advice fr cancer men pls, hurting or ignoring?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cosmicgirrl on Tuesday, May 5, 2009 and has 6 replies.
This is why I'm not a heavy drinker. Drama drama drama!
true............ we both quite destructive when we're together! which was bad! anyway all solved but im out, need to find another cancer man now LOL!
What exactly is it about us cancers that draws you in cosmicgirrl? If you have trouble with one; how can you be sure the next cancer guy won't just mess you over like the last one? I'm not trying to talk my fellow cancerian males down but seriously?
If one cancer guy messed up with you; why try to go for another one? I do like to say "Always could go for some variety!"
hi smiles smile i have no assurance the next cancer won't mess me around, that's for me to watch out (all common sense too when it comes to dating/relationship). i feel connection with cancer and he felt/told the same thing. we just get each other, hard to explain. i like the protective, nurturing, sensitive side of cancer guys immensely. also the way my cancer showed subtle jealousy was too cute LOL! communication was superb, honest on every level (eventhough it hurts) and thats when i realized he opened up without even realizing it. in a way i understand how we was feeling, everything just seemed easier........
I understand where your coming from; the want to connect on a transcendant level beyond mere lust. You want the whole packaged deal with a cancer. And you strongly believe that with a cancer you will reach that transcendance. Completely understandable.
You answered my questions pretty well; and thoughtfully put as well Winking
"You answered my questions pretty well; and thoughtfully put as well"
arent we understanding each other already! Winking
anyway my cancer contacted me and say he'd like us to stay friends aaah....hmmm decision decision...i smell danger ha ha ha