Virgo moons

This topic was created in the Virgo Moon forum by Damnata on Saturday, May 26, 2018 and has 38 replies.
...if there are any still here lol. Men and women but especially men.

How cool are you with a FWB scenario if you claim you have feelings for someone?

Asking for a friend (lmao...).
Gotta ask @Chuckcem He's an honest guy, he seem to like to help people, also he's the leo whisperer Big Grin

Also @HeavyEntertainmentShow he's Err.... honest about sexLaughing
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.
Posted by Horsey
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.
He's Gemini Venus in the 3rd. Should be safe right? lol.

I'm the 8th house Venus.
Posted by DeleterNerd
They're black and white. All or nothing. Fme.
Idk man, you know the stereotypes with Virgo placements. My only romantic knowledge of this moon is an Aries guy in my early twenties.
Posted by Damnata
Posted by Horsey
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.


He's Gemini Venus in the 3rd. Should be safe right? lol.
I'm the 8th house Venus. click to expand
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if you are the one having feelings for him and you know that he does'nt return them on the same level and never will, i say dont do it. on the flip side, once i get deep into it with someone, i start finding faults with them (i never express it to their faces) and after a few months i just dont like them as much anymore because they dont match up to my silly virgo moon standards. proceed with caution, especially if he is a valued friend.
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by Horsey
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.



He's Gemini Venus in the 3rd. Should be safe right? lol.
I'm the 8th house Venus. click to expand



if you are the one having feelings for him and you know that he does'nt return them on the same level and never will, i say dont do it. on the flip side, once i get deep into it with someone, i start finding faults with them (i never express it to their faces) and after a few months i just dont like them as much anymore because they dont match up to my silly virgo moon standards. proceed with caution, especially if he is a valued friend. click to expand

The one taurus sun virgo moon person I knew was like this kind of. Obsessive but had a loooot of back up plans lol. click to expand
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lol but what back up plans? sorry i didn't really get that..
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by Horsey
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.



He's Gemini Venus in the 3rd. Should be safe right? lol.
I'm the 8th house Venus. click to expand



if you are the one having feelings for him and you know that he does'nt return them on the same level and never will, i say dont do it. on the flip side, once i get deep into it with someone, i start finding faults with them (i never express it to their faces) and after a few months i just dont like them as much anymore because they dont match up to my silly virgo moon standards. proceed with caution, especially if he is a valued friend. click to expand


The one taurus sun virgo moon person I knew was like this kind of. Obsessive but had a loooot of back up plans lol. click to expand



lol but what back up plans? sorry i didn't really get that.. click to expand

She had like so many dudes she talked to that wanted to date her that she kept as "friends" in other words a taurus harem. The libra I was dating ended up making out with her and finger banging her. She had a virgo boyfriend at the time too 😂 we were both like ah well shit. Another taurus I needed to take notes from. click to expand
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wow uumm wow... idk i can only speak for myself, but when im in a romantic relationship (official/ serious one) i always try my best to be the best girlfriend - the one who always makes you laugh no matter what, the one you can trust 100% , the one who knows you the best, the one who supports all your decisions mentally and emotionally, the one who make you have epiphanies about life etc etc. i've always attributed it to my moon. but after hearing about this, maybe its not just the moon.

(btw i want a harem too T.T)
Posted by Horsey
Posted by Damnata
Posted by Horsey
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.



He's Gemini Venus in the 3rd. Should be safe right? lol.
I'm the 8th house Venus. click to expand


if you are the one having feelings for him and you know that he does'nt return them on the same level and never will, i say dont do it. on the flip side, once i get deep into it with someone, i start finding faults with them (i never express it to their faces) and after a few months i just dont like them as much anymore because they dont match up to my silly virgo moon standards. proceed with caution, especially if he is a valued friend. click to expand
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Other way around although I honestly don't take that claim of feelings at face value at all.

Also not a friend, I don't fuck my male friends. So instead friends with benefits I guess I should put it as NFWB. Not friends but with benefits...lol.
Posted by DeleterNerd
Aries are loyal to the virgo. But more on virgo moons...theyre meh. Cap moons are hilarious.
I wouldn't have needed a topic if this was an Aries guy lmao.
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by DeleterNerd
They're black and white. All or nothing. Fme.



Idk man, you know the stereotypes with Virgo placements. My only romantic knowledge of this moon is an Aries guy in my early twenties. click to expand

The one I knew had scorpio venus too so... As well as a scorpio sun lol. Wait, I knew two tauruses with virgo moon. Both super introverted. I think they were all or nothing too. Virgo moons are obsessive. Aries sun/virgo moon always sounded nice to me. But then I think of james franco. click to expand
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He was really nice, the Aries from my past. Married a chick with my name and middle name and an august Virgo right after me. Everytime I look at his FB I chuckle.
Posted by DeleterNerd
Posted by Damnata
Posted by Horsey
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.



He's Gemini Venus in the 3rd. Should be safe right? lol.
I'm the 8th house Venus. click to expand

Oh jeez. Gem venus doesnt even care if you have a boyfriend at the same time. If he's a cancer, he should definitely be down. click to expand
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No, he totally cares hence the conundrum. To him it should be massive strings attached and I...meh.
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Posted by DeleterNerd
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by Horsey
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.



He's Gemini Venus in the 3rd. Should be safe right? lol.
I'm the 8th house Venus. click to expand



if you are the one having feelings for him and you know that he does'nt return them on the same level and never will, i say dont do it. on the flip side, once i get deep into it with someone, i start finding faults with them (i never express it to their faces) and after a few months i just dont like them as much anymore because they dont match up to my silly virgo moon standards. proceed with caution, especially if he is a valued friend. click to expand


The one taurus sun virgo moon person I knew was like this kind of. Obsessive but had a loooot of back up plans lol. click to expand



lol but what back up plans? sorry i didn't really get that.. click to expand


She had like so many dudes she talked to that wanted to date her that she kept as "friends" in other words a taurus harem. The libra I was dating ended up making out with her and finger banging her. She had a virgo boyfriend at the time too 😂 we were both like ah well butter. Another taurus I needed to take notes from. click to expand


wow uumm wow... idk i can only speak for myself, but when im in a romantic relationship (official/ serious one) i always try my best to be the best girlfriend - the one who always makes you laugh no matter what, the one you can trust 100% , the one who knows you the best, the one who supports all your decisions mentally and emotionally, the one who make you have epiphanies about life etc etc. i've always attributed it to my moon. but after hearing about this, maybe its not just the moon.
(btw i want a harem too T.T) click to expand
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*nod of acknowledgment cuz I use the same scheme to rope them too*

LMAO.
Posted by DeleterNerd
Posted by Damnata
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by Horsey
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.



He's Gemini Venus in the 3rd. Should be safe right? lol.
I'm the 8th house Venus. click to expand


Oh jeez. Gem venus doesnt even care if you have a boyfriend at the same time. If he's a cancer, he should definitely be down. click to expand



No, he totally cares hence the conundrum. To him it should be massive strings attached and I...meh. click to expand


Yeah the virgo moon I temporarily dated was like that too. And I felt the same as you lol. click to expandclick to expand
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I still want to believe it's a show on his end. You know water suns and the show/drama...with little substance to back it?. If it is a show on his end then this is great but if not....
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Posted by Damnata
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by Horsey
you should look at his/her venus as well, since you mentioned feelings are involved. mine is in scorp 8th house so even though i had the opportunity and mutual interest to do fwb relationship with a someone that i liked before i just... couldnt. its not enough for me and a part of me found it unappealing.



He's Gemini Venus in the 3rd. Should be safe right? lol.
I'm the 8th house Venus. click to expand


Oh jeez. Gem venus doesnt even care if you have a boyfriend at the same time. If he's a cancer, he should definitely be down. click to expand



No, he totally cares hence the conundrum. To him it should be massive strings attached and I...meh. click to expand

Its the virgo moon. You have to wife him up now Nata. click to expand
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Gah
Posted by Endless
Gotta ask @Chuckcem He's an honest guy, he seem to like to help people, also he's the leo whisperer
Also @HeavyEntertainmentShow he's Err.... honest about sex
This is how I imagine you when you tag me

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Damnata already knows what I did, I won't rub it in her face again.

Depends on the time of the month. First I was out, then I went in, then I pulled out.....went back in. It was a coin toss, basically. In the end I decided that no matter how much it tortured me to want round 2 but only getting one go, creating a priceless memory that I'd cherish until the end of time was worth the pain.......of lifelong blue balls.

Wipe that grin off yer face, missy.

PS: notifications have been playing up again, didn't notice your new post in my thread until yesterday. I'll get you later.

PS2: would you care for some pineapple?
+bump for Virgo moon interest
My placement:

Cancer sun

Virgo Moon

Leo Venus

😕😕 I cant do friends with benefits. If i like someone, I only focused on that individual. I cant be with someone else.
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Gotta ask @Chuckcem He's an honest guy, he seem to like to help people, also he's the leo whisperer

Also @HeavyEntertainmentShow he's Err.... honest about sex



This is how I imagine you when you tag me



Damnata already knows what I did, I won't rub it in her face again.

Depends on the time of the month. First I was out, then I went in, then I pulled out.....went back in. It was a coin toss, basically. In the end I decided that no matter how much it tortured me to want round 2 but only getting one go, creating a priceless memory that I'd cherish until the end of time was worth the pain.......of lifelong blue balls.

Wipe that grin off yer face, missy.

PS: notifications have been playing up again, didn't notice your new post in my thread until yesterday. I'll get you later.

PS2: would you care for some pineapple? click to expand

My good boy reputation doesn't allow me to wear so much red.... during the day

that's hilarious, you can't have blue balls is you pull in and pull out so many times now, can you?
P.S: Mmm you're gonna keep taunting me with that pineapple thingy uh.... whatever that means *must resist curiosity*
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I extremely doubt you were even born with a good boy reputation, but I'll bite. Though I really wish you hadn't used that gif, little Frank Dillane is creepy-af. Long story.

And my pulling in & out was purely mental. At first. After my birthday last year I had to keep doing it because he wasn't used to the pain. I can't even tell you when our TRUE first time happened because there were so many false starts before it lol. But he gave me blue balls for years prior. Total nightmare to deal with. Lucky for him I'm a gentleman.



Cliffnotes version: German lad is a strigoi and uses pineapple to sweeten the blood of his victims. To make it astrologically relevant, he's a Libra & she's a Virgo.

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The pineapple thing has become a running joke between our earthy moons because I'm Germanic like the vampire lad & I like to switch it up between my impersonations for my Cap mooner's laughter purposes. Can't do Crowley all the time, he'll get sick of it sooner than later.

On that note, Endless........























tell me you will eat the pineapple.
Posted by Damnata
...if there are any still here lol. Men and women but especially men.
How cool are you with a FWB scenario if you claim you have feelings for someone?
Asking for a friend (lmao...).
That all depends. Yes Virgo Moons can appear very black and white in our thinking, but remember Virgo is not a fixed sign. It all depends on if the scenario makes logical sense to that Virgo Moon person. For me personally if I care about someone and that person says that they a FWB relationship, then my brain will need to know the following:

A. Are we sexually exclusive? (If so, then I'm fine with this.)

B. Does that mean the other person still wants to date around? (I'm fine with this as long as I'm also free to date around.)

C. Does the other person expect more from me than sex (Knowing the boundaries is key to keeping emotions in check.)

D. Can I trust this person to adhere to the paramters we've set? (If I can't then it's a No.)

As a guy a FWB scenario actually benefits me more. It means that I would have a sexual partner without the responsibility of an emotional connection (the opposite of being "friendzoned" basically). This also gives me an advantage in the dating scene as I would be in a less "hungry" state. Having a physical partner would obviously be a confidence boost. That confidence would translate outwardly to other dating prospects, thereby making me more attractive psychologicall to other women.

Also sun signs do play a role in the decision making process. I'm a Leo who likes his freedom and having options. That's not to say that I don't want a relationship. However I am attracted to women who are direct about their desire to be with me. I would see a woman who only wants an FWB as simply an option, but not THE option. A woman who requests an FWB will either appear as being only partially interested in me OR too insecure/afraid to request a full on a relationship. As a result even though I would be fine with an FWB (as long as the parameters above were met), I wouldn't invest much emotion/energy into it.
I'm a Virgo moon (Libra sun, Scorp venus) and I'm only down for FWB if there are no feelings from my side. All or nothing. That's definitely influenced by my scorpio venus/pluto conjunction though.

As for Virgo moons though -- it does usually take a lot to let someone into our worlds. We are capable of detaching better than most though.
Posted by Chuckcem
I would see a woman who only wants an FWB as simply an option, but not THE option.


I was with you up until here cuz I don't see a man I have a FWB with as an option at all.
Posted by greengemini_
You're picking all these dudes over me. What about me?
I'm starting to take this personal.
I already dated your sun/moon combo, we'll meet in another life.

I mean did you read how I am doing the opposite of picking in this topic? All I want is to not pick him yet not end up on crime time cuz he loses it at me.
Posted by ellesbelles
Can I just say that I find this hilarious?

Just a few months ago I mentioned my new boss had a virgo moon and I swear I seen you scrunch your nose like you do with that virgo judgeyness that I find so adorable and completely dismiss me as I bubbled over with aries moon excitement because he's the bestest boss I've ever had. You literally stopped listening after "Virgo Moon...."

I luff Miss Lady Karma

I finally go outside the pisces moon bubble and you totally peed in my cereal.


I never stopped scrunching my nose lol.
The only scenario i see this ending for Damnata is with a stake :/

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Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure anyone really knows what they want, from the answers here. For that reason I'd say just roll with it.


I try but Nights tells me that I am naive to put my faith in a water sun man's ability to handle this.
If I say I have feelings for someone I'd probably be disappointed with just a FWB and refuse it. I love sex, but would want it to be meaningful with that person I care about.

If I don't care and realize it is just carnal desire and know they feel the same, I don't care. FWB all the way.
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Posted by Damnata
...if there are any still here lol. Men and women but especially men.

How cool are you with a FWB scenario if you claim you have feelings for someone?

Asking for a friend (lmao...).


That all depends. Yes Virgo Moons can appear very black and white in our thinking, but remember Virgo is not a fixed sign. It all depends on if the scenario makes logical sense to that Virgo Moon person. For me personally if I care about someone and that person says that they a FWB relationship, then my brain will need to know the following:
A. Are we sexually exclusive? (If so, then I'm fine with this.)
B. Does that mean the other person still wants to date around? (I'm fine with this as long as I'm also free to date around.)
C. Does the other person expect more from me than sex (Knowing the boundaries is key to keeping emotions in check.)
D. Can I trust this person to adhere to the paramters we've set? (If I can't then it's a No.)
As a guy a FWB scenario actually benefits me more. It means that I would have a sexual partner without the responsibility of an emotional connection (the opposite of being "friendzoned" basically). This also gives me an advantage in the dating scene as I would be in a less "hungry" state. Having a physical partner would obviously be a confidence boost. That confidence would translate outwardly to other dating prospects, thereby making me more attractive psychologicall to other women.
Also sun signs do play a role in the decision making process. I'm a Leo who likes his freedom and having options. That's not to say that I don't want a relationship. However I am attracted to women who are direct about their desire to be with me. I would see a woman who only wants an FWB as simply an option, but not THE option. A woman who requests an FWB will either appear as being only partially interested in me OR too insecure/afraid to request a full on a relationship. As a result even though I would be fine with an FWB (as long as the parameters above were met), I wouldn't invest much emotion/energy into it. click to expand
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Extremely well stated and agree 100% .
Posted by libraman20
I'm a Virgo moon (Libra sun, Scorp venus) and I'm only down for FWB if there are no feelings from my side. All or nothing. That's definitely influenced by my scorpio venus/pluto conjunction though.
As for Virgo moons though -- it does usually take a lot to let someone into our worlds. We are capable of detaching better than most though.


Also well said.
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Damnata
Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure anyone really knows what they want, from the answers here. For that reason I'd say just roll with it.



I try but Nights tells me that I am naive to put my faith in a water sun man's ability to handle this. click to expand


Isn't that what I said? Without the water part. click to expand
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Yes, he just had to emphasize that part cuz Pisces.
Posted by Damnata
Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure anyone really knows what they want, from the answers here. For that reason I'd say just roll with it.



I try but Nights tells me that I am naive to put my faith in a water sun man's ability to handle this. click to expand
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To be fair I said non pisces water sun
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure anyone really knows what they want, from the answers here. For that reason I'd say just roll with it.



I try but Nights tells me that I am naive to put my faith in a water sun man's ability to handle this. click to expand


To be fair I said non pisces water sun click to expand
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No, to be fair you said water sun and then doubled down on telling me I should date Scorpios.
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by greengemini_
You're picking all these dudes over me. What about me?

I'm starting to take this personal.



I already dated your sun/moon combo, we'll meet in another life.

I mean did you read how I am doing the opposite of picking in this topic? All I want is to not pick him yet not end up on crime time cuz he loses it at me. click to expand


I'm tired of your excuses, damnata.
Can you at least pm me that nude you posted that one time cause I wasn't here for it. click to expand
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I don't even know where that shit is in my computer anymore. I'd probably stumble on pictures of DXP people way before that one.
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Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Posted by Damnata
Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure anyone really knows what they want, from the answers here. For that reason I'd say just roll with it.



I try but Nights tells me that I am naive to put my faith in a water sun man's ability to handle this. click to expand



To be fair I said non pisces water sun click to expand


No, to be fair you said water sun and then doubled down on telling me I should date Scorpios. click to expand
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No I said pisces are bottom feeders so they could probably do it, but yes scorpios would be best for you I'm afraid
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Posted by Damnata
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure anyone really knows what they want, from the answers here. For that reason I'd say just roll with it.



I try but Nights tells me that I am naive to put my faith in a water sun man's ability to handle this. click to expand



To be fair I said non pisces water sun click to expand



No, to be fair you said water sun and then doubled down on telling me I should date Scorpios. click to expand



No I said pisces are bottom feeders so they could probably do it, but yes scorpios would be best for you I'm afraid click to expandclick to expand
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Posted by Damnata
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Posted by Damnata
Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure anyone really knows what they want, from the answers here. For that reason I'd say just roll with it.



I try but Nights tells me that I am naive to put my faith in a water sun man's ability to handle this. click to expand



To be fair I said non pisces water sun click to expand



No, to be fair you said water sun and then doubled down on telling me I should date Scorpios. click to expand



No I said pisces are bottom feeders so they could probably do it, but yes scorpios would be best for you I'm afraid click to expandclick to expand



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*gif with "self respect. get some" that will not load*
Posted by greengemini_
Posted by Damnata
Posted by greengemini_
Posted by Damnata
Posted by greengemini_
You're picking all these dudes over me. What about me?

I'm starting to take this personal.



I already dated your sun/moon combo, we'll meet in another life.

I mean did you read how I am doing the opposite of picking in this topic? All I want is to not pick him yet not end up on crime time cuz he loses it at me. click to expand



I'm tired of your excuses, damnata.

Can you at least pm me that nude you posted that one time cause I wasn't here for it. click to expand



I don't even know where that butter is in my computer anymore. I'd probably stumble on pictures of DXP people way before that one. click to expand


Can you find it, please? Let me have that at least. Since you don't want a relationship. I can look at you and dream of what could have been. click to expand
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LMAO, ok I needed that laugh today.
Posted by Damnata
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Posted by Damnata
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure anyone really knows what they want, from the answers here. For that reason I'd say just roll with it.



I try but Nights tells me that I am naive to put my faith in a water sun man's ability to handle this. click to expand



To be fair I said non pisces water sun click to expand



No, to be fair you said water sun and then doubled down on telling me I should date Scorpios. click to expand



No I said pisces are bottom feeders so they could probably do it, but yes scorpios would be best for you I'm afraid click to expandclick to expand



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*gif with "self respect. get some" that will not load* click to expand
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Either way the point is

Youre better off alive and giving GG a chance

Good luck!