I had been dating a cancer man last summer up until fall. The usual Cancer push pull. At some point in this dance i got fed up and just stopped contacting him. 2 Months later he initiates contact. I hear from common friends that he had been asking what happened to me the time I was ignoring him. Now he is back, and I have taken advise from the gurus on this board, and let him contact me. He seems to like initiating plans and i love it. I am just going to keep things friendly between us and get to know him. Thank you wise people!
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Sep 06, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 2592 · Topics: 68
Are you looking for the Relationships board or the Astrology board?
Looking for you Mr. Crabby! HI!
I fucking swear if one more person says "push/pull" i'm going to lose it.
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Apr 21, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 4640 · Topics: 455
push and pull now fight me lmfao.
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May 21, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 747 · Topics: 14
Yeah! push and pull push and pull push and pull push and pull push and pull push and pull push and pull push and pull push and pullllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll!!!!!!!!!!!
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Jan 11, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 541 · Topics: 26
Come & go, come & go, chase & run...better?! ...=)
One more person dumping on cancers.
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Jun 11, 2010Comments: 1 · Posts: 498 · Topics: 22
I think the push pull thing come from insecurity and too sure of the situation so they back off.
I was dating a cancer that i hooked up with a couple of times. He was cool but when I met him his mom just passed, but he did the whole ignoring thing sometimes, plus i was really sweet to him.
After months of not talking he texted me out of nowhere sating wassup. I told him he was not real. he said I am sorry and how can i make that up to me, I said actions speak louder than words but I am not stuck on you and moved on with my life, and then I told him just text me soemtimes and we will see where it goes.
But I am so good, I forgot about him and moved on, they like to chase well time to chase me.....(I am a cancer too)
Cancer-"I'm back"
Me- "Back from where"
Cancer- "I was depressed for a few weeks"
Real conversation. Short and yet so profound.