ForgottenEmpire
@ForgottenEmpire
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Why are cancer men so misunderstoood?
Oh god I hate IOS10 I just noticed all the spelling & grammatical errors.
Just chill out and let it be 😄
Nope! Unfortunately, that's not how it always works. I'll give you a recent example where a person is completely innocent and the cancer just becomes delusional and clingy simply based on their own expectations or emotions.
I recently resigned from my old workplace because I got a better opportunity somewhere else. One of my elderly, and I mean 64 yr old cancer coworker kept whining about how sad he is about me leaving and how he'll miss me. I just listened and never once said I'll miss him too. He wanted to take me out for a farewell lunch just like other coworkers did. At this lunch, he gave me a necklace, which I refused at first but upon insistence accepted it. Even after the lunch, he kept whining about how sad he is about my departure. I just listened because I understand all people feel emotions differently and he probably feels it more intensely than others. I have never flirted nor been anything more than polite and professional with him.
It's been two weeks since I left and he's been emailing me essays of his feelings on my personal email account (which he has because of work) each day since I left. I ignored all of them but last week I finally had enough and replied back and told him nicely in a professional manner to leave me alone and not write me emails because I don't care for them. His response was as delusional as I'm saying he is and whined about how my email is so professional and it sounds like it's part of a mass email I sent to everyone. He wanted the wording to be sweet and heartfelt. In this same email, he also wrote that he got the hint that I want nothing to do with former coworkers and that he would "cease and desist". Two days later, he messages another cancer former coworker who I'm actually friends with outside of work. His email was mostly about me and this other coworker showed me the email. Then, today he messages me again even though he said he would leave me alone. The email is a straight emotional manipulation saying "just so you know I don't make friends easily that I can open up to." You can't force friendship on someone. Stage 5 clinger.
I recently resigned from my old workplace because I got a better opportunity somewhere else. One of my elderly, and I mean 64 yr old cancer coworker kept whining about how sad he is about me leaving and how he'll miss me. I just listened and never once said I'll miss him too. He wanted to take me out for a farewell lunch just like other coworkers did. At this lunch, he gave me a necklace, which I refused at first but upon insistence accepted it. Even after the lunch, he kept whining about how sad he is about my departure. I just listened because I understand all people feel emotions differently and he probably feels it more intensely than others. I have never flirted nor been anything more than polite and professional with him.
It's been two weeks since I left and he's been emailing me essays of his feelings on my personal email account (which he has because of work) each day since I left. I ignored all of them but last week I finally had enough and replied back and told him nicely in a professional manner to leave me alone and not write me emails because I don't care for them. His response was as delusional as I'm saying he is and whined about how my email is so professional and it sounds like it's part of a mass email I sent to everyone. He wanted the wording to be sweet and heartfelt. In this same email, he also wrote that he got the hint that I want nothing to do with former coworkers and that he would "cease and desist". Two days later, he messages another cancer former coworker who I'm actually friends with outside of work. His email was mostly about me and this other coworker showed me the email. Then, today he messages me again even though he said he would leave me alone. The email is a straight emotional manipulation saying "just so you know I don't make friends easily that I can open up to." You can't force friendship on someone. Stage 5 clinger.
Well then...here I am skulking around and I find this. A cancer man asking a simple question only to be passive-aggressively bashed...why am I not surprised? Anyway, let me just say this:
Majority of the people who replied so far seem to be "low-key" Cancer haters based on their activity, so their credibility is already shot. Not to mention that big arse story posted by "Aquarius" (idk the name) is probably bull. That or twisted. And even if it is 100% true, that's NOT an issue exclusive to Cancers. Most LONELY old-men at that age are desperate & do creepy garbadge like that. That's a terrible example anyway. The age-groups that are usually relevant to here are mid-teens to middle aged adults, so get out of here with that BS.
As for "Stopbeingdelusional"; That is the girl's fault, not his. If the GF really gave a damn about the relationship, she would put effort(I.e Make him want her more to get over his ex) into it like he is, not just make it one-sided. The only time I can understand the said mentality:
" UGH!!! you played me because you still have thoughts of your ex!!! "
Is ONLY IF the cancer man is NOT putting effort into the relationship, and that's very VERY rare. They tend to put TOO MUCH effort, if anything.
As for BG2 and will? They're are more than likely just being smart-arses because well, they can.
Majority of the garbadge I see spewed here is subjective as heII, therfore not credible; with the exception of one.
The most I can tell you is that most people that hate Cancers are liars, deceivers, fake people who kill with kindness, cheats, morons, and especially those who comfort with lies.(Cancers make me feel guilty for being fake.) However, the most common tends to either be a Butthurt master-manipulator that got the tables turned on them.(I.e the cancer started manipulating them instead to "test" if they were genuine or not.)
The other most common is usually, Libras, Virgos, and Leo's that just got out of a relationship with them. Most of the time they'll twist it around to victimise themselves, but it's mainly because they just got absolutely ROASTED by a cancer man, who busted & reminded them on all the fucked up shit they did that he let sly. So their fragile egos are shattered and they get a nice taste of guilt.
Main issue is: Most people just can't handle you guys. You want long-term bonding but its just not going to happen, atleast not in this day and age. People are fake and corrupted by materialistic-consumerism. Sad but true. You guys may be selfish, but so is everyone else around you, so don't feel too bad. Just keep moving on, someone with sense will find you one day, maybe. Anyway, peace!
(P.S.: I am a Virgo, so I''m not biased. 😛)
Majority of the people who replied so far seem to be "low-key" Cancer haters based on their activity, so their credibility is already shot. Not to mention that big arse story posted by "Aquarius" (idk the name) is probably bull. That or twisted. And even if it is 100% true, that's NOT an issue exclusive to Cancers. Most LONELY old-men at that age are desperate & do creepy garbadge like that. That's a terrible example anyway. The age-groups that are usually relevant to here are mid-teens to middle aged adults, so get out of here with that BS.
As for "Stopbeingdelusional"; That is the girl's fault, not his. If the GF really gave a damn about the relationship, she would put effort(I.e Make him want her more to get over his ex) into it like he is, not just make it one-sided. The only time I can understand the said mentality:
" UGH!!! you played me because you still have thoughts of your ex!!! "
Is ONLY IF the cancer man is NOT putting effort into the relationship, and that's very VERY rare. They tend to put TOO MUCH effort, if anything.
As for BG2 and will? They're are more than likely just being smart-arses because well, they can.
Majority of the garbadge I see spewed here is subjective as heII, therfore not credible; with the exception of one.
The most I can tell you is that most people that hate Cancers are liars, deceivers, fake people who kill with kindness, cheats, morons, and especially those who comfort with lies.(Cancers make me feel guilty for being fake.) However, the most common tends to either be a Butthurt master-manipulator that got the tables turned on them.(I.e the cancer started manipulating them instead to "test" if they were genuine or not.)
The other most common is usually, Libras, Virgos, and Leo's that just got out of a relationship with them. Most of the time they'll twist it around to victimise themselves, but it's mainly because they just got absolutely ROASTED by a cancer man, who busted & reminded them on all the fucked up shit they did that he let sly. So their fragile egos are shattered and they get a nice taste of guilt.
Main issue is: Most people just can't handle you guys. You want long-term bonding but its just not going to happen, atleast not in this day and age. People are fake and corrupted by materialistic-consumerism. Sad but true. You guys may be selfish, but so is everyone else around you, so don't feel too bad. Just keep moving on, someone with sense will find you one day, maybe. Anyway, peace!
(P.S.: I am a Virgo, so I''m not biased. 😛)
Posted by aquarius09that bastard! saying he would miss you! ..ANIMAL! I'm mean who does he thinks he is saying over and over how much he will miss someone that he "thinks" is his friend ...I"m mean how dare ...he ..
Nope! Unfortunately, that's not how it always works. I'll give you a recent example where a person is completely innocent and the cancer just becomes delusional and clingy simply based on their own expectations or emotions.
I recently resigned from my old workplace because I got a better opportunity somewhere else. One of my elderly, and I mean 64 yr old cancer coworker kept whining about how sad he is about me leaving and how he'll miss me. I just listened and never once said I'll miss him too. He wanted to take me out for a farewell lunch just like other coworkers did. At this lunch, he gave me a necklace, which I refused at first but upon insistence accepted it. Even after the lunch, he kept whining about how sad he is about my departure. I just listened because I understand all people feel emotions differently and he probably feels it more intensely than others. I have never flirted nor been anything more than polite and professional with him.
It's been two weeks since I left and he's been emailing me essays of his feelings on my personal email account (which he has because of work) each day since I left. I ignored all of them but last week I finally had enough and replied back and told him nicely in a professional manner to leave me alone and not write me emails because I don't care for them. His response was as delusional as I'm saying he is and whined about how my email is so professional and it sounds like it's part of a mass email I sent to everyone. He wanted the wording to be sweet and heartfelt. In this same email, he also wrote that he got the hint that I want nothing to do with former coworkers and that he would "cease and desist". Two days later, he messages another cancer former coworker who I'm actually friends with outside of work. His email was mostly about me and this other coworker showed me the email. Then, today he messages me again even though he said he would leave me alone. The email is a straight emotional manipulation saying "just so you know I don't make friends easily that I can open up to." You can't force friendship on someone. Stage 5 clinger.
OR MAYBE YOU CAN JUST GET OVER YOURSELF....
@arielle83. Not quite. Don't defend a cancer by default. His crap was sexual in nature and he was being perverted. I'll explain. He opened his soul to me and told me things for which I couldn't respect him. As a cancer, when he was bearing his soul to me, he told me things like how he cheated on his wife his entire life and his excuse was that he just loves women. I tried to make him see that what he did was wrong and tried to see his POV and why he was so entitled. He opened up to me but that doesn't mean I have to open up to him and befriend him. Next thing you know, he's asking me about my BF, and I don't personally discuss my personal life with people I deem my coworkers. Then, one day he tells me that he's attracted to me and would like to be friends with me outside of work. First of all, he's out of line for requesting friendship with me. Why the hell do I want to spend my free time with a 64 yr old man when I can hang out with my BF or friends. Moreover, he's asking to go "for dinner, picnic, walk in the woods". I don't even do those activities with my guy friends let alone this old
man. I politely declined. In that farewell lunch, this is the comment he made to me which fully creeped me out, "I told my wife how sad I am about your departure and she was like 'is she one of your other whores you want to do?' And I said "well, if she gives me the green light, I'd gladly sleep with her." I stopped him right away and the abrupt end to the lunch was clear indication of how repulsed I was.
I don't like it when women by default assume that every woman thinks that a guy is after her. And guess what? I don't get all happy thinking an old man likes me. He was a creep and I rightfully shunned him away. He's not some poor cancer men that opened up to me and I'm not some aqua ice queen who shunned him for no reason.
man. I politely declined. In that farewell lunch, this is the comment he made to me which fully creeped me out, "I told my wife how sad I am about your departure and she was like 'is she one of your other whores you want to do?' And I said "well, if she gives me the green light, I'd gladly sleep with her." I stopped him right away and the abrupt end to the lunch was clear indication of how repulsed I was.
I don't like it when women by default assume that every woman thinks that a guy is after her. And guess what? I don't get all happy thinking an old man likes me. He was a creep and I rightfully shunned him away. He's not some poor cancer men that opened up to me and I'm not some aqua ice queen who shunned him for no reason.
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
Posted by Cancan26Or you can go read my recent post before getting your panties in a bunch. I understand I should've written you guys an essay with the whole pic.Posted by aquarius09that bastard! saying he would miss you! ..ANIMAL! I'm mean who does he thinks he is saying over and over how much he will miss someone that he "thinks" is his friend ...I"m mean how dare ...he ..
Nope! Unfortunately, that's not how it always works. I'll give you a recent example where a person is completely innocent and the cancer just becomes delusional and clingy simply based on their own expectations or emotions.
I recently resigned from my old workplace because I got a better opportunity somewhere else. One of my elderly, and I mean 64 yr old cancer coworker kept whining about how sad he is about me leaving and how he'll miss me. I just listened and never once said I'll miss him too. He wanted to take me out for a farewell lunch just like other coworkers did. At this lunch, he gave me a necklace, which I refused at first but upon insistence accepted it. Even after the lunch, he kept whining about how sad he is about my departure. I just listened because I understand all people feel emotions differently and he probably feels it more intensely than others. I have never flirted nor been anything more than polite and professional with him.
It's been two weeks since I left and he's been emailing me essays of his feelings on my personal email account (which he has because of work) each day since I left. I ignored all of them but last week I finally had enough and replied back and told him nicely in a professional manner to leave me alone and not write me emails because I don't care for them. His response was as delusional as I'm saying he is and whined about how my email is so professional and it sounds like it's part of a mass email I sent to everyone. He wanted the wording to be sweet and heartfelt. In this same email, he also wrote that he got the hint that I want nothing to do with former coworkers and that he would "cease and desist". Two days later, he messages another cancer former coworker who I'm actually friends with outside of work. His email was mostly about me and this other coworker showed me the email. Then, today he messages me again even though he said he would leave me alone. The email is a straight emotional manipulation saying "just so you know I don't make friends easily that I can open up to." You can't force friendship on someone. Stage 5 clinger.
OR MAYBE YOU CAN JUST GET OVER YOURSELF....click to expand
Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
Posted by Averyconfusedwolf^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Well then...here I am skulking around and I find this. A cancer man asking a simple question only to be passive-aggressively bashed...why am I not surprised? Anyway, let me just say this:
Majority of the people who replied so far seem to be "low-key" Cancer haters based on their activity, so their credibility is already shot. Not to mention that big arse story posted by "Aliensusedwhateverthefu" (idk the name) is probably bull. That or twisted. And even if it is 100% true, that's NOT an issue exclusive to Cancers. Most LONELY old-men at that age are desperate & do creepy garbadge like that. That's a terrible example anyway. The age-groups that are usually relevant to here are mid-teens to middle aged adults, so get out of here with that BS.
As for "Stopbeingdelusional"; That is the girl's fault, not his. If the GF really gave a damn about the relationship, she would put effort(I.e Make him want her more to get over his ex) into it like he is, not just make it one-sided. The only time I can understand the said mentality:
" UGH!!! you played me because you still have thoughts of your ex!!! "
Is ONLY IF the cancer man is NOT putting effort into the relationship, and that's very VERY rare. They tend to put TOO MUCH effort, if anything.
As for BG2 and will? They're are more than likely just being smart-arses because well, they can.
Majority of the garbadge I see spewed here is subjective as heII, therfore not credible; with the exception of one.
The most I can tell you is that most people that hate Cancers are liars, deceivers, fake people who kill with kindness, cheats, morons, and especially those who comfort with lies.(Cancers make me feel guilty for being fake.) However, the most common tends to either be a Butthurt master-manipulator that got the tables turned on them.(I.e the cancer started manipulating them instead to "test" if they were genuine or not.)
The other most common is usually, Libras, Virgos, and Leo's that just got out of a relationship with them. Most of the time they'll twist it around to victimise themselves, but it's mainly because they just got absolutely ROASTED by a cancer man, who busted & reminded them on all the fucked up shit they did that he let sly. So their fragile egos are shattered and they get a nice taste of guilt.
Main issue is: Most people just can't handle you guys. You want long-term bonding but its just not going to happen, atleast not in this day and age. People are fake and corrupted by materialistic-consumerism. Sad but true. You guys may be selfish, but so is everyone else around you, so don't feel too bad. Just keep moving on, someone with sense will find you one day, maybe. Anyway, peace!
(P.S.: I am a Virgo, so I''m not biased. 😛)
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Posted by Cancan26Thanks for assuming. That cancer coworker is different. I'm friends with him outside of work and still love him to pieces.
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26Or you can go read my recent post before getting your panties in a bunch. I understand I should've written you guys an essay with the whole pic.Posted by aquarius09that bastard! saying he would miss you! ..ANIMAL! I'm mean who does he thinks he is saying over and over how much he will miss someone that he "thinks" is his friend ...I"m mean how dare ...he ..
Nope! Unfortunately, that's not how it always works. I'll give you a recent example where a person is completely innocent and the cancer just becomes delusional and clingy simply based on their own expectations or emotions.
I recently resigned from my old workplace because I got a better opportunity somewhere else. One of my elderly, and I mean 64 yr old cancer coworker kept whining about how sad he is about me leaving and how he'll miss me. I just listened and never once said I'll miss him too. He wanted to take me out for a farewell lunch just like other coworkers did. At this lunch, he gave me a necklace, which I refused at first but upon insistence accepted it. Even after the lunch, he kept whining about how sad he is about my departure. I just listened because I understand all people feel emotions differently and he probably feels it more intensely than others. I have never flirted nor been anything more than polite and professional with him.
It's been two weeks since I left and he's been emailing me essays of his feelings on my personal email account (which he has because of work) each day since I left. I ignored all of them but last week I finally had enough and replied back and told him nicely in a professional manner to leave me alone and not write me emails because I don't care for them. His response was as delusional as I'm saying he is and whined about how my email is so professional and it sounds like it's part of a mass email I sent to everyone. He wanted the wording to be sweet and heartfelt. In this same email, he also wrote that he got the hint that I want nothing to do with former coworkers and that he would "cease and desist". Two days later, he messages another cancer former coworker who I'm actually friends with outside of work. His email was mostly about me and this other coworker showed me the email. Then, today he messages me again even though he said he would leave me alone. The email is a straight emotional manipulation saying "just so you know I don't make friends easily that I can open up to." You can't force friendship on someone. Stage 5 clinger.
OR MAYBE YOU CAN JUST GET OVER YOURSELF....
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aaaawwww...thats sooooo cute ...I guess you think all us cancers have are panties in a bunch for you
Posted by kissmygritsDid you ever use your brain and wonder if this is the same coworker I really like and respect or maybe a workplace can have multiple cancers working there ?Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
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Posted by aquarius09what! you! dare to grace another cancer with your GLORIOUS presence... how kind of you ....Posted by Cancan26Thanks for assuming. That cancer coworker is different. I'm friends with him outside of work and still love him to pieces.
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
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@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
Posted by aquarius09I dunno we have seen you on the boards quite a bit ...its hard to keep up ...but I mean ...please forgive us ..we are just cancers ...and you are SO AMAZING ...Posted by kissmygritsDid you ever use your brain and wonder if this is the same coworker I really like and respect or maybe a workplace can have multiple cancers working there ?Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
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Posted by Cancan26You're welcome. LOLPosted by aquarius09what! you! dare to grace another cancer with your GLORIOUS presence... how kind of you ....Posted by Cancan26Thanks for assuming. That cancer coworker is different. I'm friends with him outside of work and still love him to pieces.
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
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Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
Posted by Cancan26I have both good and bad experiences with cancers. I share both experiences. Why can't you swallow the bad experiences?Posted by aquarius09I dunno we have seen you on the boards quite a bit ...its hard to keep up ...but I mean ...please forgive us ..we are just cancers ...and you are SO AMAZING ...Posted by kissmygritsDid you ever use your brain and wonder if this is the same coworker I really like and respect or maybe a workplace can have multiple cancers working there ?Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
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Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Posted by kissmygritsDid you ever use your brain and wonder if this is the same coworker I really like and respect or maybe a workplace can have multiple cancers working there ?Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
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As many times as you talk crap about others I don't care.
Posted by aquarius09b/c you OR any of the women that come to the cancer board want to accept any responsibility in ANY problem you have with a cancer ..in your own example ..you COULD have simply told him to stop bothering you right up front...sat him down like an adult and let him know that you needed space.. ...but no ...you let it go on and on..and you come on here and complain ...like he did something other than let you know he cared for you ...Posted by Cancan26I have both good and bad experiences with cancers. I share both experiences. Why can't you swallow the bad experiences?Posted by aquarius09I dunno we have seen you on the boards quite a bit ...its hard to keep up ...but I mean ...please forgive us ..we are just cancers ...and you are SO AMAZING ...Posted by kissmygritsDid you ever use your brain and wonder if this is the same coworker I really like and respect or maybe a workplace can have multiple cancers working there ?Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
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Posted by Arielle83Oh, I agree that opening up is a privilege. At the same time, people should be mindful that they are opening up to another flawed human being who is most likely going to judge them. That's what I do. That's what I did with him and wanted nothing to do with him outside of work.Posted by aquarius09That's why I said if he was being sexual in nature, I'd understand.
@arielle83. Not quite. Don't defend a cancer by default. His crap was sexual in nature and he was being perverted. I'll explain. He opened his soul to me and told me things for which I couldn't respect him. As a cancer, when he was bearing his soul to me, he told me things like how he cheated on his wife his entire life and his excuse was that he just loves women. I tried to make him see that what he did was wrong and tried to see his POV and why he was so entitled. He opened up to me but that doesn't mean I have to open up to him and befriend him. Next thing you know, he's asking me about my BF, and I don't personally discuss my personal life with people I deem my coworkers. Then, one day he tells me that he's attracted to me and would like to be friends with me outside of work. First of all, he's out of line for requesting friendship with me. Why the hell do I want to spend my free time with a 64 yr old man when I can hang out with my BF or friends. Moreover, he's asking to go "for dinner, picnic, walk in the woods". I don't even do those activities with my guy friends let alone this old
man. I politely declined. In that farewell lunch, this is the comment he made to me which fully creeped me out, "I told my wife how sad I am about your departure and she was like 'is she one of your other whores you want to do?' And I said "well, if she gives me the green light, I'd gladly sleep with her." I stopped him right away and the abrupt end to the lunch was clear indication of how repulsed I was.
I don't like it when women by default assume that every woman thinks that a guy is after her. And guess what? I don't get all happy thinking an old man likes me. He was a creep and I rightfully shunned him away. He's not some poor cancer men that opened up to me and I'm not some aqua ice queen who shunned him for no reason.
However you have to realise that a majority of chicks think that all men are after them.
Either way the opening up is a privilege thing was something I learned from a 47 year old libra man.
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Posted by aquarius09well...truthfully I prejudge you by your sign and thought you would be logical ...side note I'm on MY board ...in MY AREA...if you want to vent you could always go to the aqua area and complain about cancers -_- why don't YOU stop posting in OUR area....Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
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Posted by Cancan26I worked with the guy and any interaction I had with him was at work. You make it sound like I was entertaining him outside of work leading himPosted by aquarius09b/c you OR any of the women that come to the cancer board want to accept any responsibility in ANY problem you have with a cancer ..in your own example ..you COULD have simply told him to stop bothering you right up front...sat him down like an adult and let him know that you needed space.. ...but no ...you let it go on and on..and you come on here and complain ...like he did something other than let you know he cared for you ...Posted by Cancan26I have both good and bad experiences with cancers. I share both experiences. Why can't you swallow the bad experiences?Posted by aquarius09I dunno we have seen you on the boards quite a bit ...its hard to keep up ...but I mean ...please forgive us ..we are just cancers ...and you are SO AMAZING ...Posted by kissmygritsDid you ever use your brain and wonder if this is the same coworker I really like and respect or maybe a workplace can have multiple cancers working there ?Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
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On to believe I enjoy his company.
Posted by Cancan26This was on the main page. I respond to anything of interest on the main page. Don't play that "I'm in my own lane" card on a public forum. You sound like a moron doing that. It's simple. You don't like my post, don't read them or block me. You are one of those that just wanna hear good things about your sign.Posted by aquarius09well...truthfully I prejudge you by your sign and thought you would be logical ...side note I'm on MY board ...in MY AREA...if you want to vent you could always go to the aqua area and complain about cancers -_- why don't YOU stop posting in OUR area....Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
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The moment someone says something bad, oh nos.
Posted by aquarius09no ...its not about any of that ...WHY DIDN'T YOU SPEAK UP ..and let him know that YOU needed space ...why invite him to farewell lunch ...why have anything to do with him at all—Posted by Cancan26I worked with the guy and any interaction I had with him was at work. You make it sound like I was entertaining him outside of work leading himPosted by aquarius09b/c you OR any of the women that come to the cancer board want to accept any responsibility in ANY problem you have with a cancer ..in your own example ..you COULD have simply told him to stop bothering you right up front...sat him down like an adult and let him know that you needed space.. ...but no ...you let it go on and on..and you come on here and complain ...like he did something other than let you know he cared for you ...Posted by Cancan26I have both good and bad experiences with cancers. I share both experiences. Why can't you swallow the bad experiences?Posted by aquarius09I dunno we have seen you on the boards quite a bit ...its hard to keep up ...but I mean ...please forgive us ..we are just cancers ...and you are SO AMAZING ...Posted by kissmygritsDid you ever use your brain and wonder if this is the same coworker I really like and respect or maybe a workplace can have multiple cancers working there ?Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
On to believe I enjoy his company.
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Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26This was on the main page. I respond to anything of interest on the main page. Don't play that "I'm in my own lane" card on a public forum. You sound like a moron doing that. It's simple. You don't like my post, don't read them or block me. You are one of those that just wanna hear good things about your sign.Posted by aquarius09well...truthfully I prejudge you by your sign and thought you would be logical ...side note I'm on MY board ...in MY AREA...if you want to vent you could always go to the aqua area and complain about cancers -_- why don't YOU stop posting in OUR area....Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
The moment someone says something bad, oh nos.
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....I don't need to hear the good things about my sign..you can and should say what ever you WANT on a public forum ...BUT KNOW THAT I AND THE OTHER CANCERS CAN AND WILL SAY WHATEVER WE WANT IN RESPONSE to your thread...don't complain when people disagree with you .If I and the other cancers think your post is horseshit thats our right ..we may answer you thread how ever we please
Posted by Cancan26If someone is venting or bearing their soul to me and I'm just listening, that's not bothersome to me. It's when expectations are unreasonably built from that and they request some unreasonable like "come for a picnic with me" and you're sitting there thinking "wtf?!! I was just listening to his shit. How did he get this idea that id wanna go for a picnic or walk in the woods with him, especially when he knows I have a BF and friends?"Posted by aquarius09b/c you OR any of the women that come to the cancer board want to accept any responsibility in ANY problem you have with a cancer ..in your own example ..you COULD have simply told him to stop bothering you right up front...sat him down like an adult and let him know that you needed space.. ...but no ...you let it go on and on..and you come on here and complain ...like he did something other than let you know he cared for you ...Posted by Cancan26I have both good and bad experiences with cancers. I share both experiences. Why can't you swallow the bad experiences?Posted by aquarius09I dunno we have seen you on the boards quite a bit ...its hard to keep up ...but I mean ...please forgive us ..we are just cancers ...and you are SO AMAZING ...Posted by kissmygritsDid you ever use your brain and wonder if this is the same coworker I really like and respect or maybe a workplace can have multiple cancers working there ?Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
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Posted by Cancan26You're the one complaining about my post being horseshit so why complain when you wanted to read it to begin with? You caused your own anguish. And if you're going to read it, then do it with an open mind rather than taking offense because something negative was said about cancers. Anyway, I'm not gonna go in circles with you. I clarified my post to make a point about sometimes cancers get hurt because of their own unreasonable expectations.Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26This was on the main page. I respond to anything of interest on the main page. Don't play that "I'm in my own lane" card on a public forum. You sound like a moron doing that. It's simple. You don't like my post, don't read them or block me. You are one of those that just wanna hear good things about your sign.Posted by aquarius09well...truthfully I prejudge you by your sign and thought you would be logical ...side note I'm on MY board ...in MY AREA...if you want to vent you could always go to the aqua area and complain about cancers -_- why don't YOU stop posting in OUR area....Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
The moment someone says something bad, oh nos.
....I don't need to hear the good things about my sign..you can and should say what ever you WANT on a public forum ...BUT KNOW THAT I AND THE OTHER CANCERS CAN AND WILL SAY WHATEVER WE WANT IN RESPONSE to your thread...don't complain when people disagree with you .If I and the other cancers think your post is horseshit thats our right ..we may answer you thread how ever we please
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Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26If someone is venting or bearing their soul to me and I'm just listening, that's not bothersome to me. It's when expectations are unreasonably built from that and they request some unreasonable like "come for a picnic with me" and you're sitting there thinking "wtf?!! I was just listening to his shit. How did he get this idea that id wanna go for a picnic or walk in the woods with him, especially when he knows I have a BF and friends?"Posted by aquarius09b/c you OR any of the women that come to the cancer board want to accept any responsibility in ANY problem you have with a cancer ..in your own example ..you COULD have simply told him to stop bothering you right up front...sat him down like an adult and let him know that you needed space.. ...but no ...you let it go on and on..and you come on here and complain ...like he did something other than let you know he cared for you ...Posted by Cancan26I have both good and bad experiences with cancers. I share both experiences. Why can't you swallow the bad experiences?Posted by aquarius09I dunno we have seen you on the boards quite a bit ...its hard to keep up ...but I mean ...please forgive us ..we are just cancers ...and you are SO AMAZING ...Posted by kissmygritsDid you ever use your brain and wonder if this is the same coworker I really like and respect or maybe a workplace can have multiple cancers working there ?Posted by Cancan26
@aquarius09
and also you have made many threads about this SAME cancer co-worker one minute you love him the next you hate him ....
and they say cancers are moody ....
lol thanks because I was thinking ugh this crap again. 😄
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the problem is he thought that you WERE his friend ...you didn't correct him THE BLAME IS ON YOU ....all you had to do was correct him ..he talked to you ...over and over and over ..he let you know how he felt ...you SAID NOTHING ...he assumed... cause you didn't correct him ..that you were his friend
Posted by aquarius09pppffftt..my anguish ...girl bye! ...I disagree with you DEAL WITH IT ..like a big girl...its gonna be okay your ego WILL SURVIVE TO MAKE ANOTHER SHITTY POST that I will probably once again DISAGREE WITH YOU ...Posted by Cancan26You're the one complaining about my post being horseshit so why complain when you wanted to read it to begin with? You caused your own anguish. And if you're going to read it, then do it with an open mind rather than taking offense because something negative was said about cancers. Anyway, I'm not gonna go in circles with you. I clarified my post to make a point about sometimes cancers get hurt because of their own unreasonable expectations.Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26This was on the main page. I respond to anything of interest on the main page. Don't play that "I'm in my own lane" card on a public forum. You sound like a moron doing that. It's simple. You don't like my post, don't read them or block me. You are one of those that just wanna hear good things about your sign.Posted by aquarius09well...truthfully I prejudge you by your sign and thought you would be logical ...side note I'm on MY board ...in MY AREA...if you want to vent you could always go to the aqua area and complain about cancers -_- why don't YOU stop posting in OUR area....Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
The moment someone says something bad, oh nos.
....I don't need to hear the good things about my sign..you can and should say what ever you WANT on a public forum ...BUT KNOW THAT I AND THE OTHER CANCERS CAN AND WILL SAY WHATEVER WE WANT IN RESPONSE to your thread...don't complain when people disagree with you .If I and the other cancers think your post is horseshit thats our right ..we may answer you thread how ever we please
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Posted by Cancan26Posted by aquarius09well...truthfully I prejudge you by your sign and thought you would be logical ...side note I'm on MY board ...in MY AREA...if you want to vent you could always go to the aqua area and complain about cancers -_- why don't YOU stop posting in OUR area....Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
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Psssst this is the Astrology board. I totally get it though.
So much bashing in our board alone. 😆
Posted by Cancan26One last thing, I don't mind people responding to me. I actually love it. It's the assumptions and stupid ones that bother me. How did you put two and two together and come to the conclusion that this weird cancer coworker I talked about in this thread is the same as the one I previously talked about? Can there not be two cancer coworkers or three or four? Therefore, you came at me with a silly assumption that irked me.Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26This was on the main page. I respond to anything of interest on the main page. Don't play that "I'm in my own lane" card on a public forum. You sound like a moron doing that. It's simple. You don't like my post, don't read them or block me. You are one of those that just wanna hear good things about your sign.Posted by aquarius09well...truthfully I prejudge you by your sign and thought you would be logical ...side note I'm on MY board ...in MY AREA...if you want to vent you could always go to the aqua area and complain about cancers -_- why don't YOU stop posting in OUR area....Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
The moment someone says something bad, oh nos.
....I don't need to hear the good things about my sign..you can and should say what ever you WANT on a public forum ...BUT KNOW THAT I AND THE OTHER CANCERS CAN AND WILL SAY WHATEVER WE WANT IN RESPONSE to your thread...don't complain when people disagree with you .If I and the other cancers think your post is horseshit thats our right ..we may answer you thread how ever we please
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Cuz they trade cigs for bjs?
Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26One last thing, I don't mind people responding to me. I actually love it. It's the assumptions and stupid ones that bother me. How did you put two and two together and come to the conclusion that this weird cancer coworker I talked about in this thread is the same as the one I previously talked about? Can there not be two cancer coworkers or three or four? Therefore, you came at me with a silly assumption that irked me.Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26This was on the main page. I respond to anything of interest on the main page. Don't play that "I'm in my own lane" card on a public forum. You sound like a moron doing that. It's simple. You don't like my post, don't read them or block me. You are one of those that just wanna hear good things about your sign.Posted by aquarius09well...truthfully I prejudge you by your sign and thought you would be logical ...side note I'm on MY board ...in MY AREA...if you want to vent you could always go to the aqua area and complain about cancers -_- why don't YOU stop posting in OUR area....Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
The moment someone says something bad, oh nos.
....I don't need to hear the good things about my sign..you can and should say what ever you WANT on a public forum ...BUT KNOW THAT I AND THE OTHER CANCERS CAN AND WILL SAY WHATEVER WE WANT IN RESPONSE to your thread...don't complain when people disagree with you .If I and the other cancers think your post is horseshit thats our right ..we may answer you thread how ever we please
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....I don't care that you were irked ...you caused your own anguish by reading my response (see how arrogant that sounds 🙂 )
Posted by Cancan26I'm not the least bit butthurt by your repeating my own comment. Maybe you need a thicker skin if you found my comment arrogant because it wasn't meant to be that. All is well that ends well. Neither one cares ?Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26One last thing, I don't mind people responding to me. I actually love it. It's the assumptions and stupid ones that bother me. How did you put two and two together and come to the conclusion that this weird cancer coworker I talked about in this thread is the same as the one I previously talked about? Can there not be two cancer coworkers or three or four? Therefore, you came at me with a silly assumption that irked me.Posted by aquarius09Posted by Cancan26This was on the main page. I respond to anything of interest on the main page. Don't play that "I'm in my own lane" card on a public forum. You sound like a moron doing that. It's simple. You don't like my post, don't read them or block me. You are one of those that just wanna hear good things about your sign.Posted by aquarius09well...truthfully I prejudge you by your sign and thought you would be logical ...side note I'm on MY board ...in MY AREA...if you want to vent you could always go to the aqua area and complain about cancers -_- why don't YOU stop posting in OUR area....Posted by Cancan26So nobody is forcing you to read my horseshit. Why do you?Posted by aquarius09I make my "assumptions" by your post ..what YOU have written ..as does kissmygrits ...and any other cancer that has seen your horseshit post
@cancan26 given your assumptions, you clearly do ?
The moment someone says something bad, oh nos.
....I don't need to hear the good things about my sign..you can and should say what ever you WANT on a public forum ...BUT KNOW THAT I AND THE OTHER CANCERS CAN AND WILL SAY WHATEVER WE WANT IN RESPONSE to your thread...don't complain when people disagree with you .If I and the other cancers think your post is horseshit thats our right ..we may answer you thread how ever we please
....I don't care that you were irked ...you caused your own anguish by reading my response (see how arrogant that sounds 🙂 )
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@aquarius09
you got cut off...but I can guess what your gonna say ...(I didn't know aquas were so predictable )
you and every cancer is JUST SO HURT BY ME ...
pssstt....the truth is we don't give fuck about you..and yes you can disagree with someone and truly truly not give any fucks about there well being ....except that one old guy that you promptly shit on...he cares about you ..-_-
you got cut off...but I can guess what your gonna say ...(I didn't know aquas were so predictable )
you and every cancer is JUST SO HURT BY ME ...
pssstt....the truth is we don't give fuck about you..and yes you can disagree with someone and truly truly not give any fucks about there well being ....except that one old guy that you promptly shit on...he cares about you ..-_-
Posted by Cancan26Get your emotions in check. I said nothing of that sort. I'm not as childish as you. I said "all is well that ends well since neither one of us cares." Have a good day ?
@aquarius09
you got cut off...but I can guess what your gonna say ...(I didn't know aquas were so predictable )
you and every cancer is JUST SO HURT BY ME ...
pssstt....the truth is we don't give fuck about you..and yes you can disagree with someone and truly truly not give any fucks about there well being ....except that one old guy that you promptly shit on...he cares about you ..-_-
Posted by aquarius09my emotions are in check? lol ...calm down you sound upset ...I wouldn't throw childish around though ..you could probably check your first post in this thread for that ...have a nice day ..🙂Posted by Cancan26Get your emotions in check. I said nothing of that sort. I'm not as childish as you. I said "all is well that ends well since neither one of us cares." Have a good day ?
@aquarius09
you got cut off...but I can guess what your gonna say ...(I didn't know aquas were so predictable )
you and every cancer is JUST SO HURT BY ME ...
pssstt....the truth is we don't give fuck about you..and yes you can disagree with someone and truly truly not give any fucks about there well being ....except that one old guy that you promptly shit on...he cares about you ..-_-
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Posted by AliensusedourbogrollHoly shit I'm sorry. I meant to point that "your story" @Aquarius. I am so sorry. Forgive me. ? I edited it.
It must be hard being a guy who's sensitive. You're told to toughen up while women crying and showing that they are hurting are tolerated . These guys repress these feelings but those feelings end up manifesting in a negative way. That could be why they are misunderstood. I wish I could tell u ways to express those feelings in a healthy way.
Posted by AveryconfusedwolfYour post is the most idiotic thing I've ever read in my life where all you did is denounce everyone's negative experience with a cancer as bullshit or that they have a character flaw because it just can't be that a cancer man or woman can be shitty or have a character flaw. It must be us, but not them. Why don't you use this same logic or there lack of when something nice is said about cancerians. I've created positive posts about this sign too and btw I'm no hater of this sign because if i was I wouldn't befriend them or acknowledge the good qualities of this sign. The DXP cancerians are just incredibly touchy.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollHoly shit I'm sorry. I meant to point that "your story" @Aquarius. I am so sorry. Forgive me. ? I edited it.
It must be hard being a guy who's sensitive. You're told to toughen up while women crying and showing that they are hurting are tolerated . These guys repress these feelings but those feelings end up manifesting in a negative way. That could be why they are misunderstood. I wish I could tell u ways to express those feelings in a healthy way.click to expand
Oh wait a min! I just saw at the end that you're a virgo. That explains the obnoxiousness. Now, that's a sign that I actually don't like. If I ever post stories about you guys, then you can go on this rant about how people don't like you.
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