why didn't it work out? ( aries + leo)
This topic was created in the Astrology forum by 199144 on Tuesday, August 22, 2017 and has 1 replies.
Hello,
i have written two or one thread about Leo man before.
I came back to Poland from Spain one week ago. While abroad he helped me organising some stuff for my master degree thesis, he sent me some documents and so one. I know he likes me.
But i think now it is only a friend- friend relation which I regret so much. And probably I need to cut this off because I can not stand being ONLY friends with him.
So as I mentioned before he was willing to help me not only 3-4 months ago but before, one year ago , at parties he was always looking at me being interested, i just felt that. Always happy to see me and so one. I felt he was interested. But he was one of my -Virgo - ex friends.. And when he told Leo man about us from 2 years ago Leo man got furious and stopped contacting me for a few months. I dont know why he felt that and was so unpleasant to me when he heard that from my ex.
But after few months when I was on exchange he started liking my pics, I started initiating conversations with him, started writing to him as a friend. Normally. Then he made a favour to me of those documents for my thesis. It was very helpful. So we agreed that I will buy some little surprise gift for him and he told me we would go out for some beers or etc.
It was a period that we were chatting almost everyday in 2 months. I bought some gift.
But we stopped chatting because I was busy as well as him. I came back to my country last week. I had a flight the day of his birthday. I wrote to him from the airport sending wishes sending him pics from the airport. He immidiately invited me to the barbecue party 3 hours later- but of course I could not come - i had a flight to other city and then i had to take a bus and so one.
Two days after i wrote to him asking about barbecue and party- he answered very politely that barbecue was nice and cultural and blah blah.
Then some days after I send him message I have some gift for him- it was the beginning of last week- he was nicely surprised and i informed him that i am 'open to see him for a meeting ( NOT DATE). I let him choose a day and told him whenever he would have time he needs to let me know. So he agreed, told me he would surerly tell me when he has time. He mentioned that not the week ( previous week) but probably before /or the weekend.
So i was waiting.
Until Today.
He did not text . He did not inform me.
So I am stepping back, I was under pressure last week. Because I wanted to meet him.
I know that when he wants to do sth he will do it immidiately. WHEN HE WANTS. But i am not a doll or a marionette. I can not wait 1-2 months until he calls me.
Or am i exaggerating?
Maybe he was just polite all the time and he did not want anything from me. And him being jealous and behaving weirdly was nothing and I just imagined that? Are leos very helpful for everyone?
He is very diplomatic, likes my energy and sense of humor. He told me im very humorous and talented. But it means nothing. When drunk he told me he liked me. but normally when dancing ( in january or last year) he was touching my waist but then immediatelly turned back like paralised saying I apologise... Why?
I feel ignored by his diplomacy.
He delicately gave me a sign he is not interested telling me he WOULD text me, but of course he does not do it and he will not.
And he still watches my snapchat and instagram stories.
So HAVE I BEEN FRIENDZONED AGAIN?
Why didnt it work out?
i have written two or one thread about Leo man before.
I came back to Poland from Spain one week ago. While abroad he helped me organising some stuff for my master degree thesis, he sent me some documents and so one. I know he likes me.
But i think now it is only a friend- friend relation which I regret so much. And probably I need to cut this off because I can not stand being ONLY friends with him.
So as I mentioned before he was willing to help me not only 3-4 months ago but before, one year ago , at parties he was always looking at me being interested, i just felt that. Always happy to see me and so one. I felt he was interested. But he was one of my -Virgo - ex friends.. And when he told Leo man about us from 2 years ago Leo man got furious and stopped contacting me for a few months. I dont know why he felt that and was so unpleasant to me when he heard that from my ex.
But after few months when I was on exchange he started liking my pics, I started initiating conversations with him, started writing to him as a friend. Normally. Then he made a favour to me of those documents for my thesis. It was very helpful. So we agreed that I will buy some little surprise gift for him and he told me we would go out for some beers or etc.
It was a period that we were chatting almost everyday in 2 months. I bought some gift.
But we stopped chatting because I was busy as well as him. I came back to my country last week. I had a flight the day of his birthday. I wrote to him from the airport sending wishes sending him pics from the airport. He immidiately invited me to the barbecue party 3 hours later- but of course I could not come - i had a flight to other city and then i had to take a bus and so one.
Two days after i wrote to him asking about barbecue and party- he answered very politely that barbecue was nice and cultural and blah blah.
Then some days after I send him message I have some gift for him- it was the beginning of last week- he was nicely surprised and i informed him that i am 'open to see him for a meeting ( NOT DATE). I let him choose a day and told him whenever he would have time he needs to let me know. So he agreed, told me he would surerly tell me when he has time. He mentioned that not the week ( previous week) but probably before /or the weekend.
So i was waiting.
Until Today.
He did not text . He did not inform me.
So I am stepping back, I was under pressure last week. Because I wanted to meet him.
I know that when he wants to do sth he will do it immidiately. WHEN HE WANTS. But i am not a doll or a marionette. I can not wait 1-2 months until he calls me.
Or am i exaggerating?
Maybe he was just polite all the time and he did not want anything from me. And him being jealous and behaving weirdly was nothing and I just imagined that? Are leos very helpful for everyone?
He is very diplomatic, likes my energy and sense of humor. He told me im very humorous and talented. But it means nothing. When drunk he told me he liked me. but normally when dancing ( in january or last year) he was touching my waist but then immediatelly turned back like paralised saying I apologise... Why?
I feel ignored by his diplomacy.
He delicately gave me a sign he is not interested telling me he WOULD text me, but of course he does not do it and he will not.
And he still watches my snapchat and instagram stories.
So HAVE I BEEN FRIENDZONED AGAIN?
Why didnt it work out?
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