What do I do, hes calling another girl?

A coworker who works with my boyfriend shes a pisces emailed me randomly on facebook, shes a girl he has her number whatever, she doesnt like him though she has a boyfriend, she told me that my boyfriend of 8 years the guy I moved 5 states to be with an live with him an his family is calling another girl at their work constantly and asking her do you wanna hang out or go to the movies, she was talking to the girl that emailed me about it all the time. And I started to panick so I paced around the room, my boyfriend who is a taurus was in a DEEP sleep he somehow woke up he heard me talking to my mom on the phone about not knowing what to do an hes like "What is it now? What **** did you find out now tell me?" an he kept telling me to tell him and so I showed him the email she gave me an hes like you believe that? I dont even talk to a heather I dont even have time to call anyone I never have my phone by me. (Hes been hiding his phone on him or in the car for a year now.) When I got his phone one time he told me not to spy on him its bad but hes been spying on me for a year now.
And I said yea right all the other **** you did to me im not gonna believe this **** anymore. He started yelling at me saying how he doesnt want to be with me anymore I should get a ticket an go home, how I am a psycho and a lunatic cuz I said he had this girl, how he hates me all kinds of names an he told me to get the F- out of his house now an get my friend to pick me up an take me to her place.

Then I went into the bathroom to cry and he knocks on the door an hour later acting all nice hes like please go into the room my parents will hear everything go, an he tries to hug me I told him let go of me you cheater I go into the closet and cry an he falls asleep. Then this morning I was sleeping he goes up to me in the middle of the night kisses my cheek twice an says how he 'loves' me. Is this love?
Since Ive been here the girl who told me he used to flirt with her on facebook while i was here last year in september i found out he started crying saying how he was stupid, a week ago he was saying how he was in love with me an now i find out about this an he reacts really scary. I dont know what to do, my mom says transfer my job back home an move back hes gonna end up with nobody, he has top of the line right now which is me an hes not gonna have anyone for this. What do you think of this an his behvaiour?
My mom said to call his work today an see if hes actually working because all of a sudden hes working wednesdays on my day offs first ask if hes working then ask if shes working the girl he calls to make sure she works with him thats why.

Im a pisces with virgo rising , moon in cancer venus an mars in aries
hes a taurus with virgo rising moon in sagittaurius, venus in taurus mars in aries

Well the situation clearly isn't making you happy, so why don't you flip him off? I would...I'd seriously tell him to fuck off. He's being dishonest, and I don't like that he was yelling at you and whatever...And that he thinks he has a right to privacy while he invades yours!! That is some serious double standards right there...

He realises how close he is to losing you, so he comes and sucks up and says a whole heap of bullshit. Plenty of guys do that... If he truly loved you, he wouldn't treat you like this. My advice is to move on...

It also bothers me that he's suddenly "working" on your day off...Hides the phone etc, definitely hiding something. Normally i'd be wary of another female "warning" you about supposed goings on, but based on what you have written here I think you have a real reason to be concerned.

Think about your own happiness and think of the long term as well. Do you want to end up married to a guy like this? If it doesn't make you happy now, chances are it never will and there is nothing to be lost by being honest with yourself.

I hope you get it worked out soon 🙂 take care ok

*Hilarious*

Why would you ask what to do?

yeah he is cheating, move back to where you are from and if he really wants to be with you, he will move there.

Something to think about: he clearly isn't taking the relationship as serious as you are.

I'm pisces sun, virgo rising too. I have this problem where guys treat me badly and I just want to believe I have misunderstood him and that things are not as they seem. You are a pisces, you are intuitive, so I would sit quietly with yourself and really ask yourself what you think is really happening here firstly and then what you want to do about it. Even if he is cheating, maybe you love him enough that you want to still be with him, after dealing with the issue. It's a personal thing.

From what you wrote, it does seem as if he is cheating on you and even if he isn't, his behaviour when you questioned hi was exaggerated, which means he could be hiding something else. I would listen to your mum's advice, mum's know a lot and we take their wisdom for granted.

For me, I would have been furious with him, if he acted the way he has with you, even from getting overly upset at your questions - but then again I'm a Leo moon-drama queen.

I loved this taurus guy and it turned out that he had a secret fiancee, so don't be paranoid but be wary.

Good luck, I hope whatever you decide works out for you.

Posted by P-Angel
Why would you ask what to do?

For once, i agree with you.

First off...... y would u leave home and ur career to move in with ur boyfriend and his family? I don't wanna sound like an A** hole.. but that was a stupid, stupid move. Concentrate on ur career, get it together gurl. Men come and go----but they come more then they go. Ur still young

yeah, my first bf acted a lot like that (he was a cancer so i don't think it's a sign thing). the whole scenario of accusations and me acting all psycho was for a reason... he was cheating on me. if u know urself, and ur not typically one to jump to conclusions (such as myself), then ur intuition is telling u something. my 2nd bf was the exact opposite. i was with the guy for 7 years and not once did i have an inkling of mistrust in him. either that or he was just really good! heh. it's emotionally abusive too.