The cheapest sign that you have ever dated....

I am piggybacking off of another thread, but I want to know your experiences with these cheap bastards!!!

Virgo and believe it or not, Leo.

With the Virgo, it was about the money; with Leo, it was about the fact that they were control freaks.

😐


However, I have also dated a very generous Virgo, who had loads of Leo in his chart.

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Posted by size zero superhero
If I pick up on the fact a guy is cheap(and I DON'T mean poor or "down on their luck")dating will never commence.

Pitifully stingy with funds = usually greedy with their time, non-monetary resources & more self-involved than the average bear.

My loss? I don't think so.

Right, right-- it also usually means they're big, fat scaredy-cats.

So what sign?

My first ex is cheap??_..he was in advertising and used to brag that he was from a rich family to me and everyone I knew??_.we were at a club once and was standing with a group of guys he was trying to impress and one of them was a real douche bag so he gives him his last $ 40 and said "here go get yourself a pill" trying to make himself well off and then was trying to mooch off me for the rest of the night??_.I was angry at him because if anything he should be spending that $ 40 on me not some random guy who's acting like a shit head.

I had a lot of drug dealer friends who would go clubbing and would put pills in my mouth if I wanted because I was like family and he would bug me all the time to get a pill for him because he didn't want to pay. another time was when this guy had a big bag of ketamine and we were out and my ex was following him everywhere and the guy asked me if I wanted to have some with him in the bathroom and I said ok??_.then he asks me if he could kiss me and I said no, Ive got a BF and he said "its ok" and I'm like no I'm pretty sure he would be angry and he replied "no he told me its ok"??_.at the time I thought it was funny. The thought that my boyfriend was selling me off for K was pretty hilarious so I bought some off the guy, gave heaps to my ex which put him in a K hole and sent him home with our room mate while I stayed out clubbing, when I got home he was sitting under the table hahha??_.I left a week later when my comedown kicked in.

he was a cancer!!

the second cheapest guy I dated was a Pisces and holy fuck was he cheap??_??_my birthday he got me two scratchy tickets??_??_He asked me what I wanted and all I wanted was him to paint me something, because he was an artist and he couldn't do that??_I wanted to throw myself under a bus that day because the situation was so pathetic..

Posted by size zero superhero
If I pick up on the fact a guy is cheap(and I DON'T mean poor or "down on their luck")dating will never commence.

Pitifully stingy with funds = usually greedy with their time, non-monetary resources & more self-involved than the average bear.

My loss? I don't think so.

+1

I'm all for saving cash, especially with this economy. But some people take it too far and it reflects on what kind of person that they are.

OP, as far as sign? I'm not sure. None really stand out to me as being really cheap. Stereotypically, the only one that would come to mind would be a Cap since they're all about that stuff. Dating wise, no noticable trend.

pisces. she wouldnt spend any money at all and bought the cheapest brand things and got people to spend for her......manipulative ass bitch

Posted by djbuck1
Cancer. Not that I would expect (or accept) a woman paying for a date, but the crabette ordered much more than she could eat so she could take home "meals for later."

Eww.

Tacky.

Posted by djbuck1
Cancer. Not that I would expect (or accept) a woman paying for a date, but the crabette ordered much more than she could eat so she could take home "meals for later."

lol RATCHET

@ The eleventh sign....Are you a Scorpio?

Libra. There was never a time when he did not want to go dutch (or I'd pay). Even when a waiter or waitress would correctly assume we were together and put us on the same check, he would trouble them to go back and split it. I understand conserving funds, but considering he was both financially secure and his frequent expenditures of unspeakable amounts on frivolous things (Anime and Magic the Gathering), yet somehow could never cover me irked me to no end. I erroneously thought by dating someone nearly a decade older than me meant maturation... (What is going on... where did this influx of all these damn man children come from!). That being said, I think being a waste of sperm and egg was the culprit moreso (and clearly a lapse in judgement on my part) than his astrological placements. I think it might be a bit unfair to characterize a whole group based solely on our unfortunate encounters.

My cheapest ever was a Virgo,Taurus, and Pisces, and Aquarius....The Virgo took me to Red Lobster, told me that I could order anything on the menu, and after the check came, showed me the bill which amounted to 100 dollars, and looked me square in the eyes and said we are going to the hotel after this right? Once I told him No, ha banged his fist on the table, and tried to get me to chip in...I did not, and never spoke to him again...The Taurus..asked me to drive him to the mall, and I thought that he was taking me shopping, he ended up buying himself a pair of sneakers, and did not offer me gas money, also he made me pay my own way inside of the movie theater...Pisces use to find things inside of people's trash, and pretend to have purchased it...Aquarius first date, took me to the movies, and did not want to buy a drink for himself, instead,insisted that we share mines, and complained throughout the whole movie about the prices of soft drinks....

Posted by deusotiosus
I erroneously thought by dating someone nearly a decade older than me meant maturation... (What is going on... where did this influx of all these damn man children come from!). That being said, I think being a waste of sperm and egg was the culprit moreso (and clearly a lapse in judgement on my part) than his astrological placements. I think it might be a bit unfair to characterize a whole group based solely on our unfortunate encounters.

Yike

I made that mistake with a Leeb, though "cheap" wasn't the problem.

The problem was that he had no concept of, or regard for, money.

He made decent money, but he pretty much had a "bill" each month for over-draft fees.

Mind-boggling.

Posted by Easha23000us
My cheapest ever was a Virgo,Taurus, and Pisces, and Aquarius....The Virgo took me to Red Lobster, told me that I could order anything on the menu, and after the check came, showed me the bill which amounted to 100 dollars, and looked me square in the eyes and said we are going to the hotel after this right? Once I told him No, ha banged his fist on the table, and tried to get me to chip in...I did not, and never spoke to him again...The Taurus..asked me to drive him to the mall, and I thought that he was taking me shopping, he ended up buying himself a pair of sneakers, and did not offer me gas money, also he made me pay my own way inside of the movie theater...Pisces use to find things inside of people's trash, and pretend to have purchased it...Aquarius first date, took me to the movies, and did not want to buy a drink for himself, instead,insisted that we share mines, and complained throughout the whole movie about the prices of soft drinks....

I would have been furious. lol

Damn.

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Posted by Easha23000us
My cheapest ever was a Virgo,Taurus, and Pisces, and Aquarius....The Virgo took me to Red Lobster, told me that I could order anything on the menu, and after the check came, showed me the bill which amounted to 100 dollars, and looked me square in the eyes and said we are going to the hotel after this right? Once I told him No, ha banged his fist on the table, and tried to get me to chip in...I did not, and never spoke to him again.

What the hell did you both get for $ 100? That's a giant ass lobster.

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BOOZE.

I don't know.. there was one taurus.. I was a student back then he was running his own business & much older than me.. though I liked to play fair so I tried to chip in as much as I was.. like me:him = 2:3..
he gave me a few gifts, which I had never asked him to buy.. I tried to return them but he insisted, so I accepted them..
and later when we had a big fight, he accused me of being with him for his money..and I was like 'seriously?! - what about the money I paid for myself at restaurants and for movies, and etc.'
he even called me a whore, that I was sleeping with him for his money and that really sent me off..so I right went to the bank and drew out some money, calculated up everything he insisted that he had been spending on me + ??.. threw that wad of money (approx. 2.5 thousands..haha ..it was a joke, since, as I wrote above, I did chip in despite me being a student and my expenses were limited, since my school policy inhibited students to work/or to have a job) at his face and said 'FUCK YOU! you piece of shit'
then I wrecked his business for about a month (there are always ways, if one sets one's mind)..made him lose his cash & shrieking like a five year old little, hysteric girl.. I felt very much insulted when he called me a whore, a prostitute..like how dare?! you messed with me, so now you watch your back..
I'm not proud of what I did (wrecking his business), but it felt good, I have to admit..
even the reason of the fight was that the guy caught trying to cheat on me with my friend and when I confronted him about that, he started calling me names..and there was no way I would just take it and do not do anything..it wasn't about money or anything..actually 2.5 thousands is nothing..it was about his cowardice not being able to acknowledge his mistake and apologize, but instead making a false accusation about me..loser behaviour


other than that guy, guys I have met so far were nice.. they wanted to treat me the way they thought I deserved, i.e., well and with respects..and I have always given back in return..

and of course, it's just one taurus, so I don't have any grudge or hard feelings for taruses 🙂
there are always some bad apples under every sign..the guy was just a loser, nothing has to do with his sign I think..

*lol not 2.5 thousands.. it was about $ 2500.. lol

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
The thought that my boyfriend was selling me off for K was pretty hilarious

bwhahaha

Cheapest? I'm going to substitute that for frugal and answer with Capricorn. Loved it.

Posted by Easha23000us
Mand looked me square in the eyes and said we are going to the hotel after this right?

Ugh, horrid.

I see Taurus being brought up..those I know would rather not date if they don't have their finances in order, rather than coming across as cheap.

Cancer and Cap

The Cappy liked Hamburger Helper 😢 but he bought the off brand..."Hamburger Magic" or some shit cuz it was 25 cents cheaper :/

A Taurus, but then again I've only dated 2 other signs besides him (Aries/Gemini)

Leo.

Posted by size zero superhero
If I pick up on the fact a guy is cheap(and I DON'T mean poor or "down on their luck")dating will never commence.

Pitifully stingy with funds = usually greedy with their time, non-monetary resources & more self-involved than the average bear.

My loss? I don't think so.

+infinity! I don't associate cheapness with a zodiac sign but I do take it as an indication of selfishness. Btw, I hear some of you cats trowing shade on us Cancer ladies (4 shame!) but I've never been that kind of woman and have supported a man who was ill for years. But I guess there are some bad apples out there. I dated 1 cheap guy...a sag...in college. One of his "dates" entailed watching him drop $ 100 on new music CDs and we went dutch on dinner. He also tried to manipulate me by saying garbage like he's had the hot model b4 and now he's ready to settle for a normal gal like me. Thing is, this dude had lots of acne and he was in no way better looking than me. It was an immature act on his part and he admitted that later. But cheapness is a real turn off. I'm old fashioned. I think men are supposed to court a woman & pick up the check in the beginning. Of course, a woman should never allow a man to do this if she has no interest in him. That's using him for a free meal. And it's bad mojo. But I don't think men should pick up the tab forever. Just in the beginning. It's a very romantic gesture that tells you he's very interested in you if he's willing to part with some of his hard earned cash to be with you. The older I get, the more I appreciate tradition and "the old ways." They work!

Taurus!

Posted by Easha23000us
My cheapest ever was a Virgo,Taurus, and Pisces, and Aquarius....The Virgo took me to Red Lobster, told me that I could order anything on the menu, and after the check came, showed me the bill which amounted to 100 dollars, and looked me square in the eyes and said we are going to the hotel after this right? Once I told him No, ha banged his fist on the table, and tried to get me to chip in...I did not, and never spoke to him again...The Taurus..asked me to drive him to the mall, and I thought that he was taking me shopping, he ended up buying himself a pair of sneakers, and did not offer me gas money, also he made me pay my own way inside of the movie theater...Pisces use to find things inside of people's trash, and pretend to have purchased it...Aquarius first date, took me to the movies, and did not want to buy a drink for himself, instead,insisted that we share mines, and complained throughout the whole movie about the prices of soft drinks....

smh at these guys. Taurus only want sex and money. your sex and your money. they will not be spending any of their own.

virgos and scorpios stay having money because they spend other peoples and not their own.

^ sex and money in no particular order, that sounds about right Yess please!

Cancer

I haven't dated every sign, but the cheapest was a Scorpio male and the most generous was a Libra male.

I dated a Pisces male who was both- he was over-the-top generous half the time, and the other half of the time he would get paranoid that everyone in the world was trying to take advantage of him and turn miserly.

Aries men have always paid for me, regardless if i was sleeping with them or not. they werent stingy. I never had to pull out my wallet for an Aries Sun or for the most part, a venus in aries.

Pisces men dont work....soooooooooooooooooooooo

LOL- my Pisces didn't work!

He did generate income, though.

Posted by Whimsy
He did generate income, though.

on that hustle ?

Yup

Posted by Whimsy
Yup

i knew of one who would sell his food stamps for 50 cents on the dollar.

Aquarius.

After we stopped hanging out, he texted me on my birthday to ask if I would pay his tab at the bar down the street.

Posted by Andalusia
Aquarius.

After we stopped hanging out, he texted me on my birthday to ask if I would pay his tab at the bar down the street.

#dead

Posted by Andalusia
Aquarius.

After we stopped hanging out, he texted me on my birthday to ask if I would pay his tab at the bar down the street.

You suspiciously left out the part with "no way in hell did I pay it"..so did you? 😛

Virgo!

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Posted by Andalusia
Aquarius.

After we stopped hanging out, he texted me on my birthday to ask if I would pay his tab at the bar down the street.

You suspiciously left out the part with "no way in hell did I pay it"..so did you? 😛

Virgo!

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FUCK no I didn't pay it

Posted by Tumelo
^ sex and money in no particular order, that sounds about right Yess please!

makes the world go round.

lol

anything strong earth: Consistently. Good money makers, good savers too.

We both ordered the ultimate feast,which is about 30 bucks each.And then our drinks and desert....Came up to 100 dollars.

That's not all....Before we could be seated, we had to wait on a table, so we sat at the bar and had a few drinks, meanwhile, he was showing me pictures of his penis on his phone...

Ewwww. God, I bet the background of the pics was shitty too.. Prolly took 'em in his house slippers standing over the toilet or some other such nastiness :/

Posted by Easha23000us
That's not all....Before we could be seated, we had to wait on a table, so we sat at the bar and had a few drinks, meanwhile, he was showing me pictures of his penis on his phone...

.red flag #1

Posted by size zero superhero
so you couldn't have been THAT surprised when he expected you to go back to the hotel with him...'cause you stayed after he showed you his dicpics, right?

...

Posted by Easha23000us
We both ordered the ultimate feast,which is about 30 bucks each.And then our drinks and desert....Came up to 100 dollars.

mmm ultimate feast.

Posted by Easha23000us
My and looked me square in the eyes and said we are going to the hotel after this right? Once I told him No, ha banged his fist on the table,

Guys like this are fucking assholes and absolutely skeezy.

The ones who assume that if they drop some serious cash on you that you're obligated to sleep with them and/or they assume it guarantees sex just implies that they view their date as a whore.

It's all just under the guise of dating and not what it would be if it were a real prostitute.

Save everyone the trouble and just go buy a whore, you dickwads, gawd.

My ex tried that shit with me when we were catching up for the first time in 2 years since we'd split. I thought we'd had a pretty nice time catching up. He insisted on paying. But later on he was trying to get sex from me. I politely declined and from then on out he treated me like shit and said derogatory bs about me to our mutual friends like I had wronged him because I didn't give him the sex he so thought he was entitled to.*eyeroll*

Posted by Easha23000us
That's not all....Before we could be seated, we had to wait on a table, so we sat at the bar and had a few drinks, meanwhile, he was showing me pictures of his penis on his phone...

...WHY were you not heading for the hills then?

Good lord, no wonder so many guys fail at dating. They're horrible at it. :/

Can I just say one thing??_.before you go criticising Aquas can u please find out their moon and see if its not pisces because My brother is an Aqua with moon in pisces and he is the cheapest person I have ever met on the planet??_..He has never bought or made anyone in our family a birthday or christmas present and mum has always had to give him money for it??_??_actually he did get me a christmas present once and it was the little mermaid on DVD and I didn't come home for christmas and he opened it and watched it!??_.then I came back for a holiday and it was opened and scratched!??_little shit

Oh and Easha I'm an Aquarius??_.the eleventh sign 11 of the zodiac—_..but I do have a scorpio moon 😄

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Posted by Tumelo
^ sex and money in no particular order, that sounds about right Yess please!

makes the world go round.
lol
anything strong earth: Consistently. Good money makers, good savers too.

If only this statement was an infallible truth, as opposed to a mostly-accurate observation.
My former Virgo sun/Capricorn moon housemate couldn't come up with sufficient rent/utility funds to save her damn life! Somehow though; she always managed to scrape up enough cash for the latest model iPhone, Vuitton bag(etc etc)and ate up all the food I paid for & stocked in the fridge. Not only did she work a 9-5 but I later found out her parents put her on bankroll as well.
Still couldn't come up with monthly housing expenses. Fail 😢

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well maybe it's just people YOU meet and know. For myself, everyone i know around me who have dominant earth are good at money and making money. saving money too. IF they have some aspecting SAG planets, they might "gamble" it, due to "high risks" which is pretty much a "generalization" of what astrologers say about Jupiterian energy.