Why is it very difficult for Aries to have someone?

i noticed you started to sound sound like Hollyock

i dont know why my post has been cut in 1/3...

but yes i completly agree with you. all ofmy good friends are fire signs because we understand eachother- under the flaky, disorganized ;outfit' there is a very cool and organized person. i also do have a lot of capricorn friends.

i had a focus on a leo man who has virgo placements and encourage me to study hard. even though we can party together and be nice to each other. he also has a descendant in aries so we can match xd.

i do not know any aquarius and gemini men.

i change groups of people often but still feel that people are not welcome. because its weird to change groups and companies.

i am very light , spirited and i dont know. i sometimes just do not care what others say. but because i dont party hard and dont complain people think i am shy and disorganized.

its not true.

sometimes i feel like i need to prove myself to others because they missunderstand me and my actions.

what?

anyway yes, leo with lots of virgo...

you need to make the move on that guy.

you CHASE...he wait..

i made a move. i described a situation some months ago with a gift from abroad. he helped me so i bought him sth and when i mentioned it that we can meet and i let him make the time and so one he backed off for 1 month. then after 1 month he apologised saying he was busy and so one blabla.

then i tried another last time he said he didnt have time he mentioned the weekend but finally again fleaked on me. when i ignored him he wrote to me.

when i told him- ok let me know another week - he didnt let me know.

last weekend on a party-3 weeks after my last message- there was a weird tension. he was weird to me. i thought he wanted to tell me sth but finally didnt.

i am not gonna tell a guy i have sth for him twice...

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by joanne_p
i dont know why my post has been cut in 1/3...

but yes i completly agree with you. all ofmy good friends are fire signs because we understand eachother- under the flaky, disorganized ;outfit' there is a very cool and organized person. i also do have a lot of capricorn friends.

i had a focus on a leo man who has virgo placements and encourage me to study hard. even though we can party together and be nice to each other. he also has a descendant in aries so we can match xd.

i do not know any aquarius and gemini men.

i change groups of people often but still feel that people are not welcome. because its weird to change groups and companies.

i am very light , spirited and i dont know. i sometimes just do not care what others say. but because i dont party hard and dont complain people think i am shy and disorganized.

its not true.

sometimes i feel like i need to prove myself to others because they missunderstand me and my actions.

I get you. How old are you? You sound young?

I will say this that I understand because I’ve been there. My family in particular has looked down on me, even some other so called ‘friends’ who’d put me down and hint at me not amounting to anything. Well I’ve proved them wrong and continue to do so.

It’s a drive. I am Capricorn dominant so I understand your need for success. Your Aries energy is naturally competitive and add your Aquarius energy, you have this need to prove other people...especially those that looked down on you because you wish to prove them wrong. Teaching them a lesson to be humble and to not underestimate you.

The feeling of not belonging is that Aquarius energy you have. Aquarius are unique and strive to be unique. But other people view this as abnormal, weird, or cold and aloof. Other times very naive is you’re a woman. I’ve been there and let me tell you it’s frustrating, but I’ve learned that it’s better to keep your mouth shut and do what you have to do. The fruit of your labor will pay off and you’ll prove them wrong.

Perseverance is key. And with your Aries sun ambition and Capricorn moon’s patience, you’ll get there.

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yes i can sound childish but i am 27. i am old. i am experienced but not in hard partying and taking even 'light' drugs. thats what my EX FRIENDS were doing and that is why they perceived me as a naive and childish woman. because i was maybe more shy and subtle and more fragile than the others 🙂

when a woman is subtle she is perceived as a friend or a 'sister type' not asa gf material- expecially among my EX FRIENDS. that s why i cut the contact with them.

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Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by joanne_p
i dont know why my post has been cut in 1/3...

but yes i completly agree with you. all ofmy good friends are fire signs because we understand eachother- under the flaky, disorganized ;outfit' there is a very cool and organized person. i also do have a lot of capricorn friends.

i had a focus on a leo man who has virgo placements and encourage me to study hard. even though we can party together and be nice to each other. he also has a descendant in aries so we can match xd.

i do not know any aquarius and gemini men.

i change groups of people often but still feel that people are not welcome. because its weird to change groups and companies.

i am very light , spirited and i dont know. i sometimes just do not care what others say. but because i dont party hard and dont complain people think i am shy and disorganized.

its not true.

sometimes i feel like i need to prove myself to others because they missunderstand me and my actions.

I get you. How old are you? You sound young?

I will say this that I understand because I’ve been there. My family in particular has looked down on me, even some other so called ‘friends’ who’d put me down and hint at me not amounting to anything. Well I’ve proved them wrong and continue to do so.

It’s a drive. I am Capricorn dominant so I understand your need for success. Your Aries energy is naturally competitive and add your Aquarius energy, you have this need to prove other people...especially those that looked down on you because you wish to prove them wrong. Teaching them a lesson to be humble and to not underestimate you.

The feeling of not belonging is that Aquarius energy you have. Aquarius are unique and strive to be unique. But other people view this as abnormal, weird, or cold and aloof. Other times very naive is you’re a woman. I’ve been there and let me tell you it’s frustrating, but I’ve learned that it’s better to keep your mouth shut and do what you have to do. The fruit of your labor will pay off and you’ll prove them wrong.

Perseverance is key. And with your Aries sun ambition and Capricorn moon’s patience, you’ll get there.

yes i can sound childish but i am 27. i am old. i am experienced but not in hard partying and taking even 'light' drugs. thats what my EX FRIENDS were doing and that is why they perceived me as a naive and childish woman. because i was maybe more shy and subtle and more fragile than the others 🙂

when a woman is subtle she is perceived as a friend or a 'sister type' not asa gf material- expecially among my EX FRIENDS. that s why i cut the contact with them.

I've had the same experience. I'm 28 and I've had my exes and a few other people say that to me (that I'm like a little girl or naive). Even called me a bore at one point lol. Yet those very same people have come to depend on me or ask advice. Contradicting themselves by saying I'm dependable and mature. And most can't save up money to save their lives.

It just means they're not on your level, honestly. I'm sure an older man would appreciate your gravitas. Your ex friends were still in the YOLO life style . But those very same people will probably be the very same even years from now. Stuck in a rut and possibly not financially successful. I know a few people like that. Nice people but still drinking and going out instead of trying to progress or climb the ladder. You see ahead and are centered, that's not a bad thing.

It's like the way I think. I rather suffer now and work hard and it paying off in a few years and having a home, real estate investments, and money in my account (so I can travel) and I won't have to worry about my financial stability when I get older. That's exactly how my parents were and they built a small empire where they're retired now and life off of their investments. They make more than the average income where they live.

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i dont know what is the impression of me in others eyes. i may be seen as disorganised, impatient,flaky and reckless. but i am usually the best in everything.

my ex this virgo guy is always under pressure and is full of complexes or work. he needs to work and hits on girls. party girls. not normal girls because he only works and techno parties.

he thought i was a party girl but he was wrong. once he told me - be the best and went away.

since that time i felt the pressure to prove him that i am okey. because maybe he would come back.

i became the best that his male friends from his circle of friends were interested in me and they have heard about me.

even leo guy is his friend. i didnt care. virgo letf me 2 years before so why would i wait for his permission to be with leo man after 2 years...

but i was wrong. virgo c0ck blocked me before leo man.

i cant still stand this.

leo man doesnt know that he doesnt feel it.because he lives in his own reality is as me disorganized and so one.

andwhen virgo saw i am more close to leo he needed to react.

now he smiles because leo man doesnt want me. his friends are in relationships. HIM VIRGO doesnt want me

and i am away from those people because it would be ashame for me to beg them for my attention.

virgo knows that. thats why he smiles because he knew he won his territory.

because its him who chooses.



but in reality its me who chooses.

he doesnt know it.

even last week at party i may have seemed like disorganised. he asked me about my studies and work. i am working on my diploma so i dont know what i will do next. i told him frankly 'i dont know' i dont know firstly i need to graduate its ok for me. and he was like- of course of course.



but i deeply feel like he tested me. he still tests me if i am the best or not 😉

and when i am popular and among people he comes back. either way he doesnt want me.

he is shady

Aries here!

Its quite difficult to stay in a relationship as you said I will put tests to see clearly the other person intentions or I will get bored and look for fun anywhere else. Astrologically speaking I would look for someone who has Aries placements (or fire) to match your energy and keep the fire alive.

Look at your Mars and Venus placements too

i have mars and venus in aquarius

Posted by bittercupcake
Well that makes sense. Not only are you Aries sun, but you have Aquarius venus AND mars. You have a natural tendency to push people away. Both of your venus and mars are square your Pluto right? That means you will naturally feel and inclination that men will use you for sex. A natural instinct to push men away because they come at you full force and ‘sexually’ driven. But you probably don’t realize that you are exuding a very sexual aura and men pick up on that.

I’d say that you probably would do well with a Leo sun, Aqua sun, or Gemini sun. They provide a challenge for you all while keeping things fun.

Also she's got a Cap moon.

Uranus is in Aries and brought a lot of heave ups and downs... so relationships of a big part of this... I cannot wait till it leaves.



Piscesmoon

Posted by piscesmoon2
Uranus is in Aries and brought a lot of heave ups and downs... so relationships of a big part of this... I cannot wait till it leaves.



Piscesmoon

When will it leave aries? How do you know it is there?

😢 i am weird!!!

Posted by aquarius_man
aries find it difficult to have someone cuz they stubborn bastards (read: complex, difficult, argumentative personalities) and this what they deserve.

unless they learn to compromise, they will die alone.

Aquas are way more stubborn than Aries. Based on how you treated your ex it sounds like you deserve the same things you feel she deserves.

Why are you blaming the demise on her?