Hello Guys 1st post here.
I have this aspect with a girl I'm currently seeing. I'm a male taurus sun and she's a pisces sun. In synastry we have venus opposition pluto (she has pluto in scorpio 25 degreee while i have venus in taurus in 15 degree) I also have pluto sagittarius 4 degree while she has venus in aries in 20 degree which would make us have venus trine pluto in a wide degree. Regardless the connection that i have with this girl is mind blowing. Everything that is described venus opposition pluto is true. However what I'm confused is who is actually pluto and venus in the relationship. What i mean is that I often identify both with venus and pluto in the relationship. I identify with pluto in that I am often very possesive of her and fascinated by her to the point where I want to have her all by myself so that I can make love to her mind body and soul over and over again and possibly heal of her past traumas. I often do get jealous of her flirting and talking to her male friends but i try not to act on it too much. I identify with venus in that i often feel like I'm trapped in the relationship like even if I want to leave I can't for some reason. It also doesn't help that I'm a virgo rising and I have her sun on my 7th and 8th house cups.
My question would be is it possible for the roles to be reversed, exemple I am the pluto and she's the venus in this case ?