a little help on cancerians

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cappygirl11 on Sunday, November 1, 2015 and has 13 replies.
Would my cancerian ex contact me twice, if he has moved on. He is the one who broke up with me and said no contact.
Then like 6 weeks later he asked how's thing. I was 2 emotional. Then a week later he said he has stuff that belonged to my car and if I wanted to meet.

Now regardless if he just wants a bootie call. Or if he just wants to drop off stuff that I never knew was missing.

If he has moved on and is in a relationship or starting one....would u contact ur ex?
Posted by cappygirl11
Would my cancerian ex contact me twice, if he has moved on. He is the one who broke up with me and said no contact.
Then like 6 weeks later he asked how's thing. I was 2 emotional. Then a week later he said he has stuff that belonged to my car and if I wanted to meet.

Now regardless if he just wants a bootie call. Or if he just wants to drop off stuff that I never knew was missing.

If he has moved on and is in a relationship or starting one....would u contact ur ex?

I am a women, but no ....i won't contact you....
i would assume it's a bootie call.
He wants to squash the booty like a vegetable then eat the booty like groceries.
Posted by Lindaaaatje
Posted by cappygirl11
Would my cancerian ex contact me twice, if he has moved on. He is the one who broke up with me and said no contact.
Then like 6 weeks later he asked how's thing. I was 2 emotional. Then a week later he said he has stuff that belonged to my car and if I wanted to meet.

Now regardless if he just wants a bootie call. Or if he just wants to drop off stuff that I never knew was missing.

If he has moved on and is in a relationship or starting one....would u contact ur ex?

I am a women, but no ....i won't contact you....
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Yes but the female mind thinks differently
Regardless whether it's for a bootie call or not.

If u dating someone new. Would u contact an ex?
Posted by cappygirl11
Regardless whether it's for a bootie call or not.

If u dating someone new. Would u contact an ex?

nope
They might be feeling bad, or hoping to still be friends, or not sure about their decision. Hard to say. Just honor their choice to end things, as I don't think many cancers would end things for no reason. did they say why? Maybe they like you but are not ready for anything serious.
Posted by thinktoomuch
Why does it have to be either about booty or missing you? Why not just wanting to give you your stuff back and just saying hi..? Not wanting you back and not wanting to bang you either.

Cause he asked if we could hook up. I said no. But my question is would he do that if he has someone new. And i could see from his texts that I was one his mind when he went to bed and when he woke up cause of the timing of his texts
Posted by cappygirl11
Posted by thinktoomuch
Why does it have to be either about booty or missing you? Why not just wanting to give you your stuff back and just saying hi..? Not wanting you back and not wanting to bang you either.

Cause he asked if we could hook up. I said no. But my question is would he do that if he has someone new. And i could see from his texts that I was one his mind when he went to bed and when he woke up cause of the timing of his texts
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Whether or not he misses you and wants to get back together is really only something he could tell you.

It's obvious from this that he still wants to fuck you. But I'd caution against hooking up with him in expectation of a relationship developing out of it. It very well could turn into you too together. But ime it's more likely to end up being a fwb in which you may be hurt badly since you have existing strong feelings for him.
Except he was been serious and sweet to me the week before.

Now him as a person...i know would not cheat on his partner. But I got told he was seeing someone
This guy is still messing with you..at this point I'd ask him straight out...wth do you want? What are we doing? Cuz this shit keeps dragging on and on and you've been together forever.
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by cappygirl11
Posted by Lindaaaatje
Posted by cappygirl11
Would my cancerian ex contact me twice, if he has moved on. He is the one who broke up with me and said no contact.
Then like 6 weeks later he asked how's thing. I was 2 emotional. Then a week later he said he has stuff that belonged to my car and if I wanted to meet.

Now regardless if he just wants a bootie call. Or if he just wants to drop off stuff that I never knew was missing.

If he has moved on and is in a relationship or starting one....would u contact ur ex?

I am a women, but no ....i won't contact you....

Yes but the female mind thinks differently

According to who?

Logic says he's tying up lose ends and giving you your shit back.

Maybe so he doesn't have to look at it.

Maybe so you won't use it to manipulate your way back in.

I made the mistake of leaving it on an exes door, then he accused me of lying and saying he never got his stuff. His roommates told me otherwise.

He's avoiding any future drama by using real adult communication
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Actually he asked if we could hook up....so I don't think he's just dropping off stuff....that I knew was lost