good sympathy, but sometimes might be more focused on their own emotional reaction.
Scorpio is able to handle pretty much anything. But they don't talk about it.
Pisces just swims off or goes into emotional shut down.

But in general, it's always good to be open with loved ones.


Alot of people in the world don't have boundaries, I noticed.
http://sheerbalance.com/brettsblog/out-of-bounds-dealing-with-people-who-break-boundaries/
Most people have a sense of what is and isn??t appropriate when it comes to respecting boundaries. However, we are bound to find individuals who don??t. These people are abusive??_and if we don??t deal with them properly, they will continue to break boundaries time and time again.
As much as we strive for healthy relationships, we inevitably encounter individuals who are bullies, toxic or just plain manipulative. Some of these people KNOW what they are doing, but often, most ???just don??t get it:?? They have little-to-no self-awareness and feel that they are fully entitled or appropriate in their behavior. And what??s worse is that they frequently get away with it because others don??t stand up to them. This enables boundary breakers and convinces them that their behavior is acceptable. Here??s a news flash: It ISN??T.
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Know Who You Are Dealing with: The first step in this process is to identify those individuals who don??t respect your boundaries. Doing so will keep you on the look-out for times that boundaries need to be reinforced or put into place.
Tune-in: Start paying attention to how these people typically break boundaries. Some questions to ask: Are they pushy? Do they ask questions you feel uncomfortable answering? Do they discuss things with you that are inappropriate? Do they disregard your wishes or needs? Do they always prioritize their needs before yours?
Trust Your Gut: If you aren??t sure as to whether or not a boundary is being broken, stop thinking and start feeling. Does something feel awkward, uncomfortable or wrong? Can you feel an adrenaline rush, but aren??t sure why? Do you feel nauseous during the discussion? At times, our guts have better listening skills than our ears. If you can feel a visceral reaction to the conversation at hand, you can be pretty sure that something isn??t right.
so yes, OP, water women/water soaked/types are good if you know your boundaries.
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twinkle and lisabethur8, i think i needed to clarify myself out. the discussion has been taken way too far out of the context.
as to me being unable to know my boundaries, i would say that i do. i'm just way too lazy to explain why i do but it's there in me and i don't need to prove it to anybody.
as far as the scorpio gal i was talking about, SHE'S JUST WAY WAY TOO MUCH...
TOO MANIPULATIVE
TOO CONTROLLING
TOO INSISTENT
TOO POSSESSIVE!!!!
My sister doesn't even like her!!!! @_@!!!
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