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Jun 01, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 2068 · Topics: 16
I can totally see this being the case with my job at 44. Hell, I'm actually there now. They go back and forth between letting me go and grappling to keep me. I've verbally expressed directly to my boss that I'm not opposed to being let go. Then they do things like they've fllooded my phone with l9ve you texts...yes, my boss actually used the "L" word and they sent me a bouquet of beautiful flowers.
Feel guilty much? Lol....it's gotten to the point of mirroring an emotionally abusive relationship. I'm supposed to be off until Nov. 10th, but don't have the reserves or time off to be gone that long. I've been thinking about asking my mom to buy me a train ticket to hide out with my guy in the next state and figure my career/business stuff out. I already ran the idea by him and he was like, "that would be better than just sitting there."
I just don't know if that's what I actually want to do. It's like I'm very confused these days. Life overall has gone much better than I expected, but not according to what I've planned. That's a confusing stage to be in. You're not alone Hun.