
Cancan
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Posted by Pleistoanax😆 😆 oh no ...lol this is my positive thread the other one is a bit more negative lmao
Cap venus sounds waaaayyy too positive here.
This is a more realistic depiction:



Posted by PleistoanaxLearn something every day lolPosted by MyStarsShine
Who wrote this stuff?
Venus in Aqua....being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings?
Surely not?
Lol
Surely yes. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by PleistoanaxSo you are vulnerable and open up about your feelings ?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShine
Who wrote this stuff?
Venus in Aqua....being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings?
Surely not?
Lol
Surely yes. click to expand
Learn something every day lol
Do you have experience of this? click to expand
Not officialy because mine is Cap but the Aqua description also fits me.
Maybe because of the conjunction with my sun and/or Saturn. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Sagittaire_👍Posted by MyStarsShine
Who wrote this stuff?
Venus in Aqua....being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings?
Surely not?
Lol
Actually it's a yes..
At least for me 😜😂😂 click to expandclick to expand

Posted by PleistoanaxDoes it feel scary when you allow it to happen....some people seem fearful of vulnerability?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShine
Who wrote this stuff?
Venus in Aqua....being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings?
Surely not?
Lol
Surely yes. click to expand
Learn something every day lol
Do you have experience of this? click to expand
Not officialy because mine is Cap but the Aqua description also fits me.
Maybe because of the conjunction with my sun and/or Saturn. click to expand
So you are vulnerable and open up about your feelings ? click to expand
Yes, but only if my Mars is at ease.
Otherwise it'll be a mere emotionless objective description.
It always takes some time and multiple attempt for me though. click to expandclick to expand


Posted by PleistoanaxThat's tough 💙Posted by MyStarsShineIt was a difficult process. Mostly because whenever I did this I was instantly let down. click to expandPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShine
Who wrote this stuff?
Venus in Aqua....being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings?
Surely not?
Lol
Surely yes. click to expand
Learn something every day lol
Do you have experience of this? click to expand
Not officialy because mine is Cap but the Aqua description also fits me.
Maybe because of the conjunction with my sun and/or Saturn. click to expand
So you are vulnerable and open up about your feelings ? click to expand
Yes, but only if my Mars is at ease.
Otherwise it'll be a mere emotionless objective description.
It always takes some time and multiple attempt for me though. click to expand
Does it feel scary when you allow it to happen....some people seem fearful of vulnerability? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by PleistoanaxThat's another way of looking at itPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by MyStarsShine
Who wrote this stuff?
Venus in Aqua....being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings?
Surely not?
Lol
Surely yes. click to expand
Learn something every day lol
Do you have experience of this? click to expand
Not officialy because mine is Cap but the Aqua description also fits me.
Maybe because of the conjunction with my sun and/or Saturn. click to expand
So you are vulnerable and open up about your feelings ? click to expand
Yes, but only if my Mars is at ease.
Otherwise it'll be a mere emotionless objective description.
It always takes some time and multiple attempt for me though. click to expand
Does it feel scary when you allow it to happen....some people seem fearful of vulnerability? click to expand
It was a difficult process. Mostly because whenever I did this I was instantly let down. click to expand
That's tough 💙
At least you were brave enough to do it.....that takes great courage click to expand
Not really.
It just needs enough desperation. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by PleistoanaxThat's usually part of the experience, so yes haha 😃Posted by neves
Depends, if Venus squares Pluto/Saturn - that "love thingy" might sound more like this:
💩
Speaking from personal experience? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by PleistoanaxWho, me?! 😏Posted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by neves
Depends, if Venus squares Pluto/Saturn - that "love thingy" might sound more like this:
💩
Speaking from personal experience? click to expand
That's usually part of the experience, so yes haha 😃 click to expand
Smartass.
How would you describe it?
I'm asking because I'm curious to see what kind of difference there would be to a Venus-Saturn conjunction. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShine
Who wrote this stuff?
Venus in Aqua....being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings?
Surely not?
Lol

Posted by PleistoanaxThat's becasue - i'm more or less detached from this subject. Some wounds may still be fresh - but i'd rather see it as a thing of the past. It's not an active part of my life - so it's not something i can get into (actively).Posted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by neves
Depends, if Venus squares Pluto/Saturn - that "love thingy" might sound more like this:
💩
Speaking from personal experience? click to expand
That's usually part of the experience, so yes haha 😃 click to expand
Smartass.
How would you describe it?
I'm asking because I'm curious to see what kind of difference there would be to a Venus-Saturn conjunction. click to expand
Who, me?! 😏
The cojunction may be easier to digest - since it involves a merger of this two (like a cocktail). While with a square - you can feel the individual energy of each - but it's somehow forced (the hard-way / there's no easy flow - as it's the case with a Trine - a positive aspect).
click to expand
That's not describing how it plays out for you but I'll take it. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by LittleStarlmao Im gonna have to call bullshit on the bullshit statement lol its bullshit inception ...so I actually am a terrible homebody ..people have to drag me out of the house and i have a venus in gemini ...I do enjoy new things ..learning things ..talking to new people and on occasion doing new things if possible AT THE HOUSE ...I also have a crap ton water placements with a sun in crab which might explain why I love home so much
♡ Venus in Gemini
Putting their phone away to give you their full attention, engaging in your opinions and subjects of interest, always has time to talk to you and remains eternally fascinated with your stories
Yeah this is bullshit. Venus in Gemini is constantly pushing you to go out and do stuff even if all you want to do is stay home. Every. Little. Damn. Event. And then they bring you and leave you in a corner and flit around and then come find you when you are just starting to get too annoyed and then spews all the new sparkly things they just learned at you.


Posted by LittleStar😆 those really (really hards) were so funny 😆 mostly cause you seem naturally sweet 😄Posted by Cancan26Posted by LittleStar
♡ Venus in Gemini
Putting their phone away to give you their full attention, engaging in your opinions and subjects of interest, always has time to talk to you and remains eternally fascinated with your stories
Yeah this is bullbutter. Venus in Gemini is constantly pushing you to go out and do stuff even if all you want to do is stay home. Every. Little. Damn. Event. And then they bring you and leave you in a corner and flit around and then come find you when you are just starting to get too annoyed and then spews all the new sparkly things they just learned at you.
lmao Im gonna have to call bullbutter on the bullbutter statement lol its bullbutter inception ...so I actually am a terrible homebody ..people have to drag me out of the house and i have a venus in gemini ...I do enjoy new things ..learning things ..talking to new people and on occasion doing new things if possible AT THE HOUSE ...I also have a crap ton water placements with a sun in crab which might explain why I love home so much click to expand
Yeah Cancer will definitely affect that. I go through manic “must leave the house” for days phases and then I need my recovery from too much socialization phases. It depends.
I mostly show my love through trying to be nice (really hard) and trying to listen (hard also) and letters and notes and such. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by peachy06
No, a Scorpio venus would tell you "I hate you". We're not Taurus and their mushy-washy affection.



Posted by AwesomeyooI always forget you have this.
Venus in Scorpio

Posted by PleistoanaxThat's just it... I'm not in pain right now (at least - not due to romance, love, relationships or other stuff like that). And i prefer to keep it that way. There's no point in suffering cause of past or future events (the stuff that can't be changed or future stuff - which clearly is a mystery to us all). Quite obvious, but not always so easy to do... I get that. This days, it's mainly what i strive for... physical and mental well-being (peace of mind 😌). As we all - i suppose, it's just that... i don't look for that in others. 😐Posted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by neves
Depends, if Venus squares Pluto/Saturn - that "love thingy" might sound more like this:
💩
Speaking from personal experience? click to expand
That's usually part of the experience, so yes haha 😃 click to expand
Smartass.
How would you describe it?
I'm asking because I'm curious to see what kind of difference there would be to a Venus-Saturn conjunction. click to expand
Who, me?! 😏
The cojunction may be easier to digest - since it involves a merger of this two (like a cocktail). While with a square - you can feel the individual energy of each - but it's somehow forced (the hard-way / there's no easy flow - as it's the case with a Trine - a positive aspect).
click to expand
That's not describing how it plays out for you but I'll take it. click to expand
That's becasue - i'm more or less detached from this subject. Some wounds may still be fresh - but i'd rather see it as a thing of the past. It's not an active part of my life - so it's not something i can get into (actively). click to expand
Understandable. Maybe it's because of the conjunction instead of the square that allows me to be a bit more open about it. Still hurts though.
Hope you'll have your well deserved pay off soon enough. click to expandclick to expand


Posted by peachy06You have a Scorpio Venus too?Posted by saggurl88
♡ Venus in Scorpio
So protective that they would probably die for you, tells you secrets they have hidden from the world, refuses to let you settle for less than you deserve, comments about things you have never told them but they have observed, affectionate and responsive to you in their dark and down moods
I only agree with the second halve. I'm selfish and not dying for anyone except kids , not a significant other. He's a man, he can fend for himself.
Settle for less then they deserve? If they are with me, I AM what they deserve! Hahahaha #LeoMarsPride
This. And I have a Leo mars too ! click to expandclick to expand

Posted by peachy06Posted by saggurl88Posted by peachy06Posted by saggurl88
♡ Venus in Scorpio
So protective that they would probably die for you, tells you secrets they have hidden from the world, refuses to let you settle for less than you deserve, comments about things you have never told them but they have observed, affectionate and responsive to you in their dark and down moods
I only agree with the second halve. I'm selfish and not dying for anyone except kids , not a significant other. He's a man, he can fend for himself.
Settle for less then they deserve? If they are with me, I AM what they deserve! Hahahaha #LeoMarsPride
This. And I have a Leo mars too ! click to expand
You have a Scorpio Venus too? click to expand
Yes. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by neves
Depends, if Venus squares Pluto/Saturn - that "love thingy" might sound more like this:
💩
Speaking from personal experience? click to expand
That's usually part of the experience, so yes haha 😃 click to expand
Smartass.
How would you describe it?
I'm asking because I'm curious to see what kind of difference there would be to a Venus-Saturn conjunction. click to expand
Who, me?! 😏
The cojunction may be easier to digest - since it involves a merger of this two (like a cocktail). While with a square - you can feel the individual energy of each - but it's somehow forced (the hard-way / there's no easy flow - as it's the case with a Trine - a positive aspect).
click to expand
That's not describing how it plays out for you but I'll take it. click to expand
That's becasue - i'm more or less detached from this subject. Some wounds may still be fresh - but i'd rather see it as a thing of the past. It's not an active part of my life - so it's not something i can get into (actively). click to expand
Understandable. Maybe it's because of the conjunction instead of the square that allows me to be a bit more open about it. Still hurts though.
Hope you'll have your well deserved pay off soon enough. click to expand
That's just it... I'm not in pain right now (at least - not due to romance, love, relationships or other stuff like that). And i prefer to keep it that way. There's point in suffering cause of past or future events (the stuff that can be change or future stuff - which clearly is a mastery to us all). Quite obvious, but not always so easy to do... I get that. This days, it's mainly what i strive for... physical and mental well-being (peace of mind 😌). As we all - i suppose, it's just that... i don't look for that in others. 😐 click to expand
Most people tend to turn your attention away from that worthy goal.
So, it's good to shut them off every now and then. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by DwellingOnMovePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by neves
Depends, if Venus squares Pluto/Saturn - that "love thingy" might sound more like this:
💩
Speaking from personal experience? click to expand
That's usually part of the experience, so yes haha 😃 click to expand
Smartass.
How would you describe it?
I'm asking because I'm curious to see what kind of difference there would be to a Venus-Saturn conjunction. click to expand
Who, me?! 😏
The cojunction may be easier to digest - since it involves a merger of this two (like a cocktail). While with a square - you can feel the individual energy of each - but it's somehow forced (the hard-way / there's no easy flow - as it's the case with a Trine - a positive aspect).
click to expand
That's not describing how it plays out for you but I'll take it. click to expand
That's becasue - i'm more or less detached from this subject. Some wounds may still be fresh - but i'd rather see it as a thing of the past. It's not an active part of my life - so it's not something i can get into (actively). click to expand
Understandable. Maybe it's because of the conjunction instead of the square that allows me to be a bit more open about it. Still hurts though.
Hope you'll have your well deserved pay off soon enough. click to expand
That's just it... I'm not in pain right now (at least - not due to romance, love, relationships or other stuff like that). And i prefer to keep it that way. There's point in suffering cause of past or future events (the stuff that can be change or future stuff - which clearly is a mastery to us all). Quite obvious, but not always so easy to do... I get that. This days, it's mainly what i strive for... physical and mental well-being (peace of mind 😌). As we all - i suppose, it's just that... i don't look for that in others. 😐 click to expand
Most people tend to turn your attention away from that worthy goal.
So, it's good to shut them off every now and then. click to expand
were you both comparing Venus-Pluto with Venus-Saturn? Or Venus-square with Venus-trine|conjunction?
it's not easy to read from your text.
I know from experience that I like my response better when Saturn is involved. No matter what Planet and what aspect. Maybe due to Cap SN after all the excesses of the Sag Stellium. With Pluto aspects my response is to escape and minimze the contact.
Saturn seems to give a plan at least. at least one I could agree on. click to expand
I have Venus conjunct Saturn and was curious to hear how a the square for that would play out.
I can't say much about Pluto in any kind or form as it only sextiles Saturn and Neptune.
Why do you want to run away when Pluto is involved. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by DwellingOnMovePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by DwellingOnMovePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by neves
Depends, if Venus squares Pluto/Saturn - that "love thingy" might sound more like this:
💩
Speaking from personal experience? click to expand
That's usually part of the experience, so yes haha 😃 click to expand
Smartass.
How would you describe it?
I'm asking because I'm curious to see what kind of difference there would be to a Venus-Saturn conjunction. click to expand
Who, me?! 😏
The cojunction may be easier to digest - since it involves a merger of this two (like a cocktail). While with a square - you can feel the individual energy of each - but it's somehow forced (the hard-way / there's no easy flow - as it's the case with a Trine - a positive aspect).
click to expand
That's not describing how it plays out for you but I'll take it. click to expand
That's becasue - i'm more or less detached from this subject. Some wounds may still be fresh - but i'd rather see it as a thing of the past. It's not an active part of my life - so it's not something i can get into (actively). click to expand
Understandable. Maybe it's because of the conjunction instead of the square that allows me to be a bit more open about it. Still hurts though.
Hope you'll have your well deserved pay off soon enough. click to expand
That's just it... I'm not in pain right now (at least - not due to romance, love, relationships or other stuff like that). And i prefer to keep it that way. There's point in suffering cause of past or future events (the stuff that can be change or future stuff - which clearly is a mastery to us all). Quite obvious, but not always so easy to do... I get that. This days, it's mainly what i strive for... physical and mental well-being (peace of mind 😌). As we all - i suppose, it's just that... i don't look for that in others. 😐 click to expand
Most people tend to turn your attention away from that worthy goal.
So, it's good to shut them off every now and then. click to expand
were you both comparing Venus-Pluto with Venus-Saturn? Or Venus-square with Venus-trine|conjunction?
it's not easy to read from your text.
I know from experience that I like my response better when Saturn is involved. No matter what Planet and what aspect. Maybe due to Cap SN after all the excesses of the Sag Stellium. With Pluto aspects my response is to escape and minimze the contact.
Saturn seems to give a plan at least. at least one I could agree on. click to expand
I have Venus conjunct Saturn and was curious to hear how a the square for that would play out.
I can't say much about Pluto in any kind or form as it only sextiles Saturn and Neptune.
Why do you want to run away when Pluto is involved. click to expand
maybe I lose power very quickly so it bothers me to give that flaky thing away to people? I don't know. actually. maybe only as freedom-loving Sag or 1sth houser. maybe I find it unfair how Pluto people demand what they demand. it's only a bunch of maybes. click to expand
Wouldn't Saturn scare you more though if you love freedom so much? click to expandclick to expand


Posted by PleistoanaxPosted by DwellingOnMoveYou don't mind those responibilities that this usually entails? click to expandPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by DwellingOnMovePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by DwellingOnMovePosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by nevesPosted by PleistoanaxPosted by neves
Depends, if Venus squares Pluto/Saturn - that "love thingy" might sound more like this:
💩
Speaking from personal experience? click to expand
That's usually part of the experience, so yes haha 😃 click to expand
Smartass.
How would you describe it?
I'm asking because I'm curious to see what kind of difference there would be to a Venus-Saturn conjunction. click to expand
Who, me?! 😏
The cojunction may be easier to digest - since it involves a merger of this two (like a cocktail). While with a square - you can feel the individual energy of each - but it's somehow forced (the hard-way / there's no easy flow - as it's the case with a Trine - a positive aspect).
click to expand
That's not describing how it plays out for you but I'll take it. click to expand
That's becasue - i'm more or less detached from this subject. Some wounds may still be fresh - but i'd rather see it as a thing of the past. It's not an active part of my life - so it's not something i can get into (actively). click to expand
Understandable. Maybe it's because of the conjunction instead of the square that allows me to be a bit more open about it. Still hurts though.
Hope you'll have your well deserved pay off soon enough. click to expand
That's just it... I'm not in pain right now (at least - not due to romance, love, relationships or other stuff like that). And i prefer to keep it that way. There's point in suffering cause of past or future events (the stuff that can be change or future stuff - which clearly is a mastery to us all). Quite obvious, but not always so easy to do... I get that. This days, it's mainly what i strive for... physical and mental well-being (peace of mind 😌). As we all - i suppose, it's just that... i don't look for that in others. 😐 click to expand
Most people tend to turn your attention away from that worthy goal.
So, it's good to shut them off every now and then. click to expand
were you both comparing Venus-Pluto with Venus-Saturn? Or Venus-square with Venus-trine|conjunction?
it's not easy to read from your text.
I know from experience that I like my response better when Saturn is involved. No matter what Planet and what aspect. Maybe due to Cap SN after all the excesses of the Sag Stellium. With Pluto aspects my response is to escape and minimze the contact.
Saturn seems to give a plan at least. at least one I could agree on. click to expand
I have Venus conjunct Saturn and was curious to hear how a the square for that would play out.
I can't say much about Pluto in any kind or form as it only sextiles Saturn and Neptune.
Why do you want to run away when Pluto is involved. click to expand
maybe I lose power very quickly so it bothers me to give that flaky thing away to people? I don't know. actually. maybe only as freedom-loving Sag or 1sth houser. maybe I find it unfair how Pluto people demand what they demand. it's only a bunch of maybes. click to expand
Wouldn't Saturn scare you more though if you love freedom so much? click to expand
no, Saturn makes me work and achieve. Achievement and Sag are old friends. of course it is bad for life-work balance. often I'm in danger of being a workoholics. But other times I take a sabbath and try to compensate. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by peachy06Wut?? 😄Posted by saggurl88Posted by peachy06Posted by saggurl88Posted by peachy06Posted by saggurl88
♡ Venus in Scorpio
So protective that they would probably die for you, tells you secrets they have hidden from the world, refuses to let you settle for less than you deserve, comments about things you have never told them but they have observed, affectionate and responsive to you in their dark and down moods
I only agree with the second halve. I'm selfish and not dying for anyone except kids , not a significant other. He's a man, he can fend for himself.
Settle for less then they deserve? If they are with me, I AM what they deserve! Hahahaha #LeoMarsPride
This. And I have a Leo mars too ! click to expand
You have a Scorpio Venus too? click to expand
Yes. click to expand
I wouldn't mind finding a Scorpio man with these placements
I think I'd be in for a treat! click to expand
You mean with a Scorpio venus & Leo mars ?
You must be kinky lol click to expandclick to expand
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Ways they say “I love you”
♡ Venus in Aries
Bringing you alongside their adventures, asking if you feel safe, holding your hand when you are overwhelmed and can’t keep up, takes heed and respect of your advice
♡ Venus in Taurus
Ensuring you always have a safe place to go, checking in to make sure you’re okay, being motherly - keeping you nourished and nurtured, attempting to take the stress of life from you
♡ Venus in Gemini
Putting their phone away to give you their full attention, engaging in your opinions and subjects of interest, always has time to talk to you and remains eternally fascinated with your stories
♡ Venus in Cancer
Attempting to get themselves out of a bad or down mood when they are around you, ensuring that you are taking care of yourself, cooking your favourite meal when they can see you are struggling
♡ Venus in Leo
Dressing up and beautifying themselves for you, playing up to your seductive vices, involving you in their interests and pleasures, trying to hug the sadness out of you, making a big celebration out of your birthday
♡ Venus in Virgo
Remembers your routine and schedule, and the little things that make you comfortable and content, pulling the blanket over you when you are cold, leaving the light on in case it gets dark
♡ Venus in Libra
Considers your needs before making a decision, comments at length and emphasises your good qualities, talks about themselves in a pair - “we both had a great time”
♡ Venus in Scorpio
So protective that they would probably die for you, tells you secrets they have hidden from the world, refuses to let you settle for less than you deserve, comments about things you have never told them but they have observed, affectionate and responsive to you in their dark and down moods
♡ Venus in Sagittarius
Integrates you in their vision for the future - ‘when we travel here…’, ‘once we have done this…’, disagrees with your beliefs but respects them and explores them with you, can check in often out of fear you will run away
♡ Venus in Capricorn
Discusses your goals and desires at length and works with you to achieve them, considers your success as their success, affectionate and responsive to you when they have withdrawn
♡ Venus in Aquarius
Keeping you close when everyone else is kept at distance, being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings, recognising special and unique things about you and encouraging them to radiate
♡ Venus in Pisces
Knowing that you are in a bad mood before you know yourself, remembers your silent nuances and essentials - like how many sugars in your coffee, stays up late with you regardless of how tired they are