what are your parents signs? and do you think it had a really big impact on how well you get along with them?
my dad is a libra and my mom is a sagittarius. im older now so i get along with them just fine but even still, my mom and i butt heads and she tries to control me. im an aries so we're supposed to be a great match right? she's far too aggressive and disruptive for my taste but im the only kid in the fam who ever rebelled against her because i had major issues with her trying to control everything. now that i can do everything independent of her i like to flaunt it because it makes her mad that she cant change my mind. haha im interested in what everyone has to say. it's always so much different with your parents when you're older
ohhhhhh a better question is what sign are your parents and are they still marries? it would be interesting to see what combinations worked and which didnt
Scorpio dad, Aqua mother ... they never argued, however, they also had a marriage of little interaction with each other, indifferent to each other most of the time. When they did speak to each other, it took tones to suggest it was a platonic relationship .... no hugging, or kissing, or sharing quiet time together.
They stayed together until the baby (me) got married and left home, then divorced. I had development issues, so I believe this is the main reason they stayed together for so long = I needed a lot of attention to prepare me for the world.
Then they both remarried ..... Aqua mom to Libra step, they were bonded until death parted them. Scorpio dad to Leo step, they also were married until death parted them.
As far as the effect they had on me as a child .... Aqua mom was my saviour, there's no doubt in my mind that there was some kind of divine design who created her being my mother, for nobody else would have had the patience and objective understanding and compassion to get me through very troubled years learning to cope. Dad, being a Scorpio, was very protective, and intense about his loyalty to his children, and to his whole family, and home. Though, he wasn't as patient as mom, and displayed a lot of frustration dealing with me .... he also taught me a big lesson about loyalty, and trust (trust in another is difficult for me) ... he showed me, through his own behaviour towards me when the world was completely out of sync with itself, and it's inhabitants, which is frightening as fucking hell ... that it's ok to let go and trust in another, he would catch me.
In essence .... I had a wonderful childhood, as it's relative to my parents.
My Parents Have Been Happily Married Since 1985. I Always Got Along Well With My Father, But When I Was A Teenager I Didn't Get Along Well With My Mother, But Now That I Am Older, We Are Like Sisters/Best Friends.
Mom is a Taurus and dad a Libra, they just recently celebrated their 32nd wedding anniversary. they have always got along fairly well, no major arguments but I think there are times that they don't quite understand one another.
Sag mom, Taurus dad. Very happily married for 28 years, despite my mother's awful nagging and bluntness...but I'm a Scorpio so it could be all my perception of things.
Leo Mom & Aqua Dad. (Still married) I'm a Sag and sister's an Aqua as well. My mom is and always has been my bestfriend and she considers me hers. My dad, like alot of other Aqua dad's, is very indifferent to say the least. He has always been there for the family and I never wanted or needed anything that I didn't have, however I can count on my hands the number of times I've experienced any kind of affection from him. My sister is the bad kid - haha. And I think she enjoys it. But she also is my best friend
My Father is a Taurus & my Mother is a Capricorn & with me being an Aquarian I think I pretty much got lucky when it comes to my childhood. With my dad being a Taurus, I was always exposed to the finer things in life & with the necessary affection every child needs. My father taught me the importance & value of money, but also the importance of sharing everything you inherit, for the gain is larger in the long run. My mother being a Capricorn adds to my Aquarian sense of power & success. The undying loyalty my mother had to my father & to the family (regardless of how the cards were dealt) is something that was embedded in me for a long while. The only bad thing about having a Taurean parents (being an Aqua) is that we are both stubborn creatures; when we got along, we got along great! But when we didn't see eye to eye on things, things were BAD! And the negative thing about having a Capricorn mother is that affection & all that mushy- stuff children seek was not the main gift I received from her. Capricorns are more serious-natured & so are we Aquas, but they are not the ones to get extremely emotional & show their weakness in front of others, which is why my detachment from things is alot more prevelant than that of most Aquas. Aquas already have a tough time properly expressing our emotions in front of others & having a mother that had this very same trait can be either rewarding (adding to the strength of the individual) or very frustrating
Seen someone say this..... "virgo dad, piscies mom."
try a..
Virgo Mother
Pisces Father
.... Divorced since I was 9. You can judge from the signs.... self-explanatory. My mother is the reason I'm always rootin' for the under-dogs... jumpin in to save someone when it's not my business. Sometimes I felt as if I've jumped in front of a "bullet", emotionally for her.
Lucky, I had virgo mum & aqua dad as well! And i'm with JD & Briana about aqua dad's, they are rather strange parents. My dad and I are alot closer now that i'm an adult, but when I was a child we couldn't have been more distant. My parents were married just over 25 years, but have been divorced for about 4 or 5 years now.
My virgo mum was excellent, she was very loving and supportive, never held out on me at all. We're very close friends, we've always been close and I gotta say I have her to thank for me turning out the way I am - I was an extremely shy child, and the wrong mother easily could have made a mess of me.
Scorp Mom / Aqua - Dad - still married after 46 years.. although i'm not sure why. i think it's just the generation they're from. stick it out untill you die...lol
Aquarian mom, Gemini Dad. Still together after 35 years. The thing I noticed being raised by two air signs is that they are so changeable. One day we would be grounded...the next day we're not. One minute we had permission to stay over at a friend's...the next minute we don't. I love 'em, but GAH!
I never knew my dad and my mom passed when i was young, and I was adopted by a great super leo. Literally he has almost all signs in leo. But I find it pretty interesting my mars is in Capricorn and my jupiter is in Pieces. So in that way they're apart of me and affected my life. 🙂 yay astrology.
Scorpio dad, Taurus mom. Both remarried, currently Gemini stepmom and Scorpio stepdad. Both Scorpio dads simply loved to annoy the hell of me. My Taurus mother is on an eternal power trip and my Gemini stepmother surprisingly loves to criticize and stick her nose where it doesn't belong. Not that all signs I described are this way or anything it's just the cards I was dealt with I suppose.
I'm about to make every Virgo female hate me right now. People in relationships with Aquarius men are going to let me have it too.
I tallied up the parent relationships and there are 56 listed. I grouped as follows:
14 were not specific about the status of their parents relationship i.e. married, divorced, never married, etc and thus, could not be tallied 25 were listed as still married 17 were listed as divorced/ never married There were a few widowers that were married at the time of death so I lumped them in with Married. I know there's a 50/50 chance they would have gotten divorced but I'm optimistic There were a few couples that were Never Married so I grouped them in Divorced because arguably, neither couple is still together. There were also Step Parents after divorces but I opted not to throw them into the mix. I'm aware that some people are very close with their step parents and consider them the real parent. I'm sorry in advance if I have offended you. It got complicated and I was trying my best to simplify. Please don't yell at me with your all capital letters.
The men who got married and stayed married Scorpio The women who got married and stayed married (tie) Leo Sagittarius There were no listed married women for Gemini
The most divorced men (tie) Scorpio Aquarius The most divorced women Virgo
There were no listed divorced men for Gemini Leo Libra Sagittarius Capricorn There were no listed divorced women for Cancer
Since we're technically only talking about 42 couples (remember the status of 14 couples was not available) you cant make any strong conclusions.
Scorpio men top both marriages and divorces so perhaps they are the group most likely to commit and get married Since there are more signs listed in the men who have never been divorced, one might guess that perhaps men are better judges at picking mates that stick or that men are less likely to get married and therefore, not get divorced in the first place. When stating that Virgo women got divorced the most, one must take this with a grain of salt. The only women not listed as having any divorces was Cancer and Virgo only had 3 listed divorces, so we're talking about a range of 0-3 which is really small.
Married/ Widowed Combinations Dad Mom Aries Libra Taurus Aries Taurus Sagittarius Taurus Aries Gemini Aquarius Cancer Capricorn Leo Virgo Leo Leo Virgo Taurus Libra Sagittarius Libra Taurus Scorpio Cancer Scorpio Leo Scorpio Leo Scorpio Pisces Scorpio Capricorn Sagittarius Cancer Capricorn Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Capricorn/ Aquarius Cancer Aquarius Leo Aquarius Pisces Aquarius Scorpio Pisces Libra Pisces Sagittarius
Mom Dad Aries Taurus Aries Taurus Taurus Virgo Taurus Libra Cancer Scorpio Cancer Sagittarius Cancer Capricorn/ Aquarius Leo Leo Leo Scorpio Leo Scorpio Leo Aquarius Virgo Leo Libra Aries Libra Pisces Scorpio Aquarius Sagittarius Taurus Sagittarius Libra Sagittarius Capricorn Sagittarius Pisces Capricorn Cancer Capricorn Scorpio Aquarius Gemini Aquarius Capricorn Pisces Scorpio Pisces Aquarius
Dad- Scorpio Mum- Scorpio Happily married for 21 years but I'm guessing that is because in their scorpio ways only they seem to understand each other, needless to say nothing is ever out of order in our house I often joke with them that the next step would be to have the whole house arranged in alphabetical/numerical order lol 😉 I love them both to death though
my dad is a libra and my mom is a sagittarius. im older now so i get along with them just fine but even still, my mom and i butt heads and she tries to control me. im an aries so we're supposed to be a great match right? she's far too aggressive and disruptive for my taste but im the only kid in the fam who ever rebelled against her because i had major issues with her trying to control everything. now that i can do everything independent of her i like to flaunt it because it makes her mad that she cant change my mind. haha im interested in what everyone has to say. it's always so much different with your parents when you're older