Which Signs Do NOTGet Along/DO Get Along? And WHY?

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Hi all,
I have been into astrology for soooo long and I have come to make certain observations about signs that always bump heads and wonder why they do. Over time I see these signs don't get along and for the following reasons....Let me know what you think, do you agree/disagree? Have any others to add?
SCORPIOS and GEMINIS do NOTTT get along at all----I believe this happens because Scorpios see Geminis as too superficial and competitive. They also see them as lacking depth, being too emotionally cool and uncaring/insensitive. Also, I think they both have sneaky ways of doing things but the Scorpion doesnt respect the Geminis way of approaching things in their way...Water doesnt respect Air I don't think...what do you guys think?
on a more positive note, I find that LEOS and PISCES have a very good relationship and get along very well in friendships. They are THERE for one another and understand one another...what do you guys think?
VIRGO and LEO- do NOT get along very well....they can have very good humor in relationships but Virgo has a problem with Leo flamboyance and Leo has a problem with Virgo being so critical and subtlely acting as if they are better....which pushes LEo even more to prove that they are not better...
SCORPIOS and ARIES man/woman relationships are FATAL....they are VERY drawn to one another but it NEVERRR works, yet still they can't seem to stay away from one another but they are like night and day...Aries are selfish while Scorps are very giving and Generous, Scorpio brings Aries insecurities to the surface...
SAGITTARIANS and SCORPIONS do NOTTT get along at all....Sag's are cutting and blunt and Scorpios can't handle it, they deal with the raw and Scorpions are used to administering the raw rather than receiving it....Its a funny but scary thing to watch....Sag might see Scorps as phony and chew them up on first display of this...Sag's do NOT like pretense
Sag and LEo get along PERFECTLY--Two of a Kind
Capricorn and Geminis----This is good but bad in the sense Geminis are spendsthrifts and Caps are very frugal...Geminis arent serious or stable enough for Caps.


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"on a more positive note, I find that LEOS and PISCES have a very good relationship and get along very well in friendships. They are THERE for one another and understand one another...what do you guys think?"

I agree

"SAGITTARIANS and SCORPIONS do NOTTT get along at all....Sag's are cutting and blunt and Scorpios can't handle it, they deal with the raw and Scorpions are used to administering the raw rather than receiving it....Its a funny but scary thing to watch....Sag might see Scorps as phony and chew them up on first display of this...Sag's do NOT like pretense"
~lol
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Hi, LeoDiva. smile
"Sags are cutting and blunt and Scorpios can't handle it."
"Sags and Leos get along PERFECTLY--Two of a kind."
I'm Scorpio sun with Sagittarius mercury, venus, and mars, and I've never met a Leo male who can handle "cutting and blunt" opinions about himself as well as I do...
Therefore, I would disagree with Sag & Leo being perfect together, unless in fear of saying real shit to each other. Fine.
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Oh!
And I love air...Aqua is my FAVORITE. Moves my water, calms my water - other good things. But, yes, Gemini make me rocky.
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WOW Archer
SAGITTARIANS and SCORPIONS::
they both are naked in front of each other.. there is nothing to hide nor can they.. both know eachother inside out. They make great loyal friends and S.U.P.E.R lovers... since they both know very clearly that the other is not what they can live with... There is almost NEVER an issue of long term romantic relation. (You wont find them 'messing' with eachother,, no games between these two)

I can see them being great lovers, but on the rest I don't see them clicking AT ALL....maybe on loyalty and friendship...but still I don't see how the friendship could last to even get to a situation of showing loyalty....I do know Sag's are relentless in defending their loved ones though...
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And I love air...Aqua is my FAVORITE. Moves my water, calms my water - other good things. But, yes, Gemini make me rocky.
Whats your sign ocean?
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Hi, LeoDiva.
"Sags are cutting and blunt and Scorpios can't handle it."
"Sags and Leos get along PERFECTLY--Two of a kind."
I'm Scorpio sun with Sagittarius mercury, venus, and mars, and I've never met a Leo male who can handle "cutting and blunt" opinions about himself as well as I do...
Therefore, I would disagree with Sag & Leo being perfect together, unless in fear of saying real butter to each other. Fine.
Hi Ocean, How are you??? IF you are Scorpio with so much Sag in you then yes I can expect for you to have pretty tough skin, but to me like Archer said the Scorpio is moreso Naked in front of the Sag, so the sag is so perceptive to the scorps ways that the scorp cannot put on any pretenses. Honestly I'd credit your personality more to being a Sag than a Scorpio imo...
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Ok...archer now that youve elaborated I can understand wher eyou are coming from and I agree for the most part but the Scorps and Sags I know do not get along at all, especially the 2 pair I know that are siblings (females Sag & Scorp) and (male Sag and Scorp). LOL I do find BOTH to be very loyal friends which I am BIG on, because I am adamant on loyalty. But because scorps are so secretive I do not trust them as much and I find them to be sneaky also...To me they are always scheming WHICH (let me clarify) is not always in a bad way at all. its just that I don't trust it personally...and it could be something that isnt at all malicious. I also don't like that Scorps are revengeful, I am not like that at all. It doesnt bother me enough to not befriend them (I feel I am honorable enough to not have any situation in which a person would need to seek revenge on me, lol has never happened) but it is a trait in them I just find less than endearing because I just (personally) feel it ruins karma and thats Gods job. But I feel you smile
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LeoDiva...
I'm Scorpio sun, Pisces moon, Scorpio rising, Sagittarius mercury, Sagittarius venus, and Sagittarius mars...
Water, and fire...I'm so confused. lol.
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Archer...(((hug)))
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Thanks, Archer. smile
I love the avatar you have up (the hooded lady)...it's very Scorpian too. smile I would wear that!
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actually they are scheming, revengeful and sneaky... on the safe distance of friendship it does not bother one on day to day basis...
...... as I said I cant imagine living with a scorp on daily basis, we would kill eachother,, perhaps..
still I understand scorps much better and I find them easier to get along with than pisces and cancer (never a cancer uff ).
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Fire is very comfortable with fire, I dont know how other elements feels... it is like a connection one feels with other fire signs.. no mis-communication atall.
DITTO....now you get me lol
Im close with one I work with and I want to slap her sometimes but we have so much fun together...
THIS I TOOOTALLY agree with, of all the water signs I get along with Scorpio the most, I CANNOT take CAncers...the women I can take more than the men though....Pisces I get along with good two (on sensitivity topics) but I still like scorps most, despite their funny ways that make me question their integrity...
AGAIN TOOOTALLY AGREE, I love fire signs....you know its funny you say this because all the water signs I know have negative things to say about other water signs, and also the Air signs I know have negative things to say about other Air signs....Earth signs and Fire signs I think love the other signs in their element...I LOVE FIRE SIGNS (aries and sag) I can relate to them more than any other signs....water is too emotional and sensitive to me....earth too rigid/serious....I do like Air signs though....but then at times they can make me revert back to water signs because they lack depth at times that we fire signs need (ON OCCASION) lol not all the damn time...
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meet me on the same level, on the same intensity and right there... dont wait, dont think abt repercussion, dont second guess and dont be indecisive.. like the slightest touch of a hand, a smoldering in the eyes should be met with a kiss and embrace.. not like earth to think if there is enough time for it, air to totally be 'ignorant' of undercurrent or pisces/cancer to think deeply... just DO IT..
HA HA I totally understand you.....I agree they are the only sign (OUTSIDE the fire element signs) that can match our intensity....I definitely get you on that...of all of them....earth irritates me the most with the thinking goooosh we are sooo here >< I was with a virgo for so many years and I wouldve BOUGHT him some spontaneity and passion if I couldve, lord knows...and yes you are soo right on air lol ignorant of it (AMEN) and yes pisces/cancer would probably think you are trying to corrupt them or have some underlying motive behind your passion lmaoooo smh astrology is a TRIP I tell you.
I like you Archer smile
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Earth signs bore me. I respect them on many levels but they are boorringg. They need to LIIIIVE smile all they do is worry and make money and worry about making money lol...we fire signs have goals and see them through but we have LOTS OF FUN in the process...(Don't hate me now but Sag I think is the fire sign with the least focus to COMPLETE an ambition/follow it through of us fire people) But then I feel you guys have the better vision/ideas of the 3 of us....weird...
Oh and I find I agree with the opinions of Libras ALOT...we seem to be here also >
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LIBRA and CANCER
Libra will go from not being able to understand why every situation, every little speed bump has to be so emotionally loaded and in return Cancer will see this as insensitive and uncarring no matter how elequently it is communicated. What goes from not understanding turns into intollerance and a lower opinion of the other and cancers always feeling hurt by Libras snap out of it approach to problems makes Libra feel suffocated and Cancer feel emotionally misunderstood. Cancer will try to regain control with emotional manipulation and the normally empathetic Libra will be quite the opposite and a normally tactful and diplomatic sign will feel forced to resort to blunt honesty and as Cancer tries to latch on Libra will forcefully push them aside.
No good.
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hmmmm i agree nicodemus, i agree
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"...Water doesnt respect Air I don't think...what do you guys think?"
In a sense yes because they feel like air is in fear of the more heavy emotions in life and no matter what air says or does to convey that they do go to those depths but they do it on their own and with an objective in mind water feels like air "Just doesn't get it" or misreads it as putting up walls or being in fear of their own emotions. The simple truth is that air signs use emotions as a kind of signal board...if this than that sort of thing and our dealing with them is to be able to realize something that we were not clearly seeing before as our emotions got triggered. It is the water signs strong desire for the air sign to open up emotionally and become vulnerable that keeps the air sign from actually doing it. However air signs open up emotionally to other air signs rather smoothly. The opposite is true as far as respect goes as well though.
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WATER gets along better with air than with fire.
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Cancer and Scorpio surprisingly can go to opposite poles in ther relationship. In one scenario they can hit it off well. But in another the relationship can become overrun by hatred and disgust for eachother. Besides both signs wont confront but either they will totally let eachother alone or they will be pinching and stinging eachother for a while.
Taurus and Gemini wouldn't seem to get along well. They both are very different and a relationship between the two would need many adjustments. Taurus wont seem to keep up and Gemini wont be willing to slow down.
Libra and Scorpio surprisingly seem very harmonious. They may fight eachother often but the two seem to do well as a team.
Virgo and Aries do and dont get along. Depends. Either the relationship is deadly or its highly harmonious.
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GOOScared
CANCEER TAURUS - think alike and balance each other
SCORPIO VIRGO - both have reserved exteriors with deep emotions; protective of each other
PISCES CAPRICORN - cap will listen to pisces without judging, pisces will not cling to cap
SAG AQUA - both love freedom to come and go as they please
ARIES LEO - both like attention; both are willing to GIVE attention in order to get it
GEMINI LIBRA - libra has equality on the brain, gemeni often feels slighted
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ANY WATER OR EARTH WITH AIR OR FIRE - the elements just don't mix
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*cancer - not canceer
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generally speaking the SAME element doesn't go too well together either - too much of the same thing
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Sharing the same mercury sign element is great for communication; the sextile aspect being second best. You tend to think along the same wavelength.
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"...Water doesnt respect Air I don't think...what do you guys think?"
In a sense yes because they feel like air is in fear of the more heavy emotions in life and no matter what air says or does to convey that they do go to those depths but they do it on their own and with an objective in mind water feels like air "Just doesn't get it" or misreads it as putting up walls or being in fear of their own emotions. The simple truth is that air signs use emotions as a kind of signal board...if this than that sort of thing and our dealing with them is to be able to realize something that we were not clearly seeing before as our emotions got triggered. It is the water signs strong desire for the air sign to open up emotionally and become vulnerable that keeps the air sign from actually doing it. However air signs open up emotionally to other air signs rather smoothly. The opposite is true as far as respect goes as well though.
I agree with this very much so....I guess we can in sum say again, water doesnt respect Air, and Air thinks water takes life/emotions too seriously?
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leodiva4lyfe, you think to much of yourself, you put water's sign's down ever chance you get, your thread is a joke, it should be called I'm a leo and I think I'm great. You seem to alway's bash water sign's, what's your problem do fear us? I do think you are a very bias person, you have nothing to offer but negative comment's. It say's positive thing's about her own sign, you really are full of yourself LOL omg and for your information I am with an arie's and we have been together for 7 year's. Like I said before you don't know jack butter about astrology. All leo's are Pompous and patronizing, you should not let your ego get out of hand girl, I knoe leo's are not very good judges of character either, when it come's to match making star sign's. If Bill Clinton is all leo's have going for them god help yeh.
LOL I did not see ANYONE YET find me negative....sweetie real is real...why are you taking it personally? people call leos pompous conceited and all that all day long, and guess what ITS TRUE, I do not take it personally. It is what it is...If you have been with an Aries that is wonderful, but i know its rocky whether you admit it or not, it maybe some fated quality to the relationship but I know its rocky. Unlike you I am not in denial, I know how leos are we ADMIT IT....why can't you admit you are oversensitive (TRUE TO YOUR SIGN lol) and bitch all the time? hellooooo. Any REAL scorp would admit it and chalk it up to being watery and emotional, no one says its a bad thing...it is what it is....its not my fault you are in denial or feel bad about who you are...I keep it real, there is NOTHING negative about me, I will say in a minute leos can be self centered and always wanting attention, (LIKE MANY SCORPIOS ARE)....you have a serious problem....you aint' get a life yet? I also said since you wanna comment on everything that I am VERY close with some scorpios, but WE ALL have our faults...dont hate me because you refuse to acknowledge yours, the sad shit is, its allllll over the board like a nasty disease anyways so you dont even have to acknowledge, we can all see....and sweetie when it comes to negativity you get the board globe award...stop hating and learn self acceptance....
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Shut up Mr Nice

thank you i wish he would STFU....big mouth nothing to say ass....I'm about to put out an application for a life for him....
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Hey Leodiva...great thread! I would like to say one thing about the Scorp sneakiness. Really, I think you are misreading us on that. I am speaking for myself here, but I suspect other scorps will agree, we have this unnerving ability to see into the future and can literally predict the way a situation will head just by analyzing the current situation. That "sneakiness" is most likely attributed to one of two things. 1)We know what's going to happen and decide not to do anything about it and sit back on the sidelines. You might see this as sneaky because perhaps you think we should be upfront about things, but really, if we do say something we feel we are being "controlling" which is a huge issue for Scorps. 2)The other "sneakiness" is that we--to steal from bling--facilitate the direction of the situation. Now I know I only do that for the best and NEVER to benefit myself and I only do it with people I really like, but it can come across as manipulation. Hope this makes sense.
woooow, I have to thank you (you are soooo much more intelligent than the dick head scorp that has infested this board) you know what, i really have to thank you because i think i FINALLY GOT IT!!!!....Its amazing because the scorpio I am close to told me the same thing (that she can predict how things will play out)....but on the sneakiness I think I know understand....what she failed to mention to me was WHY it appears that way, and the key being what you said, (if we do say something we feel we are being "controlling" which is a huge issue for Scorps.) NOWWWW I see why a leo might see it as sneaky. We are VERY upfront and at times controlling (seee mr.notnice at all I admitted yet another leo flaw *dick head*) So we are blunt and raw with the truth, so the fact that you guys give facial expressions and those certain *looks* it comes across as you are scheming but now I am understanding from you its an attempt to not appear as a know it all....ok....i can accept that far better than a person who is sneaky and scheming....maybe that is it....I will try to remember that next time I see a scorpion leer at a situation and smile before i deem them not trustworthy....hmmmm interesting, thanks...
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and a SPECIAL THANKS anotherscorp for your maturity....smile
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*gets scared and scampers off back to the nice safe cancer board where the "sisters" are waiting with hugs*
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leodiva4lyfe, my relationship is not rocky, you really are thick diva, if you look into the compatibility of aries and scorpio it state's long lasting. "WE ALL have our faults" yeah diva here a list of your's, childish, stubborn, bully's, we think were better than any other sign what a load of bull you small mined person. "why can't you admit you are oversensitive" lol no I am not, I am just proud of my sign,I am not weak like you. "sad butter is, its allllll over the board" I don't give a fly's if you or any of the people you are trying to entice into this situtation think about me. "dont hate me" lol I told you before hate is a strong word dislike you yes but not hate. "its not my fault you are in denial or feel bad about who you are" lol that you will never be as go has me. "there is NOTHING negative about me" lol yeah right that's why you keep bashing star sign's you know you will not get a long, all you do is try to look for other water and earth sign's fault's instead of looking at your own, it's you who need's to get a life I have one. And it's all over the board about you, I know enuff about you to see that you have a low self esteem that's why you alway's never put you own sign down, the proof is in all your post's your a dick head who I have no respect for you now leave me b, your no competition for me, you need medical help.

ARCHER ignore this peasant...lol we are MATURE adults here....I am not going to spend my time constantly responding to a person who says they have to "defend their sign" lmaoooooooo that is the saddest sugar honey iced tea I have ever heard. Thats supposed to be a grown man/woman? hell I can't tell..... lol smooches to all the adults that can carry a conversation and toss back and forth agreeing/opposing views without wimpering like little b.i.t.c.h.e.s lol....some people need jesus' dedication more than others.....we would be wasting our time Arch....poor thing
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btw turd....i dont say anything negative about earth signs I just call them how I see them and how I RELATE to them...and QUITE the contrary I love Taureans to pieces...they are the sweetest most loving sign I've ever known, VERY mild tempered, non-malicious, wonderful folk...I admire Taurean women in particular for their ability to just enjoy life and be unfazed by nonsense....dont be mad cause your a lifeless bored aS* turd lol
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*gets scared and scampers off back to the nice safe cancer board where the "sisters" are waiting with hugs*

xangelfishx don't leave I love hugs :=) *big hug*.....there is just a termite on the bored eating away at folks' spirit and things....Im actually quite the people person :=)
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The elements n'sync (especially mercury) have always worked for me ..
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Personally, I find Leos to either be cool as hell or annoying as fuck.
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lol@ talldarkaries.....thats funny
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"Scorpio brings Aries insecurities to the surface..."
Yes it did.
"Aries are selfish while Scorps are very giving and Generous"
Haa Haa Haa.
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"Scorpio brings Aries insecurities to the surface..."
whats that? aries inscurities hehe
"Aries are selfish while Scorps are very giving and Generous"
the opposite from what i see

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scorpio shut up
that aries guy tell you
shoo
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whats wrong with this insect scorpio
some one kick her with shoes
looooooooooooool

mr insect whimp thats ur name

now i dont want you to talk with me ok?
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whats wrong with this insect scorpio
some one kick her with shoes
looooooooooooool

mr insect whimp thats ur name

now i dont want you to talk with me ok?
LOL HIII you are a trip SMOOCHESSS
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diva, you keep talking to me cookiemonster, I cannot stand you stupid cow, troll, boot, slag, hore, slut, motherer, I hope you get raped lol.

you illiterate termine....whore has a W, and slut, I can be at times to the right dude....i bet your tool is like 2 inches with a hard on lmaooooooooo I know you love me loser....smile
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I do so leave me b, and be nice to scorpio's you loser. now stop hating me and my star sign jealous ass. you love me you cannot leave me alone. "2 inches" add another 6 and you would be right, and you would love it hard banging your kitty.

LOL now IMMA vomit....its probably all distorted lmaoooo
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The only people I have persistent trouble with is Libra/Gemini. Libra tends to be too superficial, and boring. They move only when 'the population moves' and as it turns out, they aren't as outgoing as they may display....it's just their subtle are of illusion, on top of that they aren't risk takers, and I'm always up for a risk. That's what life's about to me, a life that is scheduled, organized, and planned around people, and the need to 'impress' them who I don't even respect, or care for is useless to me. That's both Libra and Gemini. Gemini is more critical than Virgo!! I live with a Gemini Mother, and I have two gemini cousins. All are social climbers, materialistic, critical and supperficial, and sycophantic and aren't interested in TRUTH in general. No real friends, no real love, and that can leave you feeling deprived and empty. They don't 'connect' with people, they just are into whatever the rest of the worlds into at the time; basically these two together are both 'faddy' and lack individuality. That makes me overlook them, and feel that they are wastes of time. They are bores....libra is just mentally lazy, and conversationally manipulative as is Gemini. Basically Straightforward types had best side-step them becuase they will hair split every word in an argument EVEN IF YOU WE'RE HONEST AND DIRECT WITH THEM. Promise, you'll be ripping hairs out of your head before the end of the talk.

Scorpions are just hard in general to get along with, you can't be straight forward with them because they're too sensitive, and then they put on that martian front....it's annoying dealing with them becuase they're 'complex for complexities sake' just to be obsinate I think....They can never be wrong, and know everything, are selfish, and riddled with too many problems, and cause too much drama. Talk to them logically like they ask, they get mad you don't feel what they feel....go figure....annoying for no real reason.....then they get mad that you don't talk to them...whatever, I don't have the time/interest to deal with someone who dosen't yet have it figured out for themselves yet. They're as manipulative as Libra and Gemini in Conversation. Just talking to a Scorpion is like inspecting the number of tiles on a floor....useless, and not really worth the effort becuase it'll be there when you come back to it tomorrow.
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detail annoys me, I'd rather get to the point of the conversation and end it. for better, or worse. water and wind is hard for me to get along with. I just like being myself, wrong or right. Why must a person be criticized for that? If memory serves, there's no 'big book for social dealings'....people who do this have nothing better to do, and a low self-esteem....what other reason could explain why a person derives such pleasure from analyzing a persons clothes, eyes, ect....other than to exalt yourself?.
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I believe that any sign can get along with each other and even have a long lasting romantic relationship with each other.
To generalize based on your Horoscope sign alone, is naive.
We all know there are many aspects to our charts that dictates compatibility ... as well as, exterior elements.
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exalted....i have seen MANY cases where virgos and geminis dont click and in many situation the gemini abuses the virgos kindness and giving and tries to drain them financially.....but I thought you guys got along great with libra, news to me
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virgoexalted....i agree with ALOT of what you said....libra people are very cliquish and I agree they only move when the population moves WOW is that sooo true, you know them well...They seem to not have a mind of their own....they dont bore me though I find them to be very 'colorful' people. I also agree with all you said on geminis, they do not have any REAL relationships I also find they form bonds based on what someone can do for them, rather than on anything genuine..They are social climbers, but seldom do they stick to any one thing, I suppose that is a gift and a curse, part of why they are successful (their relentless go getter personality) but also they tend to not be able to complete anything before they are fleeing to the next thing or grand idea. They are very superficial to me, but I do not think libras are superficial, I only find geminis to be. And I also agree gems are very materialistic.
I am surprised though that you as a virgo do not find detail to be important. Most virgos I know attack detail and pick it apart, there is ALOT of virgo in my chart (about 4 planets) and my rising is virgo and I analyze EVVVVERRRYYYTHING. Thats the one thing you stated that I am surprised at. other than that I totally agree on your take on libras and geminis
oh AND SCORPIOS....I agree they only want you to agree with them and dont take too kindly to the truth. I will say myself that I rather someone see things as I see them but i LOOOOVE truth, if you are going to lie to see it my way then TOTALLY don't...im receptive. Thats interesting...
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Mr. Nice, i am curious ... Can you tell me what your objective is?
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With effort I can get along with everyone.
Scorpio takes ALOT of my effort though.
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Like i said, i am just curious.
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