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Sep 01, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 150 · Topics: 15
I give up with this world. I'm a 27 year old Cancer. I've been single my whole life. I'm a virgin. I've heard it a thousand times from everyone that I'm handsome. And yet I can't seem to attract the girls I like, only girls that like me with missing teeth and out of my league. It's painfully frustrating to me. I've tried dating friends and they end up not being friends in the future. All I want is to be loved by a pretty girl, is that so much to ask? Apparently so. I never went to prom, I've always been known to be shy but for the last 5 years I think I've grown out of that. I watch my cousins and best friends get engaged, while I have my parents and grandparents asking if I have a girlfriend yet? I lost a great libra friend I wish I never made a move on. Been trying to get over her. Been trying for the last week trying to ask out this Cancer girl. She agreed to go out with me tmrw night but I didn't have the plans set because I was waiting on someone helping me get tickets to a hockey game. I have them now. And now she won't answer her phone. I really feel sucicidal right now. I just can't take this anymore.
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May 09, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 1530 · Topics: 124
This sounds like my boyfriend. I'm his first girl and he's 17. It's all about attitude my cancer fellow
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Jan 10, 2015Comments: 100 · Posts: 2017 · Topics: 43
You just sexually frustrated that's all but sex and relationships are over rated..Just take your time to choose the right one and don't rush into anything too fast with anyone...Take your time, slow is better and play your cards right.
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Oct 15, 2013Comments: 243 · Posts: 2393 · Topics: 16
It will honestly be ok... there is a reason for everything...
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Oct 02, 2008Comments: 252 · Posts: 2563 · Topics: 68
Boy if you dont stop playing and go get you some ass. Where ya live at? I might throw it at you one good time!
Like is so much more than how you're feeling right now. You sound superficial and whiney. Go travel somewhere and be a round new people. Try speed dating. I dont know, but for God's sake dont kill yourself. Itll be okay. There's more to life than a woman's crotch.
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Jan 05, 2015Comments: 14 · Posts: 5462 · Topics: 94
Did you try Tinder? I hear the slutty women are putting prostitutes out of business.. And you don't even have to pay! Lmao what society has become...now, where's my wine...:p
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Jan 05, 2015Comments: 14 · Posts: 5462 · Topics: 94
Yeah in all seriousness dating is a challenge but when you find that one, all the past hurt and difficulties will fade away.
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Nov 10, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 1190 · Topics: 29
It gets better. Just have faith and the confidence to meet more complete strangers and mingle
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Sep 01, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 150 · Topics: 15
Thank you everyone for the comments. For goodness sake I didnt mean to say I'm a virgin because im hungry for sex. I just said that in relation again to my cousins and friends. I dont know why, but I always compare myself to people like them and feel I'm behind. That's all. Cancer girl responded saying "that's awesome!!" WTH is that? After one day she responds with that.
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Nov 21, 2013Comments: 22 · Posts: 11927 · Topics: 87
Never compare yourself to others, or your life situation to everyone elses. Just go with the flow and be yourself. It could be worse. You could be saddled with a nagging bitch who cheats on you and is verbally abusive.
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Jan 05, 2015Comments: 14 · Posts: 5462 · Topics: 94
What did you say to the Cancer girl that she responded with "that's awesome " ??
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Sep 15, 2014Comments: 3 · Posts: 1574 · Topics: 50
I don't like to tell people what to do, but this is a person who emotionally fragile that is even considering taking his life away because he can bare the pain... so if were you I will more careful with the way we address and empathize with him...
"MAN UP", "GROW A PAIR" and stupid shit like that is simply not caring about this persons pain... and I don't know him but no one should take his life away for this, we all been there and this kind of stuff only invalidate his feelings and make him feel like he has no right to feel this way... which is not true!!
If you don't have a good advice, might as well save it to yourself. this guy is looking for help to understand his emotions and it might be stupid you but is important for him and his life... RESPECT!
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Sep 15, 2014Comments: 3 · Posts: 1574 · Topics: 50
have you try painting, drawing, sculpting or writing? this is actually something that you might discover during this period... I draw and write.. and my best work is when i feel deeply depressed... I let all my feelings out on paper... some of my work is scary but is like purging the deep hurting emotions, to let the world know how I feel inside... we water people tent to be very talented due to a great flow of emotions and feelings... we just need to use them instead of letting them killing us!!
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Sep 29, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 1419 · Topics: 92
Life always gets better never give up.
Cancer2448 .. what do you want in this life?? You have something that you want?? something that you fight for?? You want a girl ??? Found one, but one that you want not 1 that she want you...Noone found one for you .. And if you don't adapt the life , you will suffer .. I think that it is time to make something.. You have 27 year ...what are waitting for??? I think that your friends and cousins don't have that much emotion and they are more practical...So don't listen to fullwaterpisces, sorry girl , but put your mind at work, found something to make . and go in to the world.. There you have to live not in your sorrow or dreams ... And the girl you want like practical man for live in this life.. because if you never will one , you have to find one girl practical .. and your life will not be ease..and you suffer again ...
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Sep 15, 2014Comments: 3 · Posts: 1574 · Topics: 50
Someone has told me that in order to get others to love me I will have to love myself first, and I guess just the fact of wanting to give up is a sign that he need to work on the person who matter the most in his life that is himself
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Sep 01, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 150 · Topics: 15
I've lost 5 family members the past year as well.