Some people are meant to be alone like superman.
This topic was created in the Astrology forum by SuperMissMan on Sunday, August 3, 2014 and has 24 replies.
Doesn't mean we have to gripe about it.
What do you guys think of this? How would u feel never marrying and being alone for life? Free...sad...happy? State your sign too.
Posted by tiziani
Superman has Wonder Woman, for some reason.
Eh.
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I don't think any of us are meant to be alone.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I don't think any of us are meant to be alone.
I do. When someone dies young, their soul mate is left to be alone forever.
My new theory haha. Well idk, I don't think we're meant for anything. I think we make our futures.
Posted by RainDancer88
I think about this a lot actually. I'd imagine I'd feel unrestricted but also, unfulfilled.
Exactly. I'd feel like I'd have my whole life to do anything I could possibly want but with a horrible catch, I'd be empty. I hate the feeling of emptiness but I hate not being free...it's a love hate thing :/
Posted by Impulsv
It's a willing choice until it's not.
What do you mean?
It's a choice to be alone. Standards dictate that choice which somehow gets skewed into fate.
Posted by tiziani
Superman has Wonder Woman, for some reason.
Superman finally grew some balls.
Posted by tizianiPosted by aquasnozPosted by tiziani
Superman has Wonder Woman, for some reason.
Superman finally grew some balls.
It's ridiculous though man, she's much better with Batman (shrugs)click to expand
It would make a great Batman vs Supes again though lol. Though I think Bats would just say meh fuck it *goes back to batcave* because he chose to be alone.
See what I did thar hur hur
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Posted by SuperMissMan
My new theory haha. Well idk, I don't think we're meant for anything. I think we make our futures.
If human beings were meant to be alone then that would mean we would be asexual and not need each other to reproduce and nurture the continuation of our species.
It's true, all in state of mind, but my great aunt never got married or had kids, and she grew up learning that she ended to get married, and I'm sure she really wanted to. All her sisters did and they had happy marriages. It's scary for me because I'm a lot like her. I don't want to end up like that, I really value relationships, I mean I value freedom too but I'll give it up in a heartbeat.
Hahaha
I think I'm going to spend the rest of my life alone. I don't have a strong urge to reproduce and have kids, but if it happens, it happens. And if I need to release my sexual urges, I can just get an easy fix. It sounds bad, but that's just how it is.
I don't think you need to be alone in order to live life to the fullest thats just asinine. only when children come into the picture is when its put on the backburner but not because you have a partner.
Hello everybody and a wonderful day to you all. I am a 37 year old Solar Gemini and a Lunar Pisces, with my Venus in Taurus. I married at the young age of 18, which it ended up failing in divorce some 9 years later. The divorce was final in 2006 and for the past 8 years I have been living a single life. I have tried the whole "dating scene" on numerous occasions, however, each time I give up, not so much in frustration, but rather in an understanding and acceptance.
I have an extremely romantic character, one which leaves me exceptionally vulnerable within a relationship, due to my impressionability. I have tried to line myself around the women who seemed, in a natal chart aspect, as my best compatibilities. I've never had any real luck and I have walked away, on a few occasions, with a feeling that, what I search for just isn't here on Earth. Honestly, it's more like I intuitively know this and I've grown to accept it.
If anyone is built to withstand a lifetime of living alone though, it is most definitely me. In all honesty, I kind of enjoy having my independence and I somehow know that it is healthier for me to maintain my independence. I am a very free-spirited/free-thinking type of man and I will definitely need a lot of my own personal freedom within a relationship; a lot of this, just so I can loose myself into the realm of my own day dreams, which I've come to realize is very healthy for my emotional stability. Plus, I don't deal well with the negative side, which tends to come with relationships, and when that side of the coin surfaces, I tend to back away from the relationship and ultimately fade away from it. I cannot do the date this one for a few months and break up. Find another, date her for a year and break up, I'm just not built for this and it would literally destroy me. I would need someone with steadfast loyalty, hasn't an ounce of anger within her, is very communicative, and knows how to give back, what is received. Honestly, I'd pretty much need someone who is a lot like myself and I do not see me finding it in this lifetime.
However, it isn't so bad because I'm not truly alone. I had three children in my previous marriage and they are with me every day of my life so, at least until my children are raised, I don't mind walking in the dark forest of aloneness.
I have an extremely romantic character, one which leaves me exceptionally vulnerable within a relationship, due to my impressionability. I have tried to line myself around the women who seemed, in a natal chart aspect, as my best compatibilities. I've never had any real luck and I have walked away, on a few occasions, with a feeling that, what I search for just isn't here on Earth. Honestly, it's more like I intuitively know this and I've grown to accept it.
If anyone is built to withstand a lifetime of living alone though, it is most definitely me. In all honesty, I kind of enjoy having my independence and I somehow know that it is healthier for me to maintain my independence. I am a very free-spirited/free-thinking type of man and I will definitely need a lot of my own personal freedom within a relationship; a lot of this, just so I can loose myself into the realm of my own day dreams, which I've come to realize is very healthy for my emotional stability. Plus, I don't deal well with the negative side, which tends to come with relationships, and when that side of the coin surfaces, I tend to back away from the relationship and ultimately fade away from it. I cannot do the date this one for a few months and break up. Find another, date her for a year and break up, I'm just not built for this and it would literally destroy me. I would need someone with steadfast loyalty, hasn't an ounce of anger within her, is very communicative, and knows how to give back, what is received. Honestly, I'd pretty much need someone who is a lot like myself and I do not see me finding it in this lifetime.
However, it isn't so bad because I'm not truly alone. I had three children in my previous marriage and they are with me every day of my life so, at least until my children are raised, I don't mind walking in the dark forest of aloneness.
Posted by starlover
...dark forest? why does it have to be dark ~ i am free and single and have a life full of fun and lightness
My apologies, I meant nothing negative by it. I also choose that path, however, it sounded more novel to title it as such. Making it seem more mysterious and alluring. Just because something is dark when your staring from the outside, does not mean it isn't bright and full of life when inside it.
Posted by starlover
Dont have to apologize
I am an advocator of learning to love being with yourself, if you can do that comfortably, you can then be with others too
Don't worry about the dark thing..i am a Scorp, so it is innate, i just choose to bring in the lightness now
I am a Scorpio Rising, so I can relate on it being innate. Though, I am most definitely a being of the light, however, I am definitely no stranger to the dark side either. Light > Dark, Yin > Yang, exact opposites, just like the twins I have inside me.
When we have reached the end of our life's path and are down to our final breaths. As the life starts to leave our body and our journey into the unknown begins to take shape, we will be but alone and with only ourselves to give us courage and strength.
I was exploring the internet, some time back, and I came across a website, one based on theory of reincarnation and the soul evolution process. The last stage of this process or the "old souls" stage was very interesting, I felt it related to myself quite accurately. Anyways, it said that an old soul, through it's remaining lifetime, will start to separate itself from material items. That the old soul would subconsciously know that material items were useless because he wouldn't be of the earth much longer.
I was exploring the internet, some time back, and I came across a website, one based on theory of reincarnation and the soul evolution process. The last stage of this process or the "old souls" stage was very interesting, I felt it related to myself quite accurately. Anyways, it said that an old soul, through it's remaining lifetime, will start to separate itself from material items. That the old soul would subconsciously know that material items were useless because he wouldn't be of the earth much longer.
Some people are miserable in relationship and some people are content on their own. You gotta find love and acceptance within before you can share that with others. It's not about the state but the state of mind.
pisc you enlighten me about the world everytime you post I swear to god.
Don't say that star. I have this fear of dolls coming to life. All dolls are evil. All of them.
Posted by SuperMissMan
What do you guys think of this? How would u feel never marrying and being alone for life? Free...sad...happy? State your sign too.
I'm not bothered. You can't predict the future either.
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