2008 Love For Cancer!
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by shishno on Wednesday, July 2, 2008 and has 3 replies.
This is definitely the major headline of the year ahead. Your 7th House of Love and Marriage is strong this year and for many years to come. It is going to be one of your main inter_ests.
Singles of appropriate age are likely to marry this year. If not actual marriage, there may be a relationship that is 'like' a marriage. Something serious and significant. All of you will be dating more, attending more gatherings and parties and meeting up with new and significant friends.
But there are some challenges here. Two people and two opportunities come to you. One is something with a power_ful sexual chemistry, but not serious - it just seems fun and games - just sex - while the other is something more seri_ous. Both will vie for your interest. Both have their charms. In the end, though, it seems likely that you will opt for the more serious one.
You are always pretty traditional when it comes to love and marriage. You like a clearly structured - clearly defined - relationship. Each party has their role and duty. Most of you are not into gender bending. This trend is even stronger in the year ahead. You like your lover older, more estab_lished, more stable than you. You are attracted as much by the lover's status in the world and ability to provide as you are by the other charms. You sort of see marriage as another 'career move' - a way to advance yourself. Marriage is not about 'romance' per se but about practical issues. Once these practical issues are there, you feel you can learn to love anyone.
With these kinds of aspects the dang er is that you will drift into a 'marriage of convenience' instead of one based on true love. You will have to observe yourself closely this year. There are other challenges to love this year - hopefully you will be able to avoid them with right understanding. Your love planet is in the Sign of Virgo (which rules health) and your health planet is in your 7th House of Love. This gives us many messages. There is a very strong connection between health and love (some of the health issues have already been discussed). It shows that you are allured to doctors, nurses, healers and health professionals. Romance is likely to happen to you as you pursue your normal health goals - at the gym, yoga studio, health food shop or doctor's surgery. But on a deeper level this is showing that you have a passion (much more than usual) for a healthy love life -a healthy social life - a healthy relationship. You have a passion for perf
Singles of appropriate age are likely to marry this year. If not actual marriage, there may be a relationship that is 'like' a marriage. Something serious and significant. All of you will be dating more, attending more gatherings and parties and meeting up with new and significant friends.
But there are some challenges here. Two people and two opportunities come to you. One is something with a power_ful sexual chemistry, but not serious - it just seems fun and games - just sex - while the other is something more seri_ous. Both will vie for your interest. Both have their charms. In the end, though, it seems likely that you will opt for the more serious one.
You are always pretty traditional when it comes to love and marriage. You like a clearly structured - clearly defined - relationship. Each party has their role and duty. Most of you are not into gender bending. This trend is even stronger in the year ahead. You like your lover older, more estab_lished, more stable than you. You are attracted as much by the lover's status in the world and ability to provide as you are by the other charms. You sort of see marriage as another 'career move' - a way to advance yourself. Marriage is not about 'romance' per se but about practical issues. Once these practical issues are there, you feel you can learn to love anyone.
With these kinds of aspects the dang er is that you will drift into a 'marriage of convenience' instead of one based on true love. You will have to observe yourself closely this year. There are other challenges to love this year - hopefully you will be able to avoid them with right understanding. Your love planet is in the Sign of Virgo (which rules health) and your health planet is in your 7th House of Love. This gives us many messages. There is a very strong connection between health and love (some of the health issues have already been discussed). It shows that you are allured to doctors, nurses, healers and health professionals. Romance is likely to happen to you as you pursue your normal health goals - at the gym, yoga studio, health food shop or doctor's surgery. But on a deeper level this is showing that you have a passion (much more than usual) for a healthy love life -a healthy social life - a healthy relationship. You have a passion for perf
You have a passion for perfection - the perfect love. Nothing wrong with this per se, but you need to be careful of how you go about it. The tendency is to start analysing every little thing - to search for pathologies in love, the way a doctor searches for pathology in the body. Pretty soon, if you're not careful, you will find yourself awash in pathologies and problems -losing sight of the overall picture. The tendency to criticize will be strong (again this comes from the desire for perfec_tion) and if the criticism turns destructive, it will destroy the mood of romance. Most of you know that romance is 90 per cent magic and only 10 per cent logic. And nothing will destroy the magic more quickly than destructive criticism (even from good motives). Also romance is of the heart, but your tendency is to relate from the head - the mind - and this too is not conducive to romance. (Many of you might not be like this personally, but could be attracting lovers who are like this - both scenarios are likely.)
So, save your analysis for another time - not during romantic moments. A few days afterwards, you can review things and see where they can be improved. Keep criticism constructive at all times. If the situation can't be improved refrain from criticism - even in your heart.
It is helpful to keep in mind that perfection is never handed to us on a silver platter. In heaven everything is perfect. Here on Earth, perfection is a goal that we shoot for.
It is a road, a process. Be patient with yourself and your part_ner. As long as you keep improving your relationship - you are on the road to perfection - though not yet at the goal.
Other venues for romance this year are at educational settings - at lectures, seminars, or school. Love is close to home - in the neighbourhood - and perhaps with neigh_bours.
Those working towards their second marriage have been having a good time and enjoying their social freedom, but this year they might tie the knot in spite of this.
Those working towards their third marriage have a status-quo year - marrieds will tend to stay married and singles will tend to stay single.
So, save your analysis for another time - not during romantic moments. A few days afterwards, you can review things and see where they can be improved. Keep criticism constructive at all times. If the situation can't be improved refrain from criticism - even in your heart.
It is helpful to keep in mind that perfection is never handed to us on a silver platter. In heaven everything is perfect. Here on Earth, perfection is a goal that we shoot for.
It is a road, a process. Be patient with yourself and your part_ner. As long as you keep improving your relationship - you are on the road to perfection - though not yet at the goal.
Other venues for romance this year are at educational settings - at lectures, seminars, or school. Love is close to home - in the neighbourhood - and perhaps with neigh_bours.
Those working towards their second marriage have been having a good time and enjoying their social freedom, but this year they might tie the knot in spite of this.
Those working towards their third marriage have a status-quo year - marrieds will tend to stay married and singles will tend to stay single.
My romance is poop! atm. I'll fill you in later!
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