South Node Synastry
This topic was created in the Astrology forum by thecrazyariestaurus on Monday, November 28, 2016 and has 35 replies.
Have you ever had an South Node connections with anyone you were at one point very close to? If you aren't talking to them anymore, was it hard to let go?
Yes and yes. We're both Taurus with SN in Gem.
Posted by DonJohnI understand. I have this with an ex and I'm having a really hard time letting go. Actually I think we both are. It's reall tearing me apart. I've never felt this type of connection/pain before until I met him. I'm usually able to let go easily, and keep my word when I say I'm not going back. But with this one it's so hard.
yup both of our south nodes are in contact with personal planets.
it's a love at first sight connection. like we are soul mates. never felt like this before.
it's the most powerful connection i've ever felt. that's saying a lot.
Posted by SeasonHow did you finally get yourself to let go?
Yes and yes. We're both Taurus with SN in Gem.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusAfter being miserable for a long time, I let myself love another guy who appreciated me. He was a Leo Sun.Posted by SeasonHow did you finally get yourself to let go?
Yes and yes. We're both Taurus with SN in Gem.click to expand
Posted by Impulsv
Ur yes but if ur touching their south nodes they can get tired of u as they have grown past that lesson
I had Venus n moon gems touch my south node
By the end listing to them talk was like nails on chalkboard lol
I had easier time moving on lol
Isn't the south node contacts about past life connections and letting go in this lifetime imp?
Posted by DonJohnI'm south node, and he's the moon. I constantly try to leave because I get tired of his bullshit, and he never lets me leave without a fight. I eventually start to get used to not speaking to him/having him around, but then he'll text me and all the feelings come back, and I go back. It's so hard not to go back and I just feel so pathetic.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by DonJohnI understand. I have this with an ex and I'm having a really hard time letting go. Actually I think we both are. It's reall tearing me apart. I've never felt this type of connection/pain before until I met him. I'm usually able to let go easily, and keep my word when I say I'm not going back. But with this one it's so hard.
yup both of our south nodes are in contact with personal planets.
it's a love at first sight connection. like we are soul mates. never felt like this before.
it's the most powerful connection i've ever felt. that's saying a lot.
if the connection is not mutual. like only your node touches his or hsi node touches yours then only 1 party will be super into the other one.
who is the node and who is the planet personclick to expand
Posted by Impulsv
Yes
My ex Leo my sun touched his south node so he moved on.
Since then I met that Leo strong pull but he got so jealous . His moon n Venus touched my south node gem but I was over it
The I met another Taurus with moon gem n Venus as well n had such a strong pull. We're fb freinds n I think of him dearly sometime get a pull to talk to him but I don't follow, ( this isn't Taurus ex)
So yes think they are past lives but one outgrows the lesson the planet bores n moves towards their nnd.
I have yet to find a sag I'm interested in lol good lord help me
Interesting
The last rship I was in....we had the double whammy and it was a karmic rship..many lives spent together and I so needed to get away from it....but it took me a long time to do so. I learned so much from being with him and had to literally peel him off me.....but so glad I found the strength to do so. It became the same old thing and the lessons were eventually learned
I am different and much freer for experiencing it
love at first sight for moon - south node mutual conjunction. the danger is they may become too complacent in the relatinoship over time. other synergy aspects that encourage mutual growth would help greatly. moon - north node connection can be extremely powerful but it can be painful and harder to make it work unless both are very emotionally mature and ready to say goodbye to their comfort zones
Posted by DonJohnHaha don't even get me started on the rest of the chart. This is definitely a karmic relationship which is why it's extremely hard to let go no matter how hard we both try. We have a lot of Saturn, north, south nodes, vertex, and pluto aspects in both our composite and Davison charts. Sometimes I feel hopeless and feel like I'll never move on. I almost feel trapped sometimes. It's a shitty feelingPosted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by DonJohnI'm south node, and he's the moon. I constantly try to leave because I get tired of his bullshit, and he never lets me leave without a fight. I eventually start to get used to not speaking to him/having him around, but then he'll text me and all the feelings come back, and I go back. It's so hard not to go back and I just feel so pathetic.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by DonJohnI understand. I have this with an ex and I'm having a really hard time letting go. Actually I think we both are. It's reall tearing me apart. I've never felt this type of connection/pain before until I met him. I'm usually able to let go easily, and keep my word when I say I'm not going back. But with this one it's so hard.
yup both of our south nodes are in contact with personal planets.
it's a love at first sight connection. like we are soul mates. never felt like this before.
it's the most powerful connection i've ever felt. that's saying a lot.
if the connection is not mutual. like only your node touches his or hsi node touches yours then only 1 party will be super into the other one.
who is the node and who is the planet person
very interesting.
yeah you have a karmic connection.
i felt the push and pull in the first while. but now it's complete smoothness.
also depends on the rest of your chart too.... saturn connections. vernus. vertex. etc.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvDefinitely tired of it, it's just hard to actually leave.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusYes seems u are outgrowing him or that patternPosted by DonJohnI'm south node, and he's the moon. I constantly try to leave because I get tired of his bullshit, and he never lets me leave without a fight. I eventually start to get used to not speaking to him/having him around, but then he'll text me and all the feelings come back, and I go back. It's so hard not to go back and I just feel so pathetic.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by DonJohnI understand. I have this with an ex and I'm having a really hard time letting go. Actually I think we both are. It's reall tearing me apart. I've never felt this type of connection/pain before until I met him. I'm usually able to let go easily, and keep my word when I say I'm not going back. But with this one it's so hard.
yup both of our south nodes are in contact with personal planets.
it's a love at first sight connection. like we are soul mates. never felt like this before.
it's the most powerful connection i've ever felt. that's saying a lot.
if the connection is not mutual. like only your node touches his or hsi node touches yours then only 1 party will be super into the other one.
who is the node and who is the planet personclick to expand
my personal experience is that s. node mutual conjunction is easy like DJ says. one way n. node conjunction almost killed me lol
and one time i had my n. node conjuncts his sun, moon, mercury and venus. i still feel really bad about the hurt i brought him unintentionally
Posted by DonJohnIn all honesty, this relationship was very toxic and unhealthy. He did a lot of shit to me, and I was very unaffectionate towards him. This is why I keep trying to leave. This last time we broke up, everything was going great, and he seemed like he was really ready to change, and step it up, but I think I fucked it up. Now I feel really bad. But then again I feel stupid for feeling bad. I thought I was going to move on for sure, until yesterday when he texted me lol sorry that was a little vent there haha
the thing is maybe you shouldn't move on.
have you thought about that..... i dunno enough about your relationship though. i'm not the best to give advice in my current situation\ because it's very easy in my case..... it shouldn't be difficult imo
Posted by iCloud9Damn. Why couldn't it just be mutual?!? Lol
my personal experience is that s. node mutual conjunction is easy like DJ says. one way n. node conjunction almost killed me lol
what if your s. node is the same as their sun? something? nothing?
and you share both the same s.node.
confused. sorry.
and you share both the same s.node.
confused. sorry.
Posted by ImpulsvHmm I've never looked into that. I'm gonna check now
I'm curious what nnd conj nnd does
Posted by jeaneHere's what I found:
what if your s. node is the same as their sun? something? nothing?
and you share both the same s.node.
confused. sorry.
South node/sun: http://astrolady.wixsite.com/astrolady/sun-conjunct-south-node-in-synastry
South node south node, I didn't find anything on yet
The major relationships in my life have all had south and North node connections. All of them I felt instant recognition and immediate comfort. They will be with me forever, now doubt. Everyone else I just moved on from, no problem, so I'm guessing there is something to those nodes.
i agree with the s. node sun conj issue.
attraction was great but then you would feel stuck or "held back". it it said to avoid your south node sun when you are emotionally mature and my personal experience agrees again lol
attraction was great but then you would feel stuck or "held back". it it said to avoid your south node sun when you are emotionally mature and my personal experience agrees again lol
the two n. node painful experience really opened me up emotionally so i'm grateful for them
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusthank youPosted by jeaneHere's what I found:
what if your s. node is the same as their sun? something? nothing?
and you share both the same s.node.
confused. sorry.
South node/sun: http://astrolady.wixsite.com/astrolady/sun-conjunct-south-node-in-synastry
South node south node, I didn't find anything on yetclick to expand
Posted by hades_mooni guess if you have the right combo of sn/nn conjuncts, you are blessed; or so screwed that it may put one of you in a straitjacket, especially when you also suffer major saturn blockages. Saturn can really be Satan lol
If s. nodes are easy and n. nodes are challenging, what happens if two people have sn and nn conjuncts to each other's personal planets?
Posted by iCloud9FACTS lolPosted by hades_moonSaturn can really be Satan lol
If s. nodes are easy and n. nodes are challenging, what happens if two people have sn and nn conjuncts to each other's personal planets?click to expand
and if you have saturn - neptune conjunction / opposition on top of nodes conj/opps, it'd be a true testament to your mental health / strength. if that does not kill you, nothing would lol
We have both South Node and North Node connections. I have Moon/South Node in Virgo 18º and the other person have a Venus/Mars conjunction in Virgo 16º. And my Venus and Mercury in Gemini 18º conjunct her North Node/Moon in 16º-18º.
We're both females living in different countries. She was dating a cousin of mine at some point, that's how I met her. We seem to understand each other without saying much and apparently our lives has quite a few similarities but I don't know about deep connection, I have always imagine something like that as more.. impactful.
Her Sun/Mercury/Pluto also conjunct my DSC and trine my Sun.
I have that in my natal chart:
True Node 17º16' Pisces direct
Moon 17º43' Virgo
Mercury 18º 38' Gemini retrograde
Venus 17º22 Gemini retrograde
Mars 18º15 Pisces
We're both females living in different countries. She was dating a cousin of mine at some point, that's how I met her. We seem to understand each other without saying much and apparently our lives has quite a few similarities but I don't know about deep connection, I have always imagine something like that as more.. impactful.
Her Sun/Mercury/Pluto also conjunct my DSC and trine my Sun.
Posted by hades_moon
If s. nodes are easy and n. nodes are challenging, what happens if two people have sn and nn conjuncts to each other's personal planets?
I have that in my natal chart:
True Node 17º16' Pisces direct
Moon 17º43' Virgo
Mercury 18º 38' Gemini retrograde
Venus 17º22 Gemini retrograde
Mars 18º15 Pisces
Posted by iCloud9
and if you have saturn - neptune conjunction / opposition on top of nodes conj/opps, it'd be a true testament to your mental health / strength. if that does not kill you, nothing would lol
I have all of that. The nodal conjunctions and squares. Saturn/Uranus conjunction in tight opposition to my Sun/Chiron conjunction. Neptune in opposition to my Sun too, wider orb though.
I'm quite sane I would say, but then I don't go around openly expressing my weirdness.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusYes and yes. My first love. He's a Scorpio, my South node conjunct ed his sun.. possibly Venus too?
Have you ever had an South Node connections with anyone you were at one point very close to? If you aren't talking to them anymore, was it hard to let go?
Posted by hades_moonI think there may be something there but I'm not quite sure about what it is exactly. I don't really have much contact with her but she's always in the back of my mind. She's coming for Christmas and we may talk about her life now that she's not with my cousin anymore (they have a baby together). She seems to trust in me a lot. Maybe she'll try to convince me to go where she is as she knows I want to move, she did this the last time we saw each other.Posted by june_rThat's interesting. So despite the SN/NN connections you don't think you have a deep connection with her?
We have both South Node and North Node connections. I have Moon/South Node in Virgo 18º and the other person have a Venus/Mars conjunction in Virgo 16º. And my Venus and Mercury in Gemini 18º conjunct her North Node/Moon in 16º-18º.
We're both females living in different countries. She was dating a cousin of mine at some point, that's how I met her. We seem to understand each other without saying much and apparently our lives has quite a few similarities but I don't know about deep connection, I have always imagine something like that as more.. impactful.
Her Sun/Mercury/Pluto also conjunct my DSC and trine my Sun.Posted by hades_moon
If s. nodes are easy and n. nodes are challenging, what happens if two people have sn and nn conjuncts to each other's personal planets?
I have that in my natal chart:
True Node 17º16' Pisces direct
Moon 17º43' Virgo
Mercury 18º 38' Gemini retrograde
Venus 17º22 Gemini retrograde
Mars 18º15 Piscesclick to expand
Posted by ImpulsvIt is just synastry then I have most of those aspects with this woman. Her NN/Moon conjunction is in the apex of my t-square and her Venus/Mars conjuncts my Moon/SN. Her Neptune also opposes my Sun/Chiron. I don't think there is anything about her I should be scared about. We have very similar interests.Posted by june_rPosted by iCloud9
and if you have saturn - neptune conjunction / opposition on top of nodes conj/opps, it'd be a true testament to your mental health / strength. if that does not kill you, nothing would lol
I have all of that. The nodal conjunctions and squares. Saturn/Uranus conjunction in tight opposition to my Sun/Chiron conjunction. Neptune in opposition to my Sun too, wider orb though.
I'm quite sane I would say, but then I don't go around openly expressing my weirdness.
I suspect meant synastryclick to expand
Funny thing, my aunt was talking about her the other day and say something about her being a bit crazy and emotional unstable. She's a Scorpio Sun, Gemini Moon. I found her to be intelligent and sensible. Anyone will be drive to temporal madness with my cousin, I'm glad she has finally left him. It wasn't a healthy relationship and she and the baby deserve a better environment.
I've heard about nodal contacts between family members too.
Me: Node in Pisces 18º
Brother: Node in Gemini 23º
Niece: Node in Sagittarius 18º
Sadly I live far away from my family, I have only see my niece in pictures and I remember the feeling of seeing her before when I did it the first time (she was 4 years old in the picture). All 3 of us are anxiety prone and dislike talking on the phone. My niece is a Virgo Sun and Mercury, I'm a Virgo Moon and my brother is a Virgo Mercury and Venus.
Any thoughts about family and node aspects?
Me: Node in Pisces 18º
Brother: Node in Gemini 23º
Niece: Node in Sagittarius 18º
Sadly I live far away from my family, I have only see my niece in pictures and I remember the feeling of seeing her before when I did it the first time (she was 4 years old in the picture). All 3 of us are anxiety prone and dislike talking on the phone. My niece is a Virgo Sun and Mercury, I'm a Virgo Moon and my brother is a Virgo Mercury and Venus.
Any thoughts about family and node aspects?
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusI hade one of these 4 of my planets were hiting his SN and 3 of his on my SN. Because out nodes were inversed He was NN in Libra and i was NN in Aries.
Have you ever had an South Node connections with anyone you were at one point very close to? If you aren't talking to them anymore, was it hard to let go?
We did have a crazy connection first. I was telling everyone i will marry him...so not me after 1 month LOL
But wait....i broke up with him for a minor issue (sabotaging) but later discovered he was a pathetic Sociopath!!!
Posted by hades_moondisclaimer: i'm only talking from my personal experience and observations. there are astrologers on dxpnet who are more qualified to commentPosted by iCloud9Lol. What do you think of A's Sun conjuncts B's NN, and B's Moon conjuncts A's SN?Posted by hades_mooni guess if you have the right combo of sn/nn conjuncts, you are blessed; or so screwed that it may put one of you in a straitjacket, especially when you also suffer major saturn blockages. Saturn can really be Satan lol
If s. nodes are easy and n. nodes are challenging, what happens if two people have sn and nn conjuncts to each other's personal planets?
Don't know about Saturn blockages though. Does A's Saturn sextile B's NN count?click to expand
"A's Sun conjuncts B's NN, and B's Moon conjuncts A's SN" - if B's personal planets are in harmony with A's NN, then this looks very good
i am referring to undeniable karmic debt connections here that may drive a sane mind insane so it's conj/opp between saturn - neptune
Posted by Impulsvyes indeed. thank you impulsvPosted by june_rPosted by iCloud9
and if you have saturn - neptune conjunction / opposition on top of nodes conj/opps, it'd be a true testament to your mental health / strength. if that does not kill you, nothing would lol
I have all of that. The nodal conjunctions and squares. Saturn/Uranus conjunction in tight opposition to my Sun/Chiron conjunction. Neptune in opposition to my Sun too, wider orb though.
I'm quite sane I would say, but then I don't go around openly expressing my weirdness.
I suspect meant synastryclick to expand
*~*South Node Aspects in Synastry*~*
When someone’s planet or point conjuncts your natal South Node, a past life connection is indicated. This person may be the “great love of your life.” Their memory is likely to stick with you forever, as your relationship has spanned many lifetimes. The South Node person is likely to feel that the planet person understand them better than anyone who has ever understood them. All South Node connections bring with them a sense of familiarity and comfort. You “know” the person from the moment you see them, and the chemistry is haunting.
This can be a good thing, or a bad thing, depending on how their past life relationship was. If it was a bad relationship, discomfort and fear are likely to surface on the part of at least one of the individuals. If the relationship was good, the relationship will be generally positive. This is especially true if the Node person is “South Node-oriented,” i.e. if the South Node person has conjunctions to their own South Node. In this case, they feel even more comfortable with the planet person and feels the planet person gives them the understanding and support they need.
On the downside, these kinds of relationships can make at least of the individuals feel “held back” by the relationship. They may feel that the relationship has no potential for growth, and decide to break off the union. Many astrology articles and books out there say it is the Node person who feels the relationship holds them back because the planet person “keeps” the Node person in the past.
However, in my personal experience, I’ve also seen the opposite: that the planet person feels held back. This is because the Node person often “drains” the planet person of the energy the planet represents. You see, Nodal connections in relationships indicate there is an imbalance that exists between the two people. The South Node person most likely did something nice for the planet person in the past, and they are now back in the planet person’s life, looking for payback. This, in turn, can be very draining for the planet person, as they feel they are always giving.
When someone’s planet or point conjuncts your natal South Node, a past life connection is indicated. This person may be the “great love of your life.” Their memory is likely to stick with you forever, as your relationship has spanned many lifetimes. The South Node person is likely to feel that the planet person understand them better than anyone who has ever understood them. All South Node connections bring with them a sense of familiarity and comfort. You “know” the person from the moment you see them, and the chemistry is haunting.
This can be a good thing, or a bad thing, depending on how their past life relationship was. If it was a bad relationship, discomfort and fear are likely to surface on the part of at least one of the individuals. If the relationship was good, the relationship will be generally positive. This is especially true if the Node person is “South Node-oriented,” i.e. if the South Node person has conjunctions to their own South Node. In this case, they feel even more comfortable with the planet person and feels the planet person gives them the understanding and support they need.
On the downside, these kinds of relationships can make at least of the individuals feel “held back” by the relationship. They may feel that the relationship has no potential for growth, and decide to break off the union. Many astrology articles and books out there say it is the Node person who feels the relationship holds them back because the planet person “keeps” the Node person in the past.
However, in my personal experience, I’ve also seen the opposite: that the planet person feels held back. This is because the Node person often “drains” the planet person of the energy the planet represents. You see, Nodal connections in relationships indicate there is an imbalance that exists between the two people. The South Node person most likely did something nice for the planet person in the past, and they are now back in the planet person’s life, looking for payback. This, in turn, can be very draining for the planet person, as they feel they are always giving.
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