I am a Gemini woman and have been with a Cancer man 18 years younger than me for 5 years. He is a typical Cancer man in that of his moods, etc. I have put up with a lot from him but for the most part he has gotten much better other than he never compliments me. He has told me I am pretty twice in 5 years. We got into it the other day and he yelled at me and said he felt pressured to tell me I look pretty or my hair looks nice one day, etc. and that yes, he thought I was pretty, he liked my hair, and my smile. That is the only time he says things. Now before anyone says anything he says these things to me about others. He will be discussing his Mama's aunt or just some random woman and say how pretty she was back in the day or something like that so those things come freely from his mouth. Although we are 18 years apart GOD blessed me with younger looks, and he looks older so we actually look close to the same age. What do you think his problem is? Is it a control issue? Or what after all these years?
