Advice maybe?

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aimers
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14 Years

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Hellooo,
as much as I love you cancers,
ya'll drive me nuts- in a good way though
though I do have a question,

If you got rejected by the person (you knowing that the person was interested in you too),
would you move on even if you still have a strong attraction towards him/her?

I'm aware rejection isn't taken very well, pretty much goes with everyone :\

I rejected him and I recently got rejected by him too
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aimers
@aimers
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It happened twice. Also a few deep intimidations hehe

The reason was because I might get the manager's position as us being co-workers
He doesn't know the other reason - I closed myself from getting hurt. Gotten comfortable with myself for three years. I sabotaged myself for not taking this risk.
We agreed to be friends from now on- we both misunderstood each other
My fault for asking it when I rejected him the first time.

I'm respecting it, life goes on : )
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AstroGal
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Cancer female here.. I think us cancers take rejection a lot deeper then most. I have always clung to the motto, I don't want anyone who doesn't want me. Once I see that is the case, it's like a switch flips and I logically look at why it is not going to work. However, if you don't put yourself out there and be honest, you could misinterpret things and that turns into a missed opportunity. If it doesn't happen then you just look for true love elsewhere. Good luck 🙂.

Geeze, I am mush.. True love.
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Irok
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Personally being a cancer female if it were me depending on the rejection and if I knew he still had feelings for me I might still keep it in the back of my mind. I'm am determined though to figure out things and what went wrong etc. So usually I don't generally respond well to rejection but in this case keep I'd say keep your options, and eyes open depending on the likability.