A Capricorn I dealt with dropped me so cold "over text" for various reasons in their book (very minor and half of them were made up in their head) but the moral of it all was that I needed to grow up and that i didn't appreciate back, and also I didn't give enough to the table. In which, I forfeit all of that. But cap would say "you never own up to your mistakes" (Bitch! You're trippan! I can't own up to it cos it's all in your head) nobody's perfect but you say one thing to piss them off and your bye bye! But they can pisd you off right and it's not a problem? /:
It's like caps want to find a reason to destroy you..
Anyways, well cap told me they were done with me in a very cold and mean way. A bunch of low blows, you ain't shit, and I'm on my way. Mind you this is my best friend of 2 years, someone I had a real connection with.
But cap didn't give no fucks whatsoever! Cap dropped me like we just met yesterday.
a few days passed and cap apologized for being rude, but still stood the ground of the desicion of parting ways. I agreed and we haven't spoke for 4 weeks. Blocked me from social media and took down our 1000's of pictures. I had a chance to eye caps Facebook and cap posted a few spiteful things but never any emotion.
I write this, cos I wish to approach cap one day but I heard they need space. I wonder if cap misses me. I never backstabbed or hurt cap, just pissed cap off, so I wonder if cap will miss me and reach out. I do not reach out because I am afraid of being turned down or no reply back. When cap says they don't want to be friends, I know they mean it. But maybe I'll disappear for awhile so cap can see I was a really great friend, and I was loyal, and my tiny little "weaknesses" we're nothing to this even bigger messed up world.
I hope cap misses me, cos I miss cap very much. I stand my ground cos cap wants it this way. Why chase someone who does want to be chased.
I cry every day. I'm always remembered by caps existence.
Cap told me I changed her life, and she was so glad she met me, and she loved me, she said we'd grow old together, she said I was the only person who understood her, I was the one who helped her find her path (none of this mattered when she dropped me so easily)
It's been a month.. and I'm forgetting why we even stopped being friends.
We were gonna get best friend tattoos, we exchanged clothes and jewelry, and talked every single day. So four weeks is torture., to ME!
I enjoyed caps dark side, and cap enjoyed my light side. We were yin yang. Perfect pair. Everyone loved us together. We loved us. We were pratically a couple.
She dropped me like I was a business desicion.
"I didn't give enough" I practically worshipped my cap. But cap don't see shit but itself.
I am cancer/leo and I am hurt.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Hm approach him, no not a good idea. Sorry. But whatever advice he gave you, learn from this and help you better understand what he was saying. Now he may have done things too to you. But usually one makes their minds up it's done. So change for you and move on to a new friendship and SO but not this guy. Sorry.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Or some people think they aren't in the long run meant to be. One door closes because we can change more, then when a door opens you would be a better person spiritually, mentall, and physically, prepared.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Every time someone cries, often we don't cry for the same reasons again. So take time, go do something fun, think about what life has presented you at this moment.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
I can feel your emotions here. Stay strong okay. Keep your head up..
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Even since this is a man/woman thing even if it was woman /man situation it still applies the same btw. Good luck..
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
This person took everything down though already showing that this isn't working because now has other options to see..only people who still want like something to work will leave things up, take spaces evaluate, and communicate and come back. This person isn't playing games or why to grown for trying to change people.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Hm you do know some people test right away or want to have fwb because if the sex isn't great no strings, which sexual chemistry is a plus long term and important. Even if there is great sex but something else is important like a physical, mental, spiritual, maybe family backgrounds, siblings, friends, psychological, sexual, is lacking or incomplete or not compatible they break it off no harm. Move on to something with at least 80 % strong character traits and personality traits.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Nowadays lots people breaking up with kids or no kids and divorced...they are not looking for something serious. Straight rebounds, fwb, NSA, and non commitment. It can take years for someone to get over these types of phases when someone has been hurt prior to meeting you. Or they are into open relationships from jump and that's what they are going to do until they meet that special someone again. Who knows anymore.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Oh btw that movie dazed and confused is really great to watch, classic movie btw. Hope you well @Op - Idk what else to say.
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You sound like a controlling douchebag. No clue why people see your manipulation as sweet.
No one would want an entitled person like you as a friend.
Hopefully Cap sticks to her guns.
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I dont know your situation but i have venus in cap 7th house.
When i end a friendship it isnt an overnight decision. Ive weighed the pros and cons and i decide if that person is worth it.
If they arent i cut ties and never look back.
No testing involved.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
When i ended my friendship with a virgo and aries. It was based on years of just dumb ass behavior on their part and a lack of appreciation for me.
I respect who they are as people but i dont have to accept it.