advice for cancer man...

hi, i feel the post of how to date cancer male feel so true and accurate.

anyway, now atm, i feel so desperately fragile. miss my cancer man so much.

i have on off relations with him. cos of diff opinion abt having intercourse , and im not be able to follow him. so during 8 months relations he used to have mood swings, ignored, blocked me from evrywhere. at that time. just give him space with hoping he will be better and not angry again. i know cancer afraid of rejection, but im afraid i sacrifice my virginity to the wrong guy. i know every man love it and wanna do it, i just hoping he can wait while we enjoying this relation.

im a sag girl, i just try to be optimistic but at some day, i feel so vulnerable perhaps cos i have libra in my venus. i just need loved feel cared from someone. he's my first bf (cancer in sun, cancer in venus). love him badly.

its been 9 days he decide to breaking up with me(again)in total 2 times breaking up. the first time he find me. but this time nothing happen.
the forth days of breaking up i decide to find him. first i thought yeah im a woman, so he must find me. but i read that u need to give hints if u want your cancer man back, so i find him. at the end he just said, i will not accept u anymore, delete my number dont ever contact me again. so i said, i respect your decision, cos i wanna see u happy.

i wait for few days with hoping he changes his mind, but nothing happen. so again i text him. i give 4 days in between. i realise my impatient and short tempered personality, try to get rid off it. again same thing, he even said, today i will make a new gf, and u shouldnt try to reach me again. im afraid he really mean this thing... T_T always he said delete my number.

i decide to bring he meals to his workplace, but im afraid the more i chase the more he ran away. i always think optimistic just try to have faith what might happen. and try to moving on, but still its so hard. i havent met him for 4 months, so badly badly miss him.

any advice from anyone, would be much appreciate it, i dont know whom can i share with. cos like my sis doesnt like attitude of cancer man who like to do silent mode. but again, as sag girl, it challenge me. :p

@ood swings, ignored, blocked me from evrywhere.

I'd like to see how he acts once he get in your panties. He'll obliterate you from the earth.

Do you really want to give your virginity to a man that is cruel? Maybe you're not thinking this through.

You give your virginity to whomever you choose to give it to b/c you want to not b/c you hope he'll stick around afterwards.

Clearly you have some strong boundaries around sex. Why not stick to your boundaries. If marriage before sex is what you want then wait. If having a committed relationship before sex is what you want then wait.

Chasing a Cancer man is futile, he'll just retreat in his shell even longer.

thanks everyone for the advice. means a lot to me.

i will get rid of him. even if one day he come. i will simply say take it or leave it mate.

cos i deserves more than him. at some point i just feel like he used my weakness (losing him) to get what he want by threatening me. but now everything seems clear. i shouldnt feel regret of losing him, he's the one who should feel that way.

i also wont forcing him to love me or even sacrifice my own happiness just for pleasing him.

u guys open my eyes now. i feel much better, and it such a relief.
all girls deserve the right man!! yayy ^_^
thanks again. have a great day for everyone.

now im gonna live my life 🙂