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These are aspects that I see between us whenever we see us:
the union is unstable ... there will inevitably be Division...
... frequent disputes, as they may find it difficult to speak calmly. They might too frequently adopt an aggressive, defensive, or offensive stance with one another. Conflict is caused if they both want to dominate the other, and if they do not consciously attempt to relate on the basis of mutual understanding. One may lay down the law, give orders, and makes decisions and the other may be an independent type, who cannot stand being limited, taking orders...
... frequently are impatient with each other... disputes and frequent tension.
A tendency to want to direct the partner's thoughts and ideas. Reading too much into what is said and what is not said. The Mercury person (DwellingOnMove) may not feel free to express his or her ideas, and can feel stifled intellectually by the Pluto person (sister).
Square Saturn - Neptune : Unlucky union.
... very challenging for such a union to be happy, but if it progresses, it could easily become unbearable! Both parties must be committed to happiness in order for this to work.
A life together that can be very challenging at times on an intellectual level. Intellectual misunderstandings, diametrically opposed tastes, different ideas.
Unfavorable union, the relationship will be difficult and sometimes destructive. To be avoided.
Challenging in terms of perspectives. There can be distinct times when they argue about restrictions on freedom.
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
I can't stand my sister any more. At the same time I'm afraid to be the bad guy. and let her suffer (moon in cancer).
what should I do if she does not give up on me?
she is enervating. well, to me...
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Jan 27, 2012Comments: 4343 · Posts: 13269 · Topics: 69
You're lucky.
My Scorpio sister is committed/asylum.
I miss her, worry about her.
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Since today we have the transitting Pluto (Cap) in square to transitting NN (Libra) , I granted more thoughts on Pluto aspects.
1. It seems tPluto/Cap has been activating my feeling of power due to trine to MC/Virgo.
So I'm trying to find more sense and inspect my life.
At the same time my sister and friends want to do the normal life thing.
That bothers me and I keep distance. They worry and want to penetrate.
2. My own damn natal Mercury square Pluto. (also Merc-sq-Uran). CA says I'm incisive (a bastard) when somebody is around me.
3. My sister is the Pluto person: Sun/Merc/Uranus conj. Pluto + Mars/Nept sxtl Pluto.
4. Her Saturn opposes my Pluto, her Pluto squares my Mercury.
All in all it seems as I got the power and started avoiding Pluto people in my life. E.g. my sis, my scorp-ex, workplaces, etc.
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"... Cap has been activating my ... MC/Virgo."
And my natal Pluto in Virgo.
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Jan 27, 2012Comments: 4343 · Posts: 13269 · Topics: 69
My sister is a Pluto person.
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"My brothers and I are afraid that she will beg us to take her with us, "
as you said I am lucky. My sister played my game with me. So no big pressure or drama. no, nothing.
She did behave 85% optimal.
she was in my city for about 8 days (as far as I know)
she did not write email or short message. did not call me. But she talked on my voice mail only once.
Also she let a friend call me. That friend did not say that he does it for her. But I assumed it.
In multiple opportunities before her trip and while it I let her (via this friend and my father) know that I prefer to continue the loner life episode. that people need not to worry about me. that I'll talk to them in a few weeks, months or years. they should simply wait. That worked.
It would be nice if she could take the same time to herself.
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Jan 27, 2012Comments: 4343 · Posts: 13269 · Topics: 69
DwellingOnMove,??
I understand. I let go easily, sometimes fond memories, often bittersweet, sometimes nothing at all. I often feel the ability is strength, wonder in its perversity. Doing all I can before the end.
I was given this meditation: "Your responsibility for the world begins and ends with yourself."
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btw I hope I did not create the impression that I was promoting a better approach.
it was more kind of analysing myself.
even i went so far that i was about to quote Nitsche.. but it i suppressed that idea. out of fear to be asked how is that compatible with charity work I've done.
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Two of my favorites for you...
???The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.????
"Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.????
????Friedrich Nietzsche